What is the best CPA site for advertisers?

Hello all! I am a newbie to advertising/marketing, and am looking for some information, or even some connections. I run a large adult toy website that offers about 15,000 items. I am not as interested in paying for CPC or CPM as I am CPA. Many of the CPA sites that I have visited are geared more towards sign-up based acquisitions. I am looking for a network in which I can have marketers promote my website, and get paid a commission percentage based on the size of the sale, as opposed to paying for an e-mail signup or other offer.

On the other hand, I am interested in what other types of avenues could be used for this purpose... Such as hiring warriors to promote my products, without the help of a 3rd party network... If anybody is interested in such a partnership, please let me know.

I would not be able to pay extremely large commissions, as my margins are not great, but buyers tend to spend between $100-$200 per purchase, so money can definitely be made. We carry all of the top products from the top manufacturers, at very good prices. I would likely be able to pay between 5-15% per sale, depending on if the advertiser was offering the buyer a discount as well.

I hope this is not construed as advertising, because I would really like some input, and/or build some strong relationships, as I know there are many expert marketers within this forum!

Hope to hear some feedback soon! Thanks!