How to Motivate Yourself and Others
Have you ever heard the story of a carrot and stick?
If not, let me tell you brief. Imagine you've just won the race. While at the podium, as the prize you are required to choose between carrots and sticks, about which one you choose?
According to the story, for those of you who chose carrots, describe if your motivation comes from having fun are encouraged. Fun can mean you get the money, rewards, bonuses, commissions, or that essentially bring comfort.
And for those of you who choose to stick to show that motivation in you tend to arise because driven by fear. This means that you'll be more excited if you're like a shadow of fear like the fear of falling poverty, fear of being bitten by a dog so you can jump over high fences, and many other fears. In essence you are more motivated to avoid the things you do not want to happen to you.
Whatever the source and type of motivating yourself, you must recognize it. This is important because by knowing what the trigger your motivation, you know how to awaken your inner motivations.
Example say you are more motivated to get pleasure, then you can put a picture your dream luxury home on the wall near the bed for example. Meanwhile, for those of you who are more motivated because of fear, maybe you can put pictures ramshackle house that did not want to occupy. Every time you look at the picture, believe me you will be eager to do what you should do. Feeling lazy will depart from you.
So what if you want to motivate others?
The principle is really the same. First, identify the source of motivation that person. And then provide a motivation as the type of motivation to lift his spirits. Suppose a friend who you want to give motivation is the type to pursue pleasure, then such motivation with success stories.
And otherwise if your partner is the type of person who is more motivated by fear, you can convey the appropriate motivation. That way they will be more motivated by what you say. The result will make them even more excited.
But clearly, whatever the motivation approach that you do, there's no right or wrong. The only way that we can communicate better with yourself and those around us.
Ok,already know how to motivate yourself and others?
Regards,
Irvan
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