Success vs destiny? - A negative view.

There is no destiny, don't fool yourself, no one is creating our lives but our self's. People just need to stop blaming destiny for everything bad that is happening to them.

destiny in these days you could say its your DNA.

other than that you are in control of your "fate" with your daily choises man... if all the people on this planet believed in destiny then there would be no evolution

You speak as though you think destiny is an entity or persona with reasoning ability and power to have control over a person's life forcing them to make poor decisions.

What do I think? I think that's superstitious and totally incorrect.

Terra

Your self conscious will fight hard to keep you where you are (what it considers safe) as it is designed to work entirely for your self preservation. This is not destiny, this is your programming, and you can change it, but it takes work.

When "ALL OF YOU" as a person want to be successful as much as you Wanna Breath you will get that
>>>> But the problem we all want it like we wanna party or Be Cool
>>>>>>>>>When we wanna breath all we want is having some Air.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>"ALL OF YOU" mean all of your persona .. Don't Fool Yourself
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Don't Be Fake, Be Yourself all the Time
>>>>>>When we Want Bad, Our subconscious mind will find a way Through life some call it Luck, Destiny and Faith

Hi
Maybe we can say that when we get a success we want other success, and so on we'll never stop to want something else, and we think that we not get it.
But if we want what we get in this moment, allways we'll have what we want .

you are the one making your own destiny, though time will brought something for you but the choices is in your hands

I never bought into the idea of a predetermined destiny that affects where I'm going in life and how I get there. We as human beings have the power of free will. That is a fact. So my destiny can change at any time, should I choose to change it.

I believe that where you are in life and what you have (or haven't) achieved is all down to you.

Your "destiny' is achieved via space - namely the space between your ears.

Look around you, there must be people that you know or know of who came through a hard upbringing in difficult circumstances and made a huge success of their life and you probably also know people who were born with a silver spoon in their mouth and who wasted their life away.

It's all up to you.

As Henry Ford said " If you think you can do a thing or think you can't do a thing, you're right"

In other words you can do anything that you put your mind to.

Take good care of those that you love.

Robbie T

We always make our own destiny

great post

Success is the positive result of our hardworking and if we fail we said that's the destiny.

Destiny is not an entrepreneurial word.

Replace destiny with responsibility.

@SXI: Your comment is appropriate and related to your signature which is saying one life - one chance. And, this chance if we miss in pretext of destiny then it's gone forever. Also. when we have one life it means we have one chance. I reconsidered this thought again and again and it dawn on me that one life - one choice' is appropriate.

@NXmarketeer: You made a good point, everything boils down to 'choices' which we initiates. And, I guess, if we choose to say 'our destiny is working to make us successful' and then act accordingly will lead us to glory.

@Terra:You got it right. Actually, after seeing failures (mine & others) - I started to believe that it's destiny (good or bad) which triggers the choices. And, I think choices itself is a big subject of study & analysis. Anyway, somehow I'm convinced that we're not 100% in control of your choices at all times. Thinking

@mgreener:Must say your comment is quite insightful. The safest place for our mind is his 'comfort zone' and as you said it takes time to change. Someone said that 'mind although fond of comfort zone but in reality it craves for novelty.

@Sam Khaled: Your words reminded me of the story of success given by socrates to a person wishing to know what's success like. you're right and I agree...If we want it badly (like breathing when you're drowning) you'll run a work marathon to get it. Till then it's a good idea to blame destiny.

@coursesweb: thats so sweet.

@Usmile: Thanks. Always choices are in our ctrl.

@Joe Robinson: It's good to learn from you that you don't buy into this concept. But, It's a good idea too if someone selling to you your destiny in a positive light.

@RobiieT: Thanks for such a enthralling message.

@Scrape: That's what all are saying. Good or bad it's up to us to shape our destinies.

@robinsonelmer: Thanks for appreciation

@leorocking25: If we fail it's due to destiny. yes,. we human's are guilty of shifting blame. We have to take self responsibility. We must admit that what we're today (good/ok/bad) is because of our past decisions.

@Thrazgard: Very good message. An entrepreneur should not blame destiny. He/She should take responsibility for whatever may happen.

People often use the words fate and destiny as synonyms, but philosophers throughout the ages believe they have two separate meanings. Even when the two words are used to mean the same thing, fate often takes on negative connotations as is illustrated by the similar words “fatal,” “fateful,” and “fatalism.” Destiny usually suggests a positive result, such as people being more in control of their destinies.

Success are tow different things in our life
Success is a constant journey. The day we stop thinking that we find our destination, success will become failure.
For example, if you succeed in finding a suitable job for you which earn you good money, but if you think you find your destination and stop hardwork, you will get failure and if we fail we said that's the destiny,then it is wrong.

Only if the person you are selling to believes in the concept of "destiny" in the first place.