The Psychology of The Law of Attraction... The answers there in front of you...

Hi guys,

I had a really interesting discussion with a friend not too long ago and it raised some very interesting and insightful points which i have to talk about.

The reason i've chosen to talk about it on here as my first thread is that i feel it will help everyone who's looking to change their belief system and mindset when it comes to success.

Hopefully after reading it, it should help you have a better understanding as to why it's important to have the right mindset. So i really hope this helps...

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The first thing we often read about when we start off on our journey to personal development is the concept called - The Law of Attraction

I'm sure many of you have probably seen the movie 'The Secret' or read the book about it.

But is it really true that the universe has something to do with it?

I've always been analytical when it comes to things i can't see and have been fortunate enough to study psychology and human behavior in the last few years due to being fascinated about male/female courtship.

And what really stood out the most for me at the time was the idea that humans tend to reach out to others who have the same beliefs, mindsets, character and philosophies of life as them. This is because humans generally find comfort with people who are just like them.

That's why it's unnatural to see a head banger and meth addict form a connection with a successful business man as an example, as they naturally have nothing in common.

For the same reason that not everyone votes for the same politicians, dates the same people or have the same friends. The truth is, we're all part of different 'niche markets'

I see it all the time in my hometown in London.
I used to always fantasize about dating the cute Essex girls, wondering why i was consistently failing to ever date them, thinking that it was my game that was keeping me from succeeding.

Eventually, a bigger picture formed and started to see patterns. The girls i admired tended to date with a particular type of guy - Someone who dressed in a particular way, acted a certain way and had a particular character trait that they were able to connect with.

I then realized that i only had 2 choices. I either become the type of guy they date (And not be myself), or be my best self and attract the right people into my life.

This insight alone, now starts to put the pieces together as to what the so called 'law of attraction' is really about.

It's not something we chase, but something we pull into our lives.

What does this have to do with Internet Marketing? i hear you ask.

Well the answers are already there right in front of you...

Is it really a coincidence that we're all in a forum related to Internet Marketing?

You've joined a community of like-minded people who you're able to vibe with and have aligned yourself towards success.

Is that the universe at work, or human behavior?

The answer is very simple guys.

If you want to be a success in any area of life. Don't go looking for success from others.

This is a common fallacy that many Success GURUS talk about but fail to understand.

Instead, understand your nature...

Be the person other people want to connect with.

So if you want to date the right girl, meet the right friends, make the best business connections and form quality relationships. Then strive to be that person.

When you do this, what will happen is, other people who are on the same path as you will want to connect with you.

Be the person you want to see in your life, and the rest will naturally fall into place.

Feel free to discuss,

I'm looking forward to your responses


Onder