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Very need advice on book

by DennyTernt
2 replies
Hello,
I need advice on a nlp books which can help me to improve my communication.
I fail to open a conversation or maintain a conversation.
Even if I ran into group of my classmates I graduated together, we just say hi to each other, I ask a few boring questions, they answer, and my communication is over, so they start talking to each other, and I don't now how to join to their conversation.
So i need book which help me to open/maintain and join conversation and make friends.
#advice #book #books #nlp
  • Profile picture of the author abdovic
    Practice in front of a mirror so you have to watch yourself. It worked for me. I have taught classes in math and electronics and I couldn't even answer questions in the fifth grade I was so shy
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  • Profile picture of the author Diversion52
    The goal shouldn't be to be able to simply talk to your friends but to connect with them. People put too much pressure on the ability to just being able to talk fluently with no hesitation. Some people do this very well by talking about the weather, sports or current events, but this doesn't necessarily mean that their building any kind of rapport or connection.

    What is it that you're trying to accomplish? If your happy to see a friend after a long time, clearly express that to them. Be interested in what they have to say. If there's one thing that people like to talk about, it is themselves. Use this to get the pressure of yourself holding up the entire conversation. Listen to what they say and find something that you connect with, and continue from there.

    This is how connection is made. Express your feelings, be interested in the other person and listen. This is the key to a fruitful conversation.
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