Are you honest enough with yourself to own a Lambo?

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This is a nice fun video on how this guy made his money and how each and every person here could do the same. Also if you like cars check out the guy (Rob Himler) he is talking about.

Summary: This guy starts by ripping on Rob Himler for his "Far From It" guru book (which reviews seem to agree isn't very good). Then he explains how to be successful in real no BS terms. Basically you hold yourself back so stop doing it.

So enjoy a bit of real world advice on making money and being successful.

#honest #lambo
  • Profile picture of the author Jason Kanigan
    He makes a great point about "Nobody is going to do it for you...nobody owes you anything."

    Only YOU will care as much as you do about your business. Your significant other, your family, your friends--they will NEVER care as much as you do about your business. In fact, many of them will try to get you to blow your business activities off. Those situations are opportunities for you to show yourself just how serious you are.

    Video games...tv...booze...or the Lambo?

    "You're the reason you don't have a Lamborghini."
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  • Profile picture of the author Aaron Doud
    "You're the reason you don't have a Lamborghini."

    For a person like me who would spend 50% or more of his income on cars and not even think twice that quote hits close to home.

    I am the reason I don't own a Lambo as much as I am the reason I own a Corvette. Is being lazy more important to me than the cars? It appears so right now. But maybe I need to change my thinking.
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    it really depends on your priorities .

    aaron you look more like jaguar kind of guy than a lambo..something you can drive around and have people see you in ..
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    • Profile picture of the author Aaron Doud
      Originally Posted by Odahh View Post

      it really depends on your priorities .

      aaron you look more like jaguar kind of guy than a lambo..something you can drive around and have people see you in ..
      I am not sure I would ever buy a Lambo honestly. In that $200k+ price I would want the McLaren MP4-12C. That is just an amazing car and a supercar/hypercar you could use every day. A guy in the UK right now has a demo unit for 6 months as his daily driver. From those who have driven it for longer distances and even the few daily driver tests it sounds like it may be one of if not the best supercars ever made. All the power and fun you expect but the ride quality of a normal luxury car.

      Jags are not really my style. For that kind of Grand Tourer I would choose an Aston. But even then for usability it might just be best to get a Godzilla (Nissan GTR).

      I love to have a nice garage full of a handful of cars that were not only collectable but I could drive and enjoy. Stuff like a Corvette C4 ZR-1 (you can get these in great shape for around $20k), maybe a 90s Lotus Esprit (also around $20k), Ferrari F355 (or 328/308) and others like that where the price of entry isn't high and the chance of them going up in value is high.

      Newer Ferrari models don't interest me at all. Compared to McLaren they just are not worth it. But with enough money I would consider a Lamborghini Murcielago. They are not practical. They can't be driven all the time but there is just something about the pure insanity of driving a Lambo that even a guy like me who isn't a big fan can't help but want to experience. But I would need to have a lot of cash just sitting around before I think I would.

      There are just too many other great cars that need a home. And I want to drive them so a collection that is too big like Leno's starts to become pointless. Though as a car guy I love the fact that Leno puts his money where his heart and motor are.
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      • Profile picture of the author Scott Stevens
        Originally Posted by Aaron Doud View Post


        I love to have a nice garage full of a handful of cars that were not only collectable but I could drive and enjoy. Stuff like a Corvette C4 ZR-1 (you can get these in great shape for around $20k), maybe a 90s Lotus Esprit (also around $20k), Ferrari F355 (or 328/308) and others like that where the price of entry isn't high and the chance of them going up in value is high.

        Newer Ferrari models don't interest me at all. Compared to McLaren they just are not worth it. But with enough money I would consider a Lamborghini Murcielago. They are not practical. They can't be driven all the time but there is just something about the pure insanity of driving a Lambo that even a guy like me who isn't a big fan can't help but want to experience. But I would need to have a lot of cash just sitting around before I think I would.

        There are just too many other great cars that need a home. And I want to drive them so a collection that is too big like Leno's starts to become pointless. Though as a car guy I love the fact that Leno puts his money where his heart and motor are.
        That would be a nice garage you'd have going there, chief. And I feel the same about newer Ferraris. The newer designs have lost something.

        Sports cars/super cars/exotic cars have got to be one of the most beautiful things men have created with their bare hands. And I just love the soundtrack of an R8, Aston, Lamborghini, Ford GT, etc., and that sound whenever it whizzes past me never fails to make me shake my head in awe at the utter majesty of it. I hope if electric cars or whatever ever become mainstream, they somehow manage to recreate that sound. If it doesn't have a soundtrack, it's not going in my garage.

        Having said that, next on my list is a yellow Lotus Elise. Not much of a soundtrack (unless fitted with a sports exhaust), but drives like a go kart. Great fun drive.

        Sorry to wax on. I just love sports cars.
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  • Profile picture of the author trstore
    Thanks for sharing that video.
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  • Profile picture of the author Aaron Doud
    Art that is a big reason I believe in enjoying life now vs. saving and waiting for delayed gratification. I could die tomorrow and I want to enjoy today.

    I could live to 120 and end up living poor but the way I look at it is I grew up on welfare. If my lot in life is to end up poor again I will be fine.

    So while I have money I plan to enjoy it. if I have to eat ramen noodles when I am 70 so be it. I'd rather live full now vs. live conservatively now and then. Because as so many in the Corvette club show me. Often time people who delay life end up with too much money and too much time on their hands when they are older and can't enjoy it as much.
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    • Profile picture of the author bluecoyotemedia
      Aaron

      that is an interesting viewpoint

      I believe we as Americans are way to much into having stuff instead of understanding the real value of money


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      Originally Posted by Aaron Doud View Post

      Art that is a big reason I believe in enjoying life now vs. saving and waiting for delayed gratification. I could die tomorrow and I want to enjoy today.

      I could live to 120 and end up living poor but the way I look at it is I grew up on welfare. If my lot in life is to end up poor again I will be fine.

      So while I have money I plan to enjoy it. if I have to eat ramen noodles when I am 70 so be it. I'd rather live full now vs. live conservatively now and then. Because as so many in the Corvette club show me. Often time people who delay life end up with too much money and too much time on their hands when they are older and can't enjoy it as much.
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      • Profile picture of the author Odahh
        Originally Posted by bluecoyotemedia View Post

        Aaron

        that is an interesting viewpoint

        I believe we as Americans are way to much into having stuff instead of understanding the real value of money


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        it is actually much worse than that ..most americans let the stuff they don't have dictate their state of being and do not get much pleasure out of what they do .
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        • Profile picture of the author heavysm
          My big things are having money enough to travel (once i get my degree of course), have a nice computer for play and business, and really really nice headphones for meditation and relaxation.

          I have basically reduced my life to a bag of clothes and my computer so overall my expectations aren't too bad. Not sure how much more honest i can get than that.
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  • Profile picture of the author tjaysen70
    damn that was really cool to watch man. And so true. Really there are no shortcuts to anyplace worth going.

    But too many times we want success now, we don't want to wait, or work for it, or spend any money to invest in ourselves, no, we want the lambo now without any work or effort to get it. The only way that you will get the car that way, is if your rich daddy buys it for you. And you will not appreciate it if someone gives you a killer car, versus if you work hard at it and get it for yourself.

    So many folks today want instant riches and don't want to do anything to get there. Sorry, but it doesn't work that way. But we still see the product launches with these hyped-up sales videos that show us how easy it is to make $20,000 a day. If you just "pitch-in" $49 and buy my product, you too can make that kind of money right now. Not gonna happen people.
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  • Profile picture of the author Aaron Doud
    It's kind of funny that on a forum full of marketing people that they can be marketed to in such a simply way. They should know better that there are no easy buttons.

    But instead of learning from those who are marketing to them they hope to buy the solution.

    There is a lot of truth to the idea that the less you know the more you think you know.
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    • Profile picture of the author Odahh
      Originally Posted by Aaron Doud View Post

      It's kind of funny that on a forum full of marketing people that they can be marketed to in such a simply way. They should know better that there are no easy buttons.

      But instead of learning from those who are marketing to them they hope to buy the solution.

      There is a lot of truth to the idea that the less you know the more you think you know.
      not only that it's funny when they buy these products and get pissy about up sells and being put on mailing lists ..they just cry about getting sold stuff..

      i chalk them up to the people who whine when some rich person buys a million dollar car instead of giving it to charity ..and usually get a glossy eyed look from them when i try to explain that the people who work for the company that built the car and the companies that made the parts got paid ..and it really doesn't sink in .

      i am broke i am not poor ..even if i make no money i alway have had a roof over my head food to eat and access to a car to drive .. my computer blew up a month ago..and i got access to another one ..

      when i see someone complaining about some spending huge amounts of money for something ..my mindset as long as i remember it has been..f*** if i had the ability too make stuff i would want to make stuff that sells for a lot of money ..

      the first 35 years of my life has been a continuing process of figuring out how i wasn't meant to live by doing things opposite of the best way i should be doing them ..but with all the thing coming down the line i am putting together how i should live now to live very well for the next 100 plus years ..barring traumatic injury..

      that just to long to put off enjoying life ..plan like you will live very long live like you can get hit by a car tomorrow .

      the main reason i don't have the life i really desire to have right now.. is because until the last few months ..i never had a clear image of the life i wanted ..and why i really wanted it ..up to this point it was always just a collage of things we should want to prove to people we have made it ..

      i use to be a heavy online gamer ..it was great for coping with the shat things going on in my life then about a year and i half ago i realized something interesting ..i can start playing nearly any game with an economy ..and within the first day lock down how to make plenty of money in game to always get the stuff i needed to get to play how i wanted to play ..

      so it kind of pissed me off enough to start fixing my life ...so i could be like that out here in the real world ..(without being able to kill everything that moves )..

      right now it is easier for me to test out different things to improve my life than it is to stay the same ..even without money there are many thing i can do..

      now i am primary caretaker for my parents and my moms health is failing . now i know the life i want.. the dollar figure isn't that high ..at the start . and i have a window of a few months .. hopefully longer .. to get that worked out ..

      then i will work on getting really nice beach houses in tropical countries where i can afford to support a gardener so i can travel from place to place and eat really good food all the time ..
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  • Profile picture of the author Aaron Doud
    Odahh good luck on getting the life you want.
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  • Profile picture of the author goodtimesathome
    Thanks for this. Great stuff.
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  • Profile picture of the author Jolly Roger
    I'm honest enough with myself to not own a catchy yellow Lambo. Or any other car
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    • Profile picture of the author Aaron Doud
      Originally Posted by Jolly Roger View Post

      I'm honest enough with myself to not own a catchy yellow Lambo. Or any other car
      What do you want? What motivates you?
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      • Profile picture of the author Jolly Roger
        Originally Posted by Aaron Doud View Post

        What do you want? What motivates you?
        I want what I have

        I have childhood memories of a sweet life. Then had to learn to read time, that was a weird concept to me. Then had to go to school, learn and do things I was not interested in. Then had to enter the race, the competition. Money, stuff, stress, peers pressure, people's outlook, you name it. I'm sure you can relate.

        Took me time to understand how and why it happened and how stuck I was. Realized that if things are the way they are it's because we are keeping them so, every day. We don't question and act, we rather complain and find distraction.
        We just keep doing things like others and maybe then, when we get the chance, we dream about something else. I was not happy. No I was very unhappy.

        10 years ago I decided that it was too much and started planning the Great Escape. And got rid of my watch. 2 years ago I left my job and the city I always lived in, got rid of my cell phone and TV. Never had a car.

        Near a small village and nature I found peace. And like-minded people. Together we are building a little earthly heaven.

        That's what motivates me. I don't know how much more honest I can be with myself. Maybe by reminding you guys that we need to change the way we live because this planet cannot sustain this system. We cannot afford to wait for others to do it; they won't.

        Thank you bluecoyotemedia for the article, very insightful. I disagree with his point on self-help books though. I wonder what kind of self-help he did use. Self-help was a key source of inspiration to me, and helped me getting rid of pretty much everything else on his list (oh, I kept my bed )

        "Find yourself, do what you love, work hard, be happy." he says. I agree! How else than through helping yourself taking action?

        Thank you Aaron for the thread and share
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