How are we different at 60?

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I know that many of us are between 50 and 60 years old.

At sixty, I have noticed changes in my attitude, and my interests. I'm being serious.

For example;

I care less about my business. I'm less engaged. I give almost no effort to making sales, even very profitable ones. I simply care less than even a few years ago.

I have a new book that is 90% done. I could finish it in a solid day of effort. But I keep putting it off. The work is easy, but I'm less interested in the work, and the resulting income.

I'm forgetting how to spell words that I have known how to spell, my entire adult life.
my handwriting is becoming illegible, even to me. (although that may simply be mild arthritis).

But all is not bad.

I love my wife more than ever. And she grows more beautiful to me.
I think about her more, and myself less.

In my store, it's nearly impossible to anger me. Not because I'm so mild mannered, but because I care less what customers are thinking and saying.

I watch less cable TV, especially the news channels. I used to watch, so I could study what they were saying, and how they were coloring the meaning for effect....but I'm caring about that less.

I used to go to high end marketing seminars, and haven't for a couple of years, because I no longer care. I'm selling (on E-Bay) most of my information products...because I know I'll never use them again. I'm keeping my extensive book library, but mostly out of nostalgia.

I used to read comic books regularly. Now, I'm too near sighted to read them. Glasses are in my near future.

We'll likely buy another car. But I can see us never buying another one after that.

List of thing I absolutely know, I'll never do again;
Go swimming.
Dance.
Run. (unless my life is in danger, and then, maybe not)
Say or do something to impress another person.
Have sex.
Get married again.
Sky dive, rock climb, or anything that involves risk, for the sake of fun.
Sell in a customer's home (What I did for about 40 years)
Drink alcohol
Travel across country to give a paid speech.
Threaten anyone
Go to anyone's funeral.
Have a funeral
Go to a church
Visit a relative, just because they are related
Be frightened by scary movies, or even the prospect of my own dying. That's actually quite liberating.

These aren't stands that I've taken, just things I know I won't do again.

So.....how has your life changed with age? How are you different than you were even ten years ago? Do you think your changes are natural with age, or did you have a revelation of sorts?
  • Profile picture of the author lolCashlol
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    • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
      Originally Posted by lolCashlol View Post

      You will be fine.
      I'm fine now. It wasn't a call for help. I was just noticing changes, thought they were interesting, and wondered how other people changed with age.
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      • Profile picture of the author answergal
        The older I get the more enthused I am with my business. I have many friends over 60 that are IM people and they take what they learned and spin it into a fulfilling business.
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  • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
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    Well, let's see. I've gone from watching a small amount of TV, to only watching something really ground breaking that I love, like Breaking Bad, and Better Call Saul, etc. But more often, I just get the DVDs and watch them at my convenience.

    I no longer want to be involved with very much customer service. I have little patience for the shananigans that I put up with for so many years in the name of customer service. So I sell things that are passive, DIY type things online. I am semi-retired from online business and have passive offline income that I rely on, such as investment income, retirement funds from a previous job, etc.

    I go fishing a lot during the summer and it's what I want to do most of the time, except for Spring, when I want to garden.

    I still read a lot.

    My diet and exercise is stricter than it ever was. I went for 15 years without ever seeing a Dr. once. Now I have a doctor and I discovered that I had slightly high blood pressure and prediabetes. I eliminated both with diet and exercise, thus avoiding taking medications regularly.

    I used to desire male companionship and always had either a boyfriend or a husband. I have no use for either now. It's too tiresome accommodating someone else's needs and living up to their expectations.

    I have 7 grandchildren and if it weren't for extremely busy schedules of my children, I would spend even more time with them.

    I never gave much of a shit what people think, so that hasn't changed at all.

    I never would sky dive, rock climb, or anything that involves risk, for the sake of fun, but would love to go out on a boat to fish as often as possible. I just don't have a boat.

    I never bothered to try to impress people to start with, and haven't used drugs or alcohol for almost 30 years. I don't go to funerals or visit relatives that I don't like or go to church and never have, so nothing has changed there.

    I have a live and let live philosophy, so as long as someone is not hurting others, I don't care what they do, how they look, what they say, etc. I don't judge a book by its cover but I've always been that way, so no change there.

    My memory is not as good as it once was and that perturbs me because I had an excellent memory.

    That's all for now. I'm going to the local lake to get in an hour or two of night fishing.
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  • Profile picture of the author MikeAmbrosio
    I turned 50 11 months ago. I am more physically active now than I was at 40. I started regularly running and exercising due to a physical when I was 43 or 44, but I have actually grown to enjoy it.

    My on line business - which used to monopolize my days and nights - no longer means that much to me, thanks to my burning out.

    My off line consulting in the pharmaceutical industry occupies my days now and I still enjoy the challenges. Mostly because I never thought I would be an independent consultant. But even still, I don't kill myself. My business has grown between 10 and 20% each of the past 4 years and will again this year and I have NO other employees - although I do have one of my sons work with me on Saturdays and one other friend helps out on busy months. Normally I work between 7 and 9 hours per day, 4 - 5 on Saturdays.

    I enjoy traveling with my family - we tend to take a one week vacation every year and several "week-enders" per year.

    TV tends to bore me - way too many "reality" shows. And you can forget news shows. They all annoy me now. I am selective about what I do watch and I average about 1.5 hours a day - 45 minutes a night watching something with my wife before she goes to bed, and another 45 when I wind down a few hours later.

    I read more than ever, though mostly fiction stories that revolve around "super spies" and their super human adventures - that and good "whodunits". I rarely read the "self help" stuff anymore, mostly because I don't need the help

    I care not at all what people think of me on a personal level (mostly because I know I am usually likeable and have no "enemies" so I don't concern myself with what strangers or acquaintances think of me).

    Financial freedom came to me later in life so I have a deep appreciation for what I have and how quickly things can change.

    My wife and I have been together for 17 years (13 married) and I love her more now than ever. We actually LIKE being together.

    Things I will never do again? Not much really. I'd say skydiving, but I never did that before. Not in my wheelhouse I don't see myself taking long road trips anymore, but that's mostly due to the number of rest stop breaks I have to take - annoying on long trips Besides, I can afford to fly and rent cars now.

    Overall, at 50 I am in the best place mentally, physically and emotionally than at any other time in my life.

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    • Profile picture of the author TimPhelan
      Interesting thread, Claude. I think I feel a lot like you in some ways and then in others I feel very different. Part of that is because our circumstances are different I'm sure.

      Perhaps I will think about this more and come up with a list later when I have more time.

      But.... No more sex?
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      • Profile picture of the author MikeAmbrosio
        Originally Posted by TimPhelan View Post

        Interesting thread, Claude. I think I feel a lot like you in some ways and then in others I feel very different. Part of that is because our circumstances are different I'm sure.

        Perhaps I will think about this more and come up with a list later when I have more time.

        But.... No more sex?
        If that's me at 60 then I'd just as soon jump off a cliff 80, maybe.

        But no judgement there, Claude. To each their own.
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        • Profile picture of the author lanfear63
          I was waiting for you to put this out there. I am also interested in why we get like this and can we slow it down, change it?.

          I don't exercise much or eat good healthy food. Aged 58 my testosterone levels and sex drive has waned, I am getting more impatient and cantankerous. I am also losing interest in earning a living online. I have a full time job and that takes it out of you where as a few years back I would jump on the computer when I got home and continue my quest to be self sufficient, working online. Had some success at that but now no longer can be bothered so much. I would more like now to find little things to invest small amounts of money into and make it as passive as possible.

          Why do I think you and I are getting like this. It's simply an age thing to an extent, we slow down, are less sharp, tastes in interest's changes. We become more dependant on others, less confident less ambitious, less competitive etc, it's inevitable.

          The other two things are health and finances. If you have a standard of living that you like and could continue it if you gave up working because your finances are healthy, then why bother to be a go getter anymore.

          The physical health side is a bit different, say if I suddenly start eating right, worked out and became slimmer and fitter, felt good etc, I WOULD have more energy and stamina and it might just rekindle some of my ambitions in business, who knows.. I could possibly stave it off for a long time. But have I got the motivation to try off my own back and stick with it?

          Tell you what though, I can now identify with this shift in interests, ambitions and motivation that you talk about because it's slowly happening to me.

          Tell that to younger people, they would find it difficult to grasp.
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      • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
        Originally Posted by TimPhelan View Post

        Interesting thread, Claude. I think I feel a lot like you in some ways and then in others I feel very different. Part of that is because our circumstances are different I'm sure.

        Perhaps I will think about this more and come up with a list later when I have more time.

        But.... No more sex?
        Nope. I shouldn't have mentioned it, I suppose. But I have my reasons. And they are reasons everyone would understand, if I thought it was important to share.


        But...that's not why I started the thread.

        At 60, I honestly feel I have another ten good years of active life. So we are buying less. We probably won't buy furniture again. (It's going to all last 100 years, anyway) Probably, we won't buy another home.

        My understanding of selling is at an all time high. I know I have a dozen more books to write. But my interest in writing them is waning. I've spent some time figuring out how to give myself real deadlines, to force my activity.

        Just changes I see, as an observer. Not good or bad. Nothing I want to correct. And I'm hearing some interesting stuff from you guys.
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        • Profile picture of the author TimPhelan
          Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

          Nope. I shouldn't have mentioned it, I suppose. But I have my reasons. And they would be reasons everyone would understand, if I thought it was important to share.
          Well, it's definitely an area of life where some changes often/usually happen at around our age. I know it has for me also.
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          • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
            Originally Posted by TimPhelan View Post

            Well, it's definitely an area of life where some changes often/usually happen at around our age. I know it has for me also.
            I'm more interested in the other areas of your life, how your priorities are changing, your interests, maybe your opinions.
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        • Profile picture of the author HeySal
          Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

          At 60, I honestly feel I have another ten good years of active life.
          In my family, 60 means only around 30 - 50 years of active life left. Serious - had two around, living on their own, and active til 110 when they just inexplicably keeled over and died.

          Anyhow - at 60, I can see a lot of changes.

          My physical strength has decreased. Not badly, but there are things I used to be able to lift that I can't now. I don't carry as heavy a back pack as I used to.
          I'm not as fast as I used to be. I get things done but if someone tries to rush me it irritates me to death.
          I have less tolerance for stupidity, for people who are ambitious but completely clueless about how to do things.
          I have very little tolerance for consumers and status quos driven people.
          I watch what I eat more than I used to and eat much less "fun" food.
          I actually need glasses to read. I can still use the computer and operate generally without them, but reading - not.
          I'm still healthy and don't have a lot of the aches and pains other people talk about.
          I've made a move recently - not seeking adventure in a new region, but to be closer to family. I've become much more family oriented.
          I don't care if I ever have a boyfriend or husband again, although it would be nice to share the finances with someone else. I have a lot of male friends, but always have. The companionship of a good male friend is enough for me, though. If I run into someone and fall head over heels, well, that's okay, but I no longer care if it happens or not.
          I was never much for TV and sitting and watching still is something I can't do for very long.
          I actually need my sleep now and very rarely operate on less that 6 hours and it ticks me off if I have to. I used to pull all-nighters, and sometimes 2 in a row without problems. It's a problem now.
          I have no more tolerance (always had little, now it's none) for people who judge my actions, or tell me what I should do. Don't want it or need it. I've made it this far, I think I can handle it.
          I've gotten much of my bucketlisting done. Still have more to do, but I've had a lot of different experiences and adventure.
          I could care less about business in any form if it's not my own ventures, and if I were financially situated would discontinue it all but my rock and gem interests completely. Unfortunately, at this age it's been hard to re-establish my footing after being wiped out at the age of 53. More to work on before I try surviving on SS, though, huh? LOL. ouch.
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  • Profile picture of the author laurencewins
    It's interesting that you write this thread, Claude. I am 51 now and I wonder when I went from feeling "young and energetic" to feeling "old and frustrated" at many things.

    I have to sit down more often when I go shopping. I don't socialise much. I have lots of medical problems and it seems like an endless abyss.

    I don't fear death. I have experienced it but came back. I wonder what it would feel to be "there" and not able to move or feel forever...Not sure that is even an adequate explanation.

    Memory isn't as good as it used to be. I had a thriving theatre hobby and profession and I could memorise dialogue easily. Now I can't always remember the little things.

    I live alone and I know I always will from now on. I do suffer from depression but it is well-controlled. I think this is just a phase but maybe it's more than that, a transition?
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    • Profile picture of the author AprilCT
      How am I different than 10 years ago? Back then I was working and had to keep my opinions and mouth under somewhat decent control. Now I don't have to, and I like it a lot better.

      I am working on my books, several different kinds as well as continuing the series. Instead of pounding the keyboard, I work at it when I feel like it--they will all get there. Sometimes a lot of work, sometimes just a little.

      I am definitely interested, but being retired (rather unceremoniously via phone call going into my 30th year with the company, along with hundreds of others), I love doing what I want when I want. I also pretty much say what I want within reason--hahaha--my reasons which I think are reasonable. I'm not vindictive, but now I'd never worry about something getting back to my former employer and causing trouble.

      Don't let anyone kid you, being "retired" is a very busy time. There's time to get to a lot of things now, opinions are made out of even tougher stuff than before because: time to delve deeply in how politics and politicians run, actually watch all the changes going on everywhere. I've also learned not to read or listen much to the very slanted "mainstream misinformation news".

      I still don't much care about TV, very occasionally, would rather get a dvd and watch a movie I actually want to see.

      I've kept the same faith throughout my life, and it's a much deeper one now.

      I intend to be "forever young" against all odds. If you can't get through something, there's always over it, under it or sideways around it, as well as coming through the back door if you have to. Think creatively and do good things so you have no regrets in the life you live.

      I've always been very persistent in getting things done. Still persistent, just somewhat slower at it :-)
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    • Profile picture of the author Karen Blundell
      for the past year and a few months I have been taking better care of myself - going for long walks and I'm losing weight that I gained after a long bout of self-neglect - in fact I'm almost down 2 sizes just the walking and eating better but still not depriving myself is doing it - I'm sleeping better too so all in all I'm in better shape at 61 than I was at 50 -

      I don't think I will ever live with another man again - it has never worked out for me - and just the thought of having to worry about someone else's needs (other than my son's who is all grown up and needs me less and less) makes me feel stressed -

      One thing that has drastically changed about me is that I no longer tolerate abuse of any kind - I was always a victim - and I put up with a lot of abuse over the years, feeling somehow that I did something to deserve that bad treatment - but now I know the opposite is true - that I deserve happiness and peace.

      So I actually feel that at 61 - I'm better than I have ever been - despite the salt and pepper hair, the aging skin, etc. and I still do most of the things I have always done especially when it relates to music and the arts
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      • Profile picture of the author tagiscom
        I am getting close to 50, but don't look a day over 36, (seriously).

        The only real difference is that l can't jump up onto a plastic bin like l used to, have to put in one foot then the other.

        Even with Pilates twice a week.


        Apart from that....

        Closer to my financial freedom goal, (although the GR July 4th niche is proving to be a wasteland, but hopefully sales will pick up soon)?

        I literally cannot comprehend meeting someone, although cannot discount it either. Although when the money comes in that might as well?

        TV, LOL, the only show l watch is Rumble, (renovation show)!

        The rest are popular tv shows from the past on my Laptop, just watched Lost in Space where they go back go Earth yesterday, classic!

        SEX, no comment, but it isn't waining!


        My life at the moment is Groundhog Day, with a new flyer project to break the illusion.


        Climb Everest, jump out of a plane, probably not, the most risky thing l would do is go on a rollacoaster ride at Movie world, the Lethal Weapon one looks good, but the one near the main entrance, not unless l was in a coma and tied down.

        Death, LOL, there is no death only a transition. What happens before then is a worry.

        Heaven is the real one, this is a fake one!


        Give the sociopaths a good kick up....., create a time machine, develop a UFO, and send it to the moon to see what is really there, then post the lot online, usual stuff!

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  • Profile picture of the author Ron Lafuddy
    Claude, you old softie.

    Everything else in your post is just window dressing, compared to this:
    I love my wife more than ever. And she grows more beautiful to me.
    I think about her more, and myself less.


    You're a lucky man, who knows it!
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    • Profile picture of the author discrat
      Funny, how much you know at 22 !

      And (at least for me) the older you get the more you realize how much you really do not know LOL
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    • Profile picture of the author lanfear63
      Originally Posted by Ron Lafuddy View Post

      Claude, you old softie.

      Everything else in your post is just window dressing, compared to this:
      I love my wife more than ever. And she grows more beautiful to me.
      I think about her more, and myself less.


      You're a lucky man, who knows it!
      Ahh, needs fixing.

      "I love my mirror more than ever. And my reflection grows more beautiful to me."

      Better..
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      • Profile picture of the author TimPhelan
        I'm hoping I live as long as most of the men in my family, who lived well past their 80s and into their 90s.

        My grandpa Earl lived to be 92 and was in excellent condition up until his last year. He remarried when he was in his 80s. I remember going to his home one day when he was 90 and when it was over 90 degrees out and seeing him putting blacktop on his driveway. My mother, who will be 90 next month, still drives her car, takes walks in the neighborhood, goes for hikes, loves the Giants and 49ers, is constantly reading great biographical books, etc...

        I still feel I may have a third more of my life in active living ahead of me. You never know though.

        One of the ways I have changed from when I was younger is in the understanding that your future is largely defined by your perception of that future. That goes for any age.


        I also in later years have come to believe in something referred to as The Wisdom of Uncertainty. The basic jist of this idea is that the more certain you are about your future the more you limit your life to what the world offers. Of course you make choices along the way and those choices can lead to a life you love, but for those who are not totally happy with their life it makes sense to keep your options in life open.

        I'm still thinking of other ways I am different now from 30 or 40 years ago. Part of my problem in doing so is that inside, I feel like I am 32. Then reality kicks in when I look in the mirror every morning.
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        • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
          Originally Posted by TimPhelan View Post

          I'm still thinking of other ways I am different now from 30 or 40 years ago. Part of my problem in doing so is that inside, I feel like I am 32. Then reality kicks in when I look in the mirror every morning.
          I feel like I'm 60. And I look 60.

          And when I wake up in the morning, it's always better than what I was dreaming.

          A beautiful loving wife, next to me, a beautiful home, and a huge painting of a crabapple tree in full bloom, in front of me, as I get out of bed. I have no religious thoughts...but that crabapple tree reminds me of the best parts of my childhood, and if I could spend eternity in that painting, that wouldn't be so bad.
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          • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
            Well, I'm not 60 yet and have 7 whole years before I get there.

            But being over fifty, I've noticed a few slight changes like sometimes I cry at the silliest things and sometimes I laugh at serious moments. I've always been emotional, laughing and crying, but what triggers those, is a bit different now.

            I wake up with a few aches and pains in my lower back and hips, but they fade away after I do some stretches and touch my toes. Yes, I can still touch my toes!

            As far as my business goes, I'm happy to write for anyone and do voice overs for anyone who contacts me and I have quite a few loyal clients and pick up some new work here and there from people who contact me. But as far as advertising and going after them, I don't. I don't care if I'm working or not. That has changed.

            I've never cared what other people think of me. When I was younger, I just couldn't imagine anyone not liking me but now that I'm older, I really don't care. I figure it's their problem to deal with, not mine. I probably would have cared when I was younger if I had the slightest inkling someone didn't care for me much. And some people I didn't care for got quite the tongue lashing beat down. That was always fun and still is! Haha!

            Other than that, I'm still the happy, talkative, fun loving girlie girl that I've always been.


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            • Profile picture of the author lolCashlol
              Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

              Well, I'm not 60 yet and have 7 whole years before I get there.



              I wake up with a few aches and pains in my lower back and hips, but they fade away after I does some stretches and touch my toes. Yes, I can still touch my toes!
              I am 22 and I wake up with foot and leg pain that doesn't go away with stretching and fades and comes back the next morning. Can't touch my toes - never did, and probably never will.

              Can't imagine how I will be at 60....

              My excuse is that I'm a lazy millennial that is not use to physical stuff...

              Laptop + Iphone ftw.
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          • Profile picture of the author TimPhelan
            Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post


            A beautiful loving wife, next to me, a beautiful home, and a huge painting of a crabapple tree in full bloom, in front of me, as I get out of bed. I have no religious thoughts...but that crabapple tree reminds me of the best parts of my childhood, and if I could spend eternity in that painting, that wouldn't be so bad.
            Ahh, so you do appreciate art after all.
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          • Profile picture of the author lanfear63
            Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

            I feel like I'm 60. And I look 60.

            And when I wake up in the morning, it's always better than what I was dreaming.

            A beautiful loving wife, next to me, a beautiful home, and a huge painting of a crabapple tree in full bloom, in front of me, as I get out of bed. I have no religious thoughts...but that crabapple tree reminds me of the best parts of my childhood, and if I could spend eternity in that painting, that wouldn't be so bad.
            "A beautiful loving Pony, next to me, a beautiful Trailer, and a huge painting of an STD guide in full resolution, in front of me, as I get out of bed. I have no Cognitive thoughts...but that STD guide reminds me of the best parts of my body having Crabs, and if I could spend eternity in that Doctors office, that wouldn't be so bad."

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  • Profile picture of the author Dan Riffle
    Wow, it's like the Soylent Green Society up in here.




    In all seriousness, I can appreciate everyone's comments (well, except Claude's). I'm quickly turning 40 and I'm struggling with the fact that I'm not 22 anymore. I can no longer treat my body with the most grievous of disrespect and expect it to immediately bounce back. My days of kicking Jim Beam's ass and going to work the next morning with three hours of sleep are over.


    Having older parents -my dad was 47 when I was born - its always been pounded in my head that you never know as much as you think you do. I can remember reflecting back on my life at 20, 25, 30, 35 and now at 40, and thinking, "Good God, you are an idiot." It's not that I didn't have the knowledge or intellect. I just didn't have the wisdom to manipulate the two. It really does come with age.


    That said, I hope your Ensure is always cold and your heating pad perpetually warm.




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    • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
      Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

      Wow, it's like the Soylent Green Society up in here.




      In all seriousness, I can appreciate everyone's comments (well, except Claude's). I'm quickly turning 40 and I'm struggling with the fact that I'm not 22 anymore. I can no longer treat my body with the most grievous of disrespect and expect it to immediately bounce back. My days of kicking Jim Beam's ass and going to work the next morning with three hours of sleep are over.


      Having older parents -my dad was 44 when I was born - its always been pounded in my head that you never know as much as you think you do. I can remember reflecting back on my life at 20, 25, 30, 35 and now at 40, and thinking, "Good God, you are an idiot." It's not that I didn't have the knowledge or intellect. I just didn't have the wisdom to manipulate the two. It really does come with age.


      That said, I hope all of your Ensure is always cold and your heating pad perpetually warm.
      Kids nowadays.
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      Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

      Well, I'm not 60 yet and have 7 whole years before I get there.

      But being over fifty, I've noticed a few slight changes like sometimes I cry at the silliest things and sometimes I laugh at serious moments. I've always been emotional, laughing and crying, but what triggers those, is a bit different now.

      I wake up with a few aches and pains in my lower back and hips, but they fade away after I do some stretches and touch my toes. Yes, I can still touch my toes!

      As far as my business goes, I'm happy to write for anyone and do voice overs for anyone who contacts me and I have quite a few loyal clients and pick up some new work here and there from people who contact me. But as far as advertising and going after them, I don't. I don't care if I'm working or not. That has changed.

      Terra
      Touch your toes, yes l can do that as well. My back used to be sore, afterwards, but it isn't now!

      Originally Posted by lolCashlol View Post

      I am 22 and I wake up with foot and leg pain that doesn't go away with stretching and fades and comes back the next morning. Can't touch my toes - never did, and probably never will.

      Can't imagine how I will be at 60....

      My excuse is that I'm a lazy millennial that is not use to physical stuff...

      Laptop + Iphone ftw.
      Lazy, hmmmm, probably won't be able to see your toes at 60, he, he!


      Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

      I feel like I'm 60.

      And when I wake up in the morning, it's always better than what I was dreaming.

      A beautiful loving wife, next to me, a beautiful home, and a huge painting of a crabapple tree in full bloom, in front of me, as I get out of bed. I have no religious thoughts...but that crabapple tree reminds me of the best parts of my childhood, and if I could spend eternity in that painting, that wouldn't be so bad.
      A beautiful house, with a beautiful wife, and l ask, how did l get here,......

      The Crabapple tree, becomes a burning bush, we can only hope?

      Sorry, mods, but at least l didn't mention donuts this time!

      Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

      Wow, it's like the Soylent Green Society up in here.

      In all seriousness, I can appreciate everyone's comments (well, except Claude's). I'm quickly turning 40 and I'm struggling with the fact that I'm not 22 anymore. I can no longer treat my body with the most grievous of disrespect and expect it to immediately bounce back. My days of kicking Jim Beam's ass and going to work the next morning with three hours of sleep are over.
      Soylent Green, may contain traces of human bone?

      Give us another 40 years, and we will be posting, "Life is cruel, and why Hasn't Global Warming Happened Yet" thread!

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      Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

      Wow, it's like the Soylent Green Society up in here.

      In all seriousness, I can appreciate everyone's comments (well, except Claude's). I'm quickly turning 40 and I'm struggling with the fact that I'm not 22 anymore..
      whoaa. Back it up there partner.
      You are not even 40 yet ?

      You are kidding, right ?

      I thought you were Claude's age.

      This is a game changer for me and my perspective of you

      A real game changer

      Claude you never told me this Riff- man was a youngin LOL

      Riff, you can forget the politeness that I had for you thinking you were my elder.
      All bets are off....you little- green- behind- the ears you
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        Originally Posted by discrat View Post

        whoaa. Back it up there partner.
        You are not even 40 yet ?

        You are kidding, right ?

        I thought you were Claude's age.

        This is a game changer for me and my perspective of you

        A real game changer

        Claude you never told me this Riff- man was a youngin LOL

        Riff, you can forget the politeness that I had for you thinking you were my elder.
        All bets are off....you little- green- behind- the ears you
        Robert; I think the reason Riffle fools us, is that we read his humor, and I think humor develops earlier. For example, I'm not funnier, or wittier than I was at 40. Humor is intellectual, and Riffle has plenty of that.

        The one that really fooled me, was Shane. (I hope this doesn't sound insulting). I thought Shane as 15 or 16 years old, for the first couple of years I read his posts. Finding out he was in his 40s came as something of a shock.
        (Added later; The reason I thought he was so young, is because he has interests and views that I had when I was that age)

        I had a similar shock when I found out Dan Riffle was married to a woman.
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          Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

          Robert; I think the reason Riffle fools us, is that we read his humor, and I think humor develops earlier. For example, I'm not funnier, or wittier than I was at 40. Humor is intellectual, and Riffle has plenty of that.

          The one that really fooled me, was Shane. (I hope this doesn't sound insulting). I thought Shane as 15 or 16 years old, for the first couple of years I read his posts. Finding out he was in his 40s came as something of a shock.

          I had a similar shock when I found out Dan Riffle was married to a woman.
          Ditto: I thought he was early to middle twenties ...
          I of course had enough class not to mention it

          As far as Dan goes - I thought he was your age also.
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            Originally Posted by kenmichaels View Post

            As far as Dan goes - I thought he was your age also.

            Et tu, Michaels?
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              Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

              Et tu, Michaels?
              I rest my case as to why.
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                Originally Posted by kenmichaels View Post

                I rest my case as to why.


                Dammit.
                ...
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                  Daniel Riffle!!

                  I don't care how old I get to be, I will never ever eat people, I won't make food out of people, and I won't make drinks out of people!

                  Your are a big sicko! A much bigger sicko than I already thought you were!

                  Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

                  Terra; Soylent Green is a new energy drink for people in their later years. It's made mostly of soy.

                  Well, well, well, aren't you a big fat liar, haha!


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                    Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

                    Daniel Riffle!!

                    I don't care how old I get to be, I will never ever eat people, I won't make food out of people, and I won't make drinks out of people!

                    Your are a big sicko! A much bigger sicko than I already thought you were!
                    Riffle...Unmasked.

                    Terra; Remember, he's still a kid.
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                    Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

                    Daniel Riffle!!

                    I don't care how old I get to be, I will never ever eat people...
                    omg... this made me LOL BIG TIME!!!!
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                      Thanks for launching this thread, Claude!

                      I'll be 57 in three months and I've noticed A LOT of changes just in the last five years, let alone ten.

                      I have a lot more "senior moments" than I used to, and lately, I haven't even edited them out of my videos. I just completely lose my train of thought, and I say so!

                      I'm not sure what age I "feel" like anymore. My husband turned 49 today; my daughter turns 40 next month (he is obviously her stepfather ) so some days I don't feel older than 45, but most other times I feel closer to 75!!

                      I recently changed my blog focus to attract more baby boomers to my online world because other than to visit family, I don't go out much anymore. Fortunately, my husband is the same way.

                      I like crowds less and less today; my claustrophobia is worse now that I'm older too.

                      And now, I'm having another senior moment...

                      Oh, that's what I was thinking... Today is Friday Favorites on my blog, so I believe I'll do a video about this forum, in particular, this thread!

                      Something else that I've thought about a lot more in the last couple of years: the last two things that were on my "must do" in life list are done.

                      1. Buy a house - which we did in 2005. This is my first house and will be my last. I have no desire to move.
                      2. Have a "real" wedding; my husband and I eloped in 2004. Six years later we renewed our vows with a "traditional" wedding - I finally got to wear a real wedding gown! We rented a fire hall and had a real reception with a real wedding cake, etc.

                      Since then, there hasn't been anything else I've really wanted or needed to do.

                      My Jim is my fourth husband; so I will absolutely never get married again, even if I happen to outlive him.

                      Our home is my dream house, so I will never buy another one. I plan to retire in this home, unless, God forbid, something happens to my husband and I can't afford to pay anyone to take care of this place for me.

                      The only thing I'd like to do with it is make it all one level though. Steps are my enemy lately, and this is a bilevel house.

                      And now, to do my video!

                      Have an awesome day everybody!
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                    Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

                    Daniel Riffle!!

                    I don't care how old I get to be, I will never ever eat people, I won't make food out of people, and I won't make drinks out of people!

                    Your are a big sicko! A much bigger sicko than I already thought you were!




                    Well, well, well, aren't you a big fat liar, haha!


                    Terra
                    Terra, has Biz hacked your account?

                    If I remember correctly, Soylent Green is made mostly of the old and the infirm. I'm not insinuating that you'd ever eat people. I'm insinuating that you're old enough to be food.
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                      Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

                      Terra, has Biz hacked your account?

                      If I remember correctly, Soylent Green is made mostly of the old and the infirm. I'm not insinuating that you'd ever eat people. I'm insinuating that you're old enough to be food.
                      Yum, Terriyaki cuisine
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                        Originally Posted by lanfear63 View Post

                        Yum, Terriyaki cuisine

                        Ewwww!


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                      Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

                      Terra, has Biz hacked your account?

                      If I remember correctly, Soylent Green is made mostly of the old and the infirm. I'm not insinuating that you'd ever eat people. I'm insinuating that you're old enough to be food.
                      Oh yeah?

                      Well, then eat me, baby!


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                        Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

                        Muuuuuch better. You really saved yourself there.
                        Save myself? From someone's misinterpretation?


                        Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

                        Oh yeah?

                        Well, then eat me, baby!

                        Terra
                        Sorry, nothing past the expiration date for me, thank you.


                        (Yes, I wrote seven different responses. The above is the only one I had the huevos to post.)
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                          Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post





                          Sorry, nothing past the expiration date for me, thank you.

                          Well, you messed up on that one!

                          I haven't expired yet. Hello?

                          We're talking aren't we? That means I'm still breathing and living and not just living, but living life to the fullest. I'm still doing and enjoying things some women half my age can't do.

                          So, you probably are better off drinking your Solyent Green old people juice.

                          I don't qualify! So there!


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                            Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

                            Well, you messed up on that one!

                            I haven't expired yet. Hello?

                            We're talking aren't we? That means I'm still breathing and living and not just living, but living life to the fullest. I'm still doing and enjoying things some women half my age can't do.

                            So, you probably are better off drinking your Solyent Green old people juice.

                            I don't qualify! So there!


                            Terra
                            Can somebody tell me what this cheeseburger is mumbling about?
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                              Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

                              Can somebody tell me what this cheeseburger is mumbling about?
                              Cheeseburger? LOL!

                              I rather think of myself in food terms as a big heart shaped box of assorted chocolates. When you open me up, you never know what you're gonna get.


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                                Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

                                Cheeseburger? LOL!

                                I rather think of myself in food terms as a big heart shaped box of assorted chocolates. When you open me up, you never know what you're gonna get.


                                Terra

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                                  Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

                                  Seriously? You really are just a baby, infantile even!

                                  I mean, what grown up watches that crap? haha!


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                                    Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

                                    I mean, what grown up watches that crap? haha!


                                    Terra

                                    Probably a grown up searching Youtube for a talking cheeseburger.
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                                I read the obituaries more often. If I'm not listed, I figure the day is off to a good start.

                                Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

                                Well, then eat me, baby!
                                Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

                                When you open me up, you never know what you're gonna get.
                                Now there are two things I never thought I'd hear you say.
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                                  Originally Posted by Dennis Gaskill View Post

                                  .
                                  I read the obituaries more often. If I'm not listed, I figure the day is off to a good start.





                                  Now there are two things I never thought I'd hear you say.



                                  Dennis Riffle Gaskill!

                                  You just made me want to throw up!!

                                  How could you take advantage of a girl's contextuality??

                                  You still have never heard me say that, so there!

                                  Originally Posted by MissTerraK
                                  Oh yeah?

                                  Well, then eat me, baby!
                                  I meant since Riffle's so young and wanted to eat old people and implied I was old, I was daring him to just try and...and...well just try it and end up on the floor gasping for breath after I landed my flying roundhouse kick to his solar plexus!

                                  Originally Posted by MissTerraK
                                  When you open me up, you never know what you're gonna get.
                                  That was a play on Forest Gump's line...



                                  Dennis, behave!

                                  Now there's something I never thought I would have to say to you.


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                                    Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post



                                    Dennis Riffle Gaskill!

                                    You just made me want to throw up!!

                                    How could you take advantage of a girl's contextuality??

                                    You still have never heard me say that, so there!



                                    I meant since Riffle's so young and wanted to eat old people and implied I was old, I was daring him to just try and...and...well just try it and end up on the floor gasping for breath after I landed my flying roundhouse kick to his solar plexus!



                                    That was a play on Forest Gump's line...

                                    Life is like a box of chocolates - Forrest Gump - YouTube


                                    Dennis, behave!

                                    Now there's something I never thought I would have to say to you.


                                    Terra
                                    You do realize you were the only person to not put those words in that context, right?

                                    Cheeseburgers these days. Whaddya gonna do.
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                                      Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

                                      You do realize you were the only person to not put those words in that context, right?

                                      Cheeseburgers these days. Whaddya gonna do.


                                      Really?

                                      OMGosh!

                                      Well then, you all need to behave!! Haha!

                                      Edit:

                                      I AM NOT a cheeseburger! I'm not cheesey in any way, shape or form!

                                      But if you insist on calling me cheese, I much prefer cheesecake, thank you very much!!


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                                    Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post



                                    Dennis Riffle Gaskill!

                                    You just made me want to throw up!!

                                    <snip>


                                    Dennis, behave!

                                    Now there's something I never thought I would have to say to you.


                                    Terra

                                    Um, darlin' ... you chose the context in which you received my comment.


                                    As for me behaving, you probably won't have to worry about that. I've got one foot out the door already. Just a matter of time before the other one follows.
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                                      Originally Posted by Dennis Gaskill View Post

                                      Um, darlin' ... you chose the context in which you received my comment.


                                      As for me behaving, you probably won't have to worry about that. I've got one foot out the door already. Just a matter of time...
                                      As Mr. Bill would always say...


                                      OOOOH NOOOO!


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                                        Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

                                        As Mr. Bill would always say...


                                        OOOOH NOOOO!


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                                        Only Soylent Green ready people actually remember Mr. Bill.
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                                          Originally Posted by bizgrower View Post

                                          Only Soylent Green ready people actually remember Mr. Bill.








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                                            Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post








                                            Terra
                                            Aww, Terra:


                                            You know you're one of the most loved in the OT.










                                            (Hope that playing a song by one of my favs for one of my favs is a good recovery.)
                                            (Actually, it was a plan to post a song by one of my most admired performers.)
                                            (I wish I could figure out that small font thingy.)
                                            (It's OT - you really can use three, er four parenthesis in a row.)
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                                              Originally Posted by bizgrower View Post

                                              Aww, Terra:

                                              Taylor Swift - Shake It Off - YouTube

                                              You know you're one of the most loved in the OT.










                                              (Hope that playing a song by one of my favs for one of my favs is a good recovery.)
                                              (Actually, it was a plan to post a song by one of my most admired performers.)
                                              (I wish I could figure out that small font thingy.)
                                              (It's OT - you really can use three, er four parenthesis in a row.)

                                              No worries...


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                              Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

                              Can somebody tell me what this cheeseburger is mumbling about?
                              Hold the pickle.
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                              Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

                              Can somebody tell me what this cheeseburger is mumbling about?
                              Riffle probably tastes like the pretentious ham that he am.
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                                Originally Posted by bizgrower View Post

                                Riffle probably tastes like ham.
                                If you would have said, "A pretentious ham", I would have agreed with you.
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                                  Originally Posted by bizgrower View Post

                                  Riffle probably tastes like the pretentious ham that he am.
                                  Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

                                  If you would have said, "A pretentious ham", I would have agreed with you.
                                  Why, Claude, whatever do you mean?
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                                    Originally Posted by bizgrower View Post

                                    Why, Claude, whatever do you mean?
                                    Honest to God, you had me convinced for a few seconds, that I just read your post and copied it.

                                    Don't mess with an old man's noodle.
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                                      Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

                                      Don't mess with an old man's noodle.
                                      Why not? According to an earlier post, you're not planning to.
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                                        Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

                                        Honest to God, you had me convinced for a few seconds, that I just read your post and copied it.

                                        Don't mess with an old man's noodle.
                                        Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

                                        Why not? According to an earlier post, you're not planning to.
                                        I surfed the Riffle in the space/time continuum to mess with your noggin.
                                        Your noodle is your business. And, I respect that.
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                                          Ahem......Webster says....
                                          noun noo·dle \ˈnü-dəl\
                                          Definition of NOODLE

                                          1 head, noggin
                                          :
                                          2 a stupid person : simpleton
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                                          Therefore, I am right.... and you two Noodles are wrong.
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                                            Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

                                            Ahem......Webster says....
                                            noun noo·dle ˈnü-dəl
                                            Definition of NOODLE

                                            1
                                            : a stupid person : simpleton
                                            2
                                            : head, noggin

                                            Therefore, I am right.... and you two Noodles are wrong.
                                            I confused Riffle with Donovan. It won't happen again, after I recover from this
                                            space-time thing. It's rougher on me than it used to be.
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                                              Originally Posted by bizgrower View Post

                                              I confused Riffle with Donovan. It won't happen again, after I recover from this
                                              space-time thing. It's rougher on me than it used to be.
                                              Let me be Frank....The Donovan is strong with you.
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                          • Profile picture of the author tagiscom
                            Originally Posted by Dennis Gaskill View Post

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                            I read the obituaries more often. If I'm not listed, I figure the day is off to a good start.

                            Now there are two things I never thought I'd hear you say.
                            I would check Terra's house for face hugging, dead, spiders before inviting her over for dinner.

                            Otherwise she might bight you first?

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                    • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
                      Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

                      Terra, has Biz hacked your account?

                      If I remember correctly, Soylent Green is made mostly of the old and the infirm. I'm not insinuating that you'd ever eat people. I'm insinuating that you're old enough to be food.
                      Muuuuuch better. You really saved yourself there.

                      Originally Posted by TimPhelan View Post

                      Ahh, so you do appreciate art after all.
                      Of course. I don't feel empathy for the artist, or loyalty to the artist.....but of course, I can appreciate art.


                      Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

                      Oh yeah?

                      Well, then eat me, baby!


                      Terra
                      Dan; Say it...go ahead and say it!

                      My question is, how fast can you run?


                      Originally Posted by lanfear63 View Post

                      Yum, Terriyaki cuisine
                      I was thinking Beef Jerky. (I actually love beef jerky)
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                      • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
                        Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

                        Muuuuuch better. You really saved yourself there.



                        Of course. I don't feel empathy for the artist, or loyalty to the artist.....but of course, I can appreciate art.




                        Dan; Say it...go ahead and say it!

                        My question is, how fast can you run?




                        I was thinking Beef Jerky. (I actually love beef jerky)
                        I'm not going to pretend I know half of what you're saying here, but I can tell you that I'm neither "beefy" nor a "jerk"! You've got it completely wrong!


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                • Profile picture of the author tagiscom
                  Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

                  If that was meant as an insult, it flopped majorly!

                  I have no idea what the Soylent Green Society is. Never heard of it!


                  Terra
                  Well, there is an energy drink with the stupidest name since Jake Milk, since it sounds like Soylent Green, which is supposed to be created from Kelp, but, well lets just say, with rampant overpopulation and warming, some decide to go to an airconditioned building and end it all. But see some nice scenery with classical music.

                  This is the movie, which is a classic, but depressing l guess?

                  Although Soylent Yellow might be ok, although it is probably tasteless, odorless crud, he, he!


                  Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

                  Robert; I think the reason Riffle fools us, is that we read his humor, and I think humor develops earlier. For example, I'm not funnier, or wittier than I was at 40. Humor is intellectual, and Riffle has plenty of that.

                  The one that really fooled me, was Shane. (I hope this doesn't sound insulting). I thought Shane as 15 or 16 years old, for the first couple of years I read his posts. Finding out he was in his 40s came as something of a shock.
                  (Added later; The reason I thought he was so young, is because he has interests and views that I had when I was that age)

                  I had a similar shock when I found out Dan Riffle was married to a woman.
                  My evil plan worked, (whatever it was)?


                  Originally Posted by kenmichaels View Post

                  Ditto: I thought he was early to middle twenties ...
                  I of course had enough class not to mention it

                  As far as Dan goes - I thought he was your age also.
                  True, l thought the same thing about Dan!

                  Yes, l am in my late forties, but don't look a day over 36, although one lady told me that l was 26, but l don't like to think like a 40 something year, old and prefer to think like a 36 year old eventhough l am not a 36 year old!

                  I hope that makes it clear, LOL!

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      • Profile picture of the author Dan Riffle
        Originally Posted by discrat View Post

        whoaa. Back it up there partner.
        You are not even 40 yet ?

        You are kidding, right ?

        I thought you were Claude's age.

        They say you're only as old as those you insult. I, apparently, insult the elderly.
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        • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
          Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

          They say you're only as old as those you insult. I, apparently, insult the elderly.
          Nobody says that.

          When we (The Forum Guild Of Sixty Year Olds) say you sound like you're our age, we mean you show signs of early onset Alzheimer disease.


          Originally Posted by kenmichaels View Post

          Ditto: I thought he was early to middle twenties ...
          I of course had enough class not to mention it
          Actually cleverer than it sounds, I think.
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    • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
      Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

      Wow, it's like the Soylent Green Society up in here.



      If that was meant as an insult, it flopped majorly!

      I have no idea what the Soylent Green Society is. Never heard of it!


      Terra
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      • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
        Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

        If that was meant as an insult, it flopped majorly!

        I have no idea what the Soylent Green Society is. Never heard of it!


        Terra
        Terra; Soylent Green is a new energy drink for people in their later years. It's made mostly of soy.
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        • Profile picture of the author Karen Blundell
          Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

          Terra; Soylent Green is a new energy drink for people in their later years. It's made mostly of soy.
          which I would never ever drink - bleh!
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          • Profile picture of the author tagiscom
            Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

            Terra, has Biz hacked your account?

            If I remember correctly, Soylent Green is made mostly of the old and the infirm. I'm not insinuating that you'd ever eat people. I'm insinuating that you're old enough to be food.
            So, you are saying that Terra, much beloved puppy could end up in the grinder?

            Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

            Save myself? From someone's misinterpretation?

            Sorry, nothing past the expiration date for me, thank you.

            (Yes, I wrote seven different responses. The above is the only one I had the huevos to post.)
            Least you didn't mention hot dogs?


            Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

            Can somebody tell me what this cheeseburger is mumbling about?
            Phew, this won't end well?

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  • Profile picture of the author bizgrower
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  • Profile picture of the author BigFrank
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    Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

    My Friends: (And Riffle)
    All of a sudden I'm chopped-liver?
    So.....how has your life changed with age? How are you different than you were even ten years ago? Do you think your changes are natural with age, or did you have a revelation of sorts?
    Claude, I started more than once to write a heartfelt response to your query, but the fact that I have grown extremely apathetic in wanting to communicate the current state of my life journey, just about says it all.

    It seems that no matter what transpires on a day-to-day basis, my general refrain, spoken in a matter of fact tone and without any specific emotion, good or bad, is simply, "I don't care. I'll be dead soon and you won't be far behind me."

    Cheers. - Frank
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    • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
      Originally Posted by BigFrank View Post

      It seems that no matter what transpires on a day-to-day basis, my general refrain, spoken in a matter of fact tone and without any specific emotion, good or bad, is simply, "I don't care. I'll be dead soon and you won't be far behind me."

      Cheers. - Frank
      That doesn't sound all that bad.

      Frank; You were one of the few that I thought might give a deep, poetic answer. I know you're capable of it. And it's something that would no doubt cause a few of us to think.

      You are not chopped liver. Mmmmmmmmm chopped liver.......
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        Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

        That doesn't sound all that bad.
        Quite comforting, actually. lol
        Frank; You were one of the few that I thought might give a deep, poetic answer. I know you're capable of it. And it's something that would no doubt cause a few of us to think.
        Everyone already thinks. Thinks I'm either a world-class douche bag or an total, raving lunatic. Why give them extra ammunition?

        Perhaps after I complete my 'Benevolent Fascism Manifesto,' I'll give that a whirl.

        You are not chopped liver. Mmmmmmmmm chopped liver.......
        I do luvs me some chopped liver. :-) On thick, crusty seeded-rye!

        Cheers. - Frank
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        • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
          Originally Posted by BigFrank View Post

          Quite comforting, actually. lol
          Everyone already thinks. Thinks I'm either a world-class douche bag or an total, raving lunatic. Why give them extra ammunition?
          Not everyone.
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          • Profile picture of the author BigFrank
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            Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

            Not everyone.
            You're too kind - or missing some of my better posts. It's one or the other.

            Cheers. - Frank
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            • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
              Originally Posted by BigFrank View Post

              You're too kind - or missing some of my better posts. It's one or the other.

              Cheers. - Frank
              I don't think that either, Frank.

              You know I don't.


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                Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

                I don't think that either, Frank. You know I don't. Terra
                As long as I'm on my best behavior. :-)

                Cheers. - Frank
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                • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
                  Originally Posted by BigFrank View Post

                  As long as I'm on my best behavior. :-)

                  Cheers. - Frank
                  Haha!

                  Ain't that the truth, lol!

                  But when you're not, you still crack me up and I love it. Laughter is good for the soul.


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            • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
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              Originally Posted by BigFrank View Post

              You're too kind - or missing some of my better posts. It's one or the other.

              Cheers. - Frank
              Everyone knows that I'm not too kind and I freaking love you. lol.
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                Originally Posted by sbucciarel View Post

                Everyone knows that I'm not too kind and I freaking love you. lol.
                Totally correct on both points. lol

                Cheers. - Frank
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    • Profile picture of the author TimPhelan
      Originally Posted by BigFrank View Post

      "I don't care. I'll be dead soon and you won't be far behind me."
      I think I'll put that on a t-shirt. Lol I bet I'd get some strange looks. Oh yeah. I already get those. :/
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        Originally Posted by TimPhelan View Post

        I think I'll put that on a t-shirt. Lol I bet I'd get some strange looks. Oh yeah. I already get those. :/
        I believe it's time to update my signature. :-)

        Cheers. - Frank
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        • Profile picture of the author tagiscom
          Originally Posted by BigFrank View Post

          Quite comforting, actually. lol
          Everyone already thinks. Thinks I'm either a world-class douche bag or an total, raving lunatic. Why give them extra ammunition?

          Perhaps after I complete my 'Benevolent Fascism Manifesto,' I'll give that a whirl.

          I do luvs me some chopped liver. :-) On thick, crusty seeded-rye!

          Cheers. - Frank
          I don't think that you are a world-class douche bag!

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          • Profile picture of the author discrat
            At 47, I know a lot of you guys have more experience and wisdom than I.

            But in the last 20 years this is one change that I have noticed in my Life.

            i.e I do NOT put up or feel obligated to be around a$$holes, Selfish. obnoxious, and overly emotional pricks.

            As I have gotten older I just do not put up with it any longer. ( But I do realize there are some who genuinely have mental illness issues. But my stance on that is 'unfortunately I cannot let someone else bring me down over something I have no control over. I won't be mean but I won't hang around either' )

            Even relatives, old friends, acquaintances I just really limit my time around the ones who are disrespectful dicks.

            When I was younger people would always say "Oh just forgive him that is just the way he is and he is not going to change etc..etc.."

            My response back then was " Okay I will just have to look over that and try to find the good things about him "

            My response now " Oh well, I just don't tolerate pricks like him. So I will just pass on being around this imbecile any longer. Sorry, thats just the way Iam and I'm not going to change "

            You only have one life to live so you better surround yourself with people who build you up and NOT bring you down !
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            • Profile picture of the author BigFrank
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              Originally Posted by discrat View Post

              At 47, I know a lot of you guys have more experience and wisdom than I.
              Well, I hate to brag, but - yes!
              i.e I do NOT put up or feel obligated to be around a$, Selfish. obnoxious, and overly emotional pricks.
              And just what is your plan to avoid me at every turn?
              As I have gotten older I just do not put up with it any longer. ( But I do realize there are some who genuinely have mental illness issues. But my stance on that is 'unfortunately I cannot let someone else bring me down over something I have no control over. I won't be mean but I won't hang around either' )
              I have never used my U.S. government certified mental illness as an excuse for my behavior. A valid explanation - yes, but never as an excuse.
              Even relatives, old friends, acquaintances I just really limit my time around the ones who are disrespectful dicks.
              Great name for a band.
              When I was younger people would always say "Oh just forgive him that is just the way he is and he is not going to change etc..etc.."

              My response back then was " Okay I will just have to look over that and try to find the good things about him "
              That never works. A good whack with the 'human alignment tool' (2 by 4) is the best course of action.
              My response now " Oh well, I just don't tolerate pricks like him. So I will just pass on being around this imbecile any longer. Sorry, thats just the way Iam and I'm not going to change "
              Ah, see? That's you're problem. You're too friggin' intransigent.
              You only have one life to live so you better surround yourself with people who build you up and NOT bring you down !
              The best way to build yourself up is to surround yourself with dickheads that constantly try to tear you down. Nothing builds character, faster.

              Cheers. - Frank
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            Originally Posted by tagiscom View Post

            I don't think that you are a world-class douche bag!

            One vote for Option No. 2. Duly, noted!

            Cheers. - Frank
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  • Profile picture of the author affiliatewealth
    I stumbled upon this the Advantages of been 60 Just a bit of FUN

    The Advantages of Being 60.

    1. Kidnappers aren't very interested in you.

    2. In a hostage situation, you're likely to be released first.

    3. No one expects you to run...anywhere.

    4. People call at 9 and ask, "Did I wake you?"

    5. People no longer view you as a hypochondriac.

    6. There is virtually nothing left to learn the hard way.

    7. Things you buy now probably won't wear out.

    8. You can eat supper at 4PM.

    9. You can live without s_x but not your glasses.

    10. You get into heated arguments about pension plans.

    11. You no longer think of speed limits as a challenge.

    12. You quit trying to hold your stomach in no matter who walks into a room.

    13. You can sing along with the elevator music.

    14. Your eyes won't get much worse.

    15. Your investment in health insurance is finally starting to pay off.

    16. Your joints are a more accurate weather predictor than the meteorologist.

    17. Your secrets are safe with friends; they can't remember them either.

    18. Your supply of brain cells is finally down to manageable size.

    19. You probably won't remember where you read this.
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  • Profile picture of the author bizgrower
    ^^^^^
    Really pretty song. Thank you.

    As far as I know, it's the first time I listened to the Pussycat Dolls. The way they were marketed did not work for me.
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    • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
      Originally Posted by bizgrower View Post

      ^^^^^
      Really pretty song. Thank you.

      As far as I know, it's the first time I listened to the Pussycat Dolls. The way they were marketed did not work for me.
      In all honesty, that song is really atypical for them.

      I like some of their songs, and others, not so much.


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      • Profile picture of the author bizgrower
        Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

        In all honesty, that song is really atypical for them.

        I like some of their songs, and others, not so much.


        Terra


        I figured it was not their usual. I assume more poppy - like Britney Spears. I did not know Nicole Scherzinger ((/niˈkoʊl ˈʃɜrzɪŋər/; born Nicole Prescovia Elikolani Valienter - good thing she made her name easier. LOL ) was the lead. I saw a clip of her getting ribbed about not being able to sing by Simon Cowell when she was an X Factor judge. She responded by starting to sing "I Will Always Love You". Beautiful.
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        • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
          Originally Posted by bizgrower View Post

          I figured it was not their usual. I assume more poppy - like Britney Spears. I did not know Nicole Scherzinger ((/niˈkoʊl ˈʃɜrzɪŋər/; born Nicole Prescovia Elikolani Valienter - good thing she made her name easier. LOL ) was the lead. I saw a clip of her getting ribbed about not being able to sing by Simon Cowell when she was an X Factor judge. She responded by starting to sing "I Will Always Love You". Beautiful.
          Actually more racy like these...





          This is one of my favorites





          I love Nicole and watched her on X Factor too. As for her original name, all I can say is a girl's got to do what a girl's got to do, haha!


          Terra
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