How to get what you want: first 3 days...
Day one: figuring out where we want to go?
Ok first things first.
In order to get what you want you're first of all have to know what it is you want.
Most people have no clue.
They drift aimlessly like a lost ship, letting the sea of life take them where it may.
Does that sound like you?
Well it's time to stop drifting a start charting a course. But where to?
Have a think about that for second? Where would you like to go?
Where would you like to end up?
Think about it today.
Make sure it's something that you want and not what your parents want or your friends or colleagues old approve of.
This is your dream and your destination.
You have to live there and no one else. So **** everyone else and what they think.
Have a think.
Day 2 what I would if the world was not watching?
Ask yourself this...
What would you do if no one cared and if no one was watching?
Where world you go and how would you spend your day?
The reason I ask this is because most of us are afraid.
Afraid the judgements of others.
If you have judgemental parents this can something that keeps you trapped. The fear of what other people may think of you is tied up with the energy of the past. When we were children, criticism from a parent is very threatening. The energy is shut down and avoided. We the grow up afraid of this energy of criticism and rejection when it comes from other people. Being aware of this is enough to start break the cycle.
So back to your original idea.
Spend today asking yourself what you would do if there we no one there watching and if there was no judgement at all. This is what you need to do, to move forward in life. To thrive.
This is what you really want.
Day 3 just a perfect day
I love that song, don't you?
Today we are going to us our imagination. We are going to use it to guide us to where we want to go.
We are going to use it to give us an idea of what we want.
Here's why...
Many of us are used to thinking analytically. When we do this our imagination becomes like a tiered bum on the side of the street. It doesn't want to do anything anymore. It wants to sit there and languish. Maybe beg to survive or collect welfare.
And who would have thought this tired muscle of imagination would hold the key to us achieving everything we want.
Let's put that bum to work.
Here goes...
We are going to let our imagination paint a picture for us today of what we want to achieve.
Take a moment today to sit in a quiet room. Shut the door and turn off the lights.
Now take a moment and think about what your perfect day would be like?
You need to make this as detailed possible. Fit every little details you can in there about this experience of your day.
Ask yourself the following questions....
What time would you wake up?
When would you get out of bed?
What country are you in?
Who are you with?
What's for breakfast?
What activities take up your day?
Make sure you inject as much joy as possible into this exercise.
After all, joy is the goal of life. Let your imagination run wild, don't place any limits on what you can have.
After all, if you aim for the stars, you might just hit the moon.
Ok first things first.
In order to get what you want you're first of all have to know what it is you want.
Most people have no clue.
They drift aimlessly like a lost ship, letting the sea of life take them where it may.
Does that sound like you?
Well it's time to stop drifting a start charting a course. But where to?
Have a think about that for second? Where would you like to go?
Where would you like to end up?
Think about it today.
Make sure it's something that you want and not what your parents want or your friends or colleagues old approve of.
This is your dream and your destination.
You have to live there and no one else. So **** everyone else and what they think.
Have a think.
Day 2 what I would if the world was not watching?
Ask yourself this...
What would you do if no one cared and if no one was watching?
Where world you go and how would you spend your day?
The reason I ask this is because most of us are afraid.
Afraid the judgements of others.
If you have judgemental parents this can something that keeps you trapped. The fear of what other people may think of you is tied up with the energy of the past. When we were children, criticism from a parent is very threatening. The energy is shut down and avoided. We the grow up afraid of this energy of criticism and rejection when it comes from other people. Being aware of this is enough to start break the cycle.
So back to your original idea.
Spend today asking yourself what you would do if there we no one there watching and if there was no judgement at all. This is what you need to do, to move forward in life. To thrive.
This is what you really want.
Day 3 just a perfect day
I love that song, don't you?
Today we are going to us our imagination. We are going to use it to guide us to where we want to go.
We are going to use it to give us an idea of what we want.
Here's why...
Many of us are used to thinking analytically. When we do this our imagination becomes like a tiered bum on the side of the street. It doesn't want to do anything anymore. It wants to sit there and languish. Maybe beg to survive or collect welfare.
And who would have thought this tired muscle of imagination would hold the key to us achieving everything we want.
Let's put that bum to work.
Here goes...
We are going to let our imagination paint a picture for us today of what we want to achieve.
Take a moment today to sit in a quiet room. Shut the door and turn off the lights.
Now take a moment and think about what your perfect day would be like?
You need to make this as detailed possible. Fit every little details you can in there about this experience of your day.
Ask yourself the following questions....
What time would you wake up?
When would you get out of bed?
What country are you in?
Who are you with?
What's for breakfast?
What activities take up your day?
Make sure you inject as much joy as possible into this exercise.
After all, joy is the goal of life. Let your imagination run wild, don't place any limits on what you can have.
After all, if you aim for the stars, you might just hit the moon.
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