How compatibility and success and incompatibility and failure go hand in hand

by bchai
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How much does incompatibility matter and how can it affect your life?

Today I would like to write about how incompatibility can affect our life

Definition of Incompatibility
So what type of incompatibility am I referring to?
There are many types of incompatibilities...I can be incompatible with my girlfriend or significant other, I can be incompatible with a certain type of food, I can be incompatible with a certain method of doing something, or a multitude of other things.
There are many types of incompatibilities and this article will not focus on anything in specific

Avoiding things in your life you're incompatible with will make your life a LOT easier
This is the argument that I would like to focus on in this article.
Let me ask you this...
Have you ever had a girlfriend or boyfriend that didn't "work out"? No matter how hard you tried, you just couldn't make it work. Maybe they tried hard as well but had the same result. If you're the one that did the "breaking up" you may have even used the "compatibility" clause as your reason. "We're just not compatible" you may have said to the other person. Sometimes you even may have developed feelings for that person or been in Love with them, but even that wasn't enough to break the "compatibility" curse. No matter what you or the other person did...you just weren't compatible...and nothing could ever change that.
Sound familiar?
So here's my proposed fix...
Why even waste your time trying? Avoid getting into that relationship all together. Notice the signs from the beginning and listen to your "natural" instincts.
I feel that far too many people "settle" for the wrong person because either they're not patient enough or they're scared that they'll never find the right person.
Even though it's hard, I'm here to say...Wait! You'll be glad you did.
Take your time...and choose wisely.

What if I'm forced to stay in a situation
So here's where things get tricky.
What if you're in a situation with which you're incompatible but you really don't have a choice in the matter?
Let me give you an example...

The Story of the Bad Professor
I'm going to call this the story of the Bad professor
I am currently enrolled in 4 college courses this semester at my local college.
All of the classes I'm taking this semester are online classes as opposed to traditional classroom learning.
My college uses a system called Desire to Learn. >>> Finish reading this article at How much does incompatibility matter and how can it affect your life?
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    What if I’m forced to stay in a situation? Being in a class with a bad professor. The short answer is learn to turn lemons into lemonade. Ask yourself, "What do I need to learn from this?" The answers can vary immensely. Get this down and your life changes.
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    Toby Jensen - Invest in what works this time

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