12 Things You Can Do in the Next 12 Days That Could Change Your Life Forever.

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Hey all!

I found this article and decided to share it with you, if you are currently feeling stuck this article can help you

Are you in a rut?
A rut is a routine of normalcy that restricts your personal growth.
If you're in a rut, you're not LIVING, you're DYING.

Has life become just one boring old routine, repeated day after day?


If you feel your life has fallen into a rut, here are some things you can do in the next 12 days to escape, and forever change the trajectory of your life.

You didn't sign up for a life existence of mediocrity; it's time to escape your rut!
1) Quit the Thing that is Killing You.

Smoking cigarettes. Dealing weed. Drunk driving. That freaking job and the required weekly TPS reports. That midnight binge of custard doughnuts chased down by a can of Coke.

You know exactly what you're doing that is killing you, and yet, you keep doing it. Wealth is about health and once you destroy that, no amount of money, fulfillment, or positive thinking will change it.

Protect your health and you protect your wealth, now and in the future.
2) Register to Join a Team or a League

Join a team of strangers: a co-ed softball team, a bowling league, or the tennis club. Get out and meet people OUTSIDE your circle and while doing so, you benefit by virtue of better health through physical activity. You can never stop introducing new people into your social circle. People are like roads; good people open new roads of opportunity while the bad ones open roads of distress.

While throwing strikes or swinging volleys, you might meet your next business partner, your next best friend, or your next ex-wife.
3) Register to Take a Class

Expand your horizons and take a class at your local community college. Cooking. Photoshop 1.0. Creative writing. Pick something that interests you. Double points if that interest can make you money or translate into a business asset. Whatever it is, get out and learn something new by investing in yourself.

Additionally, re-read #2 -- you might meet a classmate that opens a new road for you; your future spouse, best friend, or business partner.
4) Cancel the damn cable TV

Face it. If you watch hours and hours of television you're probably a loser who needs TV because your own life sucks. Since your life sucks, Snookie, American Idol finalist #3, and Dexter represent an interesting diversion from your uninteresting life.

Cancel the TV and make your own life something OTHER PEOPLE would want to watch.

I don't watch a lot of TV because I've created a life worth living, one that doesn't need a fairytale escape that airs every Wednesday at 8pm. Create your own life worth living and stop watching others live theirs. Time is your most precious asset and rest assured, on your deathbed your dying regret won't be "I wish I watched more TV" -- it will be something you didn't do, compliments to the 9 years you spent glued to the tube.
5) Read A "Red-Pill" Book

After dumping the TV, you're going to free up a lot of time. Great. Next, find a "red-pill" book to read.

Every week I receive reader raves for my book, The Millionaire Fastlane, "YOUR BOOK CHANGED MY LIFE!"

Yes, a book can change your life and cause you to change your belief system, causing you to act and see differently. From the moment the book is read, it changes your life forever because you see in a new shade of color. Think THE RED PILL from the Matrix; you can take the blue pill and go on your merry-way, or take the red-pill and never be the same again. Some books have the power to do this and I like to think that my book is just one of those. Go find your "red pill" book!

6) Do Something That Frightens You

Speak in front of a group. Jump off that cliff. Ask out that hot chick at the gym.

Success is found outside of your comfort zone.

If you aren't willing to expand your horizons and get uncomfortable, you aren't willing to grow into the person you need to become. Years ago I was fearful of public speaking; now, I am not. I conquered the fear by action, and realized that the fear itself was greater than the reality. Once you feel the accomplishment of conquering the fear, it becomes less of an obstacle to your success.
7) Volunteer For Those Less Fortunate

Help someone who truly needs it. The old folks home. The orphanage. Step outside of your tiny world and see how lucky you and I have it. In other words, learn to be unselfish as it is one of the most important Fastlane concepts you can learn. Recognizing the needs of others is a conduit into providing value.

Then learn gratitude.

Your life ain't so bad. Sure, that flat tire on the freeway caused you to walk 2 miles, but do you know how many people can't walk at all? And would love to walk 2 miles? Do you know how many people who don't have a car? Who don't have a job to pay for the car? Gratitude is a forefather to happiness. Volunteer and you will learn selflessness and gratitude, two great character traits that will serve you for a lifetime.
8) Live Your Dream for a Moment

Whatever your dream, try to live it for a moment. Go test drive that dream car of yours. Take a ride on that stallion you've always wanted. Drive through that multimillion dollar neighborhood. Whatever dream you envision, try to make it real for a moment, a minute, or an hour. FEEL IT.

I remember when I saw my first Lamborghini years ago; it turned a fantasy into a tangible reality that I wanted for myself, and it forever changed my life.
9) Change Your Diet TODAY

The first step to better health, and wealth, is your diet. Change it today and see how you feel. Dump the Ben-n-Jerrys, the Coke, and the McDonald's Super-Size Combo-all the garbage that is slowing you down and making you look and feel like ****. If you feel better (and look better) you will be better motivated to accomplish your goals. You will be happy. Note to ACTION FAKERS, I said change your diet -- NOT go on a diet. One is temporary. The other is a lifestyle.
10) Join A Gym

Reread #9. If you feel and look better, you will accomplish more. Reread #4. It will expand your social circle and possibly open a new road.
11) Take That Big Risk You've Been Putting Off

You know what it is.

It whispers in your ear at night.

It screams at you during the day at work.

You think about it all day ... you know, that nagging RISK you want to take, but just can't convince yourself to do it. Maybe you want to quit your job and join the Peace Corps. Maybe it's a miserable marriage and you want to file for divorce. Maybe it's a relocation across the country. Whatever it is, DECIDE to do it and then PLAN for it's execution. You don't have to QUIT today, but COMMIT today. And then ACTION TAKE, not ACTION FAKE.
12) Meditate on Your Deathbed

Fast forward to your deathbed and meditate in that moment. What regrets will you have ?

"Oooh I wish I would have worked longer?" or " I wish I would have watched more TV?"

Months ago I wrote a blog post entitled "Letters to Your Younger Self" and it asked OLD YOU to write a letter to YOUNG YOU. What would you say? If you had 1 week left to live, what regrets would you have? Expose those regrets and tackle them TODAY while you are young and transform those regrets into memories.

What simple things can you DECIDE to do NOW that can change your life forever?

Hope it was helpfull
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  • Profile picture of the author ericbryant
    Thanks for this Ivan. Excellent!
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  • Profile picture of the author Kragsig
    Thanks for sharing Ivan. TV is one of the biggist sinners for me.. When you lay on your couch you're lost for several hours... lol
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  • Thanks for sharing
    It looks great!!
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  • Profile picture of the author Mattias
    Great...but I really like my cable tv =(
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  • Profile picture of the author cloudstrife
    I recently started watching less and less tv daily. On weekdays I watch less than an hour a day. On sunday I may watch a couple hours at most. One of the best decisions we made in our house.
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  • Profile picture of the author crx
    Nice article!
    I'm a happy guy that doesn't watch much TV, only news occasionally and football matches, and some Discovery Channel now and then.
    One bad thing about the article... all the steps can't be done in only 12 days, you can't change yourself in 12 days following those steps... Maybe for some all the steps can be done in less than 12 days but I'm sure that for the most who wants to follow the advices it will be near to impossible to do it all in only 12 days. That can lead to harsh disappointments, I thin it's ok if more time is allowed.
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  • Profile picture of the author BugHo
    6) Do Something That Frightens You

    I think this one has to be the mother of the list
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    • Profile picture of the author ashwin77
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      Thanks for the share, I'm currently going through the mentioned book-The fastlane millionaire....I've gone through 100 odd pages, at present 'm at slowlane section of the book, 'm looking forward for fastlane section..It's a wonderful book, make this as your redpill book
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    Can you post some other good examples of "red pill books"?
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    • Profile picture of the author Ricky Tango
      I think another example of a Red Pill book would be the 4-hour work week by Timothy Ferris. I just read a portion of that book that goes in tune with the reducing the amount of TV that you watch.. Ferris basically is selectively ignorant to "news" and the media because a lot of the time, it is negative, out of the reach or your influence, and distracting. One of the other nuggets that I got from the book was to go on an "Information Diet", that is to day, reduce the amount of information that you are consuming. Again, because it can be distracting mostly. All the best.

      Thanks Ivan for the post by the way. Much appreciated.
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    13. Commit suicide
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  • Profile picture of the author ownergolan
    Great and eye opening. thnx
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  • Profile picture of the author futureB
    very nice! thanks for sharing
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael hetzz
    good post
    very informative for me to know, 12 days ahead I would do for a better day
    thanks for sharing
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  • Profile picture of the author infinityplr
    4) Cancel the damn cable TV

    VERY NICE!
    Yes cut it off down! Cable TV takes a lot of your time away. It is easier to change channels when one channels got boring to watch because you have a lot of choices. Without anything to watch you will probably have enough time to do the things you need to do and get active with your life, instead of slouching on the sofa whole day.
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    GO. MOVE. Keep GOING! Even with the smallest steps and slower paces, the important thing is you are NOT STOPPING! You'll get there!
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    • Profile picture of the author cwill184
      Ivan, I've done the join the Gym thing, definitely more pain than gain, but going to stick with it. Giving up cable tv is next.
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  • Profile picture of the author stopper
    That is a great post IO just have to save it for later
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  • Profile picture of the author RodneyIvanJohnson
    Thanks for some great advice there , Ivan. I particularly like the one about "change your diet" VS "go on a diet" -m just shos you the power of words. Same with IM the corrrect choice of words can make or break your sale.
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  • Profile picture of the author KickAss Marketing
    Originally Posted by ivan4443 View Post

    Hey all!

    3) Register to Take a Class

    Expand your horizons and take a class at your local community college. Cooking. Photoshop 1.0. Creative writing. Pick something that interests you. Double points if that interest can make you money or translate into a business asset. Whatever it is, get out and learn something new by investing in yourself.
    This part is the one that really struck me. I hope someday i would be able to go out and expand my horizon or my territory meet new people. But as whole this is a great article I hope that everyone would be able to do this.
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  • Profile picture of the author LisaAllen
    Awesome un-common sense advice in the article. Thanks for the share and reminder
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  • Profile picture of the author chip22
    Super Dozen. I'll bookmark this.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Ten
    Nice. I'll have to consider doing some of those. I already am a gym member and go 3-4 times per week consistently.
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  • Profile picture of the author DonnyBoy
    Totally inspiring. I thought of a hundred on how to diet until you stepped on the brakes for me, "Note to ACTION FAKERS, I said change your diet — NOT go on a diet. One is temporary. The other is a lifestyle.".

    It's my way of life that I need changing in my eating habits to have lasting effects. Now, the next question is, when should I start? :p
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  • Profile picture of the author GSX
    This is excellent thanks for sharing. Lots of these I've done, some I haven't. Definitely inspiring.
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  • Profile picture of the author Benjamin Ehinger
    #4 is HUGE. I currently have a roommate (1 more month, thank God), he used to be my best friend and living with him was not as much about splitting rent as it was spending time together, but things have changes due to TV and Pot.

    Now, I work my a** off (trying to advance my business to the next level) and he spends 14 hours a day in front of the TV (when he's not at work). I can't imagine how it would be if he didn't have TV. It would probably change his life forever. It's a complete distraction, 95% of what they show is garbage and if you ask me, it's the downfall of modern civilization or at least a heavy contributor.

    When I move into my own place next month I am not getting cable or owning a TV at all. The only thing I really watch is sports anyway and I can catch those on my computer or out with friends.

    Great Post!

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  • Profile picture of the author Geordie John
    Originally Posted by ivan4443 View Post

    Hey all!

    8) Live Your Dream for a Moment

    Whatever your dream, try to live it for a moment. Go test drive that dream car of yours. Take a ride on that stallion you've always wanted. Drive through that multimillion dollar neighborhood. Whatever dream you envision, try to make it real for a moment, a minute, or an hour. FEEL IT.

    I remember when I saw my first Lamborghini years ago; it turned a fantasy into a tangible reality that I wanted for myself, and it forever changed my life.
    Every time my wife and I are driving someplace and we spy a new sub division or neighborhood we like the look of we drive through and I take photos of the houses we like and tell her we will have a house like that one day soon...

    Nice article
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  • Profile picture of the author Mike Roncone
    There's a lot of good tips in here,

    in fact a lot of them are good enough that even you half-assers can half-ass the step and it will STILL have a huge impact on your life.

    Go. Just, go.

    Best,
    -Mike
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  • Profile picture of the author wladimir
    6) Do Something That Frightens You - reminds me of Nietzsche's philosophy. Great article BTW!
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  • Profile picture of the author ivan4443
    Wow I had forgoten about this thread, i posted it and no one replied anything, and now i see so many people have liked it! I really feel amazing at the moment that i have helped people with this article!
    Deffinetly will post something new, hope you like it again!
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