All of us need a Confidence Boost!

by Gail B
22 replies
How can you boost your self-confidence?
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  • Profile picture of the author RogozRazvan
    By hard work

    Falling asleep at night after a busy, almost impossible day where you've done everything you could have done is the best confidence booster I know.
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    • Originally Posted by RogozRazvan View Post

      By hard work

      Falling asleep at night after a busy, almost impossible day where you've done everything you could have done is the best confidence booster I know.

      Yup, it's one of the best boosters!

      You can also boost your confidence by reading the books, "The Magic of Thinking Big", "See You At the Top" by Zig Ziglar, and "Ask and It Is Given" by Jerry and Esther Hicks over and over again, every SINGLE DAY of your life for a year. You will become a different person who naturally attracts success.


      "Success is not to be pursued, it is to be attracted by the person you become."
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  • Profile picture of the author Jonathan 2.0
    Originally Posted by Gail B View Post

    How can you boost your self-confidence?
    Decide what's important to you (knowing that you can accomplish almost anything) and then go out and do it. That will surely build your confidence and self-esteem. : ) Something else that brings me great happiness is empowering/helping other people achieve their goals in life.
    "Each problem has hidden in it an opportunity so powerful that it literally dwarfs the problem. The greatest success stories were created by people who recognized a problem and turned it into an opportunity."―Joseph Sugarman
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  • Profile picture of the author Jgowen77
    Believe you will succeed, then succeeding.
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  • Profile picture of the author Mark Singletary
    Doing what you know you should be doing and succeeding at it is one of the best confidence builders I know of.
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  • Profile picture of the author Diversion52
    I believe that the fastest quickest way to confidence is through absolute honesty. Be completely honest about who you are, about your strength and most importantly about your weakness. Confidence without honesty is smoke and mirrors. They might look impressive but they are not what they seem.

    The way I see it, the only road to true confidence and strength comes with being in touch with our inherent weakness and building from there. Opposed to building to hide the weakness.
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  • Want a fresh take on confidence? Pick up a book written by Tucker Max, 'I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell,' or 'Assholes Finish First' are two of my favs. Granted the content is extremely crude and obnoxious however the guy is quite possibly the funniest smart dude I've ever read.

    You'll get laughs, extend your vocabulary, and most certainly lose some worry in regards to boosting confidence in yourself. Warning though: Take things he says with a grain of salt. Enjoy!
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  • Profile picture of the author derricks4
    Believe in yourself. The more thoughts that you fill (or clog) your brain with of uncertainty, the less room there will be in there for you to utilize for actually becoming successful. And, trust me, you'll need all the room you can get!
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  • Profile picture of the author opportunist86
    Traveling is what helps you become hell confident. On the other hand, keep doing new things and meeting new people and making friends make you confident.
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  • Profile picture of the author Gary Ning Lo
    I believe that the best way to boost confidence in any aspect of your life is having daily goals.

    You'll also be much happier


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  • Profile picture of the author jakerobinsonvt
    A couple Muhammad Ali quotes will help...
    “Impossible is just a big word thrown around my small men who find it easier to live in the world they’ve been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It’s an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It’s a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.”


    “If they can make penicillin out of moldy bread, then they can sure make something out of you.”
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  • Profile picture of the author Gail B
    Thank you so much for all of your replies Do you have any good book suggestions?
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  • Profile picture of the author lordspace
    In order to build your confidence you must consistently discipline yourself to show courage when the inner voice tells you to quit or that you're not good enough.
    Success in one area helps you build confidence in other areas.
    Also, working out helps your brain function very nicely and it is easier to achieve that confidence.

    Read the books of: Tony Robbins, Jim Rohn, some dating books (double your dating)

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  • Profile picture of the author kungz13
    I think that's our self that we're fighting for, so it comes from our inner self, when we already defeat our limitation and then defeat the environment of our area of expertise we could get the confidence.

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  • Profile picture of the author chiukev
    Break your goals into smaller and easier to achieve steps....
    Every time you progress a step, you'll feel a little more confident.
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  • Profile picture of the author GT
    Respect for others; honesty in your actions; worthy goals that fill your needs while providing service to others; the knowledge that you are giving your best to the things you do. . .

    These will help to build your confidence. You can also set your mind to feel confident, act confidently and project an outward image of confidence. It may seem silly to do this, but it works.

    One other suggestion is to find a friendly supportive Toastmasters International club in your area and join. You will learn speaking, listening and leadership skills and as you learn and practice them in the supportive club environment, you will gain greater confidence in the bargain. You will then be able to take this benefit out of Toastmasters and into other areas of your life.


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  • Profile picture of the author Japles
    Read Read Read!

    Surround yourself with people who uplift you and motivate you!

    Find forums, blogs, websites, etc that focus on personal development.

    I am currently reading the book, "Psycho-Cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz and it is filled with dozens of gold gems that will change the way you think.

    So far it has given be great insight on how to become more positive, helpful, and just live a better life in general.

    It is definitely worth the read.

    I also love reading the blog Project Life Mastery

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    Hope this helps

    YOU are awesome :)

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  • Profile picture of the author Raydal
    I know one way to easily lose confidence is to start
    comparing yourself with others success. So I would
    say the opposite is true: do not compare yourself
    to others and you'll boost your confidence.

    There will always be people who are better, more successful,
    happier etc., even if only in your mind. So be YOUR best and
    don't worry about others.

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  • Profile picture of the author vicwic
    I think confidence starts with being realistic and positive about yourself, generally, people are a lot harder on themselves than anyone else. Start wih the small things and do them well and allow yourself to give yourself the credit you deserve (if that makes sense!). Challenge when your confidence started to lower, what/who triggered it and why you allowed it.

    I agree with reading personal development book/sites/forums, but action (albeit soul searching and writing for example) is what will fast track your confidence boost.

    Good luck!
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  • Profile picture of the author Jgowen77
    Mine took a beating today.

    I've been so hard into this the past few weeks, I think it's time for a break and a rethink.
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  • Profile picture of the author mert
    Gail, One way for boosting confidence would be to read inspirational books and stories. It would also help if you decide what’s important to you, and then go out and do it!
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  • Profile picture of the author jamese23
    A lot of people want to want to high self confidence. Well I know this may be hard to accept, but I found this ebook and it works.

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