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Growth our self esteem

by namktqs
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Know what we want?
When we set specific goals about what we want in our life we can achieve them. And this work will keep focus for us. If we not enough focus on things we want, we will loss them.

Love ourselves
What good things that we created? That's amazing, let be love yourself. If you don't love yourself why other love you?

Become ourselves.
Try be yourself all of time, and anywhere. You will see everything are amazing. That's fun to try.

Make people happy
As you know, most of case how you make behavior with other and then them happen same with you by other around you. If you can let make other feel good about themselves. That's fun to do.

That's easy to follow and get change better our life.
#esteem #growth
  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    Originally Posted by namktqs View Post

    Know what we want?
    Love ourselves
    What good things that we created? That's amazing, let be love yourself. If you don't love yourself why other love you?

    Become ourselves.
    Try be yourself all of time, and anywhere. You will see everything are amazing. That's fun to try.

    That's easy to follow and get change better our life.
    first goal is to love ourselves , then become ourselves at which point the other two you need to be careful of

    once you love yourself and become yourself ..what you want will tend to be things that enhance or make it easier to continue to express self love and the you you have become ..

    i feel unless your surround youself with people willing to love and be themselves .. that you may end up going against your self love to make them happy ..

    you just gotta be in such a selfish state of self love that unhappy people run ..
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    wait not so much run .. i mean that your state either bring them up ..and you refuse to meat them down where they are ..so say your in a happy state talking to you either naturally perks them up as you stay up as well.. or they give up trying to pull you down to were they are.. by sucking the energy from you ..

    so no making them feel better but leaving you feeling sucked dry ..

    you basically have to be openly insane ..
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    • Profile picture of the author 711gemstone
      Originally Posted by Odahh View Post

      wait not so much run .. i mean that your state either bring them up ..and you refuse to meat them down where they are ..so say your in a happy state talking to you either naturally perks them up as you stay up as well.. or they give up trying to pull you down to were they are.. by sucking the energy from you ..

      so no making them feel better but leaving you feeling sucked dry ..

      you basically have to be openly insane ..
      I disagree it is well worth it to build someone up
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      • Profile picture of the author Kaie
        I think the OP is saying to be a beacon of light for other people, right, OP?

        If so, then it is definitely worth it, and rewarding to help lift people up. They will either entrain with you (in your higher vibration,) or you will entrain with them (in a lower one,) so you do need to be careful and maintain a sense of detachment so you don't get "sucked dry"
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      • Profile picture of the author Odahh
        Originally Posted by 711gemstone View Post

        I disagree it is well worth it to build someone up
        if that building leads them to doing it for themselves ... you can't do it for others ..you can only support them and encourage them to do it for themselves ..

        but if you are in you are in a state of self love ..which is the core state your supposed to be in ..and provide a source of positive energy for others ..and you help them without being drained.. that is good ..

        but it is best to refuse to join them in their misery and then try and boost them up ..

        especially with the people who tend to get miserable over the same thing often ..

        don't be a savior ..be God .. meaning don't try to save people.. but help people who are helping themselves ..
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        • Profile picture of the author namktqs
          We are going on our process. I mean sometime we see other people and know about their good points, we only remind good points that people made. That work want help keep them happy and motivation with them.
          All of time be ourselves and moving on our process.
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    yeah so we seem to be in agreement nam ..
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