Naomi Judd and Mental Illness ...

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When the hell are we going to stop stigmatizing mental illness ? And treat it just like a disease/condition similar to diabetes , high blood pressure, cancer, heart disease etc..etc...

The brain is an organ just like the kidneys and heart. Sometimes it can get sick and broken much like the heart and kidneys. It is nothing to be ashamed about and it is NOT a sign of weakness or "craziness" or a personality flaw!!

We need to change the way society views this horrible condition called mental illness. Many peoples' lives are depending on it !!
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  • Profile picture of the author Mark Singletary
    Amen. You are 100% correct.

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  • Profile picture of the author Kay King
    I have to ask - what does the title have to do with the comments?

    When was Naomi Judd 'stigmatized'? She had ongoing high quality care and treatment for depression. Treatment does not guarantee a cure for mental illness any more than it does for cancer. She wrote a book that openly discussed her mental illness. On the other hand, her family's claim is that she 'died of mental illness' - mental illness may well be reason for the death but not the cause of death.

    When i was a child we would drive to a nearby city to shop - and we passed a huge old brick building surrounded by a fence. When i asked what it was - it was a 'mental institution'. It made a big impression on me - especially once I read 'One flew over the Cuckoo's Nest'.

    As a society we decided it was 'cruel' to isolate those with mental illness. In a way this was right - and in another way it was wrong because the 'woke' part went too far. We didn't tighten rules on those institutions - we closed them.

    I think there is little stigma about mental illness these days - and in large part that is because the medical community finally recognized PTSD for what it is - that began during the Vietnam war. It was the first time the medical community admitted that someone exposed to death and fear over time might well develop a mental illness and that is was a real disease.

    When I was growing up I had an Uncle who would 'have fits and take to his bed' every few months. He wouldn't talk, would cry, wouldn't dress, etc...he was suffering from severe depression before it was accepted as an 'illness'. His wife referred to these instances as a 'fit' - the family said his wife drove him nuts (a real possibility if you knew her). THAT was being stigmatized as no one wanted to admit Uncle Pete had a mental illness. That would be an embarrassment.

    Today people talk about mental illness and many don't hesitate to claim they have PTSD or 'depression'. It is no longer a hidden illness - but we decided some time ago we can't force treatment. Today, people who might have been 'committed' to a mental facility for treatment 50 yrs ago...are treated only when they request it or after they harm someone else.

    I just read a long comment on a site by someone claiming it's so much harder to live now than it was in 1900. He claimed 'older people' need to understand how difficult life is for 20-something's.
    In 1900 the average life span in the US was 49....and those will serious mental illness were committed to mental institutions or locked in the attic. We've come a long way since then - but apparently our schools aren't teaching that.
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    • Profile picture of the author discrat
      Originally Posted by Kay King View Post

      I think there is little stigma about mental illness these days - and in large part that is because the medical community finally recognized PTSD for what it is - that began during the Vietnam war. It was the first time the medical community admitted that someone exposed to death and fear over time might well develop a mental illness and that is was a real disease.
      And there lies part of the problem. That people still think this way. Sure, we have come a long way since the early to mid 1900s. But we have a long way to go to erase the stigma attached to mental health issues.

      When Robin Williams committed suicide a few years back many people were saying why did he do that as he had fame, fortune, and everything to live for. They think that depression is something like having a "bad day" or you are "being sad" and you can snap out of it.

      Until we get rid of this mindset , the mentally ill ( including homeless people especially) will continue to suffer and more will die indirectly from this terrible condition.

      P.S. PTSD is just one condition out of many that plagues mentally ill people. More suffer from clinical depression, bi polar, schizophrenia, OCD, body dysmorphia, anorexia, and a slew of other things
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  • Profile picture of the author max5ty
    @Kay King - first I just wanted to say I think you're an excellent writer...and I really mean that. Not sure what you do, but writing must be a part of it.

    I used to think when someone said "died from mental illness", they meant suicide...until a distant relative in the family died from "mental illness". I found out later she had drunk herself to death and they blamed it on her mental illness.

    Also, I just so happened to be reading an article about a month ago talking about life expectancies. I don't have a link to it, but the point of the article was that people still live just as long, BUT...

    the way it is computed makes it seem different.

    If we took 2 babies and one died at birth and the other lived to be 70, the life expectancy would be 35.

    In times past, the mortality rate among newborns was crazy high. With the advancement of medicines over the years, we have brought the rate down to the point of showing life expectancy to be longer by not having as high a mortality rate at birth. Not sure if this analogy is correct, but it seemed to make some sense to me
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    • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
      Originally Posted by max5ty View Post

      In times past, the mortality rate among newborns was crazy high. With the advancement of medicines over the years, we have brought the rate down to the point of showing life expectancy to be longer by not having as high a mortality rate at birth. Not sure if this analogy is correct, but it seemed to make some sense to me
      The much lower infant mortality rate now is certainly a factor. Maybe the biggest one.

      But other factors were;
      Diet. We knew nothing about diet in 1900. If you ate healthy food and exercised, you were ridiculed as a "Health Nut".

      Everyone smoked. And smoked all day.

      Not many people had regular checkups, had treatment for diseases caught early.

      You didn't used to got to the doctor unless you were really sick.

      Jobs used to be more demanding and there were more accidents on the job.

      Our drinking water was ...well....a brownish tint.

      Today, technology is more complex. But today is harder? No. If I were a working stiff in 1900, a day's work would have killed me.
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    Originally Posted by max5ty View Post

    @Kay King - first I just wanted to say I think you're an excellent writer...and I really mean that. Not sure what you do, but writing must be a part of it.

    I used to think when someone said "died from mental illness", they meant suicide...until a distant relative in the family died from "mental illness". I found out later she had drunk herself to death and they blamed it on her mental illness.

    Also, I just so happened to be reading an article about a month ago talking about life expectancies. I don't have a link to it, but the point of the article was that people still live just as long, BUT...

    the way it is computed makes it seem different.

    If we took 2 babies and one died at birth and the other lived to be 70, the life expectancy would be 35.

    In times past, the mortality rate among newborns was crazy high. With the advancement of medicines over the years, we have brought the rate down to the point of showing life expectancy to be longer by not having as high a mortality rate at birth. Not sure if this analogy is correct, but it seemed to make some sense to me
    So, it is genetic then?

    Originally Posted by discrat View Post

    And there lies part of the problem. That people still think this way. Sure, we have come a long way since the early to mid 1900s. But we have a long way to go to erase the stigma attached to mental health issues.

    When Robin Williams committed suicide a few years back many people were saying why did he do that as he had fame, fortune, and everything to live for. They think that depression is something like having a "bad day" or you are "being sad" and you can snap out of it.

    Until we get rid of this mindset , the mentally ill ( including homeless people especially) will continue to suffer and more will die indirectly from this terrible condition.

    P.S. PTSD is just one condition out of many that plagues mentally ill people. More suffer from severe depression, bi polar, schizophrenia, OCD, body dysmorphia, anorexia, and a slew of other things
    Robin WIlliams was told he was going to get dementia and couldn't live with that.

    But as it has been shown in Russia and other countries, mental disposition can be controlled. Or someone who is hypotised, will fight to the death that they are not.

    And if most are, then herd mentality kicks in.
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  • Profile picture of the author Jonathan 2.0
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    Thanks for the honest post, discrat. : )

    Although over the years aspects have improved -- there is sill a lot of "ignorance", "prejudice", "stigma," and "judgement" about Mental Illness.

    I've mentioned it several times (maybe foolishly?) that I have overcome Social Anxiety, Depression ... And Schizophrenia ... However, ultimately, they were part of the best thing that ever happened to me. (Why? Because I have learned so much from the experience.)

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    The brain is an organ just like the kidneys and heart. Sometimes it can get sick and broken much like the heart and kidneys. It is nothing to be ashamed about and it is NOT a sign of weakness or "craziness" or a personality flaw!!
    Absolutely: Very well said, thanks discrat. From being hospitalized several times ... All the People I met were just great People with difficult problems.
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  • Profile picture of the author Mark Singletary
    New reports out say that she took her own life.

    Mark
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  • Profile picture of the author spartan14
    Great point of view but unfotunately many people see you crazy if you have a mental ilness desease
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  • Profile picture of the author Kay King
    New reports out say that she took her own life.

    I assumed that from the beginning. Mental illness is not a terminal disease - but the results of mental illness can be.
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    • Profile picture of the author discrat
      Originally Posted by Mark Singletary View Post

      New reports out say that she took her own life.

      Mark
      Originally Posted by Kay King View Post

      I assumed that from the beginning. Mental illness is not a terminal disease - but the results of mental illness can be.
      It is amazing that she looked relatively pretty good just weeks ago at the CMT Awards when she sung with her daughter.

      I guess you never know what is going on in a person's mind. Or she could have been fine at that Awards ceremony and had a sudden bout with her severe depression in the last week. Maybe Bi Polar or something.

      Who knows
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    • Profile picture of the author Mark Singletary
      These diseases are horrible for some people. And yes, there is still a lot of stigma. Recently a friend told me that he couldn't bear to let anyone know he needed marriage counseling which, in many cases, doesn't even bring out a bonafide mental health diagnosis.

      Even though depression doesn't kill people by itself, the "life" the victim lives up to that point can be absolute hell. And many times, they are accused of laziness, sorriness, lack of ambition, etc. How else would most people react to someone who slept all day and was still tired so they didn't get their work done or they couldn't function. There is a lot of picking yourself up, being a "man" (quit being a wimp) talk when things don't get done.

      I could go on and on. It can be hell. And what about the guy that is haunted by the blood of his buddies lying in the streets of Iraq and who now can't seem to get their life together. Many call them bums. Or the marriage that can never be "normal" because of childhood sexual abuse which now affects both husband and wife.

      Are there people that fake it or try to get attention or talk about it to build up their Tik Tok audience (in a cute way)? Yes. We'll always have those types. But the vast majority are living their own version of hell, even if they are higher functioning (a third party can't see that anything's wrong).

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  • Profile picture of the author PostingBay
    Some people are too afraid to be openly associated with anything or anyone with mental health issues because of what might likely come up from such association. Yes, it's not something they should be doing but it's just how we see it today. It's the same thing with those living with HIV/AIDS, even with all the sensitization, they are still being stigmatised.
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    • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
      Originally Posted by PostingBay View Post

      Some people are too afraid to be openly associated with anything or anyone with mental health issues because of what might likely come up from such association. Yes, it's not something they should be doing but it's just how we see it today. It's the same thing with those living with HIV/AIDS, even with all the sensitization, they are still being stigmatised.
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        Originally Posted by Claude Whitacre View Post

        Posts in the Off Topic section do not count toward your posting total. Just a heads up.
        I see soooooo many posts these days being written with AI.

        Not sure how or if it can be fixed...but it's becoming more popular, especially among non-native English speakers
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    We as someone who deals with mental illness and has attempted suicide. I can understand why she did it I can usually get why most people do it and choose the way they go.

    There is struggle in the body that the depression is only part of but because that is what is noticed that is what gets treated . Now if as 75 she has decided to go do yoga 6 times a week and follow some extreme diet. After being cured of hepatitis c . That changed the way she felt. That is the stuff that gets stigmatized.

    Heck if she bought a mini trampoline and rebounded for several minutes any time she felt down. Again that is kind of cooky.

    But where it is looked at as an illness it's something that was not caught or can not be cured it's something that can be stabilized and worked around.

    I wish my bipolar disorder and high functioning autism had mixed to create that thing that could bring me wealth.

    We want the things creative but mentally different people bring to the world. We just don't want people to like be to different
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  • Profile picture of the author Kay King
    So true - and we even get them from those selling forum posts...you can't make it up.
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