Im getting Married this June 2010

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I just want to share my happiness and sadness to this wedding. First I was sad because a lot of marriage nowadays are ending up nothing but divorce, I'm sad and afraid if that will happen to us. But on the other hand I'm happy and excited because this is the day that we are waiting for. Now I understand the feeling of getting married. You are happy, sad, excited, afraid all at the same time. Well whatever happens I know God will lead us.
  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    Congratulations. Don't worry about your mixed feelings. Marriage is a huge change of life and we all experience a lot of mixed emotions when our lives change.
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  • Profile picture of the author TLTheLiberator
    Questions...

    Are you getting married for the right reasons?

    Have you seen a marriage counselor??


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  • Profile picture of the author Lou Diamond
    Hello,
    about getting married, before marriage I used to hear the word yes, after marriage all I hear is the word no.
    Good luck you will need it.
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    Something new soon.

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  • Profile picture of the author Jaba63
    Congratulations on your upcoming marriage. I wish you all the best. Marriage takes a lot of work on both sides. One person cannot make a marriage work, all you can do is pray for the best.
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  • Profile picture of the author newedafe
    i rejoice with you on your coming marriage. I agree with Jaba63. It takes two to tango. My advice is you both go into the marriage with the mindset that it will turn out a success when you work at it
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  • Profile picture of the author fingers4hire
    Why do you think your marriage will end in divorce? You should look to the future with a positive attitude.
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  • Profile picture of the author garyv
    Congrats!

    Advice:

    Never let the sun go down on a quarrel. And no matter how mad you get, never let any words come out of your mouth that you'll later regret. They're much harder to take back once they are out there.
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    • Profile picture of the author newedafe
      Originally Posted by garyv View Post

      Congrats!

      Advice:

      Never let the sun go down on a quarrel. And no matter how mad you get, never let any words come out of your mouth that you'll later regret. They're much harder to take back once they are out there.

      dodgefernandez, garyv has given you a good advice. Its one of the tips that can make your marriage work.
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  • Profile picture of the author jaffi
    Congrats and be positive for the future, they don't all end badly.
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  • Profile picture of the author chattervine
    congrats for your wedding! just remain your relationship and em' close. if you think too much about the divorce matter, it will ruin your act. stay cool ok
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  • Profile picture of the author StacyHolmes
    Congratulations Dodgefernandez!

    I was terrified when I got married, probably for the reasons you stated in your post. I was so scared, I couldn't think. In fact, I was so distracted I missed the hair dresser's shop and had to turn around to go back. Then I'd drive past it again and miss it again. Did that about five times and was late for the appointment! Once the wedding party was assembled, I could not speak until after the ceremony was over. Husband was cool as a clam, but I was a wreck!

    Anyhoo, that was 16 years ago and we're still married. So not all marriages break up. Not to say we haven't had rough spots, we do. But I think we've been married long enough to say it's been *somewhat* successful. ;-) This isn't a perfect world, after all. lol!

    I would say the biggest and most important factor is honesty. Lies are marriage killers. Don't start, no matter how trivial it may seem. When it comes to lies, the smallest little crack in integrity will turn into a vast crevasse over time.

    Best wishes to you and yours!
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  • Profile picture of the author printing.host
    Congrats buddy....
    yeah i know.. before marriage we have these kind of mix feelings,, these create a thrill in whole life..
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  • Profile picture of the author ChrisHeggem
    Congratulations! Focus on the positive and it will be positive!
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  • Profile picture of the author rakesh.iseo1
    Congrats,
    Don't think bad. You will have to adjust her. I pray you got good nature girl.Actually if your behavior will be good then she will feel happy. Always try to be happy and fulfill her dreams. Everyday spend some time to her.

    With these facts, your life becomes beautiful.
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  • Profile picture of the author benicio
    congrats!
    Maldives is th best place for honeymoon.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michael Mayo
    Hi dodgefernandez,

    Firstly, Congratulations!

    My wife and I were also married in june! June 7th to be exact.

    Let me ease you mind a little. *Statistics show that June marriages on
    average last twice as long as marriages in any other month of the year.

    I was married at the age of 17 and my wife was 18. June 7th we will have
    been married for 30 years. I'm going to tell you what my father told me just
    before I took the plunge.
    If you are dead set on getting married and want your marriage to
    last long term then, You better be ready to eat a lot of Sh!t!
    My father passed away before I could get his definition of "a lot" .

    *When I first got married I had blond hair and blue eyes. Today I barely have
    hair and the hair I do have is white and my eyes changed to brown.

    Now that my eyes are brown I figure I've eaten all the Sh!t I have to and the
    wife and I don't even have to argue about things any more because we can just look at each
    other and know what each are thinking.

    My point is, Don't worry about failing at marriage. Worry about how you will
    make each other the two happiest people on the planet and strive to do
    just that. Have goals together and support one another along the way.

    I had better stop now because I could easily write and entire encyclopedia
    series on this subject from past experiences...lol

    Good luck and may the force be with you both!

    Have a Great Day!
    Michael

    * The stats and the Brown eyes comments above are BS and only served to ease your mind some! All other info above are Facts!
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  • Profile picture of the author Enetwork
    marriage is one of the important part of life cycle.

    Don't worry about after marriage.

    Best of luck
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  • Profile picture of the author randypatok
    Marriage is an adventure of a lifetime. Its up to you what outcome is your adventure...
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  • Profile picture of the author onlinebisnes
    Congratulations.
    wish you best luck on your wedding days and after marriage life.
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  • Profile picture of the author Domainoutlaw
    You are giving away your man hood. Good Luck!
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  • Profile picture of the author seoindiaforu
    Congrats..Wish u a happy married life!!
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