So confused about backlinking..

I can give you a few tips on blog commenting:



1. Try to be the first to comment on a post from a popular blog. These comments will often bring a good little bit of traffic if it is an intelligent comment.
2. Don't add links within your comment unless it adds to the conversation. Otherwise you will most likely be considered a spammer and your comment will never see the light of day.
3. Skim the post and find one part that interests you. Then ask about or comment on that specific part of the post. That way it saves you lots of time, and it still sounds like you have read the post.

Keywordluv blogs

I prefer to comment on keyworduv blogs because they are usually dofollow, they allow you to put your keyword as your anchor text, and they often use commentluv as well which gets you an additional link to your most recent blog post.

Finding Keywordluv blogs

To find blogs with a certain characteristic, you need to look for a footprint, or something that they all have in common. For keywordluv blogs, the common footprint is that they all say "Enter YourName@YourKeywords in the Name field to take advantage" right after the comment form. You could just enter that into Google in quotes, and it will get you OK results, but I find that it works much better to search for the following phrases.
For general KeywordLuv blogs simply copy and paste this into Google:
"enter yourname@yourkeywords" -"search terms"

For keyword specific KeywordLuv blogs, change "enter your keyword" to your keyword and then paste into Google:
"enter yourname@yourkeywords" "enter your keyword" -"search terms"