What would you do if you caught your spouse having sex with another??

9 years ago

Force myself to wake up and then try and figure out why I had the nightmare!

Seriously, that would never happen in real life, so I don't need to even think about what I would do.

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Kay King

9 years ago

WC - are you looking for things to worry about or to be macho about?

Before a spouse can cheat on you - you must HAVE a spouse...and I get the impression you are FAR from that happening any time soon.

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Banned 9 years ago

Originally Posted by Kay King

WC - are you looking for things to worry about or to be macho about?

Before a spouse can cheat on you - you must HAVE a spouse...and I get the impression you are FAR from that happening any time soon.

How true. Probably for the better anyways.

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MissTerraK 9 years ago

Originally Posted by WalkingCarpet

How true. Probably for the better anyways.

Why do you say that?

It is obvious you'd like a relationship after reading through some of your posts. Work on yourself (not just the physical), then you'd be more likely to find a suitable woman.

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Banned 9 years ago

Originally Posted by Kay King

Before a spouse can cheat on you - you must HAVE a spouse...

I think there's more chance of him being run over by a rocking horse.

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9 years ago

Claude's wife came home the other day and found him in bed with himself.

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by lanfear63

Claude's wife came home the other day and found him in bed with himself.

Nothing sexual was going on. That's just where he beached the night before.

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9 years ago

I need a follow up question before I can answer...did I catch her with a man or a woman?

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by Kurt

I need a follow up question before I can answer...did I catch her with a man or a woman?

....and if it was a woman, how hot was she?

And if it was a man, on a scale of one to ten..............

And was it being video taped? And how was it going to be sold? And how are the royalties being split? And how was the lighting? Who has final script approval?

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

And was it being video taped? And how was it going to be sold? And how are the royalties being split? And how was the lighting? Who has final script approval?

What? Nothing about affiliate program details?

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by lanfear63

Claude's wife came home the other day and found him in bed with himself.

And I was entranced with a video I was watching..of myself. And in the video, I was admiring my own image in the mirror.

Yeah, like you've never done the same thing.

Originally Posted by Dan Riffle

Nothing sexual was going on. That's just where he beached the night before.

Beached? Why would you say..........................................Hey!

I am not a whale! Whales are huge animals that cannot move on land...and have a blowhole....and. um.......Never mind. You're right.

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

And I was entranced with a video I was watching..of myself. And in the video, I was admiring my own image in the mirror.

Yeah, like you've never done the same thing.

Beached? Why would you say..........................................Hey!

I am not a whale! Whales are huge animals that cannot move on land...and have a blowhole....and. um.......Never mind. You're right.

No, Ive never watched any of your video's

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Originally Posted by lanfear63

No, Ive never watched any of your video's

Well...I'm having a Sale.

First come...first served.

Actually, that's the title.
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  Well...I'm having a Sale.
  
  First come...first served.
  
  Actually, that's the title.
  
  I'm more interested in your new release "Bubble-wrap Narcissism" It got rave reviews in Auto erotic Asphyxiation Monthly.
  
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  I'm more interested in your new release "Bubble-wrap Narcissism" It got rave reviews in Auto erotic Asphyxiation Monthly.
  
  I subscribe. A monthly subscription is $29 a month. A lifetime subscription is only $50.
  
  I wonder why?
  
  You've never been called a Narcissist convincingly...with passion......until you've heard the words come out of your own mouth.
  
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9 years ago

I am sorry you're going through this difficult faux situation. Get a divore and be done with it so you can get on with your imaginary life. Not worth going to a hypothetical prison for and having to fight off your excited pseudo cell-mate Hank. The right woman for you would want to be with you on her own free will.

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9 years ago

I can't remember who it was here but last year someone said they found themselves in this scenario.

And the person confronted the male suspect. The suspect said something to the extent like , " I know what you are thinking " and the person said something like, " if you knew what I was thinking you would just soon be dead tight now" insinuating his was thinking of extreme pain inflicted on this perpetrator for sleeping with his wife\girlfriend.

Something like that.

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by discrat

I can't remember who it was here but last year someone said they found themselves in this scenario.

And the person confronted the male suspect. The suspect said something to the extent like , " I know what you are thinking " and the person said something like, " if you knew what I was thinking you would just soon be dead tight now" insinuating his was thinking of extreme pain inflicted on this perpetrator for sleeping with his wifegirlfriend.

Something like that.

I think it was me. I caught my first wife. I told the guy "If you knew what I was thinking, you'd be screaming".

You may find this interesting.

He left (of course), but my only thought then was that he invaded my home, and stole from me.. It didn't even bother me that my wife was unfaithful. I instantly didn't want her anymore. But I didn't even raise my voice.

I think I told her (after he left). "The next time you see him, tell him he won. You're his now".

My wife was scared to death. She actually thought I was going to fight him for her. She thought there would be violence....in a romantic "These guys both want me" kind of way.

She got even angrier that I wasn't visibly upset. I moved into my office. The only thing that really bothered me, was that I knew it would affect my relationship with my son. This was maybe 32 years ago.

He walked in my store years later. He didn't know it was my store.

I thanked him for getting me out of a miserable marriage. He told me "I thought you were going to kill me"..

I said "I was."

He said "What stopped you?"

I said "Witnesses".

I said it like I was talking about the weather.

She ended up marrying a local guy that was very good to her, and was good to my son.

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Banned 9 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

I think it was me. I caught my first wife. I told the guy "If you knew what I was thinking, you'd be screaming".

You may find this interesting.

He left (of course), but my only thought then was that he invaded my home, and stole from me.. It didn't even bother me that my wife was unfaithful. I instantly didn't want her anymore. But I didn't even raise my voice.

I think I told her (after he left). "The next time you see him, tell him he won. You're his now".

My wife was scared to death. She actually thought I was going to fight him for her. She thought there would be violence....in a romantic "These guys both want me" kind of way.

She got even angrier that I wasn't visibly upset. I moved into my office. The only thing that really bothered me, was that I knew it would affect my relationship with my son. This was maybe 32 years ago.

He walked in my store years later. He didn't know it was my store.

I thanked him for getting me out of a miserable marriage. He told me "I thought you were going to kill me"..

I said "I was."

He said "What stopped you?"

I said "Witnesses".

I said it like I was talking about the weather.

She ended up marrying a local guy that was very good to her, and was good to my son.

Life's a b*tch eh Joe?
Don't think I can put up with that kinda stress.
'Course no woman of mine gonna do that in the first place, me being hung like an horse an' all, but who needs the stress??

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lanfear63

9 years ago

Originally Posted by WalkingCarpet

Life's a b*tch eh Joe?
Don't think I can put up with that kinda stress.
'Course no woman of mine gonna do that in the first place, me being hung like an horse an' all, but who needs the stress??

Good to know we are finally getting through to you.

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by WalkingCarpet

Life's a b*tch eh Joe?
Don't think I can put up with that kinda stress.
'Course no woman of mine gonna do that in the first place, me being hung like an horse an' all, but who needs the stress??

What stress?

My first marriage was a mistake. This one's a keeper.

A good wife/girlfriend lightens the load. Life becomes far more enjoyable, when you can share it with a quality person.

I'm happy that you are hung like a horse. It's thinking like a horse, that is a problem.

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lanfear63

9 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

What stress?

My first marriage was a mistake. This one's a keeper.

A good wife/girlfriend lightens the load. Life becomes far more enjoyable, when you can share it with a quality person.

I'm happy that you are hung like a horse. It's thinking like a horse, that is a problem.

Yes WC, when the getting regular oats aspect of a relationship fades somewhat by the time you are into your late 50's you don't want to end up with an old nag.

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DJL 9 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

... It's thinking like a horse, that is a problem.

Also, it depends on which end of the horse you are thinking with.
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Originally Posted by WalkingCarpet

me being hung like an horse an' all, but who needs the stress??

What did you do wrong to be hung like a horse?
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9 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

I think it was me. I caught my first wife. I told the guy "If you knew what I was thinking, you'd be screaming".

You may find this interesting.

He left (of course), but my only thought then was that he invaded my home, and stole from me.. It didn't even bother me that my wife was unfaithful. I instantly didn't want her anymore. But I didn't even raise my voice.

I think I told her (after he left). "The next time you see him, tell him he won. You're his now".

My wife was scared to death. She actually thought I was going to fight him for her. She thought there would be violence....in a romantic "These guys both want me" kind of way.

She got even angrier that I wasn't visibly upset. I moved into my office. The only thing that really bothered me, was that I knew it would affect my relationship with my son. This was maybe 32 years ago.

He walked in my store years later. He didn't know it was my store.

I thanked him for getting me out of a miserable marriage. He told me "I thought you were going to kill me"..

I said "I was."

He said "What stopped you?"

I said "Witnesses".

I said it like I was talking about the weather.

She ended up marrying a local guy that was very good to her, and was good to my son.

Wow, it his makes me sometimes wish I had those Pro Social abilities. A lot of pain and suffering was averted because of your Self- control.

But really I guess it was less about Self - Control (and making a decision) and more about you being hardwired and just not having these innate feelings of rage arise in your brain...like the rest of us would have in such a situation

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by discrat

Wow, it his makes me sometimes wish I had those Pro Social abilities. A lot of pain and suffering was averted because of your Self- control.

But really I guess it was less about Self - Control (and making decision) and more about you being hardwired and just not having these innate feelings of rage arise in your brain...like the rest of us would have in such a situation

Yeah. Honestly, I get credited with strong self control. But it's a mistake. I just don't have real emotional spikes. Your insight about that is kind of impressive.

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by MissTerraK

Force myself to wake up and then try and figure out why I had the nightmare!

Seriously, that would never happen in real life, so I don't need to even think about what I would do.

Terra

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MissTerraK

9 years ago

Originally Posted by mazzuca

Hahaha.. That's a very good point of you to avoid the real answer.

I'm not avoiding anything at all. That's the real answer.

Why should I waste my time and energy trying to come up with a plan for something that's never going to happen.

It would be the same as worrying what I would do if I woke up tomorrow morning and discovered I no longer needed a bra and was hung like a horse.

Terra

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by MissTerraK

I'm not avoiding anything at all. That's the real answer.

Why should I waste my time and energy trying to come up with a plan for something that's never going to happen.

It would be the same as worrying what I would do if I woke up tomorrow morning and discovered I no longer needed a bra and was hung like a horse.

Terra

I'm not saying a word.

On a serious note. Same here. It would never happen in a million years. Not by either of us.

The thought has never even occurred to me (with this wife).

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

On a serious note. Same here. It would never happen in a million years. Not by either of us.

The thought has never even occurred to me (with this wife).

That's what happens when you find your soul mate. It's really not so hard to understand, when you have.

Terra

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Kay King

9 years ago

'Course no woman of mine gonna,,,

Uh-huh, sure, right

like an horse an' all,

If we (women) had a dollar for every time we've heard that one. Objects in the mirror may appear larger than they are....

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by Kay King

Uh-huh, sure, right

If we (women) had a dollar for every time we've heard that one. Objects in the mirror may appear larger than they are....

I'm buying a mirror.

Anything that helps.

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by WalkingCarpet

Life's a b*tch eh Joe?
Don't think I can put up with that kinda stress.
'Course no woman of mine gonna do that in the first place, me being hung like an horse an' all, but who needs the stress??

True, if you were hung like a horse is hung, the rope around your neck might get in the way of any relationship?

Originally Posted by MissTerraK

I'm not avoiding anything at all. That's the real answer.

Why should I waste my time and energy trying to come up with a plan for something that's never going to happen.

It would be the same as worrying what I would do if I woke up tomorrow morning and discovered I no longer needed a bra and was hung like a horse.

Terra

I am with Claude, better not touch that one,..ahem!

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

I'm buying a mirror.

Anything that helps.

just as long as you don't use the magic mirror outside of the Pancake Parlour, don't want to scar the children for life!

And the adults for that matter!

WC, maybe you should go join, the "Hung like a Horse" forums, might have better luck?

I know from personal experience, that being well hung, as you put it, doesn't guarantee a relationship or even a lot of one night stands, eventhough a lot of people online seen to make out that it does!

For me it is looking as good as possible and being a decent human being, etc, as well as spiritual practices, that seems to attract women to me. Well, most of the time it is from a distance, but occasionally a door opens.

But since l want to meet my soulmate, it just seems to be improving myself and nothing much seems to happen.

Hopefully this year, finally, but l don't know anymore!

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9 years ago

Tim,
WTF ?

You paying tribute to WC? LOL

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Originally Posted by discrat

Tim,
WTF ?

You paying tribute to WC? LOL

Robert, it's all right here.

Updated my avatar after 5 years.

Terra
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Banned 9 years ago

Originally Posted by discrat

Tim,
WTF ?

You paying tribute to WC? LOL

Hah just noticed that.

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

I think it was me. I caught my first wife. I told the guy "If you knew what I was thinking, you'd be screaming".

You may find this interesting.

He left (of course), but my only thought then was that he invaded my home, and stole from me.. It didn't even bother me that my wife was unfaithful. I instantly didn't want her anymore. But I didn't even raise my voice.

I think I told her (after he left). "The next time you see him, tell him he won. You're his now".

My wife was scared to death. She actually thought I was going to fight him for her. She thought there would be violence....in a romantic "These guys both want me" kind of way.

She got even angrier that I wasn't visibly upset. I moved into my office. The only thing that really bothered me, was that I knew it would affect my relationship with my son. This was maybe 32 years ago.

He walked in my store years later. He didn't know it was my store.

I thanked him for getting me out of a miserable marriage. He told me "I thought you were going to kill me"..

I said "I was."

He said "What stopped you?"

I said "Witnesses".

I said it like I was talking about the weather.

She ended up marrying a local guy that was very good to her, and was good to my son.

Well done. Far better than I managed in a similar situation some years back.

On a different note, I was just yesterday watching a documentary about the legendary hitman, Richard Kuklinski. You're "Witnesses" comment oddly reminded me of him.

You also have the same haircut that he has.

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by Richard Van

Well done. Far better than I managed in a similar situation some years back.

On a different note, I was just yesterday watching a documentary about the legendary hitman, Richard Kuklinski. You're "Witnesses" comment oddly reminded me of him.

You also have the same haircut that he has.

Look at the expression on his face. Now look at the expression on my face, on my avatar.

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Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

Look at the expression on his face. Now look at the expression on my face, on my avatar.

See it is working!
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Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre

Look at the expression on his face. Now look at the expression on my face, on my avatar.

Good Grief! It is you!
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Kay King 9 years ago

So true, Terra - when you have that there's no space for anyone else.
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9 years ago

I'd be happy for her. Apparently, her chronic headache had been cured.

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Originally Posted by Dan Riffle

I'd be happy for her. Apparently, her chronic headache had been cured.

And the Dan will use it as an excuse to become the Heff of Ohio...
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9 years ago

Originally Posted by WalkingCarpet

Knowing me I'd probably kill 'em both.
But what would you do?

I would grab the video camera and the lube.

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Is anyone wearing a shirt in this scenario?

Originally Posted by lanfear63

Claude's wife came home the other day and found him in bed with himself.

Hilarious.

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9 years ago

I once knew a guy that considered a woman using a toy on herself cheating,

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Originally Posted by Leriqs

I once knew a guy that considered a woman using a toy on herself cheating,

I don't know if it's cheating, but it sure is fascinating.
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Originally Posted by Leriqs

I once knew a guy that considered a woman using a toy on herself cheating,

I'd hate to imagine what he did to the toys she was cheating with.
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9 years ago

To address the OP -
Seems to me there's only one thing to do. Either leave or tell them to.
Under these circumstances, they either do not care for you enough to be honest - not a keeper.
Or - they haven't really decided you are the one, yet want you to consider them "the one" - not a situation to stay inside of.

So - I'd either walk or tell him to take a hike.

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9 years ago

I am not sure.

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Kay King 9 years ago

You paying tribute to WC? LOL

Studly Dudley's stick together? I've noticed men can be totally at odds with each other until the subject of "masculinity" or "the ladies" is brought up...then they fall into groups of "macho" and "know better than to go there".

With WC and Tim - I think it's an unshirt thing that brings them together.
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9 years ago

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9 years ago

Originally Posted by WalkingCarpet

Knowing me I'd probably kill 'em both.
But what would you do?

I would never have that problem since I'm never getting married.

So what would I do if I caught my girlfriend cheating on me? That's an easy one: I'd just get another girlfriend. Resorting to violence doesn't solve anything.

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Karen Blundell

9 years ago

WC,
serious answer here: it happened to me in 1986 - yes, I lost my temper and started throwing things - who could blame me? - this was me in a relationship with a guy for 7 years and I was a surrogate mother to his 2 sons - I took on the role of mother gladly - and to be rewarded by a cheater whom I forgave once -
but after the second time - I had warned him that it would be over if it ever happened again -

so after throwing stuff in a rage, I packed up my things, and drove to a friend's house in a really bad snow storm -

I cried all the way there, not because of leaving my cheating common-law husband, but because I couldn't take my dog with me- Venus was a beautiful golden retriever/lab mix and my friend had cats who weren't used to other animals -

I also cried because of the 2 boys - again, they were thrown back into instability - all because their father couldn't think with his brain instead of his ****

I think killing someone for a betrayal is never the answer - why waste your life for someone who doesn't deserve it?
So you walk away, and never look back.

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WalkingCarpet

Banned 9 years ago

Originally Posted by Karen Blundell

WC,
serious answer here: it happened to me in 1986 - yes, I lost my temper and started throwing things - who could blame me? - this was me in a relationship with a guy for 7 years and I was a surrogate mother to his 2 sons - I took on the role of mother gladly - and to be rewarded by a cheater whom I forgave once -
but after the second time - I had warned him that it would be over if it ever happened again -

so after throwing stuff in a rage, I packed up my things, and drove to a friend's house in a really bad snow storm -

I cried all the way there, not because of leaving my cheating common-law husband, but because I couldn't take my dog with me- Venus was a beautiful golden retriever/lab mix and my friend had cats who weren't used to other animals -

I also cried because of the 2 boys - again, they were thrown back into instability - all because their father couldn't think with his brain instead of his ****

I think killing someone for a betrayal is never the answer - why waste your life for someone who doesn't deserve it?
So you walk away, and never look back.

1986? Challenger.

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Karen Blundell 9 years ago

Originally Posted by WalkingCarpet

1986? Challenger.

yes, that year.

kind of dates me, doesn't it? lol - so much has happened since then.
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- WalkingCarpet Banned 9 years ago
  
  Originally Posted by Karen Blundell
  
  yes, that year.
  
  kind of dates me, doesn't it? lol - so much has happened since then.
  
  I was like 10 and still give me chills remembering seeing that on TV
  
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