Oh Off Topicers, What Say You about Dreams?

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Do you believe in dream interpretation? Is there really any point to dreams?
  • Profile picture of the author imbuildinglinkz
    I believe so. I try to interpret my dreams and they're pretty helpful in m,aking decisions.
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  • Profile picture of the author Michelle Brouse
    Hhmph.

    Funny you should ask that question right now.

    Fell asleep tonight (instead of being up working like I SHOULD have been) - had a dream that woke me up. Yay.

    Still kind of wiping the sleep out and thinking I should just go back to bed.

    It was a bit disturbing, which is why I got up. Otherwise, I would probably still be sawing logs.

    But, I believe dreams let you "play" with "scenarios" that you wouldn't otherwise "be able to do" if you know what I mean.

    Yes, I think there is a lot to dream interpretation. Depends on the reference point, but most comes from your own "gut". Books can be a guide, but only you are going to be able to figure out your own dreams, and what they mean to you.

    In the past, and still to this day - I've had dreams so vivid, that I'll still taste things in my mouth and have scents lingering well after I've woke up. I've been killed, or died in my dreams many times - which I guess might make me more comfortable with the "dying process." (Works for me, because that Dream experience lessens the fear of the pain involved in dying, which is one of my "larger fears"). If I have already done it in dreams a number of times - it will be easy in real life - if that makes sense.

    Case in point - if you dream about getting shot in the head, and you feel no pain - you're not going to be so afraid of getting shot.

    Now I'm not sure what your dream was about - it could have been very "mundane" - but - if you're going through "major crap" in your brain/body at night - maybe you need the help on some aspect that is being played in your dream.

    Ever feel like you're trying to "run" from something, but your legs are in quicksand, and you move at a snail's pace? LOL! How about knowing someone is after you, and you get sick of it, and run headlong right towards them - with a huge AAAAHHHHHHRRRGGGG - only to be shot in the chest with a double barrel shotgun. Heh. Last time I did that I ended up on a stairway trying to tell my mom that I wanted to see my own funeral. (Only she didn't hear me or know I was there) - and I was crying from the loss of my own life. Mostly because I felt bad for my kids - not for me, I knew I was fine.

    Watched my husband and everyone walk right by, cause I was "no longer there" but everyone proceeded down the stairs paying no mind to me, even though I tried to "poke" each person that went by. No, I didn't try the boys, but I probably should have.

    I woke up feeling very depressed, gee wouldn't know why...

    But dreams can have a very "real" effect on a person.

    I've had dreams that come to pass, but most don't - or at least so FAR they haven't - thank goodness.

    Reading into the whole dream thing, I have "read" or "heard" that many people dream in black and white. Personally, I can't imagine that - and think it's a crock - because I dream in full technicolor, complete with scent, taste, etc. How any person can dream in simple black and white, with none of the "extras" is beyond me, but when I ask other people if they dream in color or black and white, they don't remember. :confused:

    I find that a bit odd, but hey - to each his own.

    If you would like to find out if dreams mean anything, the best method is to use a notebook to jot down what you dream - right when you wake up. No matter what time it is. (Like now for me.) - but you can track your dreams over time.

    Jot down what you saw, the feelings you had, etc. Do that for about 6 months, and see if anything really comes out of it.

    Intuition maybe?

    Thankfully, I personally don't have to do all that, never was "disciplined" enough. I have just "remembered" and "matched" because crap like tonight is not very easy to forget. It gets remembered long enough for me to "get a clue" - and even if I don't, it's no worrry. The dream gives me some kind of experience that I need at the time, so I take it for what it's worth.

    Hope that helps, while I go back to bed. (I hope).

    Next session I'll have to remember to "control the dream" which is entirely in your power if you can be a "lucid dreamer" which I've only been able to do a handful of times.

    To control a dream (lucidly), you have to totally remember what you just dreamed - and you put a "mission" in your brain before you go back in - to pick up where you left off, and continue the dream under your own control. Some people can even do this right within a dream without waking up, but I've only had any success at that if I wake up first - then go back in.

    Problem on this end, is that when I finally con myself back into sleep - I either "don't remember the dream" well enough (because I physically got up) - or maybe the original dream freaked me out so much that I had no REAL intention of going back in, - in those cases - I remember nothing on waking up the next time. If I physically get up, like I did tonight, forget it. I get nothin.

    Thanks!
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  • Profile picture of the author artagnan1978
    Originally Posted by annoyedgirl View Post

    Do you believe in dream interpretation? Is there really any point to dreams?
    Yes, I do believe in dream interpretation. Dreams are the product of our subconsciousness... most of the times dreams reflects our goals, desires or the problems that we are having.

    Sometimes dreams will try to warn us about different things.

    Dream interpretation is a very interesting topic, numerous studies are conducted on this issue.

    Listen to your dream, they might tell you something for a reason...
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  • Profile picture of the author Thomas
    I had a dream about escaping the monster from the Cloverfield movie in Scooby-Doo's 'Mystery Machine' van being towed at high-speed by a car that looked like the head of the Honey Monster from the Sugar-Puffs cereal box. And there were several other people escaping by clinging for dear-life to the hair of the Honey Monster.

    Interpret THAT!
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    • Profile picture of the author HeySal
      Okay Tommy - you need to stop watching cartoons and change cereal brands.

      I think anyone who doesn't believe in dream interpretation, just plain doesn't understand dreams. They do have meaning, yet I don't believe most dream books on the market have even a tad of validity. Sorry - I just can't see how dreaming of tornadoes and spiders mean that I have money coming to me.

      I also dream in full, and very vivid color. I am not sure that the colors have any self-inherent meaning, but from what I have gathered, those who do dream in color seem to be the ones that are more in touch with their subconscious mind.

      I used to record each dream, and used the records to start analyzing what was going on in my head. I finally learned some quick and easy steps to dream lucidly. I also know that sometimes you CAN'T dream lucidly - and those are very important dreams to look into.

      I had a series of dreams for many years that had the same geographic settings throughout the series. This geographical turf was close to that of the real one of my local area but with slight differences. I knew in one dream if I were to take a certain road I would end up at a very specific location even if I didn't visit it in that dream. What these dreams meant, I am not sure but they never seemed to have much import other than being interesting in that they ran like real life, set in specific landscapes that were recognizable from one dream to the next.

      I get dream series about someone dying before someone close dies - but it is never the person who dies in the dream that dies in real life - it is always someone from the same network of people, though. If I dream YOU die, you seem to be the safest of the crowd.
      These dreams can't be changed by lucid dreaming. They are there to tell me something and insist on telling me whether I want to go through it or not.

      I used to have dreams about elevators plummeting when I got in. I finally got enough control of lucid dreaming that one night I just said "I can't do this anymore" and "consciously" hit the button to stop the elevator and got off. It's the last time I had that dream. It was a long time ago now and I just don't remember what caused them, but I think I used to know.

      Just before my world started collapsing around me when I was emotionally and financially flattened I started having dreams of total collapse and I could not stop them or change them no matter what I did - I knew I was going to go flat out and nothing I did was able to stop that. I was not able to lucidly change one whit of these dreams even though I was able to dream lucidly until the first one of that series began. These types of dreams are warning dreams and when you have them, no amount of lucidity will change a warning dream so you need to prepare yourself for a rough ride. When the crisis is over or at a changeable point, you can start changing the dreams again and that is when you can start rebuilding from the crisis. A dream prophesying any event you can't avoid will not respond to attempts at lucidity. That's how you know when sh*t is really about to hit the fan if you are usually able to dream lucidly.

      I have heard people make wild claims about doing things like flying away from danger and thinking that is lucid dreaming - it isn't even close. In a lucid dream your conscious mind is
      taking control and your steps to resolve the situation will be more standard to those that you would take in real life - even if they seem drastic and bizarre, such as in the one I had in which I hacked someone to pieces and threw pieces of him in several different locations including a lake where I knew fish would eat at least some of the pieces. That might sound bizarre but in the dream we (another person in the dream) were being hunted down by this guy that we kept killing and he'd just come back so we were attempting to kill him a little more permanently each time.)

      When I have a "horror" dream I don't interfere with them because they run like movies and I like to "watch" the whole thing. Free and very interactive entertainment. I don't go boggy over them because I study horror fiction and figure they are just my mind making a new story for me. They sometimes end like real movies, too. In the one above I just mentioned, it ended with the friend and I hiking over a mountain top and seeing a town below. The dream ended as we took our first steps downhill toward the town in a "THE END?" type fashion. LOL It was awesome.

      Any particular reason that you are asking, or just curious about what people think about it?
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      • Profile picture of the author myob
        "The atmosphere into which genius leads us, is the atmosphere of the world of dreams."
        --Havelock Ellis

        I get a lot of valuable ideas when dreaming. Dreaming has inspired great scientists, inventors, musicians, and writers. Some of the most famous inventions and concepts have come about through dreaming such as the songs from the Beatles (probably induced by drugs) Einstein's Theory of Relativity, Mary Shelley's Frankenstein, Madame C.J. Walker dreamed up the cosmetic company that made her a millionaire, Elias Howe the sewing machine, Robert Louis Stevenson dreamed of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, Beethoven composed some of his scores in his sleep, and quantum physicist Niels Bohr attributed his discoveries to his dreams

        Otto Loewi won the Nobel Peace Prize for medicine for his work on the chemical transmission of nerve impulses. He said during his acceptance of the Nobel peace Prize, "Most so called 'intuitive' discoveries are such associations made in the subconscious through dreaming".
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      • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
        Originally Posted by HeySal View Post

        Any particular reason that you are asking, or just curious about what people think about it?
        I am interested in dream interpretation and what others think about it. I'm not sure if it's even possible to interpret dreams or use them to help.

        Some dreams are so bizarre or stupid, I can't possibly think of an interpretation.

        Sometime you just dream about things that are bothering you, you fear, are anxious about. Which I don't get the point of that. If you are stressing about something during all your awake hours, why dream about it also? That just makes it worse. I mean can't you get a break from those stressors?

        And also, there is no "right" or "wrong" answer for interpretations. Take the same dream and people can have completely different meanings for them.

        If there was a way you could use dreams to help yourself, I'd like to know how to do that.

        But I find the whole concept interesting. I have been reading a book based on Edgar Cayce's theories.
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        • Profile picture of the author HeySal
          Dreams are tricky because the subconcious mind doesn't think in language. It will give you symbols to interpret. This means that you have to understand what the actual import of each symbol means to each person. Just as our words can have slightly different connotations to different people, so can a symbol. If spiders mean nothing but pure fear to you it is highly unlikely that no matter what the book says about them symbolizing monetary gain, it is highly unlikely that is what your brain is telling you if you dream of spiders. Some of the books you read will have some items listed as symbology that might have made sense in past times but are meaningless to the modern sleeper.

          Stress has a way of capturing our attention and making us focus on problems and that is why people can't always escape the stress while sleeping. A good hearty bout of exercise before sleep can sometimes combat that on it's own. Mental discipline in focusing on calm, pleasant thoughts when falling asleep can also help.

          Learning to interpret dreams is a tough one because to do it in a legitimate fashion, you need to be able to bring people into recognition of all their thoughts, emotions, daily life events and then lead them to find what types of symbols in their dreams they find relevant. You also have to be keenly aware of the more parapsychological workings of dreaming. Many people are prophetic dreamers but wouldn't recognize the portent if it had a hat and cane and did the two step for them. The only clue a new interpreter would have would be if the person kept insisting that the dream felt too real - that is a signal of ESP entering the subconscious works - and suddenly you have a new problem of how to decipher what was dreamed. How symbolic (subconscious) and how much pure prophecy is involved.

          Dream interpretation can be done, but it isn't easy. Many trained psychiatrists don't even have a great knack for it. But pyschiatrists are nuts anyway.
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          • Profile picture of the author valerieSONORA
            Those dream meanings book really suck. I looked at a few. One of them was missing a lot of common words yet was loaded with some weird words a lot of probably won't even dream about.

            Then the words they do have, they only give a few words. How is that supposed to help you interpret anything?

            One night I had a dream that someone I know was pregnant. This person has passed menopause, certainly can't get pregnant (or want to) and have kids already grown. One book that actually had dreaming of someone else pregnant said: intuition about person

            So that just wasn't helpful.

            I believe our subconscious can help us solve problems and help us out in this world-if we can learn how. That's the problem-learning what to make of our dreams. I never know what to make of mine. But a lot of them are very vivid, emotional, weird, etc.
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            • Profile picture of the author HeySal
              Those dream meanings book really suck.
              Of course they do - they are put together from folklore or just thin air to sell stuff just the same as some interenet marketers make trash just to sell stuff. It's hard to get real and worthwhile information on any of the more parapsychological fields - too many foolish people who will spend their money on any trash out there and not know the difference.

              I went to a metaphysics festival once and came out laughing to tears. I was surprised at what people fall for. It's sad, too, because there were two very worthwhile educated craftsmen in the crowd and the rest of the carnival attractions around them made them look like total charlatons.

              If you want to find out more about REAL dream interpretation, go to the psychology books at your local or college library and browse those and leave the mainstream bookstore shelfs to the Nat'l Enquirer crowd.
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