Do Nice Guys Finish Last

Yeah, what's it feel like, Jag?

God, your posts are soooooo boring.

haha what a funny video!

Nice guys always wins!!

Earlier I used to be nice, too nice- still finished last.
Now I am a monster (comparatively) still finished last

My thought watching that guy was it would be nice to see Ronda Rousey give him a b*tch slapping for being obnoxious.

Your pathetic videos are a poor SEO attempt to get "links" (that are no follow) to your stupid blogs. What an assmonkey.

Last laugh. I know some women like the bad boy types but thats usually self correcting (bad boys end up being bad to them). I briefly dated one woman like that who was stunningly beautiful (other guys gawk kind of thing) . Didn't work out because on our first date she was still clearly hung up on her former bad boy boyfriend. By the end of the date (and in subsequent conversations ) she was warming up and beginning to forget about him and wanted us to continue dating but heres the thing - Women that like Bad boys have value issues that come out in some other way. She had been so incredibly rude to the waitress at the restaurant we went to I knew I wanted no such relationship. So in the end nice guys filter out the bad women

P.S. theres not a thing wrong with your thread. Its amazing given some of the other subjects down here that anyone would claim its boring.

I guess in a word the rejection is all about ineffective targeting. And going out to various places where women hang , with the intention of meeting them is "bum marketing". You gotta be bumming in the right market for your offer.


Some guy asked one of my old managers how he always got the classiest women, when he was kind of a bum himself from appearances, and his answer was that he didn't really have any secret, he just hung out at classier bars... it made perfect sense to him.


Was kind of eye opening for me as well.

Holy crap people. Freaking stop it - there's a lot more really serious stuff to get freaky with each other over than this thread, ya think?

As far as the videos being SEO bait - that might be true and if so, it needs to be reported, and Jag needs to stop it. Period.

As far as my personal thoughts about the videos. I get bored with people coming in and posting video after video, too. A well placed one once in awhile doesn't bother me - but cripes, if I wanted to do nothing but watch "TV" I wouldn't come to the forum to yack. I didn't watch this video - my connection is slow and I didn't feel like the hassle of it one more time -- instead I just responded to the question, because it seems like a lot of men ask this one. So all in all, it's a relevant question for discussion.

I used to like bad-boys. For one thing, they seem a little vain so keep themselves well toned, and usually dressed kinda hot. They were always tempting the rules somehow so they were exciting.

Later they became a pain because they can be rude, obnoxious, and untrustworthy. I was wearing very thin with them, but the "nice guys" were all so boring. Too soft spoken to say what they really think, not really into the outdoors, interesting in an intellectual way, but left something to be desired.

Then I got into the rock hound arena. Nice guys - but with that flair for adventure and even a little danger that the nice boys I knew in my earlier years lacked. Some of em are even really majorly hot on an intellectual plane. Problem solved. It's not "nice" that's the problem. It's a lack of adventurous spirit that will lose the woman's interest. Don't worry about it, though. Some women are hum-drum geeks, too. Why do dull guys want flashy women? Same thing.

Oh, the myth of the nice guy is being brought up again. In reality most nice guys are only that way because they don't have the traits needed to be anything else. If their circumstances were to change then suddenly they stop being so nice.

My uncle gave me some advice, and that was that you have to spend 4 seasons with someone before you can begin to know them. In my most recent relationship, I have heeded that advice, and it his turned out to be really good after a year and a half..., however his wisdom was still true. You don't begin to know someone till you spend four seasons with them.