Stop Lashing Out at Those Who Are Trying to Help You....

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This is something I'm seeing all over the boards.

Yes, many of you were seriously affected (in a negative way) by the most recent Panda and EMD updates. I understand what you are going through. That said, it's not my fault or anyone else's fault that your site was hammered. Heck, I'm not even going to say it's your fault since I know very little to nothing about your site.

So stop bashing those who are offering advice. There are those of us who continue to hum along with very little to no affect from the latest updates. Some of us have even seen significant improvements as a result of the updates. Instead of complaining about our (my) signatures, calling us names, telling us we are kicking people when they are down, accusing us of ulterior motives, and arguing every point with us, why not take a deep breath and maybe listen to what we have to say?

I mean, come on folks, if you have a site that's been hammered by the updates and the person next to you sustained no damage, doesn't it make more sense to listen to what they have to say and maybe take their suggestions to heart? Seriously, fighting with every person who continues to be successful doesn't make sense.

Stop thinking/communicating with emotion and start using your head.
#lashing #stop
  • Profile picture of the author dennis09
    Originally Posted by wolfmmiii View Post

    That said, it's not my fault or anyone else's fault that your site was hammered.
    Yes wolf, it's all your fault...
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    • Profile picture of the author wolfmmiii
      Originally Posted by dennis09 View Post

      Yes wolf, it's all your fault...
      Judging from some of the venom directed my way lately, you'd think it is.
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  • Profile picture of the author justmerob
    Originally Posted by wolfmmiii View Post

    This is something I'm seeing all over the boards.

    Yes, many of you were seriously affected (in a negative way) by the most recent Panda and EMD updates. I understand what you are going through. That said, it's not my fault or anyone else's fault that your site was hammered. Heck, I'm not even going to say it's your fault since I know very little to nothing about your site.

    So stop bashing those who are offering advice. There are those of us who continue to hum along with very little to no affect from the latest updates. Some of us have even seen significant improvements as a result of the updates. Instead of complaining about our (my) signatures, calling us names, telling us we are kicking people when they are down, accusing us of ulterior motives, and arguing every point with us, why not take a deep breath and maybe listen to what we have to say?

    I mean, come on folks, if you have a site that's been hammered by the updates and the person next to you sustained no damage, doesn't it make more sense to listen to what they have to say and maybe take their suggestions to heart? Seriously, fighting with every person who continues to be successful doesn't make sense.

    Stop thinking/communicating with emotion and start using your head.
    But this will drive some away from even trying to help anyone... Sad but true and sadly, many won't even listen to this message.

    Kudos to you man but honestly... It's still your fault! j/k
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