They Don't Really Care About You

This is true. Don't succeed for anyone else or to prove something, because they don't really give a shit anyway. People have their own problems and don't care if you succeed or not. Do it for you. Some will follow. Most will keep living their shitty lives. It doesn't matter because it was never about them. It was always about you.

I'm not saying be selfish. Give as much as you can because that's what an amazing person would do, and giving is actually receiving.

You are correct for 95% of the time.
Especially when it comes to "Jobs"

Most corporations will even give you the artificial sense of success. Sure you might make a lot of money. Are you making a lot of money because you are successful? or Making a lot of money because you are a good slave that makes them bucket loads more?

Agreed!

However, if you flip this round you have the key to a successful business.

"They" don't care about you.

but in most cases:

"You" don't care about them.

I am speaking generally of course and not to the OP.

When you start caring about "them" they will start caring too.

Once you get to a place where you care - you will give MORE of yourself and RECEIVE more back too.

Chris

You need to understand that this is YOUR LIFE and no one else's.

When you have a job, the company and its leaders don't care about you or your needs. They care about themselves and make you believe that they do care about you.

Many of us know that you need to take care of yourself and your family needs.

Time waits for nobody and 10-20 years from now you will regret all the opportunities that you passed up and you will regret the times when you let fear control you. Don't worry about what others say because everybody has their opinion and the only opinion that matters is your own.

Look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself, "Who do I want to be and what do I want to do?"

Do you want to be the person that everybody else says you should be or do you want to be the person that you know you are?

Nice post.

You are the most important person on this planet. Love yourself and be the best you can be now.

Cheers,

C.G.

we spend a lot of time worrying about what people think of us.. the problem is the only time they think of us is to wonder wheat we are thinking of them.

they only care about you ..when it comes to what you can do for them ...

there is a realativly small number of people you can do something for and 7 billion others you who are extras on the stage of life .

I agree part of you. But no totally. I think that just like love, you may need to give your 100%. If you only give 50%, then when your partner only give you 45%. Then your relationship will have problem. So my point is right, they may not really care about you, but first you need to care about them, so they will care back you.

There can only be winners if there are losers.

A winner can only self-realize when he decides to separate from losers.

Winners will always be a minority, and for this they are doubly blessed.

The worst mistake I made in my life was hoping to be a winner while associating with losers - and hoping that others might want good things for me when hoping and wanting is not achieving, not doing.

I have been accused of being selfish for wanting to succeed in life. That is how deep the aggressive loser mentality of society goes.

They love to call you selfish when they are comparing themselves to you, but will never dream of calling you selfish if you're helping them. This is why I like business. When I help someone and they pay me money, they are not only thanking me but acknowledging what I have done for THEM, not just for myself.

True -

I really like a quote I read (maybe here? Can't remember ) -

"Don't let people live inside your head rent-free".

If someone isn't adding value to my life or my mind at this point, I want nothing to do with them. Even having them in my thoughts is costing me time and money, and when I push them out, it's like flapping my mental wings so I can rise even higher.

Some people will never shake the weight off their wings and that's why most people are still on the ground.

This is true.

I remember my colleague telling me, a few days after I almost died, that if I indeed had, it's not as if the business would've closed. They would've just hired someone else.

Most "care" merely because of the shock if it "hits close to home." But no, I think you'll find that few care, not even friends.

This is to say that most are consumed with their own lives and the trivialities in it. The only people that care are usually the ones we most take for granted.

I am the type of person that would fly across the country with a moment's notice for a friend in need. I'd like to believe my friends would do the same, but I've never tested that. And, I have at times, been disappointed.

This is one reason why the corporate life wasn't for me. I felt like a drone living inside the movie Office Space. "So what would you say you do here?" "I told you, I deal with the G****** customers!"

That's one reason I opened my mind to other ways to earn money. I wanted freedom and peace. I wanted to be able to see the outdoors more and appreciate the small things.