huh?? .

My entire adult life I've either been married or in a relationship.

Mate selection will make or break a lifetime. The right partner is everything.

On the other hand, sometimes it isn't the mate that makes or breaks a lifetime of happiness. Sometimes it's YOU.

Are you the kind of person that someone would love to spend their life with?

Are you kind, decent, loving, and giving?

Or...do you blame "women" for not just jumping at the chance to date you?

Do you think all women are just after your money? I've seen plenty of videos (each with hundreds of comments agreeing) that blame women for all your troubles.

If this describes you, you're the problem, not them.

The solution to "marriage decision problems" is to be the kind of person that someone wants to marry. Treating other people well is a good start.

Mebbe we talkin' consequenshl bonds.

Of which, there may be a hierarchy -- an' sum way in for yr stoopid mortal ass.

Evin if'n youwaint winnin' rn, you can be sure sumone on the othah sidea the planit dowin' OK bcs why the hell else they ain't smilin' like eedjits?

There is gravity, an' there is repulschwaahn.

Magnits in evidence.

An' I guess you gotta hook yrself up to where all charge of life ignites yr ass.



FFS calm yusselves down.

"Momentum as may be of significance," said the dragon at the head of the storm (or the storm ahead of the dragon ... fergit which'n now bcs I such a ditz), "is a single step in the direction of magnificence when all would seem to be lost."

I would wish always for benevolent intertwinements of such shocking beauty you would forget to gasp.

Alas, so many places you look now, we gaht only rasp.

Yeah yeah, so mebbe I bittah ' bout Dr Benedict Strangepants naht suckin' on muh tata's bcs Metaverse Whatevah ... but tbh who needs the Eye of Hugamuto trackin' yr unprincessly farts 24/7?

You would want mebbe maxo conflux wherevah you can get it, without you swept along by ignitionismo beyond yr control.

Gravity as kisses your flight.

Not to me .Relationships are about mutual respect and good communication and I don't have to be married to adhere to that .

That's my take on it .

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It's 25 years this year for me. Five more and I will have completed a life sentence.

I don't really see myself getting married either--it's just not something I'm drawn to in a sentimental way.

I've always been more into my love for dogs. I run a site about them, and I've got a Bernedoodle that I spend most of my time with, so that part of life already feels pretty full for me.