eBay Seller Sues Buyer Over Negative Feedback

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Pretty interesting article.

eBay Seller Sues Buyer Over Negative Feedback | WebProNews

Basics: Buyer purchased item & paid $12 shipping. Item arrived w/ $1.xx postage due. Buyer left negative feedback. Seller is suing.

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  • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
    I'd say Med Express has shot themselves in the foot . . . with a cannon.
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  • Profile picture of the author GarrieWilson
    I'd say Med Express has shot themselves in the foot . . . with a cannon.
    I would too.

    Not sure why this was moved to OT...
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    Sounds like a case for Judge Judy.
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  • Profile picture of the author KimW
    Anybody else here feel that maybe,besides the seller and buyer over reacting, it was the Postal Services mistake?

    I have had packages come to me where the Postal Services has made me pay "postage due" when there was none. The postage was clearly paid.

    The carrier delivering the package hasn't am clue if the postage due claim is legit or not,they just know they are handed a package with a slip and they either have to bring the package back or the amount on the slip back.

    Personally I don't see it as Med Express shooting themselves in the foot. Making bad decisions,and hiring a bad lawyer,maybe.
    The lawyer should have already known that you can't sue over an opinion.
    But then,that is just my opinion.
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    • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
      Originally Posted by KimW View Post

      Anybody else here feel that maybe,besides the seller and buyer over reacting, it was the Postal Services mistake?
      Sure, both of them.

      Personally I don't see it as Med Express shooting themselves in the foot. Making bad decisions,and hiring a bad lawyer,maybe.
      The lawyer should have already known that you can't sue over an opinion.
      But then,that is just my opinion.
      The "shooting themselves in the foot" part was for hiring a lawyer and suing. With this being only the second negative rating out of 298 ratings, most people will ignore the two negative comments. A good many won't ignore the vindictive, quick-to-sue attitude though.
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  • Profile picture of the author travlinguy
    I was once a very active eBay seller. I stopped when eBay allowed only buyers to leave feedback. This essentially allowed unscrupulous people to blackmail sellers. And I agree, the issue is likely to be the fault of the Post office.

    I once had a large shipment to send to Australia. I wasn't able to figure out the charges with the chart on the post office Website so I schlepped the box down to the po to get the price.

    The buyer bid on and won this auction despite my MASSIVE NOTICE stating US bidders only. So being a nice guy I sucked it up and went to get the guy a price. They quoted me $25. The guy made payment including the $25. But when I bring the box to the po to ship it the price was close to $40. They'd made a mistake.

    This thing didn't get resolved for about 8 months. But I digress... The point is the po can be pretty casual about things.

    I'm kinda rooting for the plaintiff in this. People are really quick to "punish" others when a little understanding would go a long way. And if the plaintiff wins maybe it will get around and others will think twice before they hit the negative feedback button.
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  • Profile picture of the author KimW
    According to the article it looks like the plaintiff already lost.
    I agree though,people are too quick to punish.
    Looks like the seller tried to work with the buyer.

    I've been a member of Ebay since `1998 and my account is still active,but it has been ages since I have bought anything and even longer since I sold anything.
    Last time I sold I was hit with so many fees and charges I lost money.

    I also didn't know that only buyers could leave feedback. Last time I DID sell, I was wondering why I couldn't find the feedback buttons.

    It is funny, I had eye surgery Monday and in the Drs office the had a Fortune %00 magazine and the cover story was "EBay IS Back!".

    I wonder if that is really true.
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    • Profile picture of the author ThomM
      Originally Posted by KimW View Post

      According to the article it looks like the plaintiff already lost.
      I agree though,people are too quick to punish.
      Looks like the seller tried to work with the buyer.

      I've been a member of Ebay since `1998 and my account is still active,but it has been ages since I have bought anything and even longer since I sold anything.
      Last time I sold I was hit with so many fees and charges I lost money.

      I also didn't know that only buyers could leave feedback. Last time I DID sell, I was wondering why I couldn't find the feedback buttons.

      It is funny, I had eye surgery Monday and in the Drs office the had a Fortune %00 magazine and the cover story was "EBay IS Back!".

      I wonder if that is really true.
      When I got this house when my mother died I was listing close to 20 items a day for over a year Most of it was depression glass. The fees WHERE nuts, but I still did ok. Lately I've been doing some buying on ebay, mostly percussion stuff, but also some motorcycle stuff. I get feedback from the seller on everything I've purchased so far.
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  • Profile picture of the author SteveJohnson
    Hasn't even made it to court yet, was only filed Mar 25. Far from over.

    I don't know if anyone on a jury would consider "Order arrived with postage due with no communication from seller beforehand" a defamatory and libelous statement because it's essentially true - but it also implies that the company should have known that it was sending the package postage due.

    Glad I'm not a lawyer.
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  • Profile picture of the author KimW
    Thom, that is what Travlin guy was saying. Maybe they changed it then changed it back,I dont know.


    Steve J, this is what I was referencing,last line of the article.

    "Of course, Levy argues that’s not really the mot important part. Summarily, Ohio law and the First Amendment prevents Med Express from suing over an opinion – be it false or not."
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    • Profile picture of the author SteveJohnson
      Originally Posted by KimW View Post

      Steve J, this is what I was referencing,last line of the article.

      "Of course, Levy argues that's not really the mot important part. Summarily, Ohio law and the First Amendment prevents Med Express from suing over an opinion - be it false or not."
      And I wrote a comment on the article telling him he ought to cut back on the beer and leave the lawyering to lawyers. He has no idea what he's talking about (not that I'm a lawyer, but I do know what libel is and he obviously doesn't).

      You can be sued over an opinion - if you publicly voice it in a way that causes damage to another person or entity.
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      • Profile picture of the author KimW
        Originally Posted by SteveJohnson View Post

        And I wrote a comment on the article telling him he ought to cut back on the beer and leave the lawyering to lawyers. He has no idea what he's talking about (not that I'm a lawyer, but I do know what libel is and he obviously doesn't).

        You can be sued over an opinion - if you publicly voice it in a way that causes damage to another person or entity.

        Seems he was doing that and just chose the wrong one.
        As far as libel,here ya go, from the The Legal Dictionary:

        libel

        1) n. to publish in print (including pictures), writing or broadcast through radio, television or film, an untruth about another which will do harm to that person or his/her reputation, by tending to bring the target into ridicule, hatred, scorn or contempt of others. Libel is the written or broadcast form of defamation, distinguished from slander, which is oral defamation. It is a tort (civil wrong) making the person or entity (like a newspaper, magazine or political organization) open to a lawsuit for damages by the person who can prove the statement about him/her was a lie. Publication need only be to one person, but it must be a statement which claims to be fact and is not clearly identified as an opinion. While it is sometimes said that the person making the libelous statement must have been intentional and malicious, actually it need only be obvious that the statement would do harm and is untrue. Proof of malice, however, does allow a party defamed to sue for general damages for damage to reputation, while an inadvertent libel limits the damages to actual harm (such as loss of business) called special damages. Libel per se involves statements so vicious that malice is assumed and does not require a proof of intent to get an award of general damages. Libel against the reputation of a person who has died will allow surviving members of the family to bring an action for damages. Most states provide for a party defamed by a periodical to demand a published retraction. If the correction is made, then there is no right to file a lawsuit. Governmental bodies are supposedly immune to actions for libel on the basis that there could be no intent by a non-personal entity, and further, public records are exempt from claims of libel. However, there is at least one known case in which there was a financial settlement as well as a published correction when a state government newsletter incorrectly stated that a dentist had been disciplined for illegal conduct. The rules covering libel against a "public figure" (particularly a political or governmental person) are special, based on U.S. Supreme Court decisions. The key is that to uphold the right to express opinions or fair comment on public figures, the libel must be malicious to constitute grounds for a lawsuit for damages. Minor errors in reporting are not libel, such as saying Mrs. Jones was 55 when she was only 48, or getting an address or title incorrect. 2) v. to broadcast or publish a written defamatory statement.
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        • Profile picture of the author SteveJohnson
          Originally Posted by KimW View Post

          Seems he was doing that and just chose the wrong one.
          As far as libel,here ya go, from the The Legal Dictionary:
          That's why I said up earlier in the thread I'm glad I'm not a lawyer because I don't exactly see how the feedback she left would qualify as libel - as factually, it is true. The seller's argument is that he/she/it didn't know there would be postage due, and when they found out, offered to reimburse the buyer - which the buyer refused.

          It all seems petty to me, but as has been pointed out eBay's feedback system has been abused for years, sometimes to the very real detriment of some sellers.

          I am really surprised this has gotten as much attention as it has from us.
          Me, too.
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  • Profile picture of the author KimW
    Yeah, I just checked my EBay rating, I have a feedback score of 287 with 100%.
    But I have only had 4 transactions in the past year.
    There way of calculating si ,"different" shall we say?
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  • Profile picture of the author Young Financier
    Well, the eBay feedback system is unfair in the first place. Buyers can leave negative feedback but sellers can't, and there are a lot of unscrupulous buyers on eBay who take advantage of that. That's why a buyer w/ a really high rating means zero.
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    • Profile picture of the author MikeAmbrosio
      Originally Posted by Sean Tudor Carter View Post

      Well, the eBay feedback system is unfair in the first place. Buyers can leave negative feedback but sellers can't, and there are a lot of unscrupulous buyers on eBay who take advantage of that. That's why a buyer w/ a really high rating means zero.
      The sellers can't leave any feedback? Or just not negative? I get feedback on my purchases from every seller (all positive..).
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  • Profile picture of the author MikeAmbrosio
    Originally Posted by Ken_Caudill View Post

    The buyer damaged the seller's reputation.

    It's pretty clear.

    Nah, not in my opinion. The customer had an experience and rated it as they saw it - opinion. In fact, not even an opinion - it was her experience. How is that damaging the seller?

    You only get 180 characters - and with the overall positive reviews AND the ability to reply to the feedback this merchant stepped on their own toes.

    What is the feedback system for if not to leave feedback? From what I read there was nothing nasty - just stated what she experienced.

    They also received a negative review 6 months earlier - I wonder if they sued that one and if not, why this one. If I were a buyer, with all the positive reviews I would have not even paid attention to this. Now, I'd look for another seller. NOT becaue of the feedback - because of their lawsuit response.

    But that's me.
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    • Profile picture of the author Kay King
      It's an over reaction - and waste of time - by the seller. As a potential buyer seeing that negative comment I'd think that particular buyer was petty and would discount it.

      I don't think it's unusual - I recently had a $1.54 higher USPS charge than I expected on a $70 item bought online (not ebay). I shrugged about it - but 3 days later the company I bought from refunded that amount without any contact/complaint from me.

      Buyer was silly - seller is trying to match the silliness.
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    • Profile picture of the author travlinguy
      Originally Posted by MikeAmbrosio View Post

      Nah, not in my opinion. The customer had an experience and rated it as they saw it - opinion. In fact, not even an opinion - it was her experience. How is that damaging the seller?

      You only get 180 characters - and with the overall positive reviews AND the ability to reply to the feedback this merchant stepped on their own toes.

      What is the feedback system for if not to leave feedback? From what I read there was nothing nasty - just stated what she experienced.

      They also received a negative review 6 months earlier - I wonder if they sued that one and if not, why this one. If I were a buyer, with all the positive reviews I would have not even paid attention to this. Now, I'd look for another seller. NOT becaue of the feedback - because of their lawsuit response.

      But that's me.
      If it were a two-way street I might agree. Buyers can say anything they want in the feedback section whether it's true or not.
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      • Profile picture of the author MikeAmbrosio
        Originally Posted by travlinguy View Post

        If it were a two-way street I might agree. Buyers can say anything they want in the feedback section whether it's true or not.
        I believe the sellers can too. I have feedback from the sellers I have purchased from. Doesn't everyone?

        I am not advocating people abuse the system. But I have been an ebay user (buyer and seller) since 2001. I simply don't see the level of abuse that others in this thread obviously do.

        Any system has abusers. But that doesn't mean the entire system should be trashed. And in this particular case, I don't see ANY abuse. I see a petty buyer and a silly seller.
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        • Profile picture of the author travlinguy
          Originally Posted by MikeAmbrosio View Post

          I believe the sellers can too. I have feedback from the sellers I have purchased from. Doesn't everyone?

          I am not advocating people abuse the system. But I have been an ebay user (buyer and seller) since 2001. I simply don't see the level of abuse that others in this thread obviously do.

          Any system has abusers. But that doesn't mean the entire system should be trashed. And in this particular case, I don't see ANY abuse. I see a petty buyer and a silly seller.
          eBay hasn't let sellers leave negative or neutral feedback for going on four years.
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          • Profile picture of the author MikeAmbrosio
            Originally Posted by travlinguy View Post

            eBay hasn't let sellers leave negative or neutral feedback for going on four years.
            Ok, then I am thoroughly confused:

            Feedback
            Good buyer, prompt payment, valued customer, highly recommended.

            From/price
            Seller: Member id xxxxxx

            Date/time
            Feb-22-13 14:05

            Isn't this feedback from a seller to a buyer? Am I missing something? Are you saying they CAN'T leave negative words in the feedback box?
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            • Profile picture of the author travlinguy
              Originally Posted by MikeAmbrosio View Post

              Ok, then I am thoroughly confused:

              Feedback
              Good buyer, prompt payment, valued customer, highly recommended.

              From/price
              Seller: Member id xxxxxx

              Date/time
              Feb-22-13 14:05

              Isn't this feedback from a seller to a buyer? Am I missing something? Are you saying they CAN'T leave negative words in the feedback box?
              That's what I posted. No negative or neutral from sellers.
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              • Profile picture of the author MikeAmbrosio
                Originally Posted by travlinguy View Post

                That's what I posted. No negative or neutral from sellers.
                Hmm - interesting.

                But that doesn't change my view that this case is an over reaction (from both sides). Frankly, if this went to court I think it would do more harm than good overall. There may be abusers of the feedback system, but I feel there are way more scam artists who deserve the negative feedback. Not just on ebay. Imagine scammers suing people they scammed because of negative reviews... and don't think that wouldn't happen if this type of case was won by the seller - ever hear of the burglar who broke in to a house, hurt themselves then sued the homeowner?

                I think this is more of a case for pressuring ebay as users to change their feedback system.
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    • Profile picture of the author MikeAmbrosio
      Originally Posted by Ken_Caudill View Post

      Looks like libel to me. It's high time something was done about the practice of blackmailing merchants and freelancers with negative "feedback." It's done every day.

      Feedback is constantly abused. A legal smack up the side of the head seems in order.

      Kudos to the man who dug in his picket to do something about it.
      LOL - then you have a very loose definition of libel. I'll just agree to disagree here.

      If a legal smack upside the head is warranted on the feedback system itself, I don't see this as the one.

      And frankly, if people become afraid of leaving negative feedback because of lawsuits what do you suppose would be the long term result? How about sellers ripping people off at a much higher rate than they currently do.

      Well, then I suppose we could always call the same lawyers to smack them around.
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      • Profile picture of the author Dan Riffle
        Originally Posted by Ken_Caudill View Post

        Libel is maliciously destroying someone's reputation in print, no?

        People should be afraid to leave malicious negative feedback, but go ahead and misread what I wrote if it makes you feel better.
        But, Ken, where do you get malice from: "Order arrived with postage due with no communication from seller beforehand."

        It will be pretty hard to prove malicious intent from that. Considering the company owned up to the shipping error, it will also be pretty hard to prove libel altogether. The statement at issue is not an untruth.

        Tell me you're just taking the piss here.
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      • Profile picture of the author MikeAmbrosio
        Originally Posted by Ken_Caudill View Post

        Libel is maliciously destroying someone's reputation in print, no?

        People should be afraid to leave malicious negative feedback, but go ahead and misread what I wrote if it makes you feel better.

        I found nothing malicious in her feedback. If you did, then your loose definition is on what is considered malicious - not what is libel.

        My apologies for the mis categorization
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        • Profile picture of the author kindsvater
          I'd say the seller and its attorneys have a major problem. They are apparently suing anyone and everyone for any comment they do not approve of. That is how you get a 99% approval rating - sue anyone to get any negative comments removed.

          Not only are they likely to pay a lot of money for abusing the legal system, I suspect the seller can kiss of his eBay account.

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          • Profile picture of the author MikeAmbrosio
            Originally Posted by kindsvater View Post

            I'd say the seller and its attorneys have a major problem. They are apparently suing anyone and everyone for any comment they do not approve of. That is how you get a 99% approval rating - sue anyone to get any negative comments removed.

            Not only are they likely to pay a lot of money for abusing the legal system, I suspect the seller can kiss of his eBay account.

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            Frankly, my problem with this is if the seller sues and wins, then every merchant or seller who gets negative feedback (and has an attorney) will sue to have the negative comment removed.

            Then there's no point to any type of review and feedback system.

            Personally, I use reviews to decide on many of my purchases and if I see ALL positive reviews I find it suspect (unless there's only 3 or 4). I want to read honest opinions and dealings.

            Ebay may not allow the seller to make negative comments about the buyer - but they CAN rebut a negative comment. I read those too. It tells me as much as the review itself. And for what it's worth (I do this a lot on Amazon) I will read other reviews by a reviewer to see if they are just leaving negative comments everywhere. This merchant doesn't trust that potential consumers have a brain...
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      Originally Posted by Ken_Caudill View Post

      Looks like libel to me. It's high time something was done about the practice of blackmailing merchants and freelancers with negative "feedback." It's done every day.

      Feedback is constantly abused. A legal smack up the side of the head seems in order.

      Kudos to the man who dug in his picket to do something about it.

      LMAO, you can't possibly be serious.
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    I am really surprised this has gotten as much attention as it has from us.
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    • Profile picture of the author MikeAmbrosio
      Originally Posted by KimW View Post

      I am really surprised this has gotten as much attention as it has from us.
      Really? I've seen way more attention given to way more trivial issues :p
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  • Profile picture of the author KimW
    Quick,someone sell me something then I wont pay then you can leave some negative feedback for me!!
    Lets see how this works.
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  • Profile picture of the author travlinguy
    Here's the eBay page stating their feedback and other policies. Notice it's called buyer accountability but it's all about buyer protection.

    Buyer accountability
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  • Profile picture of the author KimW
    Ha ha, so true Mike.

    Steve, my apologies, I misunderstood.
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  • Profile picture of the author travlinguy
    I was making good money on eBay a while back and having a blast. I love thrift stores, bargains, live physical auctions and any other wholesale venues. I was recovering from a serious illness and got into selling on eBay to keep my mind of gruesome cancer treatments involving massive doses of radiation.

    I was selling primarily used books. Mainly self help, paranormal and business books. I once paid fifty cents for a book I sold for $220. But I was also selling stuff I'd find at swap meets, yard sales, anything. In the course of a little over a year I'd held more than 5000 successful auctions. For all of that activity I had only two negative feedback entries. And those were from two malcontents I'd refunded when I couldn't make them happy. Still, I was making a full time living and loving every minute of it. It wasn't like work at all.

    Then eBay decided they'd change their TOS making it more friendly to buyers. It's not the experienced buyers that became the problem. It was the newbs who were leaving ridiculous negatives. Unbelievable stuff. I was selling a Schwinn Airdyne bike one time. This thing must weigh 80lbs. I made it local pickup only because shipping it would have been too much trouble. I had a brand new eBay member email me asking if I'd ship it from Florida to Illinois because she had a sprained ankle and the bike would help her recover.

    I politely told her I couldn't for obvious reasons. She insisted and said she would file a discrimination lawsuit against me. Discrimination because she was handicapped. No joke. Then she said she'd buy my other auctions just so she could leave me negative feedback to mess up my average, which at the time was 100% positive. Unbelievable.

    I forwarded all of her nonsense to eBay and still, they let her keep her account. She'd had issues with other sellers too. This was right around the time they changed their feedback policy and raised all their fees. I just phased out what had become a very profitable business. I guess this is what happens when a mom and pop operation goes corporate. They forget the people who helped them make it big.
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    • Profile picture of the author MikeAmbrosio
      Originally Posted by travlinguy View Post

      I was making good money on eBay a while back and having a blast. I love thrift stores, bargains, live physical auctions and any other wholesale venues. I was recovering from a serious illness and got into selling on eBay to keep my mind of gruesome cancer treatments involving massive doses of radiation.

      I was selling primarily used books. Mainly self help, paranormal and business books. I once paid fifty cents for a book I sold for $220. But I was also selling stuff I'd find at swap meets, yard sales, anything. In the course of a little over a year I'd held more than 5000 successful auctions. For all of that activity I had only two negative feedback entries. And those were from two malcontents I'd refunded when I couldn't make them happy. Still, I was making a full time living and loving every minute of it. It wasn't like work at all.

      Then eBay decided they'd change their TOS making it more friendly to buyers. It's not the experienced buyers that became the problem. It was the newbs who were leaving ridiculous negatives. Unbelievable stuff. I was selling a Schwinn Airdyne bike one time. This thing must weigh 80lbs. I made it local pickup only because shipping it would have been too much trouble. I had a brand new eBay member email me asking if I'd ship it from Florida to Illinois because she had a sprained ankle and the bike would help her recover.

      I politely told her I couldn't for obvious reasons. She insisted and said she would file a discrimination lawsuit against me. Discrimination because she was handicapped. No joke. Then she said she'd buy my other auctions just so she could leave me negative feedback to mess up my average, which at the time was 100% positive. Unbelievable.

      I forwarded all of her nonsense to eBay and still, they let her keep her account. She'd had issues with other sellers too. This was right around the time they changed their feedback policy and raised all their fees. I just phased out what had become a very profitable business. I guess this is what happens when a mom and pop operation goes corporate. They forget the people who helped them make it big.
      My mother in law did a lot of what you did (on a much smaller scale) - buy and resell mostly used items. She never ran in to the issues you did and basically lost interest. She made good money but got tired of the running around she had to do.

      What you experienced totally sucks and is unfair. I have seen the same basic thing happen outside of eBay too. The world is full of trolls. You either fight them off and move on or succumb to their bullshit. I've done both in my on line career In fact, it was the crap of dealing with unreasonable customers that drove me away from I.M. It totally burned me out (even though there really weren't many, a few were really asinine) .

      I didn't realize eBay changed that policy because I was never much of a seller and have not sold anything there in many years. However, being the optimist I am (), I still believe the abusers are in the minority. Because for every bad customer I had I can say I had hundreds of good and satisfied ones over the years. Guess I'm just lucky.
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      • Profile picture of the author travlinguy
        Originally Posted by MikeAmbrosio View Post

        My mother in law did a lot of what you did (on a much smaller scale) - buy and resell mostly used items. She never ran in to the issues you did and basically lost interest. She made good money but got tired of the running around she had to do.

        What you experienced totally sucks and is unfair. I have seen the same basic thing happen outside of eBay too. The world is full of trolls. You either fight them off and move on or succumb to their bullshit. I've done both in my on line career In fact, it was the crap of dealing with unreasonable customers that drove me away from I.M. It totally burned me out (even though there really weren't many, a few were really asinine) .

        I didn't realize eBay changed that policy because I was never much of a seller and have not sold anything there in many years. However, being the optimist I am (), I still believe the abusers are in the minority. Because for every bad customer I had I can say I had hundreds of good and satisfied ones over the years. Guess I'm just lucky.
        I agree. The abusers are in the minority by a wide margin. I'm actually thinking of putting some stuff up again. I occasionally buy on eBay but haven't sold anything for more than two years. I have an idea for a passive income deal right now I think I'm going to try. Very little in the way of management. I've been researching it the last couple of days. Every line in the water helps.
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        • Profile picture of the author MikeAmbrosio
          Originally Posted by travlinguy View Post

          I agree. The abusers are in the minority by a wide margin. I'm actually thinking of putting some stuff up again. I occasionally buy on eBay but haven't sold anything for more than two years. I have an idea for a passive income deal right now I think I'm going to try. Very little in the way of management. I've been researching it the last couple of days. Every line in the water helps.
          Good luck! And if it works, don't forget the WSO I'd buy it.
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          • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
            Originally Posted by KimW View Post

            I am really surprised this has gotten as much attention as it has from us.
            Perhaps because most of us have had unfair things said about us, or have been ripped off by sellers?

            Or maybe we just like to stick our noses in other people's business.
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            • Profile picture of the author KimW
              Originally Posted by Dennis Gaskill View Post

              Perhaps because most of us have had unfair things said about us, or have been ripped off by sellers?

              Or maybe we just like to stick our noses in other people's business.
              Or all of the above?

              I had actually forgotten about this.
              I was ripped off for about $350 if memory serves me right.
              A gentleman had just passed away and he had put out 3 very desired books.
              I had two of the three and EBay was loaded with his books by people cashing in on his death.

              I was supposedly buying a first edition (it had been reprinted once) of his first book,which had been published comb bound..
              It was also suppose to be the only copy he had.

              When I received the package, I started reading the book. Right off the bat I could tell it was a photocopy. I thumbed through and also found that several places in the book had the same page twice.

              When I complained,the person said tell him what pages I needed and he would get them out to me.
              It was then I knew I had been screwed,and that he was probably screwing others too.
              I should have raised a fit but didn't.
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  • Profile picture of the author yukon
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    There's absolutely nothing wrong with a buyer leaving negative feedback. Feedback is a persons opinion, which everyone has, doesn't matter If it's positive or negative.

    Ebay created a feedback system to be used, good grief, some of you guys act like all ebay needs is a Thanks button.

    The whole complaint is silly.
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  • Profile picture of the author KimW
    I went and looked at the sellers feedback. They have two Neutral and two negative in the past year.
    I found this neutral one interesting.
    Buyer:
    "innapropriate packaging, item completey broken during shipping"

    and the seller's response:
    "It was completely broken before- it was listed as damaged"

    Now,I don't know about you,but to me damaged does not completely broken. If it was completely broken,why did they sell it?

    I wonder if this was originally a negative feedback and they were talked into changing it some how?
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