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I've recently discovered how polite people from the Southern United States seem to be. Maybe it was just the people I met...It actually made me start to ponder the possibility of relocating, but then thoughts of hot weather and venomous spiders and snakes kind of shifted that thought.
  • Just remember, you're Canuckian...and not Kentuckian...:rolleyes:

    Besides, almost everyone in Canada already lives in the south...(of Canada)
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  • Profile picture of the author Robert Michael
    People are definitely more friendly down here.

    The weather is perfect year round, whats there to be unhappy about?

    lol

    And yeah, the spiders/snakes/bees and stuff DOES suck, but you adjust to it eventually
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    • Profile picture of the author TheInternet
      Originally Posted by Whos That Guru View Post

      People are definitely more friendly down here.

      The weather is perfect year round, whats there to be unhappy about?

      lol

      And yeah, the spiders/snakes/bees and stuff DOES suck, but you adjust to it eventually


      The weather in Georgia is good for about two weeks out of the year and only certain times of day during the rest.

      As for minds and openness, it just seems that way. The south is no different from the rest of the world. You'll find a lot more open minds in urban areas and more closed out in isolation. We just have fewer big cities than places that seem more open minded.

      Come to Athens (Georgia), Atlanta, or either city's metro and you'll mostly find people who are either open minded or tolerant.
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      • Profile picture of the author jimbo13
        I think it may depend on what you look like.

        My parents went to Arizona (is that the south?) and loved it. Everyone was Sir and Ma'am and helpful.

        'Have you seen so and so?' 'No' 'Well you just ride on down there and say Sheriff so and so sent yah'

        Great.

        Well they told their friends who went the following year.

        They didn't get the same sort of service.

        It was nice and they enjoyed Arizona but they didn't get the 'Hey what brings you folks out to see us?' treatment.

        They are from India.

        No racism involved I'm not suggesting that, just saying there is a slight difference.

        Dan

        PS: Happens everywhere I think so I really don't know why I bothered to write this thinking about it.
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    If I hadn't learned manners by the time I was seven my grandmother would've twisted my ears right off my head...
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  • People in the Pacific Northwest are pretty dang friendly too...heck, they'll even stop their car in the middle of the street to let you jaywalk!
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  • Profile picture of the author casdir
    Its nice living in a place where people are polite. I wish my city was like that lol
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  • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
    People are pretty friendly here, too. It's a small town, and small towns are often very friendly.
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    That's about where it goes, too, Dennis - small town people are always more friendly. They have more formal manners in the Southeast, but small American towns seem generally friendly all across the board.
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    Watch out. Last time I saw a 2012 map the south was all water :p
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  • Profile picture of the author KimW
    Originally Posted by Greg Wildermuth View Post

    I've got mixed feelings about the south. People are close-minded and all of that, but they're so darn friendly and down to earth. Whenever I go back home, I end up liking and appreciating it a lot more.

    By the way, Texas rules. I wanna move there.
    Sorry, but that isn't a "southern" thing.
    You find close minded people everywhere.

    By the way, I have lived in Virginia many years,but I have also lived in Oklahoma and Texas, and they are entirely different cultures.
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  • Profile picture of the author KimW
    Arizona is considered the southwest. Definitely not what we Americans consider south or "southern".
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  • Profile picture of the author Domonkoz
    I always like it when I go there, accept the ghettos, for obvious reasons.
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  • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
    Originally Posted by Ken_Caudill View Post

    During my last trip to New York I was pleased and impressed by how friendly the people in the city were. The South doesn't have a monopoly on it.
    Well...bless their hearts!
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    • Profile picture of the author Bill Farnham
      The friendliest city I can recall visiting was Toronto circa 1971. It amazed me.

      Of course now those Snowbacks probably hate Americans for no good reason other than we deserve it.

      **** 'em.




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      • Profile picture of the author HeySal
        Originally Posted by Ken_Caudill View Post

        Yes, Toronto is very free, clean and open. It has a genuine cosmopolitan feel and great music. Amsterdam is my all-time favorite, though. What a place.
        I really liked that town and the people, too. I liked the way that the people riding bikes hang on to car door handles and "hitch" a ride around town and how the people in the cars don't mind or will roll the windows down and chat. I've never seen that anywhere in the US.
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  • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
    You know, a lot of times "friendliness" is simply your attitude being reflected back to you. When people go on vacations they often remark at how friendly people were, but sometimes that's because their own attitude is better once they "get away from it all." Toss that smile around freely and carry your own sunshine with you and more often than not you'll find people are friendly.
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    • Profile picture of the author ThomM
      Originally Posted by Dennis Gaskill View Post

      You know, a lot of times "friendliness" is simply your attitude being reflected back to you. When people go on vacations they often remark at how friendly people were, but sometimes that's because their own attitude is better once they "get away from it all." Toss that smile around freely and carry your own sunshine with you and more often than not you'll find people are friendly.
      Same is true local too
      No matter what my mood is, I'm always polite and friendly in public.
      In fact I'm usually so positive I make myself sick.
      But I always get treated well
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  • Profile picture of the author MikeAmbrosio
    Born and raised here in the northeast - NJ for 20 years, NY most of the rest. For the most part, people are friendly. There's just so many more concentrated in one area... but rudeness really shines during a rush hour. Frustration boils over. Otherwise, lots of friendly people.

    As for the south, a good friend of mine moved to North Carolina many years back. Went to visit her after she was there 12 years. She said that they were always friendly and treated her kindly. But they don't really "let you in" if you weren't born and raised there. She has been there now over 20 years and is STILL considered a Yankee. Actually a damned Yankee (a Yankee VISITS the South. A Damned Yankee moves South).

    I do enjoy visiting the south though...
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    • Profile picture of the author thunderbird
      Originally Posted by MikeAmbrosio View Post

      Born and raised here in the northeast - NJ for 20 years, NY most of the rest. For the most part, people are friendly. There's just so many more concentrated in one area... but rudeness really shines during a rush hour. Frustration boils over. Otherwise, lots of friendly people.

      As for the south, a good friend of mine moved to North Carolina many years back. Went to visit her after she was there 12 years. She said that they were always friendly and treated her kindly. But they don't really "let you in" if you weren't born and raised there. She has been there now over 20 years and is STILL considered a Yankee. Actually a damned Yankee (a Yankee VISITS the South. A Damned Yankee moves South).

      I do enjoy visiting the south though...
      Funny that you mention North Carolina. I've got a big concentration of relatives (distant Fulfords) over there.
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      • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
        I have relatives in the south and I love visiting there.

        Everyone is indeed friendly and I'm speaking of other southerners, besides my relatives.

        One thing that strikes me as funny is they all try to feed me, lol!

        Every new person I'm introduced to always asks me first thing, if I'd like something to eat.

        It's a good thing I have will power or they'd have me as round as a hush puppy with that good ole southern cooking.

        Terra
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        • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
          Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

          I have relatives in the south and I love visiting there.

          Everyone is indeed friendly and I'm speaking of other southerners, besides my relatives.

          One thing that strikes me as funny is they all try to feed me, lol!

          Every new person I'm introduced to always asks me first thing, if I'd like something to eat.

          It's a good thing I have will power or they'd have me as round as a hush puppy with that good ole southern cooking.

          Terra
          I always say..."I just ate. Hi how ya'll doin'?"
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          • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
            Originally Posted by Dave Patterson View Post

            I always say..."I just ate. Hi how ya'll doin'?"

            Haha! Thanks Dave!

            I'm going to have to borrow that next time I visit.

            Terra
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            Originally Posted by Dave Patterson View Post

            I always say..."I just ate. Hi how ya'll doin'?"
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    This thread is turning out to be a useful travel tips guide.
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    • Profile picture of the author Dave Patterson
      Originally Posted by thunderbird View Post

      This thread is turning out to be a useful travel tips guide.
      Too bad you just missed the Chicken and Egg Festival last week-end...
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