ONLY in the "new" "us"!

26 replies
  • OFF TOPIC
  • |
A basketball coach has been suspended because he was honest, did his job well, and didn't cheat!

High School Basketball Coach Suspended After His Team Crushes Another 161-2 - Athletes, Real People Stories : People.com

GEE, I never claimed to know much about sports, but ALL THROUGHOUT HISTORY, they have CLASSED players! The BEST players IN EACH CLASS played against each other. Outside of rules regarding how rules were to be won(Like not going outside of a zone, or using certain "drugs"), and limits(like timeouts on boxing, and pulling people out when injured, etc...), you are supposed to do your best. If you fail, you were simply not matched right, or had bad luck! Should a heavyweight boxer, in a heavyweight boxing match REALLY let a featherweight boxer WIN, rather than risk that boxer getting humiliated? If so, I would let to see if I can give it a go!

But this is one of the latest in the PC battle. I guess the guiness book of world record's days are numbered!

Steve
  • Profile picture of the author TLTheLiberator
    IMHO, there should be no mercy shown on the high school level in any sport.

    That coach for the destroyed team is IMHO a big giant wimp.

    This is a perfect case of PC gone wild.
    Signature

    "It's easier to fool people than to convince them that they have been fooled. -- Mark Twain

    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9825880].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author kenmichaels
      Originally Posted by TLTheLiberator View Post

      IMHO, there should be no mercy shown on the high school level in any sport.

      That coach for the destroyed team is IMHO a big giant wimp.

      This is a perfect case of PC gone wild.
      I just had that same conversation with a group yesterday.

      Maybe its because of how i was raised. However I feel the same as you do.

      And I pretty much pissed everyone in the group off by saying so.

      I think mercy rules do harm vrs help anyone.

      I don't see any "mercy" rule in this game we call life.
      So why then, are conditioning our kids to expect it.
      - Huge disservice to them (imho) of course
      - Reinforces the "victim" mentality, laziness and ton of other crap-tastic values
      Signature

      Selling Ain't for Sissies!
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9825888].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author seasoned
    Yeah, if I see ANY real benefit in sports, it is to have a goal that people strive to BEAT! In doing so, they create a NEW goal for those that come later.

    If you fake the goal, and set it too high by lying or cheating, or setting it too low by lying or holding back, you do ALL a disservice.

    There WAS a time when I think all would have at least agreed with the SPIRIT of what I just said.

    Steve
    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9825911].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author Richard Van
      Sorry, Limey in the thread.

      One team beats another by a big margin and their coach gets suspended?

      Have I missed something where sport is concerned? Or is there some strange thing about not winning by big amounts in High Schools?

      I'm confused and I have had a coffee this morning.
      Signature

      Wibble, bark, my old man's a mushroom etc...

      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9826344].message }}
      • Profile picture of the author seasoned
        Originally Posted by Richard Van View Post

        Sorry, Limey in the thread.

        One team beats another by a big margin and their coach gets suspended?

        Have I missed something where sport is concerned? Or is there some strange thing about not winning by big amounts in High Schools?

        I'm confused and I have had a coffee this morning.
        They DID pass rules a while back that such teams are supposed to limit margins. It is the SAME excuse they give for not encouraging kids in various grades to read.

        http://www.lakewood.org/Documents/Co...ALL_RULES.aspx

        All games will be rally scoring, played to 25 points and must be won by a two point margin, max
        to 27 (Game can end 27-26).
        Can The Mercy Rule Actually Make Things Worse?

        The Northern California Federation Youth Football League changed its mercy rule dramatically to prevent teams from winning by large margins. If a team in the league, which has players between the ages of 7 and 13, wins by 35 points or more, the coach gets a one-week suspension and the team gets fined $200. "It's not hurting the kids, it's teaching them compassion for the other team," said Robert Rochin, the deputy commissioner for the league. "It's teaching them sportsmanship." Rochin claims their new mercy rule is a pro-active attempt to keep more kids interested in the sport for longer
        Steve
        {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9826845].message }}
        • Profile picture of the author Richard Van
          I'm sure they probably have something equally silly here but I can't I see the point.

          Imagine if they did this with boxing.

          "All fights will be 12 rounds and not a round less, will be decided on points and so long as there's only a one point margin there will be a winner, anymore or a knockout will result in disqualification and a ban".
          Signature

          Wibble, bark, my old man's a mushroom etc...

          {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9826860].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Dan Riffle
    Richard, winners are no longer allowed to win by too wide a margin. It harms the sensitive proclivities of the losers and scars them for life. Of course, now we have a generation of children raised this way. They have no idea how to accept failure in life, which, in my opinion, is why we see more and more mass shootings. These kids break mentally when they realize the world is actually a cold, hard place that doesn't revolve around them.
    Signature

    Raising a child is akin to knowing you're getting fired in 18 years and having to train your replacement without actively sabotaging them.

    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9826910].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author Richard Van
      Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

      Richard, winners are no longer allowed to win by too wide a margin. It harms the sensitive proclivities of the losers and scars them for life. Of course, now we have a generation of children raised this way. They have no idea how to accept failure in life, which, in my opinion, is why we see more and more mass shootings. These kids break mentally when they realize the world is actually a cold, hard place that doesn't revolve around them.
      I'm sure I've heard of something similar here too. I think it's in little school in races. Something about there not being a winner and everyone is a winner for taking part.

      This world is very different for the younger generation than when I grew up.

      You've probably got a point about the mass shooting too. Such a nice shiny protected environment to grow up in then reality hits.

      Sadly, meanwhile in Islamic State, they bring there kids up a lot tougher.
      Signature

      Wibble, bark, my old man's a mushroom etc...

      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9826964].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
    Devil's advocate post...

    Did any of you folks participate in any sports? Do you remember what sports are supposed to teach young people? When I was a player we were supposed to learn good sportsmanship from the sports we played.

    Running up the score when victory is completely assured has been considered poor sportsmanship for as long as I can remember, at least where I'm from. Putting a good whooping on an opponent is one thing, beating them 161-2 is far beyond a good whooping, it's poor sportsmanship plain and simple.

    The coach of the winning team could have taught his team a valuable lesson, that once you have someone totally and utterly defeated, you don't keep kicking them just because you can.

    The coach is an ass ... in my opinion, of course.
    Signature

    Just when you think you've got it all figured out, someone changes the rules.

    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828230].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author Tom B
      Banned
      Originally Posted by Dennis Gaskill View Post

      Devil's advocate post...

      Did any of you folks participate in any sports? Do you remember what sports are supposed to teach young people? When I was a player we were supposed to learn good sportsmanship from the sports we played.

      Running up the score when victory is completely assured has been considered poor sportsmanship for as long as I can remember, at least where I'm from. Putting a good whooping on an opponent is one thing, beating them 161-2 is far beyond a good whooping, it's poor sportsmanship plain and simple.

      The coach of the winning team could have taught his team a valuable lesson, that once you have someone totally and utterly defeated, you don't keep kicking them just because you can.

      I don't know where some of the other people played, but back in my day it was considered bad sportsman like behavior. I know I look young but there are some years on this pretty face.

      The coach is an ass ... in my opinion, of course.
      Dennis, same here. It was about playing a good game not so much about making the other team look bad. When we were up, considerably, my coaches would play the whole bench and it was more relaxed.

      Reading about this story, this winning coach continued a full court press throughout the whole game. He decided he wanted to play practice for a future game that had a tougher competitor. That wasn't a place to do so, imo.

      Even back when I was playing school sports, running up the score like that was considered unsportsmanlike.
      I agree he was an ass.
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828267].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author whateverpedia
      Originally Posted by Dennis Gaskill View Post

      Devil's advocate post...

      Did any of you folks participate in any sports? Do you remember what sports are supposed to teach young people? When I was a player we were supposed to learn good sportsmanship from the sports we played.

      Running up the score when victory is completely assured has been considered poor sportsmanship for as long as I can remember, at least where I'm from. Putting a good whooping on an opponent is one thing, beating them 161-2 is far beyond a good whooping, it's poor sportsmanship plain and simple.

      The coach of the winning team could have taught his team a valuable lesson, that once you have someone totally and utterly defeated, you don't keep kicking them just because you can.

      The coach is an ass ... in my opinion, of course.
      Plus it also discourages the kids on the losing side from participating in sports again. "Might as well sit on our asses eating junk food than go through that humiliation again."
      Signature
      Why do garden gnomes smell so bad?
      So that blind people can hate them as well.
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828278].message }}
      • Profile picture of the author kenmichaels
        Originally Posted by Dennis Gaskill View Post

        Devil's advocate post...

        Did any of you folks participate in any sports? Do you remember what sports are supposed to teach young people? When I was a player we were supposed to learn good sportsmanship from the sports we played.

        Running up the score when victory is completely assured has been considered poor sportsmanship for as long as I can remember, at least where I'm from. Putting a good whooping on an opponent is one thing, beating them 161-2 is far beyond a good whooping, it's poor sportsmanship plain and simple.

        The coach of the winning team could have taught his team a valuable lesson, that once you have someone totally and utterly defeated, you don't keep kicking them just because you can.

        The coach is an ass ... in my opinion, of course.
        Hi bud Hope your feeling better.

        I played football, soccer, basketball and baseball.
        ( I was only good at football)



        Originally Posted by Thomas Belknap View Post

        Dennis, same here. It was about playing a good game not so much about making the other team look bad. When we were up, considerably, my coaches would play the whole bench and it was more relaxed.

        Reading about this story, this winning coach continued a full court press throughout the whole game. He decided he wanted to play practice for a future game that had a tougher competitor. That wasn't a place to do so, imo.

        Even back when I was playing school sports, running up the score like that was considered unsportsmanlike.
        I agree he was an ass.
        My coaches taught us friendly games between peers was for fun ...
        The rest was war.

        When it was over we had to go back to being civil - even when we lost.

        Maybe my perspective comes from the fact I was never on a team
        that was totally dominated - nor did we ever crush anybody like in the OP.

        We kicked butt and we got our butts kicked - but never like that
        so maybe I just don't know how bad it can be for a kid.


        Originally Posted by whateverpedia View Post

        Plus it also discourages the kids on the losing side from participating in sports again. "Might as well sit on our asses eating junk food than go through that humiliation again."
        Whenever i got my ass kicked - I got mad and did better and was more focused.
        -- maybe that's just me, imho I think ALL kids need at least one or two
        real utter crushing defeats in life - when they are youngish. Other wise
        how do you learn to deal with it - because unless your born with a silver
        spoon then you know it's coming -
        Signature

        Selling Ain't for Sissies!
        {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828326].message }}
        • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
          Originally Posted by seasoned View Post

          Who said ANYTHING about trying to make the other team look bad? It has happened in sports since the BEGINNING, and ALL THROUGH RECORDED HISTORY! A team will have bad luck, or simply be poorly matched, and will lose big time. But to stop a game, or limit your effort, simply because the other team is having problems isn't the right thing to do.
          I didn't say anything about making the other team look bad. I see Thomas has a line about that where he quoted me, but that line isn't in my post and never was. Looks like Thomas is having some fun with us.

          Steve, the coach didn't have to continue a full-court press the whole game, and he could have instructed his players to milk the shot clock. There are ways to limit the damage and still let his players compete. They'd learn something about sportsmanship that way, which is one of the primary selling points of junior high and high school sports. At least it used to be.

          Originally Posted by kenmichaels View Post

          Hi bud Hope your feeling better.
          Thanks! I am feeling better, but far from 100% yet. Still, any improvement is welcome.

          ... imho I think ALL kids need at least one or two
          real utter crushing defeats in life - when they are youngish. Other wise
          how do you learn to deal with it - because unless your born with a silver
          spoon then you know it's coming -
          I'm not saying they don't, but the winning team could have score half the points they did and it would have still be a crushing defeat at 80-2, and at the same time the winning coach could have taught his team a lesson in good sportsmanship.

          That's just my opinion, though. I didn't necessarily expect anyone to change their mind or even agree with me for that matter, given the tone of the posts before mine. I just wanted to offer another perspective.
          Signature

          Just when you think you've got it all figured out, someone changes the rules.

          {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828363].message }}
        • Profile picture of the author whateverpedia
          Originally Posted by kenmichaels View Post

          Whenever i got my ass kicked - I got mad and did better and was more focused.
          A fair point if it doesn't happen on a regular basis. The occassional whipping is definitely character building. If it happens constantly though, a "why bother" attitude becomes almost inevitable.

          On the other side of the coin, what happens to the the kids on the winning side who regularly dish out whippings to their competition.

          That can lead to complacency and an un-natural belief that they will win every time. Imagine the "trauma" they'll suffer from when they finally get their asses handed to them.
          Signature
          Why do garden gnomes smell so bad?
          So that blind people can hate them as well.
          {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828378].message }}
        • Profile picture of the author Tom B
          Banned
          Originally Posted by kenmichaels View Post


          My coaches taught us friendly games between peers was for fun ...
          The rest war war.

          When it was over we had to go back to being civil - even when we lost.

          Maybe my perspective comes from the fact I was never on a team
          that was totally dominated - nor did we ever crush anybody like in the OP.

          We kicked butt and we got our butts kicked - but never like that
          so maybe I just don't know how bad it can be for a kid.


          I guess I was lucky with the coaches I had. They worked our asses off in practice and built up our self esteem in other ways without having to blow out other teams 161 -2.

          If we lost we knew there would be some painful practices in our future.
          {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828386].message }}
        • Profile picture of the author Kurt
          Originally Posted by kenmichaels View Post

          Hi bud Hope your feeling better.

          I played football, soccer, basketball and baseball.
          ( I was only good at football)


          My coaches taught us friendly games between peers was for fun ...
          The rest was war.

          When it was over we had to go back to being civil - even when we lost.

          Maybe my perspective comes from the fact I was never on a team
          that was totally dominated - nor did we ever crush anybody like in the OP.

          We kicked butt and we got our butts kicked - but never like that
          so maybe I just don't know how bad it can be for a kid.

          Whenever i got my ass kicked - I got mad and did better and was more focused.
          -- maybe that's just me, imho I think ALL kids need at least one or two
          real utter crushing defeats in life - when they are youngish. Other wise
          how do you learn to deal with it - because unless your born with a silver
          spoon then you know it's coming -
          But sports isn't war.

          I'm glad my Grandmother taught me about sportsmanship and how being a good winner was often tougher than being a good loser and how each was important. And that winning was NOT the only thing that mattered in sports.

          Mercy rules are hardly new. There were mercy rules in effect when I first started playing Little League in the mid 60s.
          Signature
          Discover the fastest and easiest ways to create your own valuable products.
          Tons of FREE Public Domain content you can use to make your own content, PLR, digital and POD products.
          {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828726].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author seasoned
      Originally Posted by Dennis Gaskill View Post

      Devil's advocate post...

      Did any of you folks participate in any sports? Do you remember what sports are supposed to teach young people? When I was a player we were supposed to learn good sportsmanship from the sports we played.

      Running up the score when victory is completely assured has been considered poor sportsmanship for as long as I can remember, at least where I'm from. Putting a good whooping on an opponent is one thing, beating them 161-2 is far beyond a good whooping, it's poor sportsmanship plain and simple.

      The coach of the winning team could have taught his team a valuable lesson, that once you have someone totally and utterly defeated, you don't keep kicking them just because you can.

      The coach is an ass ... in my opinion, of course.
      Who said ANYTHING about trying to make the other team look bad? It has happened in sports since the BEGINNING, and ALL THROUGH RECORDED HISTORY! A team will have bad luck, or simply be poorly matched, and will lose big time. But to stop a game, or limit your effort, simply because the other team is having problems isn't the right thing to do.

      I recently read about Anna kournikova(SP?), and the article spoke about how she was one of the most famous players even though she never made the top 10. And at one point, MANY places in Germany spoke of boris becker, and Steffi graf! They said things like BRAVO STEFFI and BORIS has a future! Was this intended to hurt all those that would NEVER get to that point? Tennis, like many sports, has groups, or players, that are to compete against one another, based on their winning in each tournament. Although, matched up differently, the outcome would likely be different, the top two compete in a game to be #1. MOST never even make it to the lowest recognized ranking. There are ALWAYS going to be losers.

      Good sportsmanship is playing fair, and not being cocky. It does NOT mean you lose, or sacrifice points. And HEY, if you play longer, doesn't the other side have a better chance of turning the tables? If it is so bad for them, they can concede.

      And doesn't it give the TRUE athletes a reason to improve their game?

      Steve.
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828311].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author TLTheLiberator
    I've played plenty of organized sports.

    Questions???

    What's the fallout from not trying while engaged in a game?

    - In football should one team just run the ball into the line or better yet take a knee on each play and then punt to the destroyed team?

    - In basketball should people miss shots on purpose?

    - In baseball should batters strike out on purpose?

    - What about the right of a team to work on their game?

    I somewhat understand taking it easy on those not in high school with mercy rules, but I don't believe that courtesy should be extended to those in the high school ranks and above.
    Signature

    "It's easier to fool people than to convince them that they have been fooled. -- Mark Twain

    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828369].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author Tom B
      Banned
      Originally Posted by TLTheLiberator View Post

      I've played plenty of organized sports.

      Questions???

      What's the fallout from not trying while engaged in a game?

      - In football should one team just run the ball into the line or better yet take a knee on each play and then punt to the destroyed team?

      - In basketball should people miss shots on purpose?

      - In baseball should batters strike out on purpose?

      - What about the right of a team to work on their game?

      I somewhat understand taking it easy on those not in high school with mercy rules, but I don't believe that courtesy should be extended to those in the high school ranks and above.
      This team continued a full court press even when it was impossible for the other team to come back.

      Supposedly, the coach was using this game as practice for a future, more competitive team.

      As Dennis pointed out, running the clock out and stopping the full court press isn't the same thing as not engaging.

      Running the clock out is done at all levels in sports. Hardly new.

      No one said to purposely miss shots or to purposely turn over the ball.
      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828374].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
      Originally Posted by TLTheLiberator View Post

      I've played plenty of organized sports.

      Questions???

      What's the fallout from not trying while engaged in a game?

      - In football should one team just run the ball into the line or better yet take a knee on each play and then punt to the destroyed team?

      - In basketball should people miss shots on purpose?

      - In baseball should batters strike out on purpose?

      - What about the right of a team to work on their game?

      I somewhat understand taking it easy on those not in high school with mercy rules, but I don't believe that courtesy should be extended to those in the high school ranks and above.
      TL, I never said anything about missing shots on purpose. They could have worked on other parts of their game. There are times when it's desirable to slow the game down and work the clock. They could have practiced that. They didn't have to full-court press the whole game. There will be times they want to work on their half-court game instead.

      This coach was just running up the score. Even in professional sports most teams do things to avoid running up the score too badly. In the NFL teams will run the ball to run down the clock instead of going for 40 yard pass plays. In baseball most players quit trying to steal bases or bunt for hits when the game has turned into a rout.

      This coach displayed poor sportsmanship, in my opinion.
      Signature

      Just when you think you've got it all figured out, someone changes the rules.

      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828380].message }}
      • Profile picture of the author TLTheLiberator
        Originally Posted by Dennis Gaskill View Post

        TL, I never said anything about missing shots on purpose. They could have worked on other parts of their game. There are times when it's desirable to slow the game down and work the clock. They could have practiced that. They didn't have to full-court press the whole game. There will be times they want to work on their half-court game instead.

        This coach was just running up the score. Even in professional sports most teams do things to avoid running up the score too badly. In the NFL teams will run the ball to run down the clock instead of going for 40 yard pass plays. In baseball most players quit trying to steal bases or bunt for hits when the game has turned into a rout.

        This coach displayed poor sportsmanship, in my opinion.
        Ok, once the score got out of hand, the coach could have at least allowed the other team to get the ball past half court but then what happens?

        Because if you can't get the ball up the court, I don't see you running much offense when you do get the ball past half court. The likely turnover is only delayed by 10-20 seconds.

        In the NFL teams will run up the score nowadays, especially if their opponents are in the same conference and the same division because points scored is one of the tie-breakers for who wins the division and for seeding in the playoffs.

        Major league baseball in particular shows bad sportsmanship when a team is getting pounded they start throwing at the batters. Most of the fights in MLB revolve around a team getting the crap beat out of them and then they start throwing at the other teams' batters.

        Other fights start because a particular player is rock'n the other teams' pitching and now the pitchers get orders to start throwing at that batter.

        Now that's great sportsmanship.

        Have you ever heard of a brush back pitch AKA chin music? As far as I'm concerned that's always been very unsportsmanlike conduct.

        I still believe...

        There is no need to show any mercy in high school, college or the pro level of sports.
        Signature

        "It's easier to fool people than to convince them that they have been fooled. -- Mark Twain

        {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9829221].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author bizgrower
    From the article:
    "I didn't play any starters in the second half," he added. "I didn't expect them to be that bad. I'm not trying to embarrass anybody."

    This isn't the first time Arroyo Valley has so thoroughly dominated a matchup. The girls' team has won its previous four games by 70 points or more. As for Bloomington? They had already lost a game by 91 points. "

    I think this may be an example of old school versus new school. Play to win versus play to 'participate'.

    Perhaps Bloomington needs a new coach?

    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    The closest I've come to such a score run up is in grade school, back yard touch football (US mode).
    Nobody on the losing team seemed to get totally bent out of shape over the score of 56-7.
    And I don't think we intentionally ran the score. Too young to think about it - just played.

    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    I find a lot of people - 30ish and under roughly - who used to work for my hotel seemed to think they
    get to decide what work tasks they will do or not do. Granted, it's not a high paying, professional job, but
    I think the PC stuff leads to this decline in ethics and work ethics. And not working as a team. And
    gaming the benefits system, but buying the 55" TV.

    I have a new guy working as a housekeeper and without my asking him, he actually picked up the
    trash bags from the other housekeepers on his way to the trash dumpster. Seriously - a pleasant
    surprise instead of 'it's not from my rooms'.

    Dan

    PS - (and more importantly) I am glad you are feeling better Mr. Dennis.
    Signature

    "If you think you're the smartest person in the room, then you're probably in the wrong room."

    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828396].message }}
    • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
      Originally Posted by bizgrower View Post

      From the article:
      "I didn't play any starters in the second half," he added. "I didn't expect them to be that bad. I'm not trying to embarrass anybody."
      And apparently he didn't care once he realized how bad they were, because he didn't make any game strategy adjustments to avoid totally humiliating them.

      I think this may be an example of old school versus new school. Play to win versus play to 'participate'.
      I don't see this as a "PC" issue at all. This would have been called poor sportsmanship when I was in school 45 years ago -- which was my original point. Nothing to do with PC, and everything to do with respecting your opponent, no matter how bad they may be.

      Maybe I'm just getting old.
      Signature

      Just when you think you've got it all figured out, someone changes the rules.

      {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828405].message }}
      • Profile picture of the author Richard Van
        So the mercy rule applies in team sports I take it? And are we strictly speaking about kids at school level? Not adult/professional sports?

        Sorry I can see where people are coming from but I used to swim when I was younger, competitively. The idea was to swim as fast as you can. You can't even see the other people at times. At no time was I ever told not to beat someone by too big a margin, the bigger the better. It was competitive swimming. The emphasis was on winning and winning as well as possible. If one doesn't like losing, one has to improve and train harder. It's not possible to have everyone being a champion swimmer.

        That didn't mean we weren't good sports though. We were all happy with each other, shook hands and met each other regularly at other competitions. I used to enjoy going and win or lose, by however much, I never recollect wanting to give up.

        Dennis, I'm not arguing with you at all, it's good that at your school 45 years ago they thought this was bad sportsmanship. I'm afraid though at my school, 25 years ago, we'd have been singing in the showers and talking about that win for years. In fact I just asked a lad here who is 21 if he had any mercy rule thing or if his football team was 10 - 0 up at half time, would he have slowed down and maybe let the other team get some goals in in the second half? He looked at me as though I was loopy.

        Maybe it's a cultural thing, I'm not sure.

        I honestly have no recollection of ever hearing anything like this as school but I do remember being told to be a good sport. My definition of good sportsmanship though was to congratulate and shake the hands of whoever you beat or lose to. By however much.
        Signature

        Wibble, bark, my old man's a mushroom etc...

        {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9828649].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author Dan Riffle
    Scoring isn't bad sportsmanship. It's the point of the game. Bad sportsmanship is cheating, trying to harm opposing players, excessive smack talk, etc.

    The problem with mercy rules is it more negatively impacts the bad teams. It limits their play time against better teams, which limits their ability to enhance their own play. A team that is constantly getting mercied spends the majority of its time playing itself - a bad team. This goes for the coaches, as well.

    Take your whooping and learn or cut the game short and preserve (false) self-esteem.
    Signature

    Raising a child is akin to knowing you're getting fired in 18 years and having to train your replacement without actively sabotaging them.

    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9829340].message }}
  • Profile picture of the author bizgrower
    I want to know why Bloomington is such a bad team.

    My nephew and a few of his friends played soccer all year round
    and went to a soccer camp or two.

    I went to one of their league games and the coach had the all participate
    coaching style. My nephew's team lost 6-2, and I know that he and his buddies
    could play at a much higher level. I knew they could do such simple things
    as 'wall passes' to keep the ball moving downfield more, etc...

    Everybody played, but the coach did not incorporate/teach more strategies
    to all the players - so they lost 6-2. It did not seem right.

    If you want more playing time, or any better position in life,
    go get the skills and apply them.
    Signature

    "If you think you're the smartest person in the room, then you're probably in the wrong room."

    {{ DiscussionBoard.errors[9829450].message }}

Trending Topics