TRUE LIFE STORIES - why?

by seeyou
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The Boy you punched today in the hall, committed suicide few minutes ago.

The guy you dumped today, loved yo u with his life. That girl you called a slut today in class is still a virgin.

The boy you called lazy, has to work every night to support his family. The girl you called fat today is starving.

The old Man you made fun of because of his ugly scars, He fought for your country.

The 17yrs old girl you see carrying her baby she was raped at 13.....
you think you know them??? Guess what??? You don't......

You never know what people are going through,, so pause and think before u s»tart judging, criticizing or mocking others.....

Everybody is fighting their own unique war you can only help them or let them be......

Here is my story------

People tend to miss judge me never knowing who I am, how I survive, how I feel, my health condition etc. all to make things workout for the better for those who do not care and to those who pretend they care. That is my story. what is yours?

Isaac Ezeoma
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    stop caring about what people who have no place in your life think about you ...

    the boy who made fun of you in the hallway..wa getting beaten by his father ..or was made to not feel good enough ..many of the people who will look sidways at the way you are are trying to hide the way they are.

    I am open to ideas for ways i can improve ..but if you just want to try and make me feel bad about the way i am ...I am not in the business of fixing myself to appeal to you .

    granted at this point it is only family who hasn't gotten it yet ..but my mom is my mom ..the only strangers i deal with anymore are on positive terms .

    care about being you and being a better version of you ..and people will be fine with it ..walk around treating yourself like a defective machine with a bunch of different things to fix..people will point out the broken stuff.
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    • Profile picture of the author seeyou
      We are here to care and help those we can. Even when they do not care about you. The pc you use today was created by someone or group who cares about others.

      The cat you drive, the aircraft, train, jobs you do.

      So the more you care the more you get.
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      • Profile picture of the author Odahh
        Originally Posted by seeyou View Post

        We are here to care and help those we can. Even when they do not care about you. The pc you use today was created by someone or group who cares about others.

        The cat you drive, the aircraft, train, jobs you do.

        So the more you care the more you get.
        the more i care for me and only deal with those who our intoraction is net gain for both.. the more i get what i want .

        it is not my place in this world to do the caring for them that they are fully able to do for themselves ..while i go without getting thing i need taken care of that i am fully able to take care of myself ..unless of course i am paying them while i take care of something far more rewarding to address
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        • Profile picture of the author seeyou
          Originally Posted by Odahh View Post

          the more i care for me and only deal with those who our intoraction is net gain for both.. the more i get what i want .

          it is not my place in this world to do the caring for them that they are fully able to do for themselves ..while i go without getting thing i need taken care of that i am fully able to take care of myself ..unless of course i am paying them while i take care of something far more rewarding to address
          Someone once said people who cares about others tend to produce higher quality work than those driven by self.
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    there is no I in team ..but there is an M and an E for ME
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    • Judgement is the root of all evil.

      So, Isaac, you are right about not knowing what others are going through. How can we judge anyone?

      LLS

      By the way, have you ever looked up the meaning of the name, Issac? "Laughter" or "one who makes me laugh". Very nice!
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      • Profile picture of the author seeyou
        Originally Posted by LastingLifeSuccess View Post

        Judgement is the root of all evil.

        So, Isaac, you are right about not knowing what others are going through. How can we judge anyone?

        LLS

        By the way, have you ever looked up the meaning of the name, Issac? "Laughter" or "one who makes me laugh". Very nice!
        Lol(you funny), thanks for that fun. I have seen a case of a lady who is trying to make a living honestly but people tend to judge her roughly due to her mistakes in the past.

        Due to that she has no friends or people to confined in. One day I meet her so quite all alone where a lot of people are there but no one wanting to talk to her. I studied her and walk up to her and made some fun comic she laugh and smilied. for days she has been in that camp she had never laugh and smilied.

        I then ask her for a shot(picture taking) together. After some days we had left the camp I was very busy then, then I saw the picture we took in my notebook. I had to call her some days later to chat I noticed what was the course of her loneliness and I was so amazed.

        Months later I had a seroius chalange I had called all the people I had know but no one was able to solve the problem I need to had done for a client webdevelopment I was 3 days to present the client project also due to he was reffired by a client I had worked for I could not could afford to dissapoint the client you reffred him to me and the client who I had to present the project to. I was so confussed and had ran out of options.

        I decided to take a nap and see what to do on the day of the presentation of the project.

        After I took the nap, then went to my room where I do most of my work I saw the picture of that lady I had saw in camp I took on the screen showing as slides from a software called web shot. I went through my contact notebook and I got her tell number.

        I called her and she could hardly remeber me. I reintroduced my self and she shotted and laughed aloud over the phone.

        I chatted a while asking about are well being and she was happy to share.

        I asked her some few questions and she answered very well. I told her of the problem facing me. She laugh again and said she can help me out. I gave her the info she needed she gave me an very important insite.

        I was so amazed then i implimented the information she had provided and the problem was solved.

        On the day of the presentation. I contacted the client to findout our medium of meeting. He decided me meet face to face. I presented his project I noticed he was quite for a while. In my mind I hope all is well.

        Suddendly he shouted WOW!!!(3 times) and he said a great job. After weeks later he called me and said I have 3 more jobs for you. Then I was down health wise for 2 weeks due to stress and less sleep. I was advice to stay off work and any other thing that will cause stress and sleep more.

        I told the client and he waited for me to recover. I got the job and I am currently on the job as I speek.

        So this story is how carry for others can make an impact on you.

        That why I always say "For Every Impact There Is An Equal OR Opposite Reimpact."

        FEel free to contact me I will be of great joy to help you out.

        Via facebook or twitter please google "Isaac Ezeoma" or bb pin(267E428F) or on warriorforum check my profile for means to reach me.

        Please let help to make an impact possitivly by carring for others and helping them to help others.

        Care for others and you will be carried for.
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  • Profile picture of the author esuresh
    Originally Posted by seeyou View Post

    The Boy you punched today in the hall, committed suicide few minutes ago.

    The guy you dumped today, loved yo u with his life. That girl you called a slut today in class is still a virgin.

    The boy you called lazy, has to work every night to support his family. The girl you called fat today is starving.

    The old Man you made fun of because of his ugly scars, He fought for your country.

    The 17yrs old girl you see carrying her baby she was raped at 13.....
    you think you know them??? Guess what??? You don't......

    You never know what people are going through,, so pause and think before u s»tart judging, criticizing or mocking others.....

    Everybody is fighting their own unique war you can only help them or let them be......

    Here is my story------

    People tend to miss judge me never knowing who I am, how I survive, how I feel, my health condition etc. all to make things workout for the better for those who do not care and to those who pretend they care. That is my story. what is yours?

    Isaac Ezeoma

    I agree fully with you. I am being judged by my appearance, not by who I am. I cannot do anything in this world other than sit in my room and work on a laptop, because people will spit and laugh the moment they see me. Do they know how my appearance became like this. No.. no one knows. There are two persons who know.. even they are not different. I know I will have to live like this and there is no other go... what can we do.
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  • Profile picture of the author RockNRolla
    My story is I've had a pretty easy, uneventful, healthy life. I sometimes wonder what everyone else is on with all the drama and problems they have, suppose people just love attention and will do whatever it takes to get it. Or maybe I've just been fortunate so far.
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    • Profile picture of the author RichBeck
      Originally Posted by RockNRolla View Post

      My story is I've had a pretty easy, uneventful, healthy life. I sometimes wonder what everyone else is on with all the drama and problems they have, suppose people just love attention and will do whatever it takes to get it. Or maybe I've just been fortunate so far.
      RockNRolla,

      There is a huge difference between drama and people really facing challenges.... Drama is overreacting to inconsequential events...... Challenges are real problems...

      Real problems...

      The woman you loved for decades.... Turns out to not be the woman you thought she was... You have to divorce her...

      Your father is diagnosed with terminal cancer.... and slowly dies before your eyes....

      Your son is near death... and needs chemotherapy and surgery to save his life...

      I think you get the picture....

      If you have not had these types of challenges.... You are a truly blessed man....

      All The Best,

      Rich Beck BCIP, MCSD, MCIS
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  • Profile picture of the author bluecoyotemedia
    Isaac

    very strange post!!!

    I think you need

    and dont take this the wrong way

    but you need to stop looking for your belly button and focus on the things you want and move towards them

    create your own reality my friend

    good luck

    Eddie

    ps I see your also from NYC this could also be a major problem. you see NYC is one of those most crowded yet lonely places in the U.S.

    I lived in Queens and Manhattan for most of my adult live and I will never forget. I lived in a coop building with about 150 tenants. on my floor alone there were 30 people living. Living there for years and never knowing people that were less than a few feet away. one day my neighbor died. she was 86 and I never knew who she was. crazy when you think about it. get out of the city!!!





    Originally Posted by seeyou View Post

    The Boy you punched today in the hall, committed suicide few minutes ago.

    The guy you dumped today, loved yo u with his life. That girl you called a slut today in class is still a virgin.

    The boy you called lazy, has to work every night to support his family. The girl you called fat today is starving.

    The old Man you made fun of because of his ugly scars, He fought for your country.

    The 17yrs old girl you see carrying her baby she was raped at 13.....
    you think you know them??? Guess what??? You don't......

    You never know what people are going through,, so pause and think before u s»tart judging, criticizing or mocking others.....

    Everybody is fighting their own unique war you can only help them or let them be......

    Here is my story------

    People tend to miss judge me never knowing who I am, how I survive, how I feel, my health condition etc. all to make things workout for the better for those who do not care and to those who pretend they care. That is my story. what is yours?

    Isaac Ezeoma
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  • Profile picture of the author Jonathan 2.0
    Good reminder seeyou. You never know how your actions will affect another person. Here's a true story which illustrates this:


    "Mark was walking home from school one day when he noticed the boy ahead of him had tripped and dropped all of the books he was carrying, along with two sweaters, a baseball bat, a glove and a small tape recorder. Mark knelt down and helped the boy pick up the scattered articles. Since they were going the same way, he helped to carry part of the burden. As they walked Mark discovered the boy's name was Bill, that he loved video games, baseball and history, and that he was having lots of trouble with his other subjects and that he had just broken up with his girlfriend.

    They arrived at Bill's home first and Mark was invited in for a Coke and to watch some television. The afternoon passed pleasantly with a few laughs and some shared small talk, then Mark went home. They continued to see each other around school, had lunch together once or twice, then both graduated from junior high school. They ended up in the same high school where they had brief contacts over the years. Finally the long awaited senior year came and three weeks before graduation, Bill asked Mark if they could talk.

    Bill reminded him of the day years ago when they had first met. "Did you ever wonder why I was carrying so many things home that day?" asked Bill. "You see, I cleaned out my locker because I didn't want to leave a mess for anyone else. I had stored away some of my mothers sleeping pills and I was going home to commit suicide. But after we spent some time together talking and laughing, I realized that if I had killed myself, I would have missed that time and so many others that might follow. So you see, Mark, when you picked up those books that day, you did a lot more, you saved my life."

    -John W. Schlatter
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  • Profile picture of the author Gary Ning Lo
    Stop caring about haters...

    Ignore them and focus on living a happy life.

    Cheers,

    Gary
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  • Profile picture of the author IamBaksi
    Hey there.

    I agree that we shouldn't judge others. But really can you control what others think about you? Are you really going to let what others think of you affect your happiness? By no means am I saying this theoretically.

    I've suffered from a plethora of mental illness, OCD, GAD, MD. And at one point wanted to end my life.

    Point is live your life happy. It doesn't matter what others think about you, all it matters is what you think about yourself.

    Take care

    Caleb Prince
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