New Dating site opinions?

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I have finished my dating site Shaadi Conenctions. It is targeted to Indian sub-continent (India and Pakistan). Your feed back will be appreciated. Also should I have a Forum with my dating site? What will be the advantage of the forum?
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  • Profile picture of the author easternodyssey
    Ok sorry no it is Indian focused but where do i start. For starters it does have that general Blogger site feel to it. However a few tips:
    (1) Remove the mass of social sharing buttons in the corner they make the site look cluttered. Instead look at adding either share this or add this module or plugin.
    (2) Remove the Brown background its just not an attractive color especially on a dating website. I think the standered black would look a little more better.
    (3) The bottom footer needs to be filled. How you go about doing that i dont know. However, having three large Iframes on the left hand side, with nothing on the right hand side is not a good site look.
    (4) You need a better standerdisation of color in the writing. e.g dont use a mix between orange and green one moment and then blue and black the next. Its probably best to keep the writing heading one color and the text another color.
    (5) The heading is to small and not significant enough for a customer or site user to remember.
    (6) Finally the template is a little space, you should thing about using a better allocation of your space by mixing up module positions or filling unused module positions.
    Apart from those things i like the favicon. I think you should just work on developing the site a little more, only a week or so's worth of work.
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  • Profile picture of the author wellm97
    If you have a forum for your dating site than you can have more visitors to your site.
    Your site will be popular in people very fast.
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  • Profile picture of the author zotown
    looks good I would fix the footer it looks messy. Good luck with it thanks
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  • Profile picture of the author wackiin
    id get rid of all the sharing buttons to much distraction
    id Actually get rid of everything from the redline down
    You want them to see a few things and thats it
    The forum i would install on the dating site make them register to post but make post visible for others to read and google will index it faster

    Here is a layout i setup but havent had time to get the site rolling
    MatchedDates - Home you may not like it but i like setup ive promoted alot of them with this kinda layout.
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    • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
      Originally Posted by wackiin View Post

      id get rid of all the sharing buttons to much distraction
      id Actually get rid of everything from the redline down
      You want them to see a few things and thats it
      The forum i would install on the dating site make them register to post but make post visible for others to read and google will index it faster

      Here is a layout i setup but havent had time to get the site rolling
      MatchedDates - Home you may not like it but i like setup ive promoted alot of them with this kinda layout.

      Wacklin,
      Thanks for suggestions. Actually, the stuff after redline was added later on for keywords. Google webmaster tools was complaining of not having enough keywords.
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      • Profile picture of the author wackiin
        Make your home page nice on the users and make other pages for google
        there is more ways to make money with dating then google they where only about 10% of my traffic.
        If you put the forum on that dating site and have alot of users posting etc you would be surprised how fast that will get ranked

        Originally Posted by Sidv220 View Post

        Wacklin,
        Thanks for suggestions. Actually, the stuff after redline was added later on for keywords. Google webmaster tools was complaining of not having enough keywords.
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        • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
          Originally Posted by wackiin View Post

          Make your home page nice on the users and make other pages for google
          there is more ways to make money with dating then google they where only about 10% of my traffic.
          If you put the forum on that dating site and have alot of users posting etc you would be surprised how fast that will get ranked
          Wakiin,
          Thanks for your advice. I will try to change front page. I have configured forum. It is up. You can look at it and give suggestions, please. Now I need to find ways to drive traffic to the forum. I plan to include a Free Forum banner on the front page, so people do not assume the forum is part of paid subscription.
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  • Profile picture of the author RyanTH
    I like that you have a 'hot or not' feature. I think this will help you get traffic. But after responding to the first 'hot or not' question, your site crashed on me. I got a 'Something fishy is going on' message.

    Good luck!
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    • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
      Thank you very much everyone for good suggestions. I will work on them.
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    • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
      Originally Posted by RyanTH View Post

      I like that you have a 'hot or not' feature. I think this will help you get traffic. But after responding to the first 'hot or not' question, your site crashed on me. I got a 'Something fishy is going on' message.

      Good luck!
      Ryan,
      Are you sure it was not an issue with your browser or PC? I do not understand what do you mean by "'Something fishy is going on' message"
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  • Profile picture of the author trafficmasters
    I like it, loads a little slow for me but apart from that good job
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    • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
      Originally Posted by trafficmasters View Post

      I like it, loads a little slow for me but apart from that good job
      I had a few others tell me that site loads a little slow from Europe and Asia. I have no idea how to solve it. I will look into it.
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  • Profile picture of the author ITMonteur4
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    • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
      Originally Posted by ITMonteur4 View Post

      FOr public discussion
      And what is "FOr public discussion"?
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  • Profile picture of the author david4weaver
    its looks good , Keep it up man
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  • Profile picture of the author ours
    You can move your "FREE Register" Tag from middle part to little up, so that user can check that in first go rather than scroll down. Also the Register Now section in the right section should be highlighted. The Login section in the right section you can shift yo header .. and you can use that space properly.. Just some suggestion. Nice work.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
    Thanks ourss. Moving login section to top maybe a bit of work. The site built on Wordpress. It may require rewriting template. The other suggestions are easy to incorporate. Thanks
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  • Profile picture of the author vCr8
    Honestly the homepage looks a lot like most hotel booking sites that I've seen.. You need to make it more attractive and the button written "free register" I believe it should be "free registration". The hot or not button is also fun at first..well if it was not a list then it probably was more fun.... Perhaps when you are already registered you get the chance to rate other members that would want to be rated.
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    • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
      Originally Posted by javajunkie View Post

      Honestly the homepage looks a lot like most hotel booking sites that I've seen.. You need to make it more attractive and the button written "free register" I believe it should be "free registration". The hot or not button is also fun at first..well if it was not a list then it probably was more fun.... Perhaps when you are already registered you get the chance to rate other members that would want to be rated.
      The Free Register Button is going to be replaced with Register Free.
      What are you specific suggestions for changes on the front page?

      I do plan to introduce HotorNot for Registered members. However, currently members can rate profiles. I agree a HotorNot for members maybe more fun and I have plan to introduce that feature soon.
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      • Profile picture of the author vCr8
        Originally Posted by Sidv220 View Post

        The Free Register Button is going to be replaced with Register Free.
        What are you specific suggestions for changes on the front page?

        I do plan to introduce HotorNot for Registered members. However, currently members can rate profiles. I agree a HotorNot for members maybe more fun and I have plan to introduce that feature soon.
        You can try to change the format of the home page... Like a normal dating site would look, place a background it would be interesting to see designs native to India or Pakistan since it is your target market, I also suggest a picture of a couple which might make it look much interesting, having a woman at front makes it feel a site targeting men.I think you also need a more attractive header and logo to brand your site. hope these helps.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
    Javajunkie,
    Thanks for good suggestions.
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    • Profile picture of the author vCr8
      Originally Posted by Sidv220 View Post

      Javajunkie,
      Thanks for good suggestions.
      Hi there, I revisited your site and it looks much better now, Its way more organized and the couple's picture looks perfect. Registration buttons are also in place with the correct words used. Though I still think you need more colors, but then seeing it from how it was before, I commend you for how it looks now Great job!
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      • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
        Originally Posted by javajunkie View Post

        Hi there, I revisited your site and it looks much better now, Its way more organized and the couple's picture looks perfect. Registration buttons are also in place with the correct words used. Though I still think you need more colors, but then seeing it from how it was before, I commend you for how it looks now Great job!
        Hi Javajunkie
        Your thoughtfull advice is very much appreciated. A minute ago, I changed a few more things, which you may have missed :-) What color and where do you suggest?
        Once again your suggestions are very much appreciated.
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        • Profile picture of the author vCr8
          Originally Posted by Sidv220 View Post

          Hi Javajunkie
          Your thoughtfull advice is very much appreciated. A minute ago, I changed a few more things, which you may have missed :-) What color and where do you suggest?
          Once again your suggestions are very much appreciated.
          I rechecked your site and yes, you have changed it again, it is good that you have placed list of features there. I'm not sure what color works for you, but I think a Header with colors or a bigger logo perhaps,.. The slogan of your site is quite small barely readable. I'm looking at it via my tablet and yes I guess the header is quite small and not too attractive for a dating site.
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  • Profile picture of the author amoeba
    not very impressed. i would not sign up for this site. here are few things that will 100% skyrocket your signup rate.
    1.get a better logo
    2. use more eloquent header
    3. i dont see any need for membership navigation options,
    4. use geoip script to call user location, for ex. if visitor is from mumbai or dehradun, show images for titles "member recently joined from dehradun/mumbai", search for maxmind geoip script
    5.no need for about us again just above sign up box (imp)
    6. DO NOT BLEND sign up form with background color
    7.Use better, bigger sign up form and call to action button,
    8.use a bigger image of more attractive female and male, no need to mention free forum
    but emphasize on free registration, use free registration in cta and just above sign up box and done.
    9.instead of search at the top , put a login link, and replace login box with sign up box.
    10. remove all all all social login buttons, they are useless and disturbing, instead show thm those buttons to connect on 2nd or 3rd page when they signup
    11.blend those trust logo's in html, make them llook like part of page
    12.you can also use that search box instead of signup box and when some one searches, show them free signup box before they can see results.
    13. colors matters a lot,i have seen improved sign up rates with blue doominating landing pages.need not to be all blue though.

    duh,i just changed whole homepage. long time dating affiliate
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    • Profile picture of the author sim so dep
      Originally Posted by amoeba View Post

      not very impressed. i would not sign up for this site. here are few things that will 100% skyrocket your signup rate.
      1.get a better logo
      2. use more eloquent header
      3. i dont see any need for membership navigation options,
      4. use geoip script to call user location, for ex. if visitor is from mumbai or dehradun, show images for titles "member recently joined from dehradun/mumbai", search for maxmind geoip script
      5.no need for about us again just above sign up box (imp)
      6. DO NOT BLEND sign up form with background color
      7.Use better, bigger sign up form and call to action button,
      8.use a bigger image of more attractive female and male, no need to mention free forum
      but emphasize on free registration, use free registration in cta and just above sign up box and done.
      9.instead of search at the top , put a login link, and replace login box with sign up box.
      10. remove all all all social login buttons, they are useless and disturbing, instead show thm those buttons to connect on 2nd or 3rd page when they signup
      11.blend those trust logo's in html, make them llook like part of page
      12.you can also use that search box instead of signup box and when some one searches, show them free signup box before they can see results.
      13. colors matters a lot,i have seen improved sign up rates with blue doominating landing pages.need not to be all blue though.

      duh,i just changed whole homepage. long time dating affiliate
      i think so, it's very good idea
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  • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
    amoeba
    I am not sure which version did you see. Some of your points are not there any more. They were changed 2 days ago. Perhaps, you visited the site before and now seeing the cached pages?
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  • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
    Hi Javajunkie,
    Thanks for excellent input. I have double the size of logo. I hope this is readable on a Tablet. I will see what I can do with more colors.
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    • Profile picture of the author vCr8
      Originally Posted by Sidv220 View Post

      Hi Javajunkie,
      Thanks for excellent input. I have double the size of logo. I hope this is readable on a Tablet. I will see what I can do with more colors.
      I revisited your site and the logo is way better now, than the first one you used and oh I love your favicon there the footer problem is now fixed too, I will be excited to see the colors you will be infusing next.
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      • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
        Originally Posted by javajunkie View Post

        I revisited your site and the logo is way better now, than the first one you used and oh I love your favicon there the footer problem is now fixed too, I will be excited to see the colors you will be infusing next.
        Thanks Java,

        Still working on it, one color infusion a day :-) Infused header and menu color today :-)
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  • Profile picture of the author ChrisBR17
    Site looks ok, however I would fix the footer to look a little more professional and I would also remove the celebrities from Hot or Not... if you're a dating site why would people want to vote on whether a celebrity is hot or not?

    Best of luck with the site.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
    Hi Chris
    Thanks. I had been working on footer. I might change it soon.
    You have a good point about HotorNot celebrities. It was only for traffic purpose. Since, I put it two weeks ago my visitors traffic had increased 200%. For unkown reasons, Gooogle is also indexing that page among top five in searches, even though the HotorNot page meta tags absolutely not optimized.
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  • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
    Jonathan,
    Yeah, it does. Actually I am using Wordpress s2Members Pro to manage the subscriptions and trial mememberships. s2Members is inserting its security badge at the top of other things in the footer. I am not able to figure out how to reposition/align it with other things in footer. I have sent a support request to s2members. I am waiting a response from them. Some of the s2members java script is inserting it. I have tried css tricks, but it is not helping.
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  • Profile picture of the author LAVYNYA
    very nice this site
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  • Profile picture of the author RankSale
    Your dating site looks good to me.
    It's not easy to build a new dating site for the first 1000 members.
    Dating site can reply on SEO to reduce the ad cost.
    But I think the fate of dating is to invest in ads to attract new users.
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    • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
      Originally Posted by RankSale View Post

      Your dating site looks good to me.
      It's not easy to build a new dating site for the first 1000 members.
      Dating site can reply on SEO to reduce the ad cost.
      But I think the fate of dating is to invest in ads to attract new users.
      Thank you RankSale. I agree investment in ads is a must for success. I had seen worst design sites in my niche market making millions of dollars/year. Because they have a big coffer of advertisement money.
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  • Profile picture of the author murphyslaw
    It's probably just my aesthetic preference but you might want to take out those graphic lines that separate the "Enjoy this and more" section. That twirling ribbon looks out of place. Why not put that whole section in a solid box?

    Streamline the design elements and stick to a theme. Your color selection is perfect for your site's niche.
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    • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
      Originally Posted by murphyslaw View Post

      It's probably just my aesthetic preference but you might want to take out those graphic lines that separate the "Enjoy this and more" section. That twirling ribbon looks out of place. Why not put that whole section in a solid box?

      Streamline the design elements and stick to a theme. Your color selection is perfect for your site's niche.
      Murphyslaw,
      Thanks for suggestions. That swirly graphic line beffore "Enjoy this and more:" is gone :-)
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  • Profile picture of the author pineapplegz
    Just a few points:
    the social media buttons at the bottom are distracting (an earlier poster said this, too);
    adjust "HotorNot" to "Hot or Not" or "HotOrNot"; currently it's hard to read;
    I'd list a few benefits for the Premium membership and Forums so that those boxes are visually even (top and bottom) with the happy couple photo;
    the text on the About Us page is in clunky and slightly confusing English.

    Membership options layout is awkward. Why not have a table that compares all three options so the value of your premium becomes clear? Also, by putting the Free version at the top, I suspect many people miss, skip, or ignore the paid options below.

    I hope that helps.

    Best,
    gz
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    • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
      Originally Posted by pineapplegz View Post

      Just a few points:
      the social media buttons at the bottom are distracting (an earlier poster said this, too);
      adjust "HotorNot" to "Hot or Not" or "HotOrNot"; currently it's hard to read;
      I'd list a few benefits for the Premium membership and Forums so that those boxes are visually even (top and bottom) with the happy couple photo;
      the text on the About Us page is in clunky and slightly confusing English.

      Membership options layout is awkward. Why not have a table that compares all three options so the value of your premium becomes clear? Also, by putting the Free version at the top, I suspect many people miss, skip, or ignore the paid options below.

      I hope that helps.

      Best,
      gz
      Hi Pineapplegz,

      It supposed to be HotOrNot. Thanks for pointing out. The TinyMCE was changing the case from HotOrNot to HotorNot. It is fixed now.

      The Social share icons were in the sidebar which were distracting and cluttering. I moved them to the bottom of the page. I agree with others, wackiin and you that they are still distracting. However, I notice that most of the visitors are doing facebook and other social networks like/share from the front page. I had over 100 social share of the Home page within a week, after new design. It is a free publicity therefore I am reluctant to remove them. I moved them to the bottom of the page and separated them by a divider line.

      The price tables at the "Members Options" page were created by shortcodes. I did not notice that container width was messing the alignment. It is fixed now. Thank you very much for pointing out issues.

      Yeah, About Us English was confusing. Someone else wrote it :-) I never paid attention to it, while I was concentrating on design. I have replaced the About Us write-up with a better language.
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  • Profile picture of the author wackiin
    its alot better but i personal still dont care for it I dont know if its the colors or what
    Also all the share buttons would have to go you could mix those in the inside and on the forum etc.
    Make the outside appealing to people looking to hookup visit some of the other dating sites and see how there laid out etc
    Dont worry about making it googlicious you can do that on other pages
    and if you have it free to signup right now why do you have all those buttons at the bottom.
    something else I learned make the index for the target your going for and you could use the same members area for Multi niches so in other words once you got it poping
    You could then open 5/10 sites using the same members and if its something thats niche specific you could have a script hide that part when refereed by a certain url
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    • Profile picture of the author Sidv220
      Originally Posted by wackiin View Post

      its alot better but i personal still dont care for it I dont know if its the colors or what
      Also all the share buttons would have to go you could mix those in the inside and on the forum etc.
      Make the outside appealing to people looking to hookup visit some of the other dating sites and see how there laid out etc
      Dont worry about making it googlicious you can do that on other pages
      and if you have it free to signup right now why do you have all those buttons at the bottom.
      something else I learned make the index for the target your going for and you could use the same members area for Multi niches so in other words once you got it poping
      You could then open 5/10 sites using the same members and if its something thats niche specific you could have a script hide that part when refereed by a certain url
      Hi Wackiin,

      I have tried to incorporate your as many suggestions as possible. The first page is no more Googulicious. The first design was and it was getting a green dot when checked by various Webmaster tools for Google. Now they give it an orange or yellow dot (means, it need SEO improvements).

      I do not quite understand your last two paragraphs of "something else I learned make the index for the target...." and "You could then open 5/10 sites using the same members...." Can you explain it, please?
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  • Profile picture of the author wackiin
    With dating you make alot more covering alot of niches
    Adult,mature yadda yadda so to save you money and headace
    You would use a.domain with index per niche
    Then once there inside all sites use same members area
    And if one has somthing that doesnt fit like adult with
    None adult you have a script hide or ad certian things
    This helps it to look more used
    So if you got ten sites with 100 members the members area
    Would have 1k members and be poping alot more because of volume
    Did the same with porn
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