Why we always have hater and negative people around when we during something good?

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When i was creating something good for myself, everybody around me say it will never work, my favorite quote of all time from them was "in Your dream".
Now Since my business is during so well they hating in everything i do. why is that?
  • Profile picture of the author Patrician
    For one thing, jealousy and envy. They have no dreams so they want to steal yours or ruin it for you. It's an evil world.

    As Bob Dylan says, 'he just wants to get you down in the hole that he's in'

    For another God allows this 'thorn in our side' so that we don't get too full of ourselves.

    Don't let them bother you - just feel sorry for them.
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    • Profile picture of the author Scott Myers

      People don't like knowing that their lives suck!

      If they can make you look bad, then by comparison, their lives look good. (To them anyways.)

      Don't be hatin' playa'

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  • Profile picture of the author Sheryl Polomka
    It's a unfortunate part of life these days, there are just so many negative people around. So many people always look at the negative and expect failure and like Scott said, if they can make you look bad it might convince them that their life isn't so bad.

    Maybe you need to keep away from all the negative people and find just have positive people in your life.
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    • Profile picture of the author LindseyRainwater
      Absolutely distance yourself from these negative people. That is crucial advice. Even if these people are long time friends or family, step away from them and find more positive influences for your life.

      If they ask why you became distant, just be honest. Tell them you are trying to do something great with your life, and you don't need any negativity. They will either leave you alone, or they will realize how childish they're being.
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  • Profile picture of the author ltodd1947
    "What goes around; will come around." You may never know it (when these ugly people suffer) but I have found that those who give out hate, will someday be hated themselves. We all answer for our wrong doing and what they are doing is wrong. The best thing to do is make sure you have the emotional intelligence to overlook their hatred (they are actually jealous and have no self confidence themselves) and it will make you more powerful. Don't let anyone get you down....Stand like a mountain; flow like water....
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  • Profile picture of the author Kim Davis
    Unfortunately those negative people are everywhere. Surround yourself by those that have the same drive for life as you do.

    If you can't get rid of those happy haters then don't talk to them about what you are doing. If they ask hows it going, just say ok and change the subject.

    Very confident people love to make others feel good. Very insecure people choose to act like school yard bullies.

    Decide whose opinion you want to value, the confident ones like yourself or the school yard bullies. You can't beat them, and you don't want to join them, move on or around them in a another way that works for you.

    Keep up the good work, there are a ton of supporters in this IM world that get it.
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    They're there so you can look at them and see how bad it sucks to be them so you can be doubly as happy to find it doesn't suck to be you.

    When the Roads and Paths end, learn to guide yourself through the wilderness
    Beyond the Path

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    • Profile picture of the author Kay King
      I have a different take on this. If you don't keep talking about "what I'm doing, what I'm going to do, what I'm going to earn" - people can't argue with you. People can't tease you about things if they don't know what you are doing.

      If you feel a need to tell friends how much success you have and how much money you earn - stop. Instead ask how they are and what they are doing and take the focus of yourself. Be certain you aren't helping to create that atmosphere.

      They may be envious - or they may be tired of hearing about it. Why not ask one of your friends why he resents your success - and listen to what he says.

      Saving one dog will not change the world - but the world will change forever for that one dog.

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  • Profile picture of the author thunderbird
    It actually makes sense. Each innovate action, each new venture is a revolution to some extent, and will naturally cause a reaction. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. I think Norman Einstein (Al's cousin from the country) said that.

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  • Profile picture of the author myeanne
    Well, I think that's the meaning of life.
    God created those people to balance life.
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  • Profile picture of the author Aperio
    This reminds me of a funny sarcastic quote I heard before... "It's not enough that I succeed, all my friends must fail". I think we've all known a few folks in life at one time or another that it applies to.

    Just be thankful that you are doing well, don't let the negative folks get you down. Just focus on you and your attitude and leave them to their own miseries. Who knows, maybe your positive attitude will eventually rub off on them.
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  • Profile picture of the author ccd
    It’s easier to criticize than it is to get off the couch, take a risk and try to improve your life.
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  • Profile picture of the author Philip Ruben
    Yeah ,Haters are everywhere and must be stopped. Best way is to use the negative they bring and flip it.
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