I think it is now safe to say that I've FINALLY made the transition from a life of hard work - even though one laden with a lot of success and activity - to what can only be called a "charmed life".
Things are effortless now. In Flow. And when they occur - when I get the money; when I receive that hug; when I have that sex; when I live my life - they occur SO much more meaningfully and powerfully than I could have ever imagined.
It is actually hard to put what the experience is like into words. I am going to give you an inkling of it though, and tell you EXACTLY what I did, so that you will give it a shot too, and see how you go. If this does not put your "Law of Attraction" quotient on freakin' overdrive, I don't know what will.
Just give it a try. Trust me on this. Trust in the process. And let me know how things change for you on this thread over the coming months (and hopefully years).
Not too long ago, I was involved in a near-fatal car crash. Going through something like this gives you an incredible perspective on life, and how - no matter how outwardly "successful" you are - everything is in reality fleeting, given to you as a LOAN.
At any point in time, your home, your loved ones, your children, the money that you worked so hard for - life itself - can be taken away from you.
What matters in the end is whether you savored all the blessings you have been given to the last drop, without taking anything for granted, and ultimately, whether you returned all your blessings back, and nurtured back the very things that nurtured you. What matters in the end is whether you shared your Heart powerfully and passionately enough.
And it all starts with a paradoxical mixture of being in a state of profound gratitude, and NON-attachment.
Here's what I do, and ever since I've been doing this, things seem to manifest SO much more powerfully in my life when I visualize a certain outcome, or ask for a certain opportunity or blessing to come my way. It's really bizarre and uncanny how it works, but I think I've finally learned what it means to ask in a spirit of "Non-Attachment".
Here's what I now do, before I go to sleep every night.
I meditate, and connect with the Universe/YHWH/Tao/Allah or whatever you wish to call the All-Parent, and DEEPLY thank It for giving me everything: My home, my wife, my children, my businesses, my parents, my car. I then offer all these things that I hold dear to my heart BACK to the Universe, knowing that they aren't really "mine"; they are a loan. I visualize that my home has totally burned down, and my loved ones were taken from me, and resting with God; that the roof over my head no longer exists, and I go to sleep a poor man.
The next day when I wake up, I start with profound gratitude for still having all the above to last me another day, and promise not to take this loan renewal for granted.
When I do this, I am filled with indescribable love for those and the things I hold dear, and take nothing for granted. It puts me in a place of deep mindfulness, and I feel like I am coming out of an "autopilot" mode of existence, to where I am very actively present and engaged, observing the resultant growth and joy of those around me whose lives I touch.
And, when I sit down and attempt to visualize an outcome, I am finding that I am doing this less and less from a place of EGO, and more and more from a place where I KNOW even if the thing manifests successfully, it won't be "mine", but really, just the Universe expressing its creativity through me. So, I exercise thrill on the Universe's behalf, without allowing my ego to attach itself to the idea of "mine".
Things manifest SO much more powerfully this way. Try it and see!