How do you meet women online?

8 years ago

i never met a woman online - am i doomed?

i rather go down to the beach and talk with them. Its easy, try it. Except the first time,
all other times its as easy as ordering a orange juice with an added 40% benefit

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8 years ago

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theoperator

8 years ago

to have sex. How do you even find time for that. Like seriously. Like I know a few girls. They don't have cars so you have to drive all the way there, pick them up, then drive them back, then drive them back again after. Ahhh frack me, it's a lot of work. Then they always want fast food. But I reason it's a cheap guy's type of date. Like beats expensive steak dinners or some stupid date that doesn't put out. But still it's just very boring. Trying to meet new women but it's tough out there. I meet a girl who was so hard to look at. Then I met this girl who was like 400 lbs. She couldn't get out of her truck so we sipped coffee in here truck. It's just sad. Like so sad. But I'm over 40, and broke azz, I can't easily pick and choose anymore, at least it feels like. Like to have any chance you either have to be super good looking or else super rich, or both. Otherwise girls don't want to bother. And can you blame them? ahhh frack just shoot me now.

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tagiscom

8 years ago

Originally Posted by theoperator

to have sex. How do you even find time for that. Like seriously. Like I know a few girls. They don't have cars so you have to drive all the way there, pick them up, then drive them back, then drive them back again after. Ahhh frack me, it's a lot of work. Then they always want fast food. But I reason it's a cheap guy's type of date. Like beats expensive steak dinners or some stupid date that doesn't put out. But still it's just very boring. Trying to meet new women but it's tough out there.

I meet a girl who was so hard to look at. Then I met this girl who was like 400 lbs. She couldn't get out of her truck so we sipped coffee in here truck. It's just sad. Like so sad. But I'm over 40, and broke azz, I can't easily pick and choose anymore, at least it feels like. Like to have any chance you either have to be super good looking or else super rich, or both. Otherwise girls don't want to bother. And can you blame them? ahhh frack just shoot me now.

Lol, yes, l have tried online, and it is true, that some women, either of us would not usually consider, will approach us.

I met someone a while ago, that gave me a reading, (well, it was part of a promo thing) so a cheap one.

But she was attractive, and interested, but had a boyfriend. So yeah, solemate one minute, nada the next.

I tend to meet women at shopping centres, yeah, not very romantic, but it has happened a few times.

Most women can tell if you are interested, so if you see someone staring at you for an unusually long period of time, that usually means, your move.

But unfortunately most women at coffee shops in AU, are so young, if you are as old as l am it becomes tricky.

A 10 year diff, is ok, but 20+, nah, l would have to be a sex depraved rock star, to go down that road.

Yes, wealth,.....if someone with one or more kids contacts you forget it, they do want wealth before anything else. Can't really blame them, but it sucks.

Super good looking, l am attractive, but not sure about the super part, but some women can pick up a lot about you, without any words spoken.

But like you, l am trying to get the wealth part sorted, so, hopefully the other part will fall into place.

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George Schwab 8 years ago

Originally Posted by tagiscom

I tend to meet women at shopping centres, yeah, not very romantic, but it has happened a few times.

funny you mention it, i had a friend staying here for while, he was an expert on this one. A guy from Amsterdam, he did stay in a hotel for a while, but was not happy with his life...and said: "i want to change to you area, more shopping malls and stores, I like to talk with the local girls" - said and done, and i could not meet him anymore, he was basically booked out at night, i mean " not available anymore". I saw it once while buying drinks together, he walked into the store and started to chat with the staff girls straight away. What a natural talent, lol.

And 'age thing' is BS, doesnt matter really. 20 years younger? Stupid girls say:
"please find someone your own age" - the sweet, beautiful and smart girls say:
"hey I've been to your country, was great, yeah let's go for dinner".

See? It's a class thing, ugly girls = stupid. Very good looking girls: smart [sometimes, you have to pick the ones with a sweet smile]
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hardraysnight

8 years ago

Originally Posted by tagiscom

Lol, yes, l have tried online, and it is true, that some women, either of us would not usually consider, will approach us.

I met someone a while ago, that gave me a reading, (well, it was part of a promo thing) so a cheap one.

But she was attractive, and interested, but had a boyfriend. So yeah, solemate one minute, nada the next.

I tend to meet women at shopping centres, yeah, not very romantic, but it has happened a few times.

Most women can tell if you are interested, so if you see someone staring at you for an unusually long period of time, that usually means, your move.

But unfortunately most women at coffee shops in AU, are so young, if you are as old as l am it becomes tricky.

A 10 year diff, is ok, but 20+, nah, l would have to be a sex depraved rock star, to go down that road.

Yes, wealth,.....if someone with one or more kids contacts you forget it, they do want wealth before anything else. Can't really blame them, but it sucks.

Super good looking, l am attractive, but not sure about the super part, but some women can pick up a lot about you, without any words spoken.

But like you, l am trying to get the wealth part sorted, so, hopefully the other part will fall into place.

i am a sex depraved rock star

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Claude Whitacre 8 years ago

Originally Posted by hardraysnight

i am a sex depraved rock star

And I am a sex deprived rock.
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- Dan Riffle 8 years ago
  
  Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre
  
  And I am a sex deprived crock.
  
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- lanfear63 8 years ago
  
  Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre
  
  And I am a sex deprived rock.
  
  "And I am a sex deprived cock"
  
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Kurt

8 years ago

Use extreme caution on Plenty Of Claude...

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discrat 8 years ago

Originally Posted by Kurt

Use extreme caution on Plenty Of Claude...

I found some success on that Site. Has lots of ggilfs on there ( great grandmas I would love to....)
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tagiscom

8 years ago

Originally Posted by George Schwab

funny you mention it, i had a friend staying here for while, he was an expert on this one. A guy from Amsterdam, he did stay in a hotel for a while, but was not happy with his life...and said: "i want to change to you area, more shopping malls and stores, I like to talk with the local girls" - said and done, and i could not meet him anymore, he was basically booked out at night, i mean " not available anymore". I saw it once while buying drinks together, he walked into the store and started to chat with the staff girls straight away. What a natural talent, lol.

And 'age thing' is BS, doesnt matter really. 20 years younger? Stupid girls say:
"please find someone your own age" - the sweet, beautiful and smart girls say:
"hey I've been to your country, was great, yeah let's go for dinner".

See? It's a class thing, ugly girls = stupid. Very good looking girls: smart [sometimes, you have to pick the ones with a sweet smile]

Age thing BS, nah, one night stand it doesn't, committed long term relationship l think that it does.

Otherwise you hear a Carpenters song on the radio, and your wife says, never heard that song before.

Or end up like that guy out of Baywatch or Bill Collins, both basically looking like idiots dating or marrying someone young enough to be their daughter.

But l agree, attractive is high end, and usually requires you to be dripping in cash, although their are exceptions.

Originally Posted by discrat

I found some success on that Site. Has lots of ggilfs on there ( great grandmas I would love to....)

I would keep away from Claude's beauty tips section, Birthday cake icing doesn't remove wrinkles.

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Kurt

8 years ago

Originally Posted by tagiscom

Age thing BS, nah, one night stand it doesn't, committed long term relationship l think that it does.

Otherwise you hear a Carpenters song on the radio, and your wife says, never heard that song before.

Or end up like that guy out of Baywatch or Bill Collins, both basically looking like idiots dating or marrying someone young enough to be their daughter.

But l agree, attractive is high end, and usually requires you to be dripping in cash, although their are exceptions.

I would keep away from Claude's beauty tips section, Birthday cake icing doesn't remove wrinkles.

You had me at "I would keep away from Claude"...

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sendizo

8 years ago

why not, How women find men?

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George Schwab

8 years ago

they find us [unexpectedly} WHEN WE START to Talk to them

otherwise they would be lost in sub-underground.

RE: "attractive is high end, and usually requires you to be dripping in cash"

fugging no, i meaN NO! those girls are high quality, they do not care about any of that.

Trust me, i'm sort of had my time with those, they dont fugging care, they just want to meet YOU!

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Princess Balestra

8 years ago

Assoomin' your hardware is set up correctly, it is jus' a casea hittin' the right button withya finger...

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BigFrank

Banned 8 years ago

That's actually probably worse than meeting a woman in a bar. You want to meet a woman worth bring home to mother? Try the library.

Set your sights a bit higher in life. lol

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Jonathan 2.0

Banned 8 years ago

The great thing about Online Dating is that you can find Partners with similar interests and values.

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BigFrank Banned 8 years ago

Originally Posted by Jonathan 2.0

The great thing about Online Dating is that you can find Partners with similar interests and values.

Some people are capable of doing the same in the real world. Of course, it actually requires having a wee-bit of social skills. lol

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  Some people are capable of doing the same in the real world. Of course, it actually requires having a wee-bit of social skills. lol
  
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  Damn. I'm off to Cupid.com
  
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  Originally Posted by Jonathan 2.0
  
  Damn. I'm off to Cupid.com
  
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  Good move, but please stay away from my profile. :-)
  
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  Good move, but please stay away from my profile. :-)
  
  You mean the one where you're wearing a thong, right?
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  You mean the one where you're wearing a thong, right?
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theoperator

8 years ago

Well it's been my experience that like seriously only 1 out of a 100 women (or men) who are say middle age and dating (or still dating) actually have their lives together for the most part. The other 99% have issues that are often too insurmountable to sustain the relationship. Like and it could be anything really. But some part of there lives are just too messed up. You might not know what that is at first, then you start dating and soon you discover why they were dating. And I'm not saying throw the baby out with the bathwater. Someone told me that everyone comes to a relationship with baggage and your role is to carry the other persons bags if you love them. But still, that's just so hard to do for very long. It's hard enough to live with your own bags and carry those. Like at least for me right now, I'm definitely in no situation to go carrying or putting up with anyone's baggage for very long. (depending on how bad it is). But even this one girl i know, she's really nice, really friendly, and she has her life together in so many ways. But she's stuck in that whole ego phase of life. Like to some degree her life is run through the ego. And some other stuff. But anyway, like there are no normal well adjusted people that have their lives together that are single out there. And the very few that maybe do, well often they generally have higher standards and really aren't gonna settle for anyone else very long who might have baggage. It's just strange and kinda frustrating. It's nuts.

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George Schwab

8 years ago

"But anyway, like there are no normal well adjusted people that have their lives together that are single out there."

that's just a rumour, the more you go out the more of them you actually meet.

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ashishthakkar

8 years ago

Try Tinder!

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ChristeenH

8 years ago

I think that finding someone online can be freaking hard!! And as @theoperator mention a lot of work!! ahha
In my consideration it's a lot easier if you join some local community or some club where there's people with different backgrounds and ages, so it's a lot easier (and faster) to build connection and for you it's easier to see straight is girl something like for you or you just look at next one and don't waste your time at all

Good luck!

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drdreadman

8 years ago

There are a lot of desperate men on internet, and pretty women get messages from them every single day. You need to be unique, and show that you ain't like all these other horny guys.

But in my opinion it's better to talk with ladies in real world, than on internet. You'll show more confidence in this way.

Try maybe also to read some books like ''The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists
'' you can find pdf on google for free.

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Tony Laroche

8 years ago

It seems to me that you have already met few through online dating site. The most important thing to convince a girl is to what she wants. How do you need to behave with her. You must be a good player in inner game. If you are not then you need to improve your self. I suggest you to read few articles over internet and get some basic idea on how to convince a girl. Hope it will help you.

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davemiz

8 years ago

the answer? spend hours pulling your hair out in frustration... hoping to figure it out yourself... or get help.

http://prntscr.com/dh21hq

thats from ONE dating site.... I've done probably just as many replies from POF as well, so the actual # is probably double that.

get the course.

it works.

insider internet dating.com

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maximus4992

8 years ago

long ago, i read a book named The Alpha Men. It teach you the quality of a real man and woo women also. I think it will be helpful for you

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Claude Whitacre

8 years ago

Originally Posted by Dan Riffle

Fixed.

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Originally Posted by lanfear63

"And I am a sex deprived cock"

Reality fix

Originally Posted by BigFrank

Gender fix.

I'm blushing.
Of course, it could simply be the high blood pressure.

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jey55

8 years ago

I use Tinder or facebook.

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