Your parents are getting older. You've done well in IM so you decide to help them out. So you buy them a nice RV so that they can go traveling and enjoy their retirement. You think "yes it will be good for them in so many ways. And they enjoy road trips so an RV would be ideal for them."
So you buy them the RV. They love it for the first few years. Then they accidently let their insurance lapse. Following which they get into a bad accident with the RV. The RV is a write off. Meanwhile as a result they've had all kinds of bills that have eaten up what little they had saved.
But you spent so much on the RV and business has slowed down for you, so you can't help your parents anymore anyway.
However, your parents think that because you bought them the RV and because it turned into such a bad scenario for them, they now blame you for it! What you didn't fully realize is that they're couping skills with tragedy are extremely poor. So is their sense of taking personal responsibility. But as a result of their own errors in judgement, and them blaming you for those errors, they almost hate you for involving yourself in their lives, and getting them this RV which nearly ruined their lives.
So they blame you for their problems. Since you bought the RV for them then somehow you should have realized what you were getting them into. And now that they wrote off the RV and blew all their money in the process, it's somehow all your fault!!!
They'll barely speak with you anymore as a result of what happened. So you did a massive favor for your family thinking your doing some good, but it completely blew up in your face!!!
So in this hypothetical situation, how do you coup? What do you do? What can you do? Like it's a total cluster F*** beyond anything you thought was possible! What would you do in this type of challenging situation???