Help! How to search for incoming links on a specific domain?

I have checked on yahoo explorer before but I cannot find any kharkovforum links. However the weird thing is the explorer says "2,417 inlinks" and when I check them out I can only get to the nunber 10 button, which stops at link 1000. How can I check the other links after 1000?

Yeah, I had added a spam referrer block in my htaccess but it wasn't correct. It was like this:
RewriteEngine on
RewriteCond %{HTTP_REFERER} kharkovforum\.com [NC]
RewriteRule .* - [F]

That creates an internal server error and I needed to add:
# Options +FollowSymlinks
after the "RewriteEngine on".
Now it works again.

However, this referer spam block doesnt do me anything in case somebody over there posted an actual rover ebay link with my publisher ID. What to do about that?

Thanks, but I dont see how that helps. My site is not on wordpress.com, it only uses wordpress to create the blog. And kharkovforum is not a blog. Or am I misundertanding you?

That sounds promising. So you're saying I can use this software to crawl the kharkovforum site for any links to my domain? That would be awesome, I will give this a shot!

--> Hmm, Im doing a run on kharkovforum right now and I dont know how exactly I can look for links to usbmemorysticks.net. I checked "include external links" and something like "add these as internal links" where I inserted my domain. Its just producing a big list of green urls but not what links have been found? I think I need some guidance. Thanks!