It's NOT my fault....

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That's what I keep telling myself.

The fact is, it is,indeed.

I keep looking to outside causes for my miseries. Always blaming the actions of others, or just plain "karma".

Truth is , I am where I am today due to MY choices.
Of course there have been circumstances beyond my control, Lifes little anomalies that would happen no matter what choices I make.Even though some are actual results of my actions.Yes,some accidents would have happened no matter what, there is no doubt that a small number of them could have been avoided.

How? By the choices I made. I am accountable.

In my perpetual quest for knowledge, as far as the "why?","What can I do?",
"Who has the answers?", I have had an epiphany...

ME!

I know me better than anyone. I now understand that ALL answers are right between the ears. I have the power to change ME.

That doesn't mean I wont listen to others, or study the different methods that others have used successfully.

It just means that I must make better choices. Write a better script.

It will not be easy. I have to overcome years,decades,of choices that put me here.

I have no other choice.
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  • Profile picture of the author kellyyarnsbro
    Cool, you're accountable on every decision and choices you made and that's the biggest responsibility everyone has and should have.
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  • Profile picture of the author Big Rob
    Thank you Daniel and Kelly.
    Daniel, I appreciate your trying to help me on the other threads.
    Even though I can be quite difficult, and I'm sure I frustrated you a bit, I am grateful.
    Thanks also to odahh for some clarity.

    Special Thanks to Theory Expert for introducing Robert Greene and Fifty cents book.

    I am evolving Y'all.


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    • Profile picture of the author TheDreamerSpot
      Originally Posted by Big Rob View Post


      I am evolving Y'all.


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      That's what it's all about!
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      • Profile picture of the author Joe Mobley
        Good for you, Rob. As you probably are already seeing, whole new worlds open up to people who have figured out what you have.

        Enjoy the trip.

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  • Profile picture of the author Evocess
    Wow, great words from you Rob.
    We are living in this world that is full of circumstances.
    But we have the power to control our own self so we don't need to blame others with the results that you got. Whether it's a good or bad results it's all because of you.

    Life is just a matter of choice.
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  • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
    Congratulations Rob. This insight can be the turning point you've been seeking. When we take ownership of all that we are, that simple act clears away some of the limitations that hold us back.
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  • Profile picture of the author andyredsox
    Nice post Rob, and I am agree with that. If you love your work, you can easily do things right. Although sometimes we have mistakes, but at least we learn from it.
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  • Profile picture of the author sb4forum
    Great, probably you can find your turning point of life. from there.
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  • Profile picture of the author SShip
    Congratulations Rob! Now, anytime you have a bad day, experience etc... remember what you've written here. Any time you have a negative thought, change it to a positive one and remember to always follow your intuition, the answers are within you.
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  • Profile picture of the author ferrazzo75
    Great job Rob. And Kudos to having the guts to admit it. If you always hold yourself responsible and learn from your mistakes you can get closer and closer to perfection
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