How did you live before the internet and mobile

by Zodiax
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How the hell did you guys do it?

How did you guys delay gratification long enough not to load and purchase everything on demand?

I could never fathom me living pre-internet and mobile.

I like my things fast and easy.
  • Profile picture of the author Dan Riffle
    We went outside. There's things out there. And stuff.
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    • Profile picture of the author ksmusselman
      Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

      We went outside. There's things out there. And stuff.
      That pretty much says it all, doesn't it?

      If we wanted to get "instant gratification," we went to the store or a mall.

      If we wanted something delivered to our doors without having to go to the store, we used printed catalogs and called in our orders on telephones that had cords and were 'wired' to the wall.

      If we had to tell somebody something while we were out in a car, we had to stop at a pay phone or wait till we got home.

      If your car broke down, you pretty much had to sit and wait until some nice stranger came by to help, or walk to the nearest pay phone and call somebody for help.

      When we had to look for a job, we had to type up resumes on a typewriter and go to an office supply store to use their copier, unless you were fortunate enough to have a more modern typewriter with memory and reprint capability.

      And then you had to either "snail mail" your resumes or physically take them to the prospective employers.

      We survived though! We had to! And believe it or not, life was much simpler back in the day.
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      Originally Posted by Dan Riffle View Post

      We went outside. There's things out there. And stuff.
      This, indeed, is the best answer ever!!
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      • Profile picture of the author Kay King
        How the hell did you guys do it?
        Zodiax - Let's turn it around.

        How will you live if the power grid/internet/phone system goes down for an extended period of time? War, natural disaster, electromagnetic disturbance...
        What would you do if you couldn't call someone to ask what to do?

        Most of us who managed to survive and thrive before the internet and cell phones, etc - would know what to do. Would you?

        Something to think about.
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  • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
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    I lived in a cave offshore a bit and hunted for nuts and berries and lived off of fish and wild game.
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    • Profile picture of the author ksmusselman
      Originally Posted by sbucciarel View Post

      I lived in a cave offshore a bit and hunted for nuts and berries and lived off of fish and wild game.
      ROFL There are still some people who do that, I'm sure!
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    • Profile picture of the author BigFrank
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      Originally Posted by sbucciarel View Post

      I lived in a cave offshore a bit and hunted for nuts and berries and lived off of fish and wild game.
      What do you mean, 'lived?' I've seen the pictures.

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      • Profile picture of the author Zodiax
        I mean I go outside, but when I'm outside I think about all the cool gadgets inside of my home xD.
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        • Profile picture of the author Cali16
          Originally Posted by Zodiax View Post

          I mean I go outside, but when I'm outside I think about all the cool gadgets inside of my home xD.
          You do realize there's much more to life than "cool gadgets", right?
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  • Profile picture of the author Tom Addams
    The thing is...

    We thought we did have instant gratification. lol

    In 1985, when I was 10, I could ask permission to ring a friend and we'd meet up and play, or go round up the rest of the gang. We had rivers, lakes, and the sea to go splashing and fishing in or skimming rocks. Shops were close by and open after school, and although closed on a Sunday, that didn't bother us - one mom or other would always have sweets in the kitchen. The outside - and all the cool stuff about it - was just the opening of a door away.

    Ah-ha - and then you had the inside. Acorn Electron, BBC, Sinclair computers. Games consoles (forget all the names, but I had 'em all). In the UK, 3 TV channels eventually became 4 (wozer!), and later on we had cable and satellite and I could finally live like a civilized person, as my family back in Canada had been doing. (For decades, I might add, still with a little irritation, I admit). When movies came out, you were there - smack bang - on a Saturday morning. And when pocket money didn't stretch, you had videos. My mom would dutifully record movies on VHS and I must have rewatched Superman and Star Wars 8 million times.

    I can't speak from an adult perspective - but growing up before internet and mobile telephony? Those times were magic. I'll bet we all feel the same way, though, no matter our generation, as long as they were good times of course. The thing about the past? You usually remember the good times more than the bad.

    I will say, though, there was one sucky thing about growing up in the 80s - waiting so long between Star Wars movies.

    Things changed in '86 for me when I was plonked in prep school. But the gratification still seemed instant: dungeons and dragons as soon as prep finished at 1930, spending the summer high-jumping on Wednesdays with an audience of girls, playing Elite Frontier on the BBC computer on weekends, and tons of other stuff. And then there was rule breaking. Break enough of them and the points mounted up - leading to a trip to the headmaster and a whack on the butt with a cricket bat. Instant, that was, but not I suppose gratifying.

    I'd be willing to bet my daughter's grandchildren (touch wood, she has them) will look at her youth and think the same thing: "Grandma, how the heck did you live without push-button, materializing pizza?!!"

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  • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
    Originally Posted by Zodiax View Post

    How the hell did you guys do it?

    How did you guys delay gratification long enough not to load and purchase everything on demand?

    I could never fathom me living pre-internet and mobile.

    I like my things fast and easy.
    Are you kidding me?

    Outside was the place to be! There were lakes to swim in or fish at or water ski on, fields to explore, woods to spend the whole day in building forts and cuckoo nests in. (Long story, don't ask!)

    There were pedal bikes, hula hoops, footballs, baseballs, basketballs, skate boards, other kids. There were tether balls, volleyball nets, red rover-red rover. There were swings, slides, the party store, hide and seek, tag, king of the mountain, minibikes, horses. I could go on and on!

    I was always disappointed when the day ended because I didn't have time to do everything I wanted.

    Wow! How things have changed...

    Terra
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    • Profile picture of the author David Beroff
      Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

      Outside was the place to be! There were lakes to swim in or fish at or water ski on, fields to explore, woods to spend the whole day in building forts and cuckoo nests in. (Long story, don't ask!)

      There were pedal bikes, hula hoops, footballs, baseballs, basketballs, skate boards, other kids. There were tether balls, volleyball nets, red rover-red rover. There were swings, slides, the party store, hide and seek, tag, king of the mountain, minibikes, horses. I could go on and on!
      And people wonder why folks were thinner then.
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  • Profile picture of the author yukon
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    Life was less complicated before this newfangled internets.
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    • Profile picture of the author Jason Kanigan
      Originally Posted by yukon View Post

      Life was less complicated before this newfangled internets.
      Yuppers. I remember a time before Sunday shopping.

      Everything was closed, except the corner store owned by the Chow family a couple blocks away. I remember being sent there one Sunday to buy milk for pancakes, and thinking, "Oh man, my parents are gonna freak...this is SO much more expensive than the supermarket down the hill."

      We had more time for other people then.

      Definitely went outside more, on hikes and seeing friends. 'Course, I live 3000 miles away from there now and there aren't any mountains here.

      I think society has become more inward-looking, and more selfish, since the onset of the internet.

      Have to admit, also, that I'm a "late adopter"...only got home internet in 2004 and a smart phone in 2012 (which I still have, the iphone 4).

      Personally I'd welcome a return to the enforced Day Off of Sunday. The toys would have to be taken away, though; people wouldn't have the willpower to do it on their own. But the economists would never allow it. The GDP bump was too big.
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  • Profile picture of the author laurencewins
    Life was better back then because people had REAL friends. You didn't spend all your time online with one device or another. You only had a couple of TV channels so you either liked what was on or you didn't. As a kid and teen I rode my bicycle as much as I could. Life was much cheaper then as you didn't have to buy the latest, expensive toys all the time.

    Remember that today's young people can't understand it but I bet their children will think the same about their childhood.
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  • Profile picture of the author HDRider
    When I grew up all the kids on the block were outside playing games, running around having fun. Never see that anymore. We were hardly ever inside.

    Had one of the first color TV's on the block, everyone came over to see. Still didn't watch it much.
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    • Profile picture of the author discrat
      The kids these days are puff balls and couch potatoes.

      I was at Six Flags today and teenie boppers and young twenty somethings all looked "soft" and really unhealthy

      My nephew is 14 and when I see him I have to pry him away from the Internet and Xbox

      He is pale as a ghost and about 40 lbs overweight.
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      • Profile picture of the author sttbs
        Originally Posted by discrat View Post

        The kids these days are puff balls and couch potatoes.

        I was at Six Flags today and teenie boppers and young twenty somethings all looked "soft" and really unhealthy

        My nephew is 14 and when I see him I have to pry him away from the Internet and Xbox

        He is pale as a ghost and about 40 lbs overweight.
        True that.. kids nowadays are glued to electronic devices..

        Technology is supposed to make life easier for us, making things more efficient for us. It's now too efficient that we relied heavily and in fact, are addicted to technology.

        In the past, whenever I need to know some information, I know to ask around my social circles, and watch the TV to gain "knowledge". Nowadays, with just a few clicks, I will be able to find the answers I'm looking for. I can't deny that I'm one of those people addicted to using electronic devices daily.

        But perhaps there needs to be a balance between sitting in front of the computer or tablets or mobile phones, and standing up, walking around, and meeting some real life friends.
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  • Profile picture of the author Alex Byhovtsov
    I think about it sometimes. Now we have Internet access and other modern technologies. But like in everything rhere are pluses and minuses, that't why I don't think people who lived without all this were unhappy or something like that, the just didn't know about it and lived happily.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sirr
    I was 14 when I first had access to our super fast 28k dial-up.

    Prior to that I'd go to the library every day to read books. The library had Internet shortly before I did, and I'd sit in the library from opening till closing working on my website every day. I hated Sundays because the library was closed. I created it using a page builder called expage. It was called "Team Rocket Invaders". I was a big Pokemon fan.

    The Internet at home allowed me to learn, and I stopped going to the library. It also allowed me to talk to others on IRC and get help with programming. I still use the same IRC channels today!

    Today, I don't own a smartphone. I own a bog standard phone. Not even a colour screen. I used to have iPhones, and even develop applications. But, since I ditched the smartphone and came off social networks my productivity, and work, has increased 3 fold. It also forces people to actually ring me, and visit me, rather than chatting on Facebook.

    Smart phones are also incredibly dangerous. I've developed proof of concepts that demonstrate how insecure an iPhone is. Look up Karma with Hostapd. Lots of info on this out there already.

    I use the Internet as a tool to improve my knowledge. I always have. I don't really do marketing for money these days. I could make a heck of a lot, I have in the past, I've worked directly with Facebook's security team. But I just don't have any interest in money these days. I had Cancer, it made me see life very different. I'm focusing more on developing open source applications and adopting Richard Stallman's philosophy.

    I feel every human has a moral obligation to share knowledge, to help the future develop and evolve. The monetary system has created a class of elitism, where the rich are powerful.Tthose who make important contributions to society are often ignored. For example, Richard Stallman changed the world, yet many iPhone and Android users will still state point blank Windows is better than *nix, and Linux is awful. The last person to have this argument said "Linux is free because nobody wants it".

    But they don't realise if it wasn't for Richard Stallman they wouldn't be posting pictures of their new car to Facebook.Hardly anyone knows who he is. Bill Gates is more well known than Trovolds. It's backward considering Trovolds has done so much more for society than Bill.

    Everything has monetary value these days, and if you don't have cash, society likes to push you out. Even when some of us choose not to make money. At some point the economy will crash, and when it does, the rich will be poor and the world will look to those with knowledge to help fix the mess. The rich will expect those who spent their life researching - without financial motive - to pull together, yet these same people feel they have no obligation to share knowledge freely.

    The Internet has helped me realise how greedy people are to make the most amount of money in their short existence. And it's shown me what lengths people go to in order to make money.
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  • Profile picture of the author seasoned
    Originally Posted by Zodiax View Post

    How the hell did you guys do it?

    How did you guys delay gratification long enough not to load and purchase everything on demand?

    I could never fathom me living pre-internet and mobile.

    I like my things fast and easy.
    Do you even really use the INTERNET, or are you talking more of the java and WWW networks. We could ALWAYS purchase on demand. That has been done since like the 1800s. You could EVEN do it with no credit! As for loading, that isn't due to the internet though they haven't really pushed development until about that time.

    As for mobile, I ASSUME you mean mobile phones? YEAH, THOSE predate the internet ALSO! Most didn't have them due to cost and coverage.

    Steve
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  • Profile picture of the author Samsaly
    We go to sleep very early, maybe 8PM everyday. Without internet or mobile, there're nothing to do. Life would be so boring. I can't imagine how life would be then.

    Sam
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