The actual, real, secret to success!

i take some idea back home and apply it in personally and biz.

instead of kick people ass if I mad, I would rather spend more time to get idea or learn new thing in all aspect of life.

thank Joel

That's a great list, Joel.

Obviously, I couldn't agree more with it. Success begins from within.

Those who continue to struggle, day in and day out, never try to change the common denominator... themselves!

SUPERLIKE! Thanks for sharing.

Great list Joe! I like the way you can go down it and easily see where to make improvements personally also. I may have to print this and hang it next to my computer.

thanks, nice list

Thanks for posting the list, Joel. I don't think I've seen it in that format before. Extremely inspirational for those who truly take it to heart. I have seen people on both sides of the list. . . . And I have to admit that I see myself at different spots on both sides of the list!

I will try to do better in the weak areas.

GT

Awesome list...

It show me some flaws of my personality..

Wow! Great list. Please provide us more if possible!

Excellent list Joel! Thanks for sharing it with other Warriors.

I definitely agree. Especially the following 3 successful statements:

1. Talks about ideas.

When you talk about your ideas, you express knowledge and show others that you have a sense of what's going on. You're also more creative. Idea-generation is something that's learned in my opinion.

2. Share information and data.

Sharing is one of the best ways to be successful. If you hide everything, you're letting others take the opportunity of beating you to the punch. Plus almost everything you can share has already been said or done before.

3. Embrace change.

If you can't adapt to the markets, to the world, to life in general, you'll end up being eaten in a sea of confusion. So why not enjoy it.

Without these three character traits, it's very difficult to relate to others.

How very well composed! Thank you for sharing this!

I'm taking that chart, by the way. It's going to be an excellent resource to give to others who need to understand the different qualities between successful people and the unsuccessful. The thing I've found is that unsuccessful people usually don't "think" too much, but perhaps when I show some of my associates this direct comparison, they'll be able to draw conclusions on the cold hard fact that they fit more into the unsuccessful category, and that they could definitely use a good deal of self-improvement.

Thanks again.

Nice list you got here. Best thing to have as a guide to being successful.

I like the list, but, as a natural contrarian I must throw a curveball into the mix.
2,3,and, 5 is not a prerequisite as I know of a couple of people who skew that rule

Great list, would you mind sending a link to where you have found It ?

That doesn't make it okay, it just means sometimes jerks get rich by being jerks.

Awesome comparison! Printing this out now!

Great chart. The more I think about it the more it rings true.

I've been using a to do list for 3 weeks now and I've noticed my productivity go through the roof.

Great chart, thanks for sharing! Printing it out to put on my wall!!

Well for me the real secret for success is first to Dream and then do your best to achieve that dream.

Nice list something to keep in mind

How have I not seen this before?!?!

I definitely see a lot of traits in both categories so will be reviewing certain things now!!

Thank you so much for sharing this!!

Hi Joel,

that list definitely got me thinking about which side of the chart i need to spend more time on and also behavior to change.
Thanks for the insight.

Nice share. The real secret to success is is still a secret.

Thank you
I will print it and I'll hang it above my desk

OMG - I will be not successful because i hate to read books.

Great chart, OP! Nice post! Being positive leads so much more to success!

Thank You Joel Young

This one should be printed and posted in every office and working room/place.

The contrast is sharp...but I'd have to disagree on several points:
1. Successful people Must Criticize if a subject needs adequate criticism.
2. They must watch TV (News Talk shows, travelogue etc.)
3. Must Exude anger when needed (above all, bottling up emotions lead to several health consequences).

It's a nice list I guess. I have also found my lacking by reading it.

Nice chart you got here. Now i can easily compare and sort things out.

Hey man awesome post and so true. It seems so easy when you see the list like that juxtaposed showing successful vs unsuccessful traits of people. It also boils down to, successful people think in abundance and increase, they believe that there is so much wealth out there waiting to be had. Versus the unsuccessful people think in the scarcity mindset, thinking that there is only so much to go around. This thinking leads to negative thoughts and failure.

The real secret to success still remains secret until know. Only few knows it also until know.

I've seen a version of this list, but I like this one even more. We should frame copies and hang beside the mirrors in our bathrooms to really examine our flaws each morning.

Joel -

Thanks for the post. I find myself to be on both sides of the list quite often. I am going to print out this list and use it as follows -

1. If I am getting what I want and am feeling happy, I will check in to see how I am operating based on the list on the right side.

2. If I am not getting what I want and am not feeling happy, I will see how I am operating from the left side and what I need to do to move to the right side.

Thanks for the eye opening share.

Lol DMC, i like the mirrors in the bathroom thing. But i like it more besides the television.

Printing some copies for my colleagues. Hope they'll love it.

I assume your share is very analytical. Thanks.

this is so true. good sharing.

Awesome post, man! Always keep it real!

I have only one problem that I ma not regular ,
no regularity in my job ,that's why I can't get success though fight a lot.
Time management is my key to get success I know ,but how could I achieve it I don't know.

Thanks for sharing

Accurate and concise list

I shared this on my facebook page recently and its the first time I have ever had quite strong negative reactions !! great nothing like a bit of button pushing, it was the ultimate marmite post

Thank you Joe! I'm going to have this by my desk at all times, so when I know i'm exhibiting a negative trait I can just take a glance at it and reverse it. Thanks!

An aspiring list to bear in mind - Joel. Thanks for brightening up my day...

Things may not be as black and white as the list suggests at first glance though... but I accept successful people are not ruled or tyrannised by that second list.

..I love the wordage... it makes you think...

EXUDE ANGER... To 'not exude anger' can't mean you never get angry?

'To exude' is to vibrate 24/7 in a particular way - so perhaps 'To Exude Anger' is like living in a fire ball of anger all the time burning everyone who comes near. Now I can see that's never going to make anyone successful, no one would ever want to do business or have a relationship with them.

And I agree with Mousumi #33 that we do need to be critical and discriminate and not be a pussy - but at the same time I guess to criticize can also be an attitude of mind - always looking for the bad rather than simply being aware and responsive being critical and correcting mistaken behaviour when needed. The one sounds like being locked in a prison and the other is having the freedom to drop it once used for it's served it's purpose.

...am I flying by the seat of my pants again... I suppose it's time to get my 'to do list' done to make ammends :rolleyes:

Great thread. Thanks guys

Great list Joel. When we help others reach their own success, we succeed because they will come to use to fulfill their need to succeed. It's a nice circle of success.

I might pin this on my wall

Confident + perseverance = Success

"Don't Stop Your Efforts Until you Reach Your Efforts"

Thanks for sharing it with us.

Thank you for sharing

It makes a lot of sense

I like biggest difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is
Talk about ideas
Talk about people

Here is an infographic poster to complement the post

Very nice list, love it!

Love it! Thanks for sharing. Totally agree with it!
That Facebook, some wisdom does come out of it, eh eh!