6 Types of People Who Do Not Deserve to Hear Your Shame Story

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You share with people who have earned the right to hear your story.

Joe Mobley
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  • Profile picture of the author Matthew Trujillo
    Sometimes you can't share stories with people because they will just do you no good. That sadly is even sometimes your own family and friends, especially when it comes to internet marketing. I've learned that the people that want to learn from me will do so, if not that I should not waste any time on anybody that doesn't get it. Only people who deserve your time shall get it, and you won't find these people by chasing people around!
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  • Profile picture of the author AliPali
    I saw this clip on YT and I instantly purchased the book on kindle, it confirmed to me why there are certain peoplei just don't feel comfortable opening up to. I hate those people who just look at your vulnerability as weakness.
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  • Profile picture of the author Rory Singh
    They say that 97% of the people who come into this industry fail.

    Is that really true?

    I believe that 97% don't really get started. Yes I know that's a very bold statement but here's what I mean...

    I believe that everyone can and will succeed if they do one thing...

    Go all out!

    Most people are not willing to do this because 'one' thing...

    The Fear of Shame.

    Most people are not afraid of failing, they are afraid of the shame, fingers being pointing at them.
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    does anyone really deserve to have you shovel your shame story on them

    the time people deserve it is if they are in a position where crap might get stirred up ..

    but we are in the age of operah where people are encouraged to be vulnerable and fragile.. and you are in the wrong if somone tell you their problem and you offer solutions ..or a blank stare because you do not understand ..

    no one deserves to have your crap dumped on them ..just because you need someone to dump crap on ..now if you have someone who is there to dump crap on when you need to dump crap..and you are there when they need it ..

    but their are way to many crap dumping machines out their .. who dump the same crap on everyone but never do anything about it ..and are no help to anyone else .

    be aware of why you need to tell someone something and what you really expect from them
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    • Profile picture of the author AliPali
      Everyone needs someone.

      A shame storm doesn't necessarily need to be something big it could be something simple like asking someone to look over your CV there are some people who will look down on you even for that "omg she can't even do a CV look at mine it's fabulous" or something big like your had an affair some people would be like "omg I can't believe you done that I can never look at you the same again".

      We all need someone to talk to I think the point of this book is choosing those people wisely not who best to dump your crap on.
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