Using another SS# is fraud & the persons SS# that you use is 100% liable for paying the tax money on that income. If you don't already know this, friends & family don't mix well when money is involved. Forget the idea.
If you seriously want back into Adsense start an LLC, that will get you a business tax ID# instead of your SS#.
Keep in mind the sites you had Adsense on when you were banned are problem sites, so learn from your mistakes & start a new site/s.
If you don't know what you did to get banned, don't waste your time, move on...