
I have a huge stumbling block that I have putted off solving for a long long time.
I have a very high level of anxiety when I am around other people. Espescially when people invite me to social events except when it's with very very close friends that I have known for years.
I am also a very angry and sometime very bitter person -- anger is like an old crutch I can't seem to get rid of (albeit it gets easier years to years to do without).
I used not to care about these character flaws.
But I see now that how personal relationships can help grease an organization, and just make it a much more pleasant work environment to be in.
I think I must not give off a very good vibe either.
I guess it must not be very pleasant to work alongside someone who wants to stay in his corner all the time. Sometime, sadly, other people (co-workers) think I don't care about them because I am not very expressive and aloof, but it isn't true.
I like systems, numbers. Do this, rebut with this. Go there, ask this question, use that technique, get the sale. But at this point I think maybe this too might be a crutch to an extent and I need to attack the core problem.
Beside binge drinking(jk), what can I do to relax around other people? I have no idea how to solve this lifelong problem.Thoughts?
âDo not seek to follow in the footsteps of the wise; seek what they sought.â - Matsuo Basho
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