How do you meet women online? Tried POF so many times, it's just stupid already. Trying a few other things online but not much luck. Like you get messages but hardly anyone ever wants to meet. Then you get them to meet and it's generally a gong show. For one reason or another. Many have been hurt and now they have a chip on their shoulder. Or they don't look like their pic's, or something else. It's just nuts.