Does she like me...? (girls, feel free to answer too lol)

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Hey guys. This forum is really cool, and I thought I would ask this here...


A little bit of context:
She invited me to her house on christmas, she said I could come over if I wanted. So I did. And when I get there, it's just her family... and then, me.... lol
Second: I take her out for lunch, and then she tells me to get to her house early in the morning, so I could have breakfast at her house. Then she tells me what they're gonna cook there, and asks me if I like it or not. At this point, I started to suspect something.

Then we go out for lunch, and she wants to stay with me after that, for a while. We went to the mall and talked, and she laughed at my jokes (she doesn't laugh a lot), and we had the greatest time.

After a few days, she stops talkin to me. Just like that. She doesn't want to talk to me (I can tell cause she behaves so differently), and I stop phoning her.

We didn't have a long conversation for about a month. Then she goes to the states, and when she gets back, she texts me, and says hi to me, and she told me she had bought me an aerosmith guitar pic (I play guitar). And she even tells me not to tell anyone cause she didn't buy anything for anyone else. And she was also worried that if I was gonna like it or not.

(sorry for writing this much lol). What's happening here?!?!? Does anyone have any ideas!??!

Thanks in advance!!

just to point out: she turns 16 next month. So, she's 15 at the moment lol.
  • Profile picture of the author seasoned
    She DOES like you, at least as a friend. Who knows WHAT happened around the time she went to the US. Do you and she generally speak a language other than english? Is the food very different? What is YOUR age? Did she WANT to go to the US? Are you and she in different social/financial classes, etc....? I could think of a few things that could explain how she treated you around that time, that have NOTHING to do with you as a person. It could EVEN explain why she didn't get anyone else anything.

    Steve
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    • Profile picture of the author Kay King
      When did this become a dating forum for teens?
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      • Profile picture of the author seasoned
        Originally Posted by Kay King View Post

        When did this become a dating forum for teens?
        A simple thanks wouldn't have been enough!

        BTW I meant to point out the odd handle... The extrovert guy!
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        • Profile picture of the author Rick B
          It definitely sounds like she's interested in you. I suspect that you didn't make it clear enough that you like her (I'm assuming that you do). That might have caused her to think you didn't want her for more than a pal and that upset her. That's my guess anyway.

          I hate to even think about all of the girls I liked when I was a teenager but couldn't get up the courage to make a move and then 20 years later I bump into them and they tell me they liked me and wonder why I never asked them out or why I never tried to kiss them.

          When a teenage girls asks a guy over for her family Christmas, 1 time out of a hundred she wants to be pals, 99 times out of a hundred she wants something more.

          Pretty good odds!
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  • Profile picture of the author HaydenR
    I would say yes.. there is a very high chance that she likes you.. but then again she's 15...
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  • Profile picture of the author myeanne
    I need to know your true age TheExtrovertGuy
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  • Profile picture of the author alcymart
    Actually, nothing much is happening...she'll stay semi interested until you decide to be interested in her too. She can't read your mind on how interested you are, or not...
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  • Profile picture of the author farewell911
    At least not like you very much
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    • Profile picture of the author Diane S
      Originally Posted by farewell911 View Post

      At least not like you very much
      Haven't you noticed your post count is not increasing? When anyone posts in this section, their post count stays the same.

      I posted this instead of reporting all your recent threads as spam. Keep doing it and I will report.
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