everyone gave up on me, should i give up aswell?

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as i'm sitting here, alone..thinking how i'm going to live thru another day..readin another ebook sais i can make 500$ a day with facebook..then running into a situation when i need to buy a 30$ progrem for it..and im broke, reading anoter article sais here is a 5 easy ways to make 100$..then again it cost 27$..and im broke..
searching the whole warrior forum for a free mathod, when i do i find it too diffcult for me to understand, trying it for a few days, trying to explain my perents that i'm so close to figure out how to make money..but then again..i'm just lying to myself..again.

i have no real aduaction, been thru surgery, twice, didnt finish school cause i was gone for long long time and came back with 0 knowlage, quitted..
i'm working in a supermarket, making 3$ an hour, and rest of the time i'm here..reading article after article, feeling hopeless..

i know what u thinking..i would say the same thing after reading this, oh jeez here is another sad person that asks for help..poor him if i started alone from scratch anyone can do it, if not its his problem..
well in this case i admit, i might not be smart as the rest of u, i tryd billions time to make money online and i just cant, (guess i'm an idiot..)

any help will be extremely(u have no idea) helpful.
  • Profile picture of the author glchandler
    Me thinks that your verbiage and you're profile picture just
    do not do each other proper credit!
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    • Profile picture of the author Daniel22
      Originally Posted by glchandler View Post

      Me thinks that your verbiage and you're profile picture just
      do not do each other proper credit!
      yes i was in the army, as a volunteer, i was working in an office, here in israel military is a must, if u didn't do army u won't find a good job, ur friends will laugh at u, and overall life is much harder here without doing 3 years in the IDF, when i was told they won't recruit me i had to volunteer for the reasons above, of course my service was only a year and half with benefits.
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  • Profile picture of the author John Durham
    Email me at johndurham1969@yahoo.com Daniel... I will send you a report you can make money with. I cant do it for everyone, all the time, but it doesnt hurt to do it now and then for a person who seems sincere.
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    • Profile picture of the author dangtrung
      @John Durham: The share is wonderful. Thank you very much
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    • Profile picture of the author Daniel22
      @John Durham
      i have sended u an email, thank u so much!
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  • Profile picture of the author Mikaedi88
    Daniel22, you really need to change your thinking if you truly desire to get anywhere in life the mindset needs to change.
    Make a start today, there's plenty of positive stuff on the net that can help you to change your life, it must start with you.
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  • Profile picture of the author John Durham
    NP. Hope you use the info well! Will respond shortly.
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  • Profile picture of the author John Durham
    Still waiting for that email Daniel...
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  • Profile picture of the author Daniel22
    i have sended 2 email's, dunno why u havn't got them yet, im sending another one now, just to be sure my email is whiteangel7@walla.com
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  • Profile picture of the author juninhop
    Originally Posted by Daniel22 View Post

    as i'm sitting here, alone..thinking how i'm going to live thru another day..readin another ebook sais i can make 500$ a day with facebook..then running into a situation when i need to buy a 30$ progrem for it..and im broke, reading anoter article sais here is a 5 easy ways to make 100$..then again it cost 27$..and im broke..
    searching the whole warrior forum for a free mathod, when i do i find it too diffcult for me to understand, trying it for a few days, trying to explain my perents that i'm so close to figure out how to make money..but then again..i'm just lying to myself..again.

    i have no real aduaction, been thru surgery, twice, didnt finish school cause i was gone for long long time and came back with 0 knowlage, quitted..
    i'm working in a supermarket, making 3$ an hour, and rest of the time i'm here..reading article after article, feeling hopeless..

    i know what u thinking..i would say the same thing after reading this, oh jeez here is another sad person that asks for help..poor him if i started alone from scratch anyone can do it, if not its his problem..
    well in this case i admit, i might not be smart as the rest of u, i tryd billions time to make money online and i just cant, (guess i'm an idiot..)

    any help will be extremely(u have no idea) helpful.


    Mindset is THE most important thing when it comes to success Daniel
    Always ALWAYS think positive and know that you will be successful.
    I myself am a beginner in IM so I unfortunately can't provide you with valuable help in that area, however, what I can tell you is that if you count your blessings, be thankful and expect good things in your life, then you WILL attract the success that you crave.

    All the best
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    • Profile picture of the author Richard Dominguez
      Your mindset is very important. Always think positive and you will succeed as long as you take the action required to make you succeed. I am also a beginner in the internet marketing field but am trying my best to learn and take action. There are plenty of free methods out there and this forum can be very helpful as well. Just try focusing on one method you enjoy and master it , don't get caught up at trying to do to many things at once. Good Luck!
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  • Profile picture of the author Daniel22
    @juninhop, thank u for encouragement, im really trying to hang on even when it seams so difficult, i think the major problem im having is having english as a 2nd language, i find it hard to read 30 pages e-book xD
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  • Profile picture of the author David Maschke
    Dude, you were in one of the toughest armies in the world. Reach back and remember what you've accomplished.

    Stand tall and take some PRIDE in yourself, and show us what you're made of!
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    • Profile picture of the author Daniel22
      Originally Posted by David Maschke View Post

      Dude, you were in one of the toughest armies in the world. Reach back and remember what you've accomplished.

      Stand tall and take some PRIDE in yourself, and show us what you're made of!
      i wasn't in combat tho, just sitting in an office and signing papers but yea i was really proud to serve the IDF and i had some really good moments!
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  • Profile picture of the author sandrax
    Never give up ! Keep trying and trying some more, one day you will start narrow things down to what works and what doesn't and than it will make an important difference in your life ahead. Work hard and it will pay of!
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  • Profile picture of the author RS3RS
    Nothing magic I can say, but keep your chin up and keep trying. Most importantly, pick one strategy you think can work and just stick to it.
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  • Profile picture of the author Exel
    I have only this to say - never give up.
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  • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
    Originally Posted by Daniel22 View Post

    i'm working in a supermarket, making 3$ an hour, and rest of the time i'm here..reading article after article, feeling hopeless..

    i know what u thinking..i would say the same thing after reading this, oh jeez here is another sad person that asks for help..poor him if i started alone from scratch anyone can do it, if not its his problem..
    well in this case i admit, i might not be smart as the rest of u, i tryd billions time to make money online and i just cant, (guess i'm an idiot..)

    any help will be extremely(u have no idea) helpful.
    Here's the best advice I can give you. It may not be what you want to hear, but it seems to me it's what you need to hear. Part of it may even sound a little mean, but it's not intended that way. Are you ready for it?

    First, stop feeling sorry for yourself. That never helps us succeed, but it will prevent us from succeeding.

    Second, intelligence is never the most important ingredient in success, desire is. Desire includes your determination, your perseverence, your will to win, your work ethic, and whether or not you're willing to do what it takes and stick with it until you succeed.

    How strong is your desire? Right now it doesn't look too good to me. You quit school. Gaining the knowledge you need is part of winning. Quitters never tough it out. They don't want to work that hard. They want shortcuts and magic. Some look for them their whole life, most of the rest give up; but a few decide to put forth the effort it takes to succeed ... and so they do.

    Which decision will you make? Which group will you align yourself with?

    Third, and most important, you need to change the way you talk to yourself. Your language is self-defeating. You will never achieve your desires if you keep telling yourself you're not smart enough. Your subsconscious will sabotage you every time you even get close because that's the way you're programming it!

    Stop and think about that before you continue. It's critical to your success.

    Listen, when you were born you had all the potential in the world. There were literally thousands of ways you could have succeeded in a big way if the conditions had been right. Then, life happened. Your conscious and subconscious mind were programmed, little by little, by everyone in your life. Family, friends, teachers, classmates, and so on.

    Many of them, if not all of them, told you negative things about yourself. They placed limitations on you, and you believed them. As we're growing up most of us hear thousands of things we can't do, but very little about the potential we have.

    Then this negative programming takes over and we start telling ourself self-defeating things based on the programming we received, and thus, self-defeating becomes self-perpetuating. In your case, based on your own words, saying, writing, or thinking things like, "guess I'm an idiot," like you said at the end of your post is like bashing yourself over the head with the hammer of defeat. You can't win when you do that.

    The media piles on the negativity, too. Much of what we're told is designed, intentionally and unintentionally, to hold us back. We buy into it through repetition, but let me tell you something...

    All the potential you had when you born, before all the programming that made you who you are now, all that potential is still there!

    That's right. Every ounce of potential you had, you still have. It's there under the many layers of programming. There are still thousands of ways you can succeed! Our mental programming determines our beliefs, and our beliefs determine our behavior, and our behavior determines our results. Change your programming and you will change your world.

    How do you do that?

    The good news is you don't have identify where the bad programming came from, you just have to identify what it is and replace it.

    Identifying the bad programming is easier than it sounds. Pay attention to your self-talk. When you identify messages you repeat to yourself that do not contribute to your well-being, happiness, and success, replace those messages with positive messages that reflect the way you want to be.

    The old programming took hold through repetition and through emotions. To replace it, keep repeating the positive messages in your self-talk. If you can add an emotional element to your new programming, the changes you desire will happen sooner.

    Picture in your mind what your life will look like when you succeed. Imagine how it will feel to have that which you desire. That's how to add the emotional content. But keep it all positive. Don't imagine revenge on those who quit believing in you -- that would be negative. Instead, imagine them treating you with respect, and you them. Keep it positive in every regard.

    Keep your new self-talk positive, and word it as though the message is already your reality. For example, if you catch yourself telling yourself how dumb you are, replace that self-talk with something like, "I am smart enough to do anything I want in life. I can learn anything I want to learn. Growing in intelligence and wisdom comes easily to me."

    Do that, consistently, and it will change your life. You can reprogram your mind for success. You may notice positive changes in as little as 30 days. I wish you well.

    Dennis

    PS - Regarding the title of your thread ... it doesn't matter if everyone else in the world gives up on you, what matters is that you don't give up on yourself. What other people think is their concern. What you think is your concern. Stick with that, but if it helps, I haven't given up on you. We are all in the state of becoming, we are never a finished product.
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  • Profile picture of the author John Durham
    Hey Daniel... Got it and sent. For some reason your email went to spam. Enjoy the report, and MAKE MONEY with it!
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  • Profile picture of the author RobertMcFarlane
    Just keep struggling and do your best. Don't be so hard on yourself.
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