Mmmmm The sweet taste of CONTRAST...
Don't you just love when you get a really good night sleep?
Do you know that you only realize how good you sleep when you are not sleeping?
The contrast of not having something, makes us realize how valuable that something is.
Having lots of money and then not having lots of money, makes us realize how good it felt to have that money in the first place... Value is born, If we didn't have contrast then we wouldn't truly value what we do have or what we want (desires).
Sometimes things happen in our lives or maybe sometimes we will lose things or someone in order to feel a deeper contrast, which of course changes your desires.
So, the major changes that happen in your lives are not bad they are just the verdict of change that you've asked for. Situations are only bad according to how a person defines them. You asked for it and it is given.
Some maybe look at the situation they're in and say, there's no way I ask for this... but the truth is, nothing comes in your life that isn't resonance to you.
Most people ask for things from the point (attraction) of lack, so lack is what they get more of. Appreciate and feel good and then do your praying and then do your asking and then do whatever it is...
Don't let the world coach you into their ways, life is suppose to be good, feel good and be abundant. Are we not the sons and daughters of God? Are we not made in his image? Are we not spirits that are physically focused in a magnificent shell of a body?
Life IS peaches and creams. When you're in a "bad" situation don't look at the environment your in as a point of focus. God said have faith, did he not? Focusing on the lack you see, isn't how you attract the abundance you asked for, you can't have the abundance and lack at the same time. Stop looking for instant manifestations on everything.
Ask yourself this question. Would you like the experience of painting and as soon as your put the brush to the paper your painting is done?
5. Important things to live by:
1. Put yourself first, in order to be closer to God and be the best you can be for your kids and or family, you have to love to keep yourself happy. It will be an influential reflection to all, especially yourself.
2. Nothing happens in your life is a coincidence (Co-incide). So don't blame others for what happens in your life. Take a second and think "what thought was I thinking to draw this to my life"?
3. Stop trying so hard. People try so hard and work so hard and don't get anywhere. Working hard is only 10% of success. The rich gets rich and the poor gets poorer depending on what they focus on. You can't get into a great financial abundance by basking in the focus of what you don't have. You can't be abundant and lack at the same time.
4. Change your focus. Don't let people influence you. Your only goal in life is to be happy. That's why you want the house, the dream car, the person, the clothes, the job, the money, the health etc. You want them because, you feel in having them you'll be happier than you are now (contrast). So you have to gather that happy, good feeling first; the same happy feeling that you'll have when you will have what you asked for. You have to resonate. Think about it. Do you think the successful, happy, vibrant financially free person you see in your imagination ponders and focuses on the things that you do?
5. Forget the past, the only thing that matters is right now. Right now is the ONLY thing that will ever matter, it's the only thing that is real. Life is a present, the present is now and right now has absolutely NOTHING to do with your past, so let it go. If you want a better future, you have to focus on a better, more positive now. Don't worry about the fairy tale people around you may think you're living in, because if you look at successful people they live the lives that non believers laughed at them about. Besides, God supports your faith into holding on to what you can't see... and what has not yet manifested. Everything in this universe started out a thought. EVERYTHING, including your life and every moment in it.
Can you taste the contrast? If you can't then that's ok, you'll find the right ingredients when you're ready. The truth will set you free.
Thanks for reading.
Daniel Brown
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