Why you CAN'T Create your own Reality

For success you more so take on your reality with a better perspective. Allowing for better decisions.. Guarantee for success? No, and never will be unfortunately.

In a way, I do agree with you. It isn't the reality you create, because our reality is influenced by everyone else's reality. Again, it is our perspective on that reality, and until we place action towards those perspectives, the influence of others will overwhelm our reality...

That was a lung full, but I hope that made sense...

so you can't create your own reality .

so people get rich by taking advantage of random events .. so they get rich based on luck.. so it is only fair to take it from them and gove to the less lucky . who have absolutly no responsibility for being poor or destitute ..because random events .

If you believe in cause and effect .. how can you then claim we don't create our reality .

we don't have to directly create bad events .. there is a long list of bad things that can happen when we are in certain environmental, physical and emotional conditions .

i have had a pretty crappy week .. quite literally as it started with me getting a case of diarrhea ..so i have learned not to drink anything with ice in it in hotels in other countries unless the water is filtered.

a signal three typhoon hit Tuesday and knocked power out for 5 days and water out for three .. so i was carrying water from a well pump to flush the toilet ..and shower .. and the woman i came from one side of the planet to the other hit a case of pms ..and i just had to kick her out . and forget that its been three weeks and i still do not have reliable internet access .

now i did not create the typhoon , the power outage ..or the case of pms ..but i had willingly come from one part of the world where those thing are ..well except the pms .. too a part of the world they can happen .

now what i am in control of want what i do have full power in creation..is my response..to these things happening .

when the word Responsibility is used it does not mean taking the blame for what happened .. but taking full ownership over your response to what happens .

if you keep responding the same way the same kind of things keep happening

You cannot just say that you don't create your own reality without testing it out thoroughly first.

I have been testing it for over 25 years. I had a personal mentor. My best friend who is a reverand and head of a church.

See my WF post on how to control your life energies here.

I do know one thing, most people don't understand how to do it. Even if they read a book on LOA or watch the Secret because they don't understand how to control their feelings or their life energies. They don't understand how to remove their blockages or resistances.

It doesn't matter what other people's intent is because once you understand how to create the right pure positive vibration, your energy is more powerful than thousands of people who think negatively or differently than you do. So other people's thinking is immaterial.

Law of Attraction is not Law of action. That is another misunderstanding on this forum. It is about holding the right frequency or vibration and getting into FLOW. Of course there is action involved in getting the final result, but the action comes from a much higher place. It comes out of inspiration, out of the energy or frequency. Out of FLOW. The action involved may be minimal. The energy is everything. Learn about your life energies for a few months! Then your perspective will change.

The energy gives you LEVERAGE! That is what LOA is about, giving you LEVERAGE over your life by understanding your Life energies better! It is just like martial arts or Kung Fu. You learn how to get in flow with that, you'll win over your opponents every time who don't know it.

Here is a video which teaches you more about FLOW and how to get into it!

I just can`t take seriously anyone who wears sunglasses indoors

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though i have my reservation about the be anything ..or the fully without limits that some get into ..

I will explain how i view how each person builds thier reality ..and it is not a full explination .

where you are right now there is a menue of thing that can happen ..and that you can do with the resources you have available .

but it is really hard to get mugged in a dark ally if you do not walk down dark allies ..but if you walk down a dark ally ..there is a chance you can experience being mugged or having somthing far worse happen.

everything you do has potential consequences many potentials . and depending how you go through each day and what mood you are in.. the potentials for something good or bad things happen .

stress is one of the worst conditions you can stay in it does thing to your motabalism ..now say you eat food that is perfectly fine..but while you are eating you stress out about it..or after you eat it you go through stress ..the effects on how you digest the food and other biological process will run the risk of turning what you ate into fat or other bad things .

i would not go as far as to say one event where you think oh maybe my car will get stolen..will cause it ..because sometime you park you car where the risk is greater than normal..so it is there ..

but what if youhave had a chaine of progressivly bad events and you park your car in a rough spot...maybe at that point the risk is higher ..

but i wouldn't blame a woman jogging in the park who get pulled behind trees and violently assaulted for what happened .it is just one of those bad possibilities that are there

nor would i blame someone whos house gets destroyed by a tornado... or wildfire .. those are risks of living in a certain area and why we have insurance .

the realities we creaty for ourselves are based of the options we think we have or what we believe is possible based on the experiences we have had .

three months ago it was not really liley or possible that i would be where i am now ..but it was something i was determine to have happen so events played out for it to happen .

To the OP, I suggested looking up the definition of the word reality. Here, I'll help you out:

Reality = "The state of things as they actually exist, as opposed to an idealistic or notional idea of them"

This is also known as true objective or absolute reality, things as they really are. Example: an earthquake; when this happens it is absolute and objective. Nobody disagrees with its happening.

Your own reality is called subjective reality, or your perception of things as they are or should be. Example: your thinking that you actually comprehend the concept of reality. At times, this is also called day dreaming, because, at times, that's all it is.

So you see, WE do have complete control over OUR subjective realities, as you demonstrated by putting up this thread.

Good day, sir, and may the Force guide you to a better reality.

I guess we all can agree to disagree. This is a very interesting topic. I actually found myself reading all the responses.

Personally, I believe that we can create our own realities to an extent, but I'm not going to argue about that. If your beliefs are assisting you in your acquisition of success then I'm not going to tell you to stop believing that way.

Not sure if I agree or disagree. Here are some thoughts / question I think are good to be put on the table.

You can't create your reality, but I can

Deceiving Idea.

We live in a world of infinite realities. Everyone has their own reality that they have to build on. Each of these realities have the power, and will affect each other.

Essentially we are creating our own reality, but are we feeding energy towards this reality?

Focus on having an apple all day... Does it appear? No... It only added a need to your reality which you never acted upon.
Those who are acting toward their needs will end up with lots of good apples. Since their reality is strongest from the action they put out, they left others with all the bad apples.



Moral of the story - Don't ask for apples.. Go pick them.

You have your area of control & influence.

You can control what happens here.

You can't control if the power will go out today but you can prepare yourself for this by having an extra generator. You can't control if Google will slap your sites but you can prepare by having an alternative plan.

I don't believe in predetermination.

And as far as reality goes - reality is perception. How we perceive the world.

Read Brave New World by Huxley. It is a great satire and philosophical book on the concept of engineered reality.

There are default wants as hunger, sex, sleep and there are taught wants. If no one taught us that we need a mobile phone, we wouldn't need one. If no one taught us that we need to go at work every day, we wouldn't do this. You can't impose a need on someone who is not aware that the need exists.

If I'm hungry, I'll buy food.
If I'm not hungry, you'll find it difficult to sell me food.
But if I don't know what hunger is nor ever been taught the concept of eating, it is impossible for you to sell me food.

Remember that people existed without smartphones, Internet, computers and Warrior Forums for a long, long time. Now they THINK they need it because they've either taught themselves that they do (cause and effect feedback loop - using them brings pleasure, not using pain) or someone else taught them.

Just as about everything else in life.

I prefer living in this reality. I don't know much about parallel universes or changing time, but I'm not that selfish to believe that the world revolves around me. I created my world and that belief is what I adhere to. There is no destiny, but perhaps a fate wherein cause and effect reigns.