too late?

I would just give them to my Wife. and if I had no one well then I would just let them go. Life is to precious to worry about that crap in the end

al

Can you leave it for some close relatives who needs it, or that has always been there for you?

I don't have an answer. My heart goes out to ya. I am going to bump this up and hope others do just in case someone with a good answer sees it.

Give it to anyone, your relative or kids etc. I am sure they will be able to figure out what to do with it.
Maybe, this might not help with funeral costs but in future, the site might help your kids make some good money.

Love and prayers to you Baby J.

Be with your family. Spend time with them. Funeral costs, all that stuff, it gets worked out in the end. Money has zero meaning, and whenever it is needed, appears or some way is found. Love matters.

I have been close to folks who've passed who left people tens of thousands of dollars in debt, and it all works out OK. Solutions are found. Payment plans, etc. Just focus on your fam and those you love, and spending time with them.

buddy, i'll talk to you from my heart, the situation you are describing here, is something very sorrowful, but let's be realistic, i don't think the money in your situation is the most important, but for me building more precious connection with your relatives, so that they could have good things to remember after you will be gone. Make sure you spend more time with them for now, and it will be more better for them after you pass away dude. All my regards dude.

Honest answer. Chances are the income now is not enough to generate much interest to buyers. If you have the energy, put all of your sites/etc into one package that a relative could access and perhaps sell. If not - just forget about them.

I have a close family member in hospice as of last week. She has no interest in business, in her work, in finances. I'm surprised anyone in that situation would worry abut a business that apparently was abandoned some time ago due to illness. She fixates on certain issues that are not important in the long term. Her doctor says that is part 'chemo fog', part avoidance and part the fear of losing control.

Your priority now is a good day followed by another good day....don't let anxiety interfere with that. Give yourself permission to let it go.

I wish you peace.

I'm so sorry to hear that. In the end, money wouldn't even matter anymore. It can be worked out. Just be present with your family. That's all that matters now. Leave your children good memories for them to tell their children and their children's children. Leave your books behind to someone who needs it. Don't worry about them anymore. Just be at peace and treasure the days ahead.

I am sorry to hear this, but have dealt with 3 little old ladies (who I love dearly) who have gone through this,
My mother-in-law left me her copy rights to her books, her business name and her websites. I am continuing the business where she left off. The income helps, so give it to the one who can appreciate it and work it.
I share the profits with her son & daughter, wish she could see what we have done with her books, though.
God bless you & care for you.
Sincerely
Sharon Osinski

I watched my mother-in-law take the slow slide from Parkinsons, so I feel for you even though I have no clue how it feels to experience it.

The others are right -- time with loved ones is what's most important.

If this truly eats at you, and you need to occupy your mind, simply make a list of what you have left, how to get at it, and a statement transferring rights to whoever. Then let it go.

Like Kay said, one good day. Then another good day...

I wish you peace.

I completely agree. Leave them to someone close or just let them go.

Yes, be careful who you give information to for sure, but these are not worries people at the end of their life should be straddled with. There are far more important things to be dealing with as you head into the light.

My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you both.

Yeah - I was a little stunned myself, Kay. I was extremely sick and getting sicker but could not get the symptoms to fall together to make any sense.

Anyway - I just took off for 10 days when getting out of the smoke. It rained and cleared for 3 days when I went home, but came back extra force in a few days (to the extent you expected to feel heat if you opened the door.)

I was so damned sick when I moved (first of december) that I didn't expect to make it the 500 miles to my sister's alive). But - I'm an ornery bitch, so here I am. I had to move anyway and my sister and niece wanted me to come down for the xmas season, so I went -- ended up in emergency where I was told that I was anorexic and it was all in my head. A month later back in emergency, I got a doctor that wasn't a testosterone fest and actually took the CT scans in the right place -- and they tell me there's nothing they can do for me but give me a form of chemo that would kill me before the cancer (I only weigh 80 on a good day right now).

I don't have any form of insurance that will allow for alternative treatments. That's where Ken Strong bit it...........he was on a recurrence of cancer that had been "cured" before so it was pretty nasty to start with.......but he would get an alternative treatment that would be helping, and get cut off at the funding and they'd just drop him off. His family forced him into hospice and that was it. I've been sick over my last conversation with him for years.

Anyhow -- I'm on my own so we'll see just how able I am to figure it all out.

So I've gathered up all the information I had when I cured my pup (remember Ricky?) of cancer and browsing new, and I'm hammering this crap. It's ticking me off and I'm not gonna let it sit here and hammer on me without one huge damned retaliation.

We'll just see what happens. I have to say -- if anything goes wrong, I've had a hell of a ride on this planet and am sure things stay interesting beyond the divide so nobody has to mourn for me.

Familiar with alts. I killed my dog's bone cancer so have a good starting base of alts. Not sure how much I can do as it's so late in the game, but I am a little stronger than when I was diagnosed. I can go longer without pain meds, too......even though they've increased my dosage so I won't be "uncomfortable". I'm taking the same amount as I was....but sometimes can hold off a few extra hours so I figure it's stepping in the right direction at the very least.

I am also living with my sister now and she and my niece make sure I have everything I need or want so I don't have to shop unless I feel like it.......or cook - we eat all organic and all 3 are great cooks, so..........

Thanks for the thought - but those days in here sailed with Allen.

Stick figure.......lol.......I look like an escapee from the Nightmare before Christmas.

I am using everything I gave Ricky. Those were all for humans and I had to research if a dog could take them or not. I have about 3 more supplements I need to supply yet - but I'm using the best things known to science. If I had 15 more pounds on me I wouldn't even sweat it, but I have to be really careful, and I don't have the ability to eat much at one time so.... Then, too, I have to juggle. I eat to kill cancer for several days, then I eat for weight for a few (have to limit that because it feeds the cancer). Those days I'm still eating my supplements, though. It's pretty tricky.

I'll be staying with my sister until I'm well......or the rest of my life, whichever comes first.

This is kinda spooky. I didn't realize that so many people I used to know here are still here. I haven't been here in years......just got a bee in my bonnet and when I saw the OP I felt the need to show some support. Didn't think anyone who remembered me would see this.

You're still here, too? Whereveropedia.

Sorry to hear about your dad, Whatty. One thing I'm learning from being sick is that it seems to be harder for the loved ones than the one who is dealing with the cancer. My sister freaks out over everything and anything. It's hard to watch.

I hope things work out with your housing issue. What some people with a little land are doing in the US is putting up tiny houses on their property for a parent that needs someone close by but wouldn't be comfortable under the same roof 24/7.

As far as your "old tongue and cheek" -- bet you didn't think it'd be HeySal that would be able to gobsmack it out of you, eh?

Kay -- just saw that your family has been hit with cancer, too. I'm sorry for that. You're a pretty level person, so I know you can maintain through for her. Peace and strength to you.

Please say you own that t-shirt.

I love it, LOL. I've got 5 boys waiting for me across that bridge....and a love for exploring so you know where I'll be off to. Dogs are patient - they'll wait for me.

I am convinced, for many reasons, that our intellect survives death.......and if there is a way to come back across the dimensional divide, there's a couple of people I really, really would love to haunt a little bit. I promised my niece to leave her a sign of some sort, too so, if this goes otherwise than I'm trying to point it, I'll have a few things to do for awhile.