Ladies, what turns you on?

LynnM

9 years ago

Intelligence
Good sense of humour

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Claude Whitacre 9 years ago

Originally Posted by LynnM

Intelligence
Good sense of humour

Well..............
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thunderbird

9 years ago

I believe that women are powered by electrical signals. The initial raw energy form for this is known as "food."

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Claude Whitacre

9 years ago

Originally Posted by WalkingCarpet

Muscle?
Abs?
Big nose?
Bald?

Serious.

Professor Carpet;

I can tell you what turns women on.

Treating other people well.
Not picking on people (I know, I know...but we are friends here)
Being interested in them
Treating their friends well, without leering at them
Not lying to them
Being healthy
Not dressing like a gigolo
Treating kids like a dad would...not like the kid is competition
Not being a slob.
Not getting mad when they talk to another man
Not leaving 45 seconds after sex.
Not acting like someone else. They find out who you really are pretty darn fast.
Not treating sex as the sole reason you are with them, but as an added bonus.
Not telling your friends when you have sex.
Showering

Added later; Not spitting, farting, belching...like you are training for the Olympics.

Ask yourself, what you like in a woman.....

Is it 58DDD breasts? A woman that spits constantly? A woman that only wants you for sex? (It may be a dream, but it's not as fun as it sounds). Do you like stupid women, that you have to think for?

See, there are a few women out there that will date you just because you are muscular....or are tall..or are wearing a uniform....

But after they find out that you are nothing more than that..they lose interest pretty quick.

Men are looking for the most partners. Women are looking for the best partner. At least that's the biological drive.

If you think the answer is "abs", you aren't going to get very far.

The guys that write the "How to seduce women" books? Most aren't married..even at 45 years old. Is that the kind of life you want? Want a better woman? Be a better guy.

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travlinguy

9 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

Professor Carpet;

I can tell you what turns women on.

Treating other people well.
Not picking on people (I know, I know...but we are friends here)
Being interested in them
Treating their friends well, without leering at them
Not lying to them
Being healthy
Not dressing like a gigolo
Treating kids like a dad would...not like the kid is competition
Not being a slob.
Not getting mad when they talk to another man
Not leaving 45 seconds after sex.
Not acting like someone else. They find out who you really are pretty darn fast.
Not treating sex as the sole reason you are with them, but as an added bonus.
Not telling your friends when you have sex.
Showering

Added later; Not spitting, farting, belching...like you are training for the Olympics.

Ask yourself, what you like in a woman.....

Is it 58DDD breasts? A woman that spits constantly? A woman that only wants you for sex? (It may be a dream, but it's not as fun as it sounds). Do you like stupid women, that you have to think for?

See, there are a few women out there that will date you just because you are muscular....or are tall..or are wearing a uniform....

But after they find out that you are nothing more than that..they lose interest pretty quick.

Men are looking for the most partners. Women are looking for the best partner. At least that's the biological drive.

If you think the answer is "abs", you aren't going to get very far.

The guys that write the "How to seduce women" books? Most aren't married..even at 45 years old. Is that the kind of life you want? Want a better woman? Be a better guy.

Looks like you have the outline to a great dating ebook here. I would suggest an addendum to one item.

45 second sex.
Not leaving 45 seconds after having 45 second sex.

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Claude Whitacre

9 years ago

Originally Posted by travlinguy

Looks like you have the outline to a great dating ebook here. I would suggest an addendum to one item.

45 second sex.
Not leaving 45 seconds after having 45 second sex.

This is not a joke. It really happened. My wife and I were married for a couple off years. My wife Cheryl, who is very shy..and a very proper lady......(she still says TP instead of Toilet Paper...even when we are alone) and I were at a Christmas dinner at her Mom and Dad's home.

Her whole family is made up of well educated, very proper and religious people....who are all expert cooks.

Anyway, one of her sisters asks my wife what she wanted for Christmas......she said (with a perfectly straight face) "Foreplay".

I was speechless.

It was a joke. But it's something to keep in mind.

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Cali16

9 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

I can tell you what turns women on.
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Wow, Claude. That's a very impressive list! (Your wife has taught you well!

)

Seriously, though, I think the vast majority of women who've had any life experience would agree with most, if not all, the items you listed!

Well done!

(Know-it-all!

)

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Claude Whitacre

9 years ago

Originally Posted by Cali16

Wow, Claude. That's a very impressive list! (Your wife has taught you well!

)

Seriously, though, I think the vast majority of women who've had any life experience would agree with most, if not all, the items you listed!

Well done!

(Know-it-all!

)

Well, now that I'm an old married guy.......this stuff seems obvious. But when I was twenty? I thought "If I could just add an inch to my chest, women would think I'm irresistible".

And...I think most guys at sixty know this stuff. I'm just louder about it. I'll bet Dennis has a better handle on it than I do. I mean, even little birds love him. How can we compete with that?

By the way. Men know this at sixty. Women know just about everything about men after a few dates. It isn't really a contest. Men are here to move furniture, and get the cooker out of the high cupboard. I know my purpose.

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WalkingCarpet

Banned 9 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

Well, now that I'm an old married guy.......this stuff seems obvious. But when I was twenty? I thought "If I could just add an inch to my chest, women would think I'm irresistible".

And...I think most guys at sixty know this stuff. I'm just louder about it. I'll bet Dennis has a better handle on it than I do. I mean, even little birds love him. How can we compete with that?

By the way. Men know this at sixty. Women know just about everything about men after a few dates. It isn't really a contest. Men are here to move furniture, and get the cooker out of the high cupboard. I know my purpose.

Baldie you must think that ur woman looking at ya cute little dome wanna jump ya, hell no. She maybe lookin at ya face but deep down all she thinkin is can he buy me that Maserati (or even a Taurus) and does he have even an inch under them pants.

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Claude Whitacre

9 years ago

Originally Posted by WalkingCarpet

Baldie you must think that ur woman looking at ya cute little dome wanna jump ya, hell no. She maybe lookin at ya face but deep down all she thinkin is can he buy me that Maserati (or even a Taurus) and does he have even an inch under them pants.

Professor. I'm going to be serious a minute.

No. I know what I look like. At nearly 60, my days of holding in my stomach, thinking it will matter, are long gone.

And, the first 5 minutes a woman sees you..you are right. She is thinking about how you look, and maybe wondering if you are successful. And even.....if you are good in bed.

But you know what happens? That 5 minutes is over....and now you have to say something. Stupid women don't know the difference between a great man and a stupid man. So, muscles and money are enough. And a few just need someone to take care of them..and the money is enough.

But, young man....smart women get bored with stupid men, very quickly. And a sad picture, is a man at 50, still trying to impress girls by flexing their muscles, and driving a fast car.

I'm going to use a new word for you..."Deserve". Quality men, deserve quality women, and vice versa. Your muscles and car and wallet? That's just the wrapping on the present. It isn't substantial. It doesn't really matter.

Is a man interesting? Having a fast car is interesting for about an hour.
And about sex and money....You have to offer more to a woman than what she can get from an ATM...or a vibrator.

I was a door to door vacuum cleaner salesman for nearly all my adult life. You think you got more action than me? It was like I was part of my own joke.

And none of it mattered. Have you even been with someone...and you are still alone? It was meaningless, hollow, and eventually boring.

So...I speak from experience. If you are 38 (If I remember correctly), you are very near the end of the time when you can still get by on looks, and muscles. So, my recommendation is....you find a woman that is interesting to you...every day. And then do whatever it takes to deserve her.

If your life is still just going from a gym to a bedroom, you need to get out more.

I'm not picking on you. I'm trying to help you.

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whateverpedia 9 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

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You might be wasting your time Claude.

Whereas your advice is sound for someone in "western" cultures, things are probably very different where the Professor is located.
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WalkingCarpet

Banned 9 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

Professor. I'm going to be serious a minute.

No. I know what I look like. At nearly 60, my days of holding in my stomach, thinking it will matter, are long gone.

And, the first 5 minutes a woman sees you..you are right. She is thinking about how you look, and maybe wondering if you are successful. And even.....if you are good in bed.

But you know what happens? That 5 minutes is over....and now you have to say something. Stupid women don't know the difference between a great man and a stupid man. So, muscles and money are enough. And a few just need someone to take care of them..and the money is enough.

But, young man....smart women get bored with stupid men, very quickly. And a sad picture, is a man at 50, still trying to impress girls by flexing their muscles, and driving a fast car.

I'm going to use a new word for you..."Deserve". Quality men, deserve quality women, and vice versa. Your muscles and car and wallet? That's just the wrapping on the present. It isn't substantial. It doesn't really matter.

Is a man interesting? Having a fast car is interesting for about an hour.
And about sex and money....You have to offer more to a woman than what she can get from an ATM...or a vibrator.

I was a door to door vacuum cleaner salesman for nearly all my adult life. You think you got more action than me? It was like I was part of my own joke.

And none of it mattered. Have you even been with someone...and you are still alone? It was meaningless, hollow, and eventually boring.

So...I speak from experience. If you are 38 (If I remember correctly), you are very near the end of the time when you can still get by on looks, and muscles. So, my recommendation is....you find a woman that is interesting to you...every day. And then do whatever it takes to deserve her.

If your life is still just going from a gym to a bedroom, you need to get out more.

I'm not picking on you. I'm trying to help you.

Car? What car?

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