I gave up anything. How to do right now?

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I know I was wrong. Maybe I dreamed too big and did not consider the fact.

7 months ago, I decade to change my life. And that moment, I am a design student. My life had not direction and I just felt that I don't want to be controlled by anybody.

I really want to be myself and really want to fully control my life. Then I started to think about "Money". And then I searched "Making Money Online" on Google and read lots of about finance. Yes, then I started to purse my dream based on " You got a dream, you get to protect it, people can do something themselves, they want to tell you you can't do something, but if you want something, go get it, period."

I bought a lots of course and E book, and I thought about I can make big money start from next month. At that moment, I did not thought about I must make $100,000 somethings but just $1000 per money for support myself.

From December to January, I joined one course calls " Millionaire Society". And then just watch the video every single day. But the fact is this course always just mention ClickBank again and again and just talk about building your own business and name list something. Well, and that moment, I just want to make quick money. then after 2 months, I quit this society.

And start from February, I stayed in warrior forum. Then just keep read some thread, but then I realized I actually quite enjoy internet market. So I join warrior room.

From Funerary to April, I did not go to college. And just tried to find the method that can let me earn $1,000 more. But it is just not what I thought. Actually, I can say at that moment I was information overload.
and big mistake I made was I always think short terms. I wanted to make money tomorrow this months. But the fact is not.

So that moment, I also read a lots of book like the most famous " Think And Grow Rich". It talk about Desire will support your faith, and you faith will support your action, and your action will support your Desire." There, I knew I have to keep moving even I failed.

From April til Now, I was learning Facebook CPA from William and he is a good coach. But I am still fail.

What I learn from this 7 months is that Internet Market is not a easy job, and you have to persist. And the most important is You have to think long term. And also, you have to choose one specific to persist til success. For example like Click-bank, Facebook Ads.

However, now my big problem is that since I did not go to collage, I can not graduate. And also I used my 3 credit card and they are all exhausted.

I really want to cry. But I don't really want to find some job, cause I still believe I can make money online.

Any Advice to Me, Thanks A Lots.

Regards,
Marcus
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  • Profile picture of the author jfambrini
    Get rich schemes have been around since advent of human civilization 10,000 years ago but secret to success has always been acquired talent, innate ability, existing financial circumstances, upbringing, luck and oh yes a LOT of hard work. There is no free lunch as Adam Smith said.
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  • Profile picture of the author aatyum
    Hi Marcus...

    Just passing through.

    Seems like you are experiencing normal issues concerning knowledge mechanics (specifics concerning how and why things work), the condition of time, and patience.

    I'm from a school that reflects that there really is no such thing as hard work. There's only effort, or the lack of the correct knowledge concerning the appropriate effort to apply towards an endeavor. You should enjoy your endeavor in terms of the dynamic activity towards the expectation of accomplishment.

    If you tell yourself something is difficult, then guess what, it becomes that. The brain attracts things, even financial success. Distractions, interruptions, and lack of focus, drags out a success timeline. But this is just a misstep in scholastic systems to teach the actual power in language. Clarity and focus towards the endgame, is generally what's necessary in a remedy prescription, though it might be challenging to maintain it.

    And what about the conjured stress or worry? Well, unless someone has the barrel of a gun to your head, and is slowly pulling the trigger that will fire a bullet through your head and hit your mother after it reaches the other side; calm down. I'm saying that of course, you should always be aware of a morally accepted circumstance as you interact with others and related systems og governance, but this Mother Nature doesn't care about that. You do, and so you can control the degree of which you concern your attention to worry, or not.

    Positive thinking is feel-good nice, ala 'Napoleon Hill' (remember, he died less than super wealthy), however, that alone is less than being an attractor of success in an endeavor. Ad enthusiasm, some detailed visualization, persistence, and most important, knowledge, and you're good to go.

    Don't you watch the wealth channel on cable. Look at the attitudes of the people they present, Issues yes; hard work no. Us humans only use the term because we've been orientated to teach ourselves to continually express it. Behavior follows thought.

    Ask yourself; should you be chasing money, or, should money be chasing you. Got any value to share? I'm sure that there are others who would appreciate partaking of that value for their own purposes. They will chase you for it... (hint: design)

    Here is something to think about...

    Step back and ACCURATELY review the big picture for yourself. This will largely depend on your honesty towards the face in the mirror. This means that your ability to perceive the impacting influences of an environment, are directly connected to any and all endeavors you might venture towards. The better you know what's going on, the easier your effort. Simple

    Understand the playing field and give yourself a better option to win an generating significant income.

    System landscape are setup to initially enable a few in select circles, or with specific knowledge, to prosper. The railroad industry had cartels until the 1930's trust act was passed by the U.S. government.

    The banking system was signed into law in 1913, by president Woodrow Wilson, to enable the banking cartels to imply the fractional reserve money supply system into the U.S. economy.

    Today's internet, also displays its cartel members, however, knowledge generally exposes, and or erases their influence.

    Knowledge:

    You might want to consider, that there exist an online landscape with multiple participant types. Consider that there is, a hybrid human-machine psychology, that is keyword controlled, and governs the condition of human-machine magnetic affinity. It might be suggested to revisit what you may or may not apply...You might want to revisit a few things (really) that you may or may not apply.

    • Learn keyword operators, so YOU can control search engines. The result of this effort allows you to be a 'Traffic Broker', with the wanted ability to direct traffic, whether the purpose is negative or positive. Machine don't discriminate. If nothing else, DO THIS!
    • Learn about the key players in terms of their culture. This might not seem important, but it is. By default, you will come to truly understand the audience demographics they service, which will discriminate their policy driven release of filters (penguin) and algorithms (caffeine, panda). You will gain an uncanny sense in forecasting their prescriptions for policy change.
    • Learn no less than 3 income producing techniques, that are both independent, and linked to each of the other two, for purposes of cross promoting what it is that you decide to offer. This tactic enables you to gain online market share as you penetrate surrounding cartel mechanisms with straight forward presentations. Remember, the machines do not discriminate, even when positive presentations are made.

    Believe me, I could ramble on and write a book. Actually I did write a compendium of 'Advanced Inner Technology' books based on the theme book entitled, '
    PFOSH' (platonic fractal octave sympathetic harmonics) - Wealth Beyond Reality, wherein the theme principle states: 'Everything Is Connected, Nothing Is Divorced From Itself'.

    Something to think about.........

    Tom
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    • Profile picture of the author MilkerFocus
      Hey, Thanks a lots.
      Yes, Correct Knowledge can let things be easy.

      I believe I can pass through, but right now I need to solve the financial problem.

      M
      Originally Posted by aatyum View Post

      Hi Marcus...

      Just passing through.

      Seems like you are experiencing normal issues concerning knowledge mechanics (specifics concerning how and why things work), the condition of time, and patience.

      I'm from a school that reflects that there really is no such thing as hard work. There's only effort, or the lack of the correct knowledge concerning the appropriate effort to apply towards an endeavor. You should enjoy your endeavor in terms of the dynamic activity towards the expectation of accomplishment.

      If you tell yourself something is difficult, then guess what, it becomes that. The brain attracts things, even financial success. Distractions, interruptions, and lack of focus, drags out a success timeline. But this is just a misstep in scholastic systems to teach the actual power in language. Clarity and focus towards the endgame, is generally what's necessary in a remedy prescription, though it might be challenging to maintain it.

      And what about the conjured stress or worry? Well, unless someone has the barrel of a gun to your head, and is slowly pulling the trigger that will fire a bullet through your head and hit your mother after it reaches the other side; calm down. I'm saying that of course, you should always be aware of a morally accepted circumstance as you interact with others and related systems og governance, but this Mother Nature doesn't care about that. You do, and so you can control the degree of which you concern your attention to worry, or not.

      Positive thinking is feel-good nice, ala 'Napoleon Hill' (remember, he died less than super wealthy), however, that alone is less than being an attractor of success in an endeavor. Ad enthusiasm, some detailed visualization, persistence, and most important, knowledge, and you're good to go.

      Don't you watch the wealth channel on cable. Look at the attitudes of the people they present, Issues yes; hard work no. Us humans only use the term because we've been orientated to teach ourselves to continually express it. Behavior follows thought.

      Ask yourself; should you be chasing money, or, should money be chasing you. Got any value to share? I'm sure that there are others who would appreciate partaking of that value for their own purposes. They will chase you for it... (hint: design)

      Here is something to think about...

      Step back and ACCURATELY review the big picture for yourself. This will largely depend on your honesty towards the face in the mirror. This means that your ability to perceive the impacting influences of an environment, are directly connected to any and all endeavors you might venture towards. The better you know what's going on, the easier your effort. Simple

      Understand the playing field and give yourself a better option to win an generating significant income.

      System landscape are setup to initially enable a few in select circles, or with specific knowledge, to prosper. The railroad industry had cartels until the 1930's trust act was passed by the U.S. government.

      The banking system was signed into law in 1913, by president Woodrow Wilson, to enable the banking cartels to imply the fractional reserve money supply system into the U.S. economy.

      Today's internet, also displays its cartel members, however, knowledge generally exposes, and or erases their influence.

      Knowledge:

      You might want to consider, that there exist an online landscape with multiple participant types. Consider that there is, a hybrid human-machine psychology, that is keyword controlled, and governs the condition of human-machine magnetic affinity. It might be suggested to revisit what you may or may not apply...You might want to revisit a few things (really) that you may or may not apply.

      • Learn keyword operators, so YOU can control search engines. The result of this effort allows you to be a 'Traffic Broker', with the wanted ability to direct traffic, whether the purpose is negative or positive. Machine don't discriminate. If nothing else, DO THIS!
      • Learn about the key players in terms of their culture. This might not seem important, but it is. By default, you will come to truly understand the audience demographics they service, which will discriminate their policy driven release of filters (penguin) and algorithms (caffeine, panda). You will gain an uncanny sense in forecasting their prescriptions for policy change.
      • Learn no less than 3 income producing techniques, that are both independent, and linked to each of the other two, for purposes of cross promoting what it is that you decide to offer. This tactic enables you to gain online market share as you penetrate surrounding cartel mechanisms with straight forward presentations. Remember, the machines do not discriminate, even when positive presentations are made.

      Believe me, I could ramble on and write a book. Actually I did write a compendium of 'Advanced Inner Technology' books based on the theme book entitled, '
      PFOSH' (platonic fractal octave sympathetic harmonics) - Wealth Beyond Reality, wherein the theme principle states: 'Everything Is Connected, Nothing Is Divorced From Itself'.

      Something to think about.........

      Tom
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  • Profile picture of the author khairulazan
    It is quite normal to see a few fails before the real success come out. To reach our targe ahead, of course we have to walk through some obstacles. Just sit back. Face it. And do what it takes to be success.

    It doesn't matter to get a job while do the internet marketing. That's make us quite release from the stress of no money.

    Rich dad of R.Kiyosaki told him to find a job and do the business as a part time. Most of the successful entrepreneurs start their business as part time and later leave their job and do it full time. Then the real success show up.
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    • Profile picture of the author Sandor Verebi
      Hi Marcus,

      Chin up, you aren't alone my friend!

      I'm saying you a piece of news: it's not unusual at your age that someone has not established direction. Nevertheless, you can be successful in your life.

      In the course of my whole life I met two types of successful people.

      The one type was who knew his direction from his childhood and did everything accordingly to achieve his goal. On the road he had problems, but solved them in some way. His motivation was embedded enough and gave him internal drive to make things happen.

      The other type had some blurred vision about his life, so he started something which he thought to be good. And as usual, he had difficulties in the march. Changed his mind and abandoned what he did. He launched into a different thing because it seemed better. After some time he changed again... and again.

      But both types can be successful. The only real difference between the two is that the second type need to take longer way to achieve his success. It seems to me that you are walking this route presently.

      Fortunately, this can be changed. And the sooner is the better. So...


      - stop day-dreaming.

      - stop buying every new shining course,

      - don't jump from one thing to another one, that will more harm than good,

      - do an adequately performed self-analysis,

      - find your internal motivation,

      - determine your direction based on your analysis,

      - set up an attainable goal,

      - make your feasible plan with measurable steps,

      - FOCUS on your plan,

      - be persistent until you see results.


      You wrote that you maxed out your credit cards. You also wrote that you're a design student.

      If this is related to website design then consider to make websites for online/offline clients. For this purpose please visit and study the Warriors for Hire section. You need to start to take action now, lamentation sucks.

      If you see that your activity brings some money, then spend that wisely. You can finish the college later, first create the material base.

      "I realized something a long time ago. I realized that if some obstacle arises in front of me, in my head I treat it the way I want. And if I want the best out of it (however it is) then I will do that way."(S.V.)

      I'd like to commend this thread to your kind attention:
      http://www.warriorforum.com/main-int...-business.html

      If you read it, I promise you'll not regret it.

      Happy reading,

      Sandor
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      • Profile picture of the author MilkerFocus
        Hey Sandor,

        You are really nice guy and good listener.

        I actually already have my direction, I want to success in Facebook CPA first.

        And Yes, I will try to find some design job in warrior for hire.

        Thanks a lots.

        M
        Originally Posted by Sandor Verebi View Post

        Hi Marcus,

        Chin up, you aren't alone my friend!

        I'm saying you a piece of news: it's not unusual at your age that someone has not established direction. Nevertheless, you can be successful in your life.

        In the course of my whole life I met two types of successful people.

        The one type was who knew his direction from his childhood and did everything accordingly to achieve his goal. On the road he had problems, but solved them in some way. His motivation was embedded enough and gave him internal drive to make things happen.

        The other type had some blurred vision about his life, so he started something which he thought to be good. And as usual, he had difficulties in the march. Changed his mind and abandoned what he did. He launched into a different thing because it seemed better. After some time he changed again... and again.

        But both types can be successful. The only real difference between the two is that the second type need to take longer way to achieve his success. It seems to me that you are walking this route presently.

        Fortunately, this can be changed. And the sooner is the better. So...


        - stop day-dreaming.

        - stop buying every new shining course,

        - don't jump from one thing to another one, that will more harm than good,

        - do an adequately performed self-analysis,

        - find your internal motivation,

        - determine your direction based on your analysis,

        - set up an attainable goal,

        - make your feasible plan with measurable steps,

        - FOCUS on your plan,

        - be persistent until you see results.


        You wrote that you maxed out your credit cards. You also wrote that you're a design student.

        If this is related to website design then consider to make websites for online/offline clients. For this purpose please visit and study the Warriors for Hire section. You need to start to take action now, lamentation sucks.

        If you see that your activity brings some money, then spend that wisely. You can finish the college later, first create the material base.

        "I realized something a long time ago. I realized that if some obstacle arises in front of me, in my head I treat it the way I want. And if I want the best out of it (however it is) then I will do that way."(S.V.)

        I'd like to commend this thread to your kind attention:
        http://www.warriorforum.com/main-int...-business.html

        If you read it, I promise you'll not regret it.

        Happy reading,

        Sandor
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        • Profile picture of the author Mach1Marketing
          I would say get into Local Marketing. You can start by using fiverr. As things progress outsource to WF. You can outsource the SEO and webdesign. SEO is a monthly fee so you can rack them up slowly but
          surely. There are a some good WSO's for under $10 that will have you
          up and running in no time. Local businesses need websites,SEO,Places +
          pages etc.

          Good Luck - Never Give Up the Dream...
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  • Profile picture of the author yellowarmour
    Yes you must fail before you learn to succeed. The ones that make it are the ones that never gave up.
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  • Profile picture of the author Derrik
    Great to read all this for me.I am someone who is lucky to be alive after a serious near death experience and brain hemorrhage that surprised medical staff I am still here. I have been battling because brain wise, I cannot do everything I used to do.

    I have tried many different ways, but my brain is much slower and limited. I used to be a very successful businessman, a director of Oracle etc, but due to not having insurance, I messed up my financial position. I recently built a blog and this is where I am and what I have done. I want to help wherever we can because if we do, we are rewarded. The one hand washes the other.

    My blog is "giveandyouget"dot com and on the "About" page are pictures indicating - lol - how a bloke with 1/3 of his skull i.e. me is still alive. If you look at it, please excuse my grammar. I cannot write like I used to.

    Best wishes & God Bless you wonderful folks
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  • Profile picture of the author crissie
    Fantastic read from Derrik. You're an inspiration, sir. I visited your blog and wish you all the best in your venture.

    Its hard to read about the struggles of people like you Marcus. We've all been there. And I understand you're in a tight situation right now. I was there for so many years. All I can offer you, i'm afraid, is the one thing I KNOW won't help much - those vague words of wisdom - "don't give up".

    I also spent a lot of money on link-building, blog-posting, article-buying...the works. Most had no or little return. And then i ran out of money. I couldn't buy into anything else. So i got inventive. I had to. And with no money, I simply applied what I learned to my own sites and kept at it. I wrote my own articles. I exchanged links. I kept them fresh.

    I was stubborn and didn't want a day job. I believed I could make a living online. So I got only a part-time job out of the house and the rest of my time was spent at home on my computer.

    It was a long process and because I needed to pay my monthly bills, I offered my services as an article-writer for others. That brought in a few bob. I set up some sites for others. A little more money came in from there. Just about enough to keep me afloat. i couldn't buy myself anything fancy, but I could keep up with my bills.

    I had over 15 of my own sites at one stage and gave them my all in my spare time. 9 months ago I closed but 2 of them and applied all my energy on to them. Guess what? I'm making money now. I'm not working for anybody else anymore and I am proud to say that my 2 sites are profitable. In fact, a brand new site is just about to be released and I have to say, I am so very proud of it.

    Conclusion? Believe in yourself. Don't expand yourself too far - concentrate on 1 or 2 projects only. The best of you will come out.

    If you have to do some work for others at humiliating prices, do it. Your goal is what matters. So bite your tongue and offer your services to other members at competitive prices. Make sure you allow a certain amount of time for your own projects each day. And build on them.

    You will not earn 1000 bucks today or tomorrow. And as long as you're looking for ways to earn fast bucks, you're loosing money you could have been earning. 10 bucks today. 50 bucks tomorrow. At least its more than you had yesterday!

    Start today!
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    • Profile picture of the author joefizz
      Hi Marcus

      We have all been there...

      You know the key skill that kept Edison, Ford and Carnegie going was perseverance...

      Winston Churchill once said...

      "Never, never, never give up!"

      That means dusting yourself off and get ready to go again:
      • Create a plan
      • Set realistic goals
      • Identify actions to move you towards them
      • Measure your achievements
      • Take any remedial action and re-plan.
      • Finally, reward yourself even if its small. Start to feel good again!

      Look for even the smallest achievements to move you towards your goal.

      Your friends are right here (your guardian angels)...you just need too ask for help...

      Llwyddiant!

      Joe
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  • Profile picture of the author MilkerFocus
    Thanks all. I won't give up.
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