Do you divide your BIG goals?

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I recently read a post in another forum where the person was asking how to stick with her long term goals she wanted to accomplish over the course of the next year or so. I crafted a reply that i though the Warrior Forum crew might benefit from or like so i decided to post it here for you all to see.

The question becomes, do you guys divide your bigger goals into smaller chunks to get momentum?

Here is my original post from the success vibe forum.
Rock On!
Les

In my experience nothing motivates like success. If your goals are all long term (goals for your year as you mentioned) that leaves long spans of time between starting and accomplishing. The concept of "should" is fueled by the idea that what you are working toward is far in the future. "Must" arises from immediacy, and immediacy is reinforced by having a series of smaller goals with shorter time spans between them. Accomplish the first in that series, and you begin to build momentum that can put you "in state" as it were. You can begin to build momentum by breaking your long term goal into a series of steps, such as quarterly. Then once you accomplish the first step, that will give you some much needed confidence to know you can do the same with the remaining 3 steps.

In the simplest analogy, lets say it is your goal to save $4000. cash to use as a downpayment for a new car. Rather than making one goal to save $4000 in the year, make it your goal to save $1000 in the next three months. If you save $167 every 2 weeks you are there. ($167 is roughly equal to dining out 4 times) so all of a sudden you know you can do it. By doing this you are simply dividing a larger goal of saving $4000 into a series of saving 167 bucks. Save that small amount once and then you build the certainty that you can reach the end of your year with the goal achieved.

As you progress along your path to your goals, remember to focus on your ideal desired result with the belief that you will get there. Doing so will allow you to recognize the "Hows" when they show up along the way. Pounce on a few of those unexpected "Hows" and you begin to find more. These moments can be exciting jewels in your goal setting life.

Best wishes to your highest success!
Les

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ps [I'd love to hear any comments or input on this subject! thanks.]
#goal setting #goals
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    • Profile picture of the author LesGoodrich
      Originally Posted by Jassen View Post

      I live entirely on a short-term basis. I learned a long time ago that having big, long-term goals and projects hanging over my head is mentally exhausting, and leads to zero achievement. A shrink would probably tell me this is a mental problem, because my "analysis paralysis" creates so much anxiety that it truly is socially impairing.

      Therefore, I operate my six figure per year business with an extremely short term focus. Examples:
      I don't do multi-week product launches: I do them in like 4 days.
      I wrote and self-published several books last year: The longest one took me 7 days to write, edit, proof, and publish.
      When I come up for an idea for a new lead generation campaign or traffic strategy to test, I pretty much have to create it and start the test the same day, or it just never happens.
      For my monthly membership site, I create all of the monthly content (including a printed and mailed physical newsletter) all in one day each month.

      I probably take it to an extreme in other areas of my life. For example, I have not lived in the same place for longer than 6 months for the past several years. Most places it's only about 3 months. I've reached the point where I perpetually "keep my options" open. And I'm not talking about just moving from one apartment to another -- I'm talking about jumping around between states and even countries.
      wow awesome. Thanks for the reply. Moving around like that can be good. Reminds me of a quote from the movie "Two Lane Blacktop" when GTO said "I go from one side of this country to the other, get to one end & bounce right back to the other side." Rock on!
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    Hi LG,

    I set monstrous goals. Then I forget about the goals, meaning I keep present to detach from outcomes.

    After setting a monstrous goal I feel the elation of the goal being manifest. Then I let go.

    I attract in the moment, step by step instructions to reach the goal or manifest the monstrous dream....I do not fear the dream or goal as being too big - it is just a bunch of little energy waves in my mind lol - and I do not worry much about its manifestation, cause although I know the steps to take I have no clue in hell HOW these steps will lead to the dream becoming real.

    Which is why I have fun

    So I never divide up my dreams or goals because then I will just be depriving the massive dream of its power, and if I divied up my dreams I would avoid doing the freeing but highly uncomfortable steps which would ultimately lead in that general direction.

    Thanks for asking!

    RB
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    • Profile picture of the author wwidman
      I think having the "long-term" goals are good for keeping us heading in the right general direction. But they can also start to feel out of reach and impossible to achieve. It's the short-term goals and small successes that will keep you focused and motivated to keep moving towards the long-term goals.

      Namaste
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      • Profile picture of the author mileagefan
        Good topic, Les, and I like the answer you posted.

        A big, long-term goal without smaller, actionable steps along the way seems more like a wish or dream to me. I find that succeeding with my larger goals is more likely if I break it down into smaller goals that I can accomplish on the way towards my larger goal.

        Not only do I enjoy the sense of accomplishment and gratification that comes with achieving a smaller goal, but I find it helpful to visualize the steps needed to accomplish the larger goal.

        John
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        • Profile picture of the author LesGoodrich
          Originally Posted by mileagefan View Post

          Good topic, Les, and I like the answer you posted.

          A big, long-term goal without smaller, actionable steps along the way seems more like a wish or dream to me. I find that succeeding with my larger goals is more likely if I break it down into smaller goals that I can accomplish on the way towards my larger goal.

          Not only do I enjoy the sense of accomplishment and gratification that comes with achieving a smaller goal, but I find it helpful to visualize the steps needed to accomplish the larger goal.

          John
          Exactly John! Great input. I think Mike Dooley said (paraphrased) "If you currently drive a Toyota, you would do better to visualize yourself in a Mercedes. Still have the Lamborghini on your list of cars to own someday, but know you will have others along the way, and set your goals in stages to build momentum." http://espressoforyourgoals.com
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    • Profile picture of the author LesGoodrich
      Originally Posted by ryanbiddulph View Post

      Hi LG,

      After setting a monstrous goal I feel the elation of the goal being manifest. Then I let go.

      I attract in the moment, step by step instructions to reach the goal or manifest the monstrous dream....I do not fear the dream or goal as being too big - it is just a bunch of little energy waves in my mind lol - and I do not worry much about its manifestation, cause although I know the steps to take I have no clue in hell HOW these steps will lead to the dream becoming real.

      Which is why I have fun

      So I never divide up my dreams or goals because then I will just be depriving the massive dream of its power, and if I divied up my dreams I would avoid doing the freeing but highly uncomfortable steps which would ultimately lead in that general direction.

      Thanks for asking!

      RB
      Outstanding. You are obviously at a high level in your Attraction management. I do this also, but i think when i was starting out in the world of deliberate creation, i benefited from smaller goals. Once you get to the level you describe, those step-by-step hows you speak of start popping up all around you. That is an awesome feeling when you first realize it. That's when you begin to believe that you can do anything! thanks for your perspective. It is amazing how two opposite viewpoints can BOTH be right. So maybe break up into smaller goals for the beginner (or if it is something radically new to you) then as you progress just go for huge goals and release them, then step right into the Allowing stage. Great, thanks again!
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      • Profile picture of the author momentsofmagic
        In NLP we all breaking goals into smaller pieces "chunking down". In my opinion a great balance is to set the overall goal you want to achieve and imagine what it will be like in the future to achieve that goal. Imagine what you will see, hear and feel when you have achieved it. It can then be useful to imagine backwards from that future point, every step you took to achieve the goal, working backwards in time until you get to today. Then write down all the steps you imagined you took to make the goal a reality and this can become a basic chunked down roadmap of what you need to do. Of course, you can adjust your activities and behaviours along the way and calibrate whether each activity contributes to achieving your goal or leads you away from doing so.

        I think I'll create a morning meditation for this purpose. It would probably be good for people to think about their overall goals and what they need to do TODAY to move towards them.

        "How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time."

        Cheers,
        Al
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  • Profile picture of the author albertolifeder
    Actually it is very important to divide the goals in 1)Long term goals 2)medium-term and short term.
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