Can I be A Success?

I don’t like to cold call, and don’t want to.
I don’t want to walk door to door
I don’t know what to write on a flyer because I don’t know what Im offering.
I don’t know how to talk to business owners, and Im nervous about doing it
I don’t know how to explain websites or seo to business owners, even though I have read 5 wso’s on it
I don’t have money to pay others to do my work and I wouldn’t know how to instruct them anyway.
I don’t know how to build websites, and I don’t know how to outsource so I cant succeed at that.
I cant hire people on commission because I cant pay for an ad and craigslist isn’t working.
When people call in I don’t know what to say to them…even though the Warrior Forum is full of information.

Can I still be an offliner?

I cant make a WSO because I don’t know how to do anything… I cant get a paypal account because I don’t have a bank (Use someone elses).

Im not a good writer… I don’t have money to hire others to write for me.
I have asked for refunds on half the WSO’s I have ever purchased… because they didn’t turn me into a success

I cant start a mailing list because of ___________, ______________ and ________________

I don’t want to take the time to learn aweber and I wish someone would do it for me for free or on the commission that I will never earn because basically I think a lot but I am not a doer. I like to ask, but I dont really take much advice.

Im pissed because , even though I didn’t take the OTO on the free site I joined, I want them to answer my email 5 times a day, in fact I demand it, or else I will scream “bad service”, even though Im not really a “customer”.

Lastly, Im not a tryer, or a doer… I dont want to have to extrapolate any thought...

Infact; I wont make a move unless there is a promise of security, and if it fails I will blame the person who told me it was a piece of cake…

Given all of that…. How do I succeed?

Well, John Durham is going to answer that question for you.

You aren’t.
You need to get a clue
Its offensive to the people who actually “try” for you to even be talking …
You are too wimpy to succeed. Sorry.

You need to go get a secure job working as a bank teller or something
You don’t have the nerve to be an entrepreneur, sorry, nor the Karma because you place so much blame…

You don’t take responsibility for your own success…

You expect someone to give you a magic pill…

It aint gonna happen, I promise...you can quote me later if you dont like hearing this now.

Let me help you. This is a common condition, but you don’t know you are suffering from it: “You are a Wimp”.

Whats the answer?

You need to learn to fight!
You need to stop asking people “Will my wso work”?

Hello? It only cost 40 bucks to find out.

Dont want to succeed bad enough to figure out some way to get the 40 bucks?

You are a lost cause then. You better bring more balls than that to the table if you want to hang with entrepreneurs. You may lose alot more than forty bucks on your path, and you have to be willing to see that as a lesson, and go borrow another forty bucks and try again, and again if necessary.

You need to spend more time acting and tweaking than you do asking why you aren’t successful.

If you have two arms and two legs and two eyes – You have the same thing everyone else here started with.

Don’t kid yourself, nobody here (or at least very few) started with any more money than you have.

Most people here did not start with anymore experience than you have.
Most people started from the bottom.

For instance “John Durham” has an eighth grade education, grew up in the projects on welfare… and started with the rent 2 weeks overdue… and ZERO internet knowledge.

Im just one example…

Things started working when I started following them ALL THE WAY THROUGH.

When something doesn’t work you tweak it… when you have need you BUST ASS LIKE A FREIGHT TRAIN – Not act like you are going for a slow Sunday drive.

If you don’t get that killer instinct worked up, you will never be an entrepreneur – It’s a fact.

Hanging around with the Band doesn’t make you a musician- The callouses one your fingers do – Untill you are ready to take the blisters and callouses – You are a “groupie”.

Hey , I use to be one too, till I got a clue.

The first step to getting beyond that is realizing “I need to get more hard core” and quit panzying around.

Nobody feels sorry for anyone who cant make money – They just think you are soft.

Why?

Because its obvious that you are swimming in an ocean of ideas floundering around saying “I cant find anything to do”.

Time to look inwardly and say “Im going to quit being a glorified groupie and Im going to be a WARRIOR”.

Im serious, this will help someone…even if it aint pretty.

You can say at this point “There goes Mr Bigheaded John Durham talking smack again and hurting peoples feelings”.

Here’s the truth “YOU CAN Succeed”.

Hate me, but you cant deny what Im saying. There are too damn many ways to make money – If you aren’t making any, it’s a personal problem.

Hope this post is your break through, whoever you are!

If you are more successful than me, then I will gladly be your understudy, but if you arent, you need to listen and quit whining so much. Thats what its going to take.

If you cant find something to do here in a place like this, its because you arent "listening".


Dont like me? I dont care, if Im bigheaded its because I have made it further in the ranks than you and you should listen to me.

Im a successful entrepreneur. I have no obligation to make you like me, even though I hope you do.

Fact is , if I never see your avatar again, Im still gonna get up in the morning and make money.

You want to be able to say the same?


Drop your pride!


Pride?


Yes, quit being to proud to do the things that successful people do - DROP IT and humble yourself... Then you will start getting somewhere, when you realize that you are not too good to go through the trenches just like everyone else.

This will be a breakthrough for someone, and others will say "You shouldnt talk like that".

Again, I dont care.

I will never buy a report from John Durham again.... So what? Someone else will.

If you listen, you will succeed, but if you dont then you will point your finger and call me an arrogant meanie... and you will probably still be broke next month.

Go check the off topic forum - I have run my business this year under the most adverse of circumstances and you never heard a word about it till a month ago.

Even the easiest programs out there require more effort than a failure will ever be willing to point out.

There are easy success paths, but with a failure mentality you will never know it, because "EVERYTHING" is too hard for you. Time to get thick skinned.

For some, even something as basic and simple as "finding a job" is too hard. That happened to me once, and you know what I did?

I just created one!

Example:

I called a burial insurance company to find out if they needed telemarketers and when they said they had salesman but did not employ telemarketers, I talked them into trying me as a contract appointment setter... I practically BEGGED for an opportunity and talked till I was blue in the face.

Is that sales? No, its what winners do when they are DESPERATE!!!!!

Was I embarrassed to come on so strong? HECK NO!!! My daughter needed Milk and Pampers!

Could you do the same ?

Yes.

If you cant find a job, you SURE cant be an entrepreneur.

If you are REALLY wanting a job you can.... Most people dont though. Most people are looking to confirm to themselves their truth that "Oh well, I guess there arent any jobs out there".

See the difference?

Heck "BEG someone to hire you".

You are either going to make it or not right? Being a loser is no fun at all - Put yourself out there and get some victory.

As I said, for a failure, even something as simple as finding a job is hard... You got ta get over that mentality, ESPECIALLY if you want to work for yourself.

Successful people are too busy working on solutions to whine about problems, and they dont have time to wait on a magic pill, and they dont pay any attention to the bad news floating around, they are too focused on the prize to notice.


Take two of those and call me in the morning.


Can I get an amen?