You Are Creating Your Own Reality...

Yes we are not asking with words. We are all creating our 'circumstances' in life by what we are choosing to focus on. If we complain about anything and the more we complain about anything is like shooting yourself.

It will just keep what ever is happening to us coming back.

Then you might try to rid yourself of these erroneous thoughts, but the law of attraction can also haunt you.

It can bring you more negative thoughts.

The ONLY thing that ever worked for me was 'Acceptance'.

This does not mean that if you find yourself in an undesirable situation that you should try to convince yourself that you like it.

What I mean is to be honest with yourself that sometimes in life you can not get your self out of a problem on your own and when you accept the situation fully by saying something to yourself like this...

I am in this situation and it really sucks but in this moment in time, right now I can not do anything about it just yet.

So I accept it fully.

A lesson is repeated until it is learned.

Although most things that we do not like can be in our experience for a reason...
maybe we are not learning something that we should be learning.

I used to try to get out of the situation by finding something that makes me feel better but then the seeming problems would keep coming back.

Now when I encounter any problem, the first thing that I do is ask myself - what is this person or situation trying to tell my about myself?

We are where we are and who we are because that's what we want. I know genetics and how we were raised plays a role but truly we are in control of our destiny. In a country with opportunity and freedom to change things,we are exactly where we want to be or we would be some where else. We could discuss this topic for hours with all the different details and exceptions to the rule but it still boils down to who and what we want to be and are we willing to pay the price for happiness and success and not make excuses.. Simple but true in my opinion.