I have a pet peave on sites from gamer site to spiritual sites .. to these success sites .. to conspiracy sites .. to what every ..
it involves when people use their definition of success and screen out 99 percent of everyone else and refer to the others in very derogatory ways ..
your definition of success in anything is your definition and the only person you are ever here to be better than .. is the person you where yesterday .. or last week or last month ....
compairing yourself to others and either leading yourself to think you are better than them or they are better than you.. is like trying to judge who has the better computer .. by looking at the monitor and only looking at what is currently on the screen ..
chuck sheen is way more successful than many of us can be.. but do you want his life and problems ?
a lot of people listen to releationship advice from people who have been divorced several times ..
A lot of rich people trusted Bernie madoff with their money ..and a lot of people though because they had very expensive houses .. they where rich ..
if your 40 or under the medical tech that is being developes and comming online .. might easily make it possible to live untill your 100 plus or even 150 or so .. do you think you can make enough money to retire and live for 60-100 years without working ..i have gone 2 and a half .. and i tell ya.. i am not interested in doing this for 10, 20, or 30 years ..40 years from now whn i can retire ..
it is a big thing in the news now that the rich football players who made a lot of money on the field .. now have ruined live or are comminting suicide because of what it did to their bodies and their heads ..
there are also a bunch of law firms going out of business and many people who got law degrees to get the big laywer bucks are finding there are just no jobs where they can make enough to pay their loans ..
so i will end this with .. maybe it's best to work with your own definition of succcess and work each day to be better than the day before.. And avoid judging people based on what they have and how much money they make.. but weather or not they to are on the getting better each day system .. or are the staying the same ..or declining ..