A friend calls you up and says that he is going to a party where there will be about 100 single young women, is sure that several will be cute, funny, and interesting to talk to...and asks if you would like to go along with him.
A different friend calls you up and tells you that he is going to a party at the same time as the first friend. This party will only have a few people at it.....but there is a girl he has told all about you. She knows you are interested in pool, comic books, and chess. She is also interested in those things. She is also cute, has seen a picture of you, will be at the party, and says she looks foreword to meeting you.
Both parties are an equal distance to travel.
Which party do you go to?