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Quick question...about being stuck.

by GordonJ
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Do you think a lot of Warriors are stuck and don't know what their next step would be?

And if so, because I think there are many, but I may be biased...what would you suggest to people who are stuck and don't know what their next move might be? Do you have any resources, or sites, or groups you'd refer someone to?

I operate from INTENT forward, and think many don't know what their intentions, goals, or even wishes really are, therefore, how can anyone make their next step if they are not going in the right direction? Old comic Professor Irwin Corey would say: If you don't change direction soon, you'll end up where you are going.

I think he was right, too many about to end up where they are going.

How would you advise someone who feels stuck and doesn't know what step to take next?

Thanks,

GordonJ
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  • Profile picture of the author savidge4
    Originally Posted by GordonJ View Post

    Do you think a lot of Warriors are stuck and don't know what their next step would be?

    And if so, because I think there are many, but I may be biased...what would you suggest to people who are stuck and don't know what their next move might be? Do you have any resources, or sites, or groups you'd refer someone to?

    I operate from INTENT forward, and think many don't know what their intentions, goals, or even wishes really are, therefore, how can anyone make their next step if they are not going in the right direction? Old comic Professor Irwin Corey would say: If you don't change direction soon, you'll end up where you are going.

    I think he was right, too many about to end up where they are going.

    How would you advise someone who feels stuck and doesn't know what step to take next?

    Thanks,

    GordonJ
    Very broadly speaking here... I am not so sure its a matter of what step... as it is just taking a step.

    Lets take a look on the main board... what niche? is asked a lot. how to get free traffic? is asked a lot.

    What Niche? that's a question to be answered some other day... that has a lot to do with WHY etc

    So we get into free traffic... a not so popular answer is to look at the likes of Tesla ( Elon Musk ) and Mark Cuban... so Elon's tesla... until very recently has never had a marketing dept ( think about that for a moment ) - and the recently part of this is a SMALL ad department for the full role out for internet services - and technically that aint tesla.

    Mark Cuban has his pharma business and has a advertising budget of $0.00.

    Take it for what its worth but some of the basically richest most successful men on the planet, and they don't pay for advertising? its ALL social media

    The ISSUE... is none of this is immediate - and there is lays the problem... people look for what they can do NOW, for results no less than moments later.... people get lost in the idea that they are going to have to be consistent over a period of time... to even begin to see results - but they just quit their job and have enough money to hold out for 2 months.

    The short answer, its not about the "NEXT" step, its just a matter of taking a step... and in that, they next step(s) will reveale themselves
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    • Profile picture of the author GordonJ
      Originally Posted by savidge4 View Post

      Very broadly speaking here... I am not so sure its a matter of what step... as it is just taking a step.

      Lets take a look on the main board... what niche? is asked a lot. how to get free traffic? is asked a lot.

      What Niche? that's a question to be answered some other day... that has a lot to do with WHY etc

      So we get into free traffic... a not so popular answer is to look at the likes of Tesla ( Elon Musk ) and Mark Cuban... so Elon's tesla... until very recently has never had a marketing dept ( think about that for a moment ) - and the recently part of this is a SMALL ad department for the full role out for internet services - and technically that aint tesla.

      Mark Cuban has his pharma business and has a advertising budget of $0.00.

      Take it for what its worth but some of the basically richest most successful men on the planet, and they don't pay for advertising? its ALL social media

      The ISSUE... is none of this is immediate - and there is lays the problem... people look for what they can do NOW, for results no less than moments later.... people get lost in the idea that they are going to have to be consistent over a period of time... to even begin to see results - but they just quit their job and have enough money to hold out for 2 months.

      The short answer, its not about the "NEXT" step, its just a matter of taking a step... and in that, they next step(s) will reveale themselves
      I asked;
      How would you advise someone who feels stuck and doesn't know what step to take next?

      So, what I got from this response is, what? just keep doing something?.

      In the context of the Warrior Forum, for over 20 years, one can find thousands of people many after a decade of struggle, keep seeking a way to reach their goals...mostly about their finances.

      So instead of thinking about the next step, they just do what Cuban/Musk do? I'm sorry, I just don't understand just a matter of taking a step.

      Is that like DO something?

      GordonJ
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      • Profile picture of the author savidge4
        Originally Posted by GordonJ View Post

        So instead of thinking about the next step, they just do what Cuban/Musk do? I'm sorry, I just don't understand just a matter of taking a step.

        Is that like DO something?

        GordonJ
        The Elon and Mark reference is kinda a way of saying money should not be the block.

        Saying "I want to make $1,000,000" is one thing... Doing something that will get you there is another.

        How many times have we heard I have tried <insert what they have tried here > and it doesnt work... well what ever it is... it works for millions of others, and the method you have tried wasnt one that works... TRY AGAIN. The whole "One less No to a Yes" idea broken down here to be one less failure to a success - is somehow beyond the scope of many people - its kinda like telling the younger generation to turn on the TV without a remote.

        FOR ME... it comes down to PROCESS. there are Process' that work, and there are those that do not. The process of cooking an egg does not go well when you forget to turn on the burner - it doesnt go well, if you walk away for 10 minutes once the burner is on, the pan is on the burner, the butter is melted and you have cracked 2 eggs into the pan - PROCESS

        And if you know the exact process or not... start with where you think you should start and take the next step and the next and the next, and realized you missed a step in the beginning and start over and the repeat the steps.

        You are standing in front of a locked door with a ring full of keys... do you try ONE key and say "Oh crap this doesnt work!" or do you run through the process of trying this key the next key and the next and the next until you have a positive outcome - an unlocked door?

        There is not a single process in life... NOT A ONE that we just know how to do... part of the PROCESS is learning what the correct PROCESS is... and for what ever reason the concept of making money online and the whole life experience of wading through failed process' to get to a process that actually works it lost - NOPE... it doesnt work - its simply reta... oops cant say that here uh.... mentally challenged
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        • Profile picture of the author GordonJ
          I have to say your PROCESS, as you laid it out in various threads over the years, is a gold standard and the course on eBay you posted in the PATH section is all almost any Warrior needs to read to get a great insight to MMO.

          In fact, I'd say we're probably about 95% in agreement on the whole MMO idea, or offline for that matter.

          Using the LOCKED DOOR and ring of keys as a metaphor, where you would have them try key after key until they found the one that unlocked door...I would withhold the key ring from them UNTIL they could answer the question: WHY do you want to open that door, what lies behind it?

          And over the decades Warriors say something like, MY HAPPINESS is behind the door, it consists of WEALTH, health, and HAPPINESS...now hand over the key ring.

          At which point I would want to know, in as much detail as they are capable of giving, what does THAT look like, what do you expect to see, or find when you walk through the door of success? Lambo? Mansion? Bikini clad laden yachts?

          It is my opinion that most Warriors who want the keys to success don't know why or even what that is. I'm not in conflict with your process, in fact I often refer people to your threads where you give some detail about it, as you did with the rabbit as pet to a rabbit feed as a business...what an amazing process to have been shown.

          So, when I ask the question, How would you advise someone who feels stuck and doesn't know what step to take next? within the context of WF, IM, MMO (in the broadest sense)...I say go back to standing in front of that locked door and start with a reason why you want the keys handed to you. I feel that any and every process has to come after that, although there is plenty of anecdotal evidence it does not.

          There have been a few Warriors who just dove in, figured it out, process after process...and it appears to have taken them a longer amount of TIME than it needed to, had they started with a reason why and knew what awaited (in their minds) behind door number one, the locked door of success.

          But I absolutely agree with you about having a process in place, I just don't care for the process of personal discovery as a starting point. Begin that process after one knows what they want, and why.

          GordonJ
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          Originally Posted by savidge4 View Post

          The Elon and Mark reference is kinda a way of saying money should not be the block.

          Saying "I want to make $1,000,000" is one thing... Doing something that will get you there is another.

          How many times have we heard I have tried <insert what they have tried here > and it doesnt work... well what ever it is... it works for millions of others, and the method you have tried wasnt one that works... TRY AGAIN. The whole "One less No to a Yes" idea broken down here to be one less failure to a success - is somehow beyond the scope of many people - its kinda like telling the younger generation to turn on the TV without a remote.

          FOR ME... it comes down to PROCESS. there are Process' that work, and there are those that do not. The process of cooking an egg does not go well when you forget to turn on the burner - it doesnt go well, if you walk away for 10 minutes once the burner is on, the pan is on the burner, the butter is melted and you have cracked 2 eggs into the pan - PROCESS

          And if you know the exact process or not... start with where you think you should start and take the next step and the next and the next, and realized you missed a step in the beginning and start over and the repeat the steps.

          You are standing in front of a locked door with a ring full of keys... do you try ONE key and say "Oh crap this doesnt work!" or do you run through the process of trying this key the next key and the next and the next until you have a positive outcome - an unlocked door?

          There is not a single process in life... NOT A ONE that we just know how to do... part of the PROCESS is learning what the correct PROCESS is... and for what ever reason the concept of making money online and the whole life experience of wading through failed process' to get to a process that actually works it lost - NOPE... it doesnt work - its simply reta... oops cant say that here uh.... mentally challenged
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          • Profile picture of the author savidge4
            Originally Posted by GordonJ View Post

            It is my opinion that most Warriors who want the keys to success don't know why or even what that is. I'm not in conflict with your process, in fact I often refer people to your threads where you give some detail about it, as you did with the rabbit as pet to a rabbit feed as a business...what an amazing process to have been shown.

            So, when I ask the question, How would you advise someone who feels stuck and doesn't know what step to take next? within the context of WF, IM, MMO (in the broadest sense)...I say go back to standing in front of that locked door and start with a reason why you want the keys handed to you. I feel that any and every process has to come after that, although there is plenty of anecdotal evidence it does not.
            The more I read the board... what is a good niche... wheres the money at... how ever it plays out, it doesnt matter. The WHY is going to be one of a few things.. i hate my job - but then one questions why not get a job you like? DUH I want to work from home, or due to this and that, I have a hard time working in public. I dont have a car, and cant get to a job... The bottom line is $$$ to survive... I lost / quit my job, I got 3 months - the WHY is money.

            Its the WHAT and HOW ( part of the 5 W's and an H - Who What When Where Why and How ) Desperate for money they try to determine where the money is - and since we are in the Mind Warrior forum, I can say they are looking outside of themselves, and bypassing the things of value they internally can offer.

            I have said it before and I will say it again, there is a solid $100,000 opportunity for someone with the interest and knowledge with Strawberry Shortcake Cartoon play stuff... you name ANYTHING that you personally have an interest, and knowledge of... you are sitting on a cash cow - its literally right there in front of you.

            Starting with something you do KNOW... so that you can learn what you dont KNOW...

            i know how to sell on eBay... up one side and down there other... how hard was it to adapt that knowledge to Etsy? to Amazon? and they are 3 totally different animals very much different but alike... knowledge carries.

            So you start with Strawberry shortcake.. you find your tribe.. you start hitting up garage sales and buying stuff.. selling it on eBay... you have a website with all your finds, and photos of your personal collection... you list some of the more expensive pieces on your website and because you have found your tribe... you are selling on eBay and also your website.

            THEN you want to expand... you NOW have knowledge of how to MMO ( Make Money Online ) Start with what you know and LEARN what you dont know... and once you KNOW IT... you can follow through with the exact same process as before.. find the tribe... Start buying MMO products from where ever.. build a site, document using the product... sell the product or call it a dud.. move to the next product

            How to fry an egg and how to make MMO in the macro is the SAME process... its in the micro that the steps are different.

            I would maybe suggest lets assume WHY is $$$ and start looking for the WHAT - and then start seeking the WHO, and WHERE they are.

            Then WHEN - this one gets me going... If you are on this forum reading this, "Success" does not happen 9 to 5, its what you do from 6 to midnight

            All thats left is the HOW... platform or non platform
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            • Profile picture of the author GordonJ
              Here's the thing. EVERYTHING anyone needs to know about making money online has all the advice and HOW TO needed, most of it found in your eBay thread in the Warrior Path section.

              They WANT MONEY, as a concept, but then all the strings are attached, as you pointed out, they don't want to DO this or that.

              Simply $$ = EXCHANGE OF VALUE (VIA A TRANSACTION). As simple as Strawberry shortcale (the bougie version). And with all the simplicity, Warriors in general just don't really have the motivation to do whatever it takes to make the money...and that is OK, as long as they leave their whine at the door.

              The WHY almost always determines success. The other W's are figured as you say as part of the process of going forward from there. Alen Sultanic of Nothing Held Back Facebook group tells his story of wanting to be rich, and docements HOW he did it...and sleep was not on his to do list, eh?

              Any Warrior who is serious about wanting to make money needs only deep dive in the eBay thread and take notes.

              But, I could be wrong.

              GordonJ


              Originally Posted by savidge4 View Post

              The more I read the board... what is a good niche... wheres the money at... how ever it plays out, it doesnt matter. The WHY is going to be one of a few things.. i hate my job - but then one questions why not get a job you like? DUH I want to work from home, or due to this and that, I have a hard time working in public. I dont have a car, and cant get to a job... The bottom line is $$$ to survive... I lost / quit my job, I got 3 months - the WHY is money.

              Its the WHAT and HOW ( part of the 5 W's and an H - Who What When Where Why and How ) Desperate for money they try to determine where the money is - and since we are in the Mind Warrior forum, I can say they are looking outside of themselves, and bypassing the things of value they internally can offer.

              I have said it before and I will say it again, there is a solid $100,000 opportunity for someone with the interest and knowledge with Strawberry Shortcake Cartoon play stuff... you name ANYTHING that you personally have an interest, and knowledge of... you are sitting on a cash cow - its literally right there in front of you.

              Starting with something you do KNOW... so that you can learn what you dont KNOW...

              i know how to sell on eBay... up one side and down there other... how hard was it to adapt that knowledge to Etsy? to Amazon? and they are 3 totally different animals very much different but alike... knowledge carries.

              So you start with Strawberry shortcake.. you find your tribe.. you start hitting up garage sales and buying stuff.. selling it on eBay... you have a website with all your finds, and photos of your personal collection... you list some of the more expensive pieces on your website and because you have found your tribe... you are selling on eBay and also your website.

              THEN you want to expand... you NOW have knowledge of how to MMO ( Make Money Online ) Start with what you know and LEARN what you dont know... and once you KNOW IT... you can follow through with the exact same process as before.. find the tribe... Start buying MMO products from where ever.. build a site, document using the product... sell the product or call it a dud.. move to the next product

              How to fry an egg and how to make MMO in the macro is the SAME process... its in the micro that the steps are different.

              I would maybe suggest lets assume WHY is $$$ and start looking for the WHAT - and then start seeking the WHO, and WHERE they are.

              Then WHEN - this one gets me going... If you are on this forum reading this, "Success" does not happen 9 to 5, its what you do from 6 to midnight

              All thats left is the HOW... platform or non platform
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              • Profile picture of the author savidge4
                Originally Posted by GordonJ View Post

                The WHY almost always determines success. The other W's are figured as you say as part of the process of going forward from there. Alen Sultanic of Nothing Held Back Facebook group tells his story of wanting to be rich, and docements HOW he did it...and sleep was not on his to do list, eh?
                To be honest... Im not sure I can tell you my WHY? And if it is there it will be something esoteric like building community or something - IE some left field stuff, that wouldnt apply to most.

                For me... business comes down to 3 variables that art72 mentions; Problem, Solution, and Opportunity.

                take oh 90 percent of what I have done in my life and it starts with a problem... Feeding a rabbit, giving my wife something to do ( eBay ) Vinyl lettering, large format printing and so on and so on.

                I PERSONALLY had a problem... buying fresh greens for a rabbit required keeping fresh greens in the refrigerator and having to buy them every 3rd day or so and the expense... a touch of research and the solution becomes I can grow this stuff in like 7 days... i grew to much, and running around a bit I determined there was an Opportunity - and boy has there been an opportunity.

                eBay was me taking my wifes liking to shop ( a problem financially haha ) and the solution being buy things to sell - which in turn, turns into an opportunity on a whole lot of levels other than just the money savings / gain.

                Vinyl printing.. I had 4 trucks I wanted decaled they were going to be $300 each... a touch of research and I could buy the machine and the materials for less than the price of one truck, and do all 4 2 or 3 times over. The solution highlighted the opportunity. And to this day we change up elements of the vinyl on my now 12 vehicles probably 3 or 4 times a year let alone the near 300 clients we have for this business specifically.

                I could go on and on and give examples of this pattern. Which leads me to a talking point I make here often... Do for yourself, before you start doing for others. Which then translates to do what you know, IE buy the product, use the product, before you sell the product.

                As much as on the outside looking in, money is the goal, I'm not sure ( in my case ) that it is... FOR ME its the process of the Opportunity, not just filling my NEEDS... but understanding that there are others just like me that have the same need as well - and in that lies the Opportunity.
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                • Profile picture of the author socialentry
                  Originally Posted by savidge4 View Post

                  To be honest... Im not sure I can tell you my WHY? And if it is there it will be something esoteric like building community or something - IE some left field stuff, that wouldnt apply to most.

                  Im not sure either.To be quite honest my reasons are likely quite simple:

                  "Life is like a video game and not doing it is like staying in the starter area to grind to level 80"

                  I just want to see how high a score I get.
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  • Profile picture of the author Monetize
    Originally Posted by GordonJ View Post

    Do you think a lot of Warriors are stuck and don't know what their next step would be?

    And if so, because I think there are many, but I may be biased...what would you suggest to people who are stuck and don't know what their next move might be? Do you have any resources, or sites, or groups you'd refer someone to?

    I operate from INTENT forward, and think many don't know what their intentions, goals, or even wishes really are, therefore, how can anyone make their next step if they are not going in the right direction? Old comic Professor Irwin Corey would say: If you don't change direction soon, you'll end up where you are going.

    I think he was right, too many about to end up where they are going.

    How would you advise someone who feels stuck and doesn't know what step to take next?

    Thanks,

    GordonJ

    IDK if these people are "stuck," most of them seem to
    not be doing anything, never even starting or trying
    anything for a variety of reasons.

    Or they are doing the wrong things, not making progress,
    or even worse, falling behind.

    I think that it's okay to take a break to read a book, or
    reflect on things and work on your strategy, but after that
    you need to get busy doing something, because being
    stuck doesn't generate income.

    My favorite resource is ChatGPT as it can provide you
    with guidance, suggestions, instructions, do research,
    and a multitude of other things to help you get unstuck.
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    • Profile picture of the author GordonJ
      Originally Posted by Monetize View Post

      IDK if these people are "stuck," most of them seem to
      not be doing anything, never even starting or trying
      anything for a variety of reasons.
      Or they are doing the wrong things, not making progress,
      or even worse, falling behind.
      I think that it's okay to take a break to read a book, or
      reflect on things and work on your strategy, but after that
      you need to get busy doing something, because being
      stuck doesn't generate income.
      My favorite resource is ChatGPT as it can provide you
      with guidance, suggestions, instructions, do research,
      and a multitude of other things to help you get unstuck.

      At least you gave us a resource, so I used it:

      User
      I want to get into Internet Marketing, but I am stuck on which step I should take next, any suggestions?
      ChatGPT
      Getting started with internet marketing can seem overwhelming due to the sheer number of options available. Here are some steps you can take to get started:

      Define Your Goals:

      Before diving in, it's crucial to know what you want to achieve with internet marketing. Are you looking to increase website traffic, generate leads, boost sales, build brand awareness, or something else? Clear goals will guide your strategy.
      Learn the Basics:

      Familiarize yourself with the fundamental concepts of internet marketing. This includes understanding SEO (Search Engine Optimization), SEM (Search Engine Marketing), content marketing, social media marketing, email marketing, and analytics.
      Choose Your Niche:

      Determine the industry or niche you want to focus on. It's often better to specialize in a particular area rather than trying to appeal to everyone.
      Build Your Online Presence:

      Create a professional website or blog. This is your hub for all your internet marketing efforts. Ensure that it is user-friendly, mobile-responsive, and optimized for search engines.
      Content Creation:

      Develop high-quality, valuable content that resonates with your target audience. This could be blog posts, videos, infographics, podcasts, or any other form of content that fits your niche.
      SEO Optimization:

      Implement SEO strategies to improve your website's visibility in search engine results. This includes keyword research, on-page optimization, link building, and creating a sitemap.
      Social Media Marketing:

      Establish a presence on relevant social media platforms where your audience spends time. Create engaging posts, run targeted ads, and interact with your followers to build a community.
      Email Marketing:

      Build an email list of subscribers interested in your offerings. Send regular newsletters, promotions, and valuable content to nurture relationships with your audience.
      Paid Advertising:

      Consider running paid advertising campaigns on platforms like Google Ads, Facebook Ads, or LinkedIn Ads. Start small, test different ads, and analyze results to optimize your campaigns.
      Analytics and Tracking:

      Use tools like Google Analytics to track the performance of your marketing efforts. Analyze metrics such as website traffic, conversion rates, click-through rates, and social media engagement to make data-driven decisions.
      Continuous Learning:

      Internet marketing is constantly evolving, so it's essential to stay updated with the latest trends, tools, and best practices. Follow industry blogs, attend webinars, and consider taking online courses or certifications.
      Networking and Collaboration:

      Connect with other marketers, influencers, and professionals in your industry. Networking can open doors to collaborations, guest blogging opportunities, and valuable insights.
      Experiment and Adapt:

      Don't be afraid to try new strategies and tactics. Internet marketing requires testing and tweaking to find what works best for your business. Stay flexible and adapt to changes in the digital landscape.
      Remember, internet marketing is a journey, and success doesn't happen overnight. Stay consistent, be patient, and always prioritize providing value to your audience.

      Not bad. AI (at least chatgpt) agrees with me as to the starting point, or for many their next step. GOALS, or as I prefer, INTENT.

      NOW the thing about AI (this and most others) is it is only as good as the prompt. So from here, maybe ask about HOW to connect with marketers, influencers, and professionals. It loves to spew VERBS out; develop, build, establish, connect, implement...but it is short on the how...so further prompts might work.

      My OP question: How would you advise someone who feels stuck and doesn't know what step to take next? was made within the context of Warrior Forum, and as you say in a follow-up post; and thank you for this. (emphasis mine).

      The meaning of stuck in this context is when people are
      having information overload, or they have a lengthy to do
      list and don't know where to start, indecisive about which
      niche, or they don't know how to go about getting business
      tasks done.

      And as we get better with our prompts (questions), the higher the quality of the answer, just like here at WF. Ask a general question, get a general answer.

      AI will be very useful for those who are FEELING lost and don't know what the next step is...hopefully.

      GordonJ
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      • Profile picture of the author Monetize
        Originally Posted by GordonJ View Post

        Not bad. AI (at least chatgpt) agrees with me as to the starting point, or for many their next step. GOALS, or as I prefer, INTENT.

        NOW the thing about AI (this and most others) is it is only as good as the prompt. So from here, maybe ask about HOW to connect with marketers, influencers, and professionals. It loves to spew VERBS out; develop, build, establish, connect, implement...but it is short on the how...so further prompts might work.

        I am now using a couple of the AIs for different purposes,
        but my go-to is GPT4 and Gemini is second.

        AI does spew verbs and conjunctions and other grammar,
        but it will break things down if you ask it to be more specific
        about its output.

        Although I instruct it to write at a certain reading level, and
        with burstiness and perplexity, it sometimes writes at an
        advanced, almost technical level, at which time I rein it in.

        All of them tend to over-complicate things, and when they
        do, I tell it "you have over-complicated this, I am a WAHM
        not a corporation" or "I just need a simple outline not a
        map of the universe."

        And it will say something like "I'm sorry, I got carried away
        there for a moment."

        It seems that most people are using AI for content, but it can
        do so much more, IMers should use it to expand their online
        marketing, business, projects, products, etc.

        I am seeing more and more people reporting that they are
        using AI for their business and to generate income, and it
        can definitely do that if used correctly.
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    • Profile picture of the author DezineZoo
      I agree with everything you said.

      I however, do not use Chat GPT.

      Personally I think it's overrated and I want to 100% be involved in my work from inception to execution.

      Obviously, 99% of people here will disagree with me on this, but it's the truth.

      Have a great weekend
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      • Profile picture of the author Monetize
        Originally Posted by DezineZoo View Post

        I agree with everything you said.

        I however, do not use Chat GPT.

        Personally I think it's overrated and I want to 100% be involved in my work from inception to execution.

        Obviously, 99% of people here will disagree with me on this, but it's the truth.

        Have a great weekend

        Of course you want to be involved in your business from its
        inception to its execution, and AI can be used to enhance
        your efforts, not stifle or limit them.

        As for me, I am currently working on multiple projects and
        it is more efficient for me to use AI.

        ChatGPT can conduct research within seconds that would
        take me however long to use Google and read Wiki and
        sometimes I get distracted by news or other information,
        while ChatGPT does not, it just does research and gives
        results I can work with, not useless junk.

        It can give me an outline for a book or other project within
        seconds that would take me half the day to develop.

        And then there's the content. Content is king as they say.

        Website silo structure and code. I can write some basic
        HTML code but JAVA and Bootstrap, etc. I need that done
        for me, and ChatGPT does all of that. Within seconds.

        For example, a countdown timer. I can't code that. Those
        are the things I use ChatGPT to do.

        Then there are the AI image generators. I can get exactly
        what I need, but never imagined. Original images that I
        can publish as my own. Sell. Whatever.

        You think it's overrated. I disagree since most people don't
        seem to comprehend its potential.
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  • Profile picture of the author Princess Balestra
    Stuck is I lost.
    Stuck is evrywan hates me.
    Stuck is the world is crap.
    Stuck is nuthin' is happnin'
    Stuck is my friend died.
    Stuck is this is happnin' for too long.
    Stuck is nowan cares.
    Stuck is Always This.
    Stuck is I Nevah Used To Be This Way.
    Stuck is evident opportunity evaporates.
    Stuck is this wall, this GLUE ... but hey, I'm an adhesives entreprenoor, so FFS can sumone CALL THE ARMY an' spare my EMBARRASSMENT?
    Stuck is they LEFT YOU ... and they were RIGHT.
    Stuck is a zillion more ******* believe in what you HATE than you evin have incest-spawned kinda anybodys show up evry Thanksgivin' tryin' to pass as plausible hoomans.
    Stuck is the sky burns your eyes.
    Stuck is impossible vision, but nothing tangible ever evidences.
    Stuck is ... when the next thing you absolutely gotta say never gets said bcs it dies in yr throat.
    Stuck is too many people on too small a planit.
    Stuck is ... awkay so FLUFFSY gaht her POUCH caught in her SPIN THE HAMSTAH DOLLAHZ wheel again ... but you bettin' good money on her ass, so what choice YOU gaht, zackly?
    Stuck is superhero movies, till'n we flip ovah into Chronicles of the Hapless or get real or jus' quit makin' movies.
    Stuck is your touchpoints all died. (Bonus suffrin' if'n you made it all happen.)
    Stuck is the auto-color feature on your AI beard not only NEVAH SYNCED with your bossciz wedding day theme but also elecktrocuted his wife-to-be (plus also unborn child).
    Stuck is knowin' you have a hit TV show inside you, but you don't know what to do.
    Stuck is the world could end tamara easiah bcs people than no people.
    Stuck is yr like yanno sumtimes ... an' you gotta like prise it apart with yuh fingernails, DESPITE THE WORLD BURNIN'?
    Stuck is kids die, an' we cain't evah seem to stop 'em.
    Stuck is kids are born, an' we cain't evah seem to start 'em.
    Stuck is irrational.
    Stuck is ... hey wasn't he the guy beat the shit outta Bruce Lee?
    Stuck is the enemy of outlook.

    Tryin' to generate optschwaahns here.

    STUCK as a BLITZ, I guess.

    Random depends always for its significance on the numbahs you don't or can't count, so you gotta buck the odds in yr favor.


    Choose yr best 3, an' git at it.

    Figure my suggestions're lame?

    Pick yr best 1 & git on with the ******.


    Meantimes, here's a speedsy lifehack smart c/o NewtyNewt the celebrity podcastin' noot ...

    "Did you know NOT taking action is as catalytically transformational sometimes as taking action? See, because I basically FROZE for my entire ALIEN ABDUCTION -- and now I perform for all the galaxy's reptiles on a Life Enhance Science ticket instead of maybe getting squished by some inquisitive neighborhood kids bcs they figured I not a cat or a dog so who cares?"
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    • Profile picture of the author Jonathan 2.0
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      Lol. What on Earth are you talking about Princess?? I love your creativity ... However sometimes it's a bit "weird" : )
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    Gordon. I have multiple physical and mental disabilities. The majority of the advice you give me ignores my disabilities and what I am trying to work around.

    Because of those disabilities I'm in a very tough financial situation.

    The advice to me is like a perfectly healthy person telling someone is a wheelchair how to walk up stairs.
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    • Profile picture of the author GordonJ
      Originally Posted by Odahh View Post

      Gordon. I have multiple physical and mental disabilities. The majority of the advice you give me ignores my disabilities and what I am trying to work around.
      Because of those disabilities I'm in a very tough financial situation.
      The advice to me is like a perfectly healthy person telling someone is a wheelchair how to walk up stairs.
      It appears you changed this post from last night. But my response will be the same.

      My advice is: GET HELP.

      Most counties and all States have Mental Health Boards and most have Crisis Hotlines, added to Federal Dept. Of Health and Human Services.

      OR, listen to current Odahh, and ignore that advice too. Ask a physically fit and mentally healthy Odahh from a different dimension what he would do.

      We all pay our taxes which support, Federal, State, and County/City services for people who have both physical, mental and financial disabilities.

      Same thing I'd say to that guy in a wheelchair who was participating on a public forum, if he wanted to get up the stairs, I'd tell him to GET HELP.

      GordonJ
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      • Profile picture of the author socialentry
        Originally Posted by GordonJ View Post

        OR, listen to current Odahh, and ignore that advice too. Ask a physically fit and mentally healthy Odahh from a different dimension what he would do.
        id ask pirate oddah personally



        u kno the one thats ripped and can dual wield machineguns


        pirate oddah is the best
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    • Profile picture of the author Monetize
      Originally Posted by Odahh View Post

      Gordon. I have multiple physical and mental disabilities. The majority of the advice you give me ignores my disabilities and what I am trying to work around.

      Because of those disabilities I'm in a very tough financial situation.

      The advice to me is like a perfectly healthy person telling someone is a wheelchair how to walk up stairs.

      The people here care about you, so do what Gordon says
      and get help.

      The meaning of stuck in this context is when people are
      having information overload, or they have a lengthy to do
      list and don't know where to start, indecisive about which
      niche, or they don't know how to go about getting business
      tasks done.

      It's not directed for those of us who have physical ailments
      and other issues that require professional medical attention.

      If you are feeling unwell, call an ambulance and get yourself
      to the emergency room. Or take a taxi or Uber there.

      I wish you all the best Odahh.
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      • Profile picture of the author discrat
        Hey Odahh, I know that physical and mental disabilities are a tough nut to crack.

        It hits close to home for me and some of my loved ones. People are talking about making money and pursuing a full time career in IM when just getting up and getting out of bed is a major accomplishment for some.

        People that can get up and concentrate on pursuing their dreams need to count their blessings because it could easily be them in bed and unable to function on a day to day basis!!
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        • Profile picture of the author GordonJ
          I asked a question:

          How would you advise someone who feels stuck and doesn't know what step to take next?


          But we got to here. So...my response underlined within this response...

          Originally Posted by discrat View Post

          Hey Odahh, I know that physical and mental disabilities are a tough nut to crack.

          Yes they are. No one here denies or in any way says otherwise.

          It hits close to home for me and some of my loved ones. People are talking about making money and pursuing a full time career in IM when just getting up and getting out of bed is a major accomplishment for some.

          Again, CONTEXT. We are at WARRIOR FORUM, where people come to talk about making money and pursuing a full time career in IM. There is an assumption made that if you come here, that is what you want to discuss...

          People that can get up and concentrate on pursuing their dreams need to count their blessings because it could easily be them in bed and unable to function on a day to day basis!!

          I think many able bodied Warriors DO count their blessings, and are aware that being able to function on a day to day basis just might be one of the first and maybe THE most important part of doing IM. I would ask why they are here? If unable to function, shouldn't that be their top priority, not that we are blind to their plight, but I assume, those that come to WARRIOR FORUM and participate at least have the capacity to do so, why would anyone assume otherwise?
          Maybe the question wasn't framed correctly, if so, mea culpa...but I thought
          How would you advise someone who feels stuck and doesn't know what step to take next? didn't need a lot of further explanation, and maybe there is the same answer for all who struggle, even if it is only IM and not with functioning...

          GET HELP. Which I sort of thought is one of the reasons some of us like to be here, to GIVE some people the help they need in IM. Functioning in the world is maybe outside the WF purpose?

          GordonJ
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    • Profile picture of the author Jonathan 2.0
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      Originally Posted by Odahh View Post

      Gordon. I have multiple physical and mental disabilities. The majority of the advice you give me ignores my disabilities and what I am trying to work around.

      Because of those disabilities I'm in a very tough financial situation.

      The advice to me is like a perfectly healthy person telling someone is a wheelchair how to walk up stairs.
      If you think you need it -- there's nothing wrong with reaching out for help like Gordon suggested. I wouldn't have overcome my Mental Health Challenges without help from the (UK) NHS.

      2C
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      • Profile picture of the author Odahh
        Originally Posted by Jonathan 2.0 View Post

        If you think you need it -- there's nothing wrong with reaching out for help like Gordon suggested. I wouldn't have overcome my Mental Health Challenges without help from the (UK) NHS.

        2C
        I have been getting help and doing what I need to do for a very long time. I have been working on my mental and physical health and gotten much better.

        There are things I can do their are things I can't. If let's say I set a goal I want to make 5000 a month . And travel and list out other things.

        I don't want to talk the specifics of the things I want or the figure I am setting . I'm looking for information on what I can do to make 5000 a month.

        Then again I'd use YouTube or social media to do the marketing. And can't really talk about that here.

        Now that I'm physically better and back looking for work once I can get resources together I can start on that. I had to get physically and mentally stable first.

        When we talk about a full time income making money online selling information or whatever. That number is rather what is their current full time income or what is the income they need to meet their basic expenses if they don't have the expenses of going to a job.

        There are a large amount of simple things people never learned to do. Basic budgeting and a whole list of frugal money saving habits.and saving is generally if anything is left that is saving. Or the main method of saving the tax return.

        I'd say if you want to get someone stable where they can get them unstuck. Get them on a budget. Aim them at developing several habits of frugal living. Then give them a a hard dollar figure to save every month and a cushion of several months of expenses. Before they can add any new expenses.

        The reason many people struggle to say what they want is many times they have much of what they want already. It's the job they don't want.

        While they are getting control over their current spending and developing frugal habits. The baby step method of building a business that Gordon occasionally explains is probably the best method of entry into the business world for someone.
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        • Profile picture of the author Jonathan 2.0
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          Thanks Odahh: Sounds like you're doing a lot -- and have accomplished a lot. So good for you. : ) Don't give up on your Goal. As I've mentioned before -- the greater the "struggle", the greater the Success.
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  • Profile picture of the author TobiMDD
    hmm I'd probably say do a big deep meditation..that can really help to get a clear mind, new ideas and overall get unstuck..
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  • Profile picture of the author Moodesburn1977
    Yes i think we all have felt like that, i think its importnat to have a coach or a mentor someone that we can be accountable to and the next steps will come a lot clearer
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    • Profile picture of the author GordonJ
      Originally Posted by Moodesburn1977 View Post

      Yes i think we all have felt like that, i think its importnat to have a coach or a mentor someone that we can be accountable to and the next steps will come a lot clearer
      There are so many different types of coaches, do you think an ACCOUNTABILITY coach would serve the stuck person better than a life coach, or specific mentor? And where would a Warrior find such a person?

      I've benefitted greatly from Mentors, not so much from coaches, but that may be because there weren't that many around back in the day.

      Is there a place to find coaches (of all varieties) and/or mentors? Any resources we can use?

      Thanks,

      GordonJ
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  • Profile picture of the author Kay King
    I'd say if you want to get someone stable where they can get them unstuck. Get them on a budget. Aim them at developing several habits of frugal living. Then give them a a hard dollar figure to save every month and a cushion of several months of expenses. Before they can add any new expenses.
    There are forums and blogs that help with frugal living and saving and budgeting. There are forums and blogs and therapists that help people get unstuck emotionally.

    On an IM forum like THIS one - the best we can do is help someone who can't/won't/doesn't seem capable of follow a list of steps to build an income or business online.

    When the Mind forum was started the thought was a section where we discussed how we can increase sales or change people's minds or by appealing to their emotions or their pre-conceived ideas. herd behavior, overcoming objections, etc.

    Every time I see the title of this thread I think 'if someone is stuck, doesn't that mean they had traction at some point BEFORE they got 'stuck'?
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    • Profile picture of the author GordonJ
      Originally Posted by Kay King View Post

      There are forums and blogs that help with frugal living and saving and budgeting. There are forums and blogs and therapists that help people get unstuck emotionally.

      On an IM forum like THIS one - the best we can do is help someone who can't/won't/doesn't seem capable of follow a list of steps to build an income or business online.

      When the Mind forum was started the thought was a section where we discussed how we can increase sales or change people's minds or by appealing to their emotions or their pre-conceived ideas. herd behavior, overcoming objections, etc.

      Every time I see the title of this thread I think 'if someone is stuck, doesn't that mean they had traction at some point BEFORE they got 'stuck'?
      Most Warriors do have some traction, and many have started, one, two or several different IM adventures...some just don't suit them, but some do and that is when they lose the traction and get stuck. Beginners may be in a different kind of quicksand, and stuck in a different way, but I see a lot of traction here.

      Adam Grant has an excellent book I am going give as a reference, since I asked for some, I'll also give some. Chapter 5, starting on Pg. 105 is called; GETTING UNSTUCK, and he cites some scientific evidence, that sometimes the best course of action when trying to ascend to the top of a mountain, is, to come back down a ways.

      It sounds counter intuitive to back off of what one is doing when the traction becomes spinning the wheels faster and faster and getting nowhere.

      I hope that along with our FICTION, Manga, Comic Book readers that we have some who read NON fiction too. Endorsed by Mark Cuban (seems to be a WF fav)...Malcolm Gladwell, Serena Williams, and Yo-Yo Ma, quite a collection there...and now also, GordonJ.

      Check your local library, or spend an hour at the bookstore. And while there (either place) get Oprah and Art Brooks book, BUILD THE LIFE YOU WANT...and check out the new MISBELIEF by Dan Ariely, a follow up to his best seller, PREDICTABLY IRRATIONAL.

      All very good RESOUCES for anyone who feels as if they have lost their traction.

      GordonJ
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      • Profile picture of the author savidge4
        Originally Posted by GordonJ View Post

        Adam Grant has an excellent book I am going give as a reference, since I asked for some, I'll also give some. Chapter 5, starting on Pg. 105 is called; GETTING UNSTUCK, and he cites some scientific evidence, that sometimes the best course of action when trying to ascend to the top of a mountain, is, to come back down a ways.
        Often when I am asked to look at some ones "stuckness" it involves a missed step, and the whole idea of 2 steps back to get one step forward may seem like back peddling, but often times is whats needed to refine the process of each step. I will often suggest going all the way back within a segment of a business to find a hang-up.

        A scenario i see often has to do with shipping.., At some point they ( a client ) will determine they are losing money with shipping... and I will walk them all the way back in the process and start asking how much does this step cost? that step the step after,,, and 90 some percent of the time they simply have not accounted for the expense of the shipping material IE boxes and tape and labels and peanuts etc

        If the end result of any effort is producing ZERO or costing you money vs making money - there is in no way anything wrong with taking those 2 steps back and either with data or crunching numbers to figure out what part of a process is failing.

        When selling physical products online, there is what I call platform ( eBay, Etsy, Amazon to name a few ) and there is non platform... this can be regular SERP listing on a search engine, or a listing for your site.

        Platform listings you are either getting clicks to an item or no sales, or none to very few clicks and obviously none to few and far between sales. There are only so many variables at play here... no clicks and you need to be looking at Photo, Price, and title - and it really is THAT easy.

        Wth non platform listings Title is everything, depending on how your serp listing is laid out on a particular search engine you may or may not have the price included - fewer variables... but still something to step back and change.

        An example of a failure.... I have regular gatherings and do a good amount of cooking... most everything I cook is from scratch, and over the years I have been told that my "sauces" primarily my BBQ sauces are really good and I should sell them. So I made a couple of batches of seasonal type sauces. Apple Butter BBQ sauce, and Pumpkin Spice BBQ sauce.

        I priced them well, had good photos and what I would consider a good title - and got nothing but crickets... tried changing things up etc etc... I personally do not have a mass amount of followers on social media... and I am more than careful to not cross personal "Stuff" with business related things on my social media accounts. Needless to say the final determination of the failure of this endeavor is people simply do not search BBQ Sauce on facebook. BUT did not just try something once... I tried a multitude of things across 2 months I might add. Marketplace listings... tried ads, tried listing in related groups... next key, next key next key.

        While in the middle of this... I had a hard time sleeping - I dont like to fail... but a the end of the day ( or months in this case ) I can sleep knowing that people simply dont search for this stuff... wrong platform and wrong product - without the ability to gather an audience for this specific product.

        Now come summer... will I have a second go and take it out of being a personal project and giving it a shot as something a little more business? yeah i probably will.

        Again part of the process of building a process sometimes includes going back a few steps.. and sometimes starting all over again.
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  • Profile picture of the author art72
    My initial post was likened to a 10-page report... so, I'll try to just summarize it here.

    Naturally, there's no "one-size-fits-all" answer... BUT, having been stuck or trapped in limbo several times myself; I'd certainly advise my younger self to apply the following;

    1.) Learn to IDENTIFY the ever-present PROBLEMS, nuances, and issues millions of people have overcome, are enduring, or likely will experience well into the unforeseeable future.

    2.) Learn to IDENTIFY the ever-present SOLUTIONS, remedies, and whatever it is that seems to fill those VOIDS or motivates others to continue their chosen pursuit(s)

    3.) Learn to IDENTIFY that for nearly every EXISTING PROBLEM there are EXISTING SOLUTIONS which lays the foundations for OPPORTUNITY and to leverage all the EXISTING knowledge, tools, and resources available.

    Ideally, learning to identify the problems, solutions, and opportunities to leverage everything that already exists - SHOULD re-light the fire within, or in the least SPARK some interest in anyone seeking to better themselves and others.

    As mentioned... this process often requires SEEKING HELP from experts, business people, and those who've already succeeded the arena(s) you may JUST NOW being willing to explore in the silence or dark corners of your mind... (*The Dark Forest... Joseph Campbell)

    Whenever we enter into an "Unknown Arena" be it a mental state, physical state, spiritual state, or financial state... we SHOULD learn to conduct ample amounts of research, due some due diligence, and KNOW in nearly any instance a person seeks CHANGE(S) in their life... odds are highly probable; they are entering into an UNKNOWN ARENA.

    Doesn't matter if it is mental, physical, spiritual, or financial... the bottom line is; "IF you believe YOU ARE STUCK... YOU'RE STUCK!"

    However, IF we 'flip the script" and shift our focus towards the idea that problems already exist, solutions already exist, and opportunity already exists... that SIMPLE equation may not resurrect a dead loved one, cure cancer, or produce your 'garden grove' variety on Mars or fix the gender identity crisis on Earth...

    But, in (*NEARLY) every instance - what you currently seek (*within reason, of course) ALREADY EXISTS!

    Had someone properly informed, educated, or INFLUENCED me to BELIEVE (when I was 12-14-years old) that the path to health, wealth, and abundance could be achieved simply by providing others with EXISTING knowledge, tools, and resources...

    Instead of saying; "Art, if you want to succeed in life and make good money you'll need a truck, some tools, some skill sets, and a way to communicate (*a land line phone back then) and be willing to work hard everyday!" (*Compliments of my poor Dad, mind you!)

    Today, nearly some *40-Years later... I'd say YOU CAN earn an honest living, do alright, stay physically fit (*still got my 6-pk abs at 52) and sustain well-enough to repeat those events until you die or retire... or your body breaks!!! (*Which is my newly found fear)

    But, a pen and paper could've produced far greater results - as the guy who draws the blueprints (*architectural engineers and the likes) usually make far better money in less time, less effort, and do not spend their time in a laborious manner trying to labor their way to freedom.

    Be it fear, guilt, ignorance, or what have you... we tend to build our beliefs, actions, and behaviors based heavily upon the major influencers in and throughout our lives. While not all influence is bad per se, most of it is as useless as tits on a bull... and serves no real-world value to ourselves or those who attempted to forecast what the weather (*or our lives) would be or become in the following 3, 5, or 40-YEARS!

    I certainly wouldn't advice a 14-year-old buy a truck, get some tools, learn some trades, and labor their life away making other business owners wealthy - and, spend their time adding value to the end users assets - if in those exchanges the returns were less than building one's own assets.

    The shoe maker with no shoes... The home builders/tradesmen with no home (*same story, different times)...

    Rather then IGNORE the fact this world is riddled with nuances, issues, and problems... My advice would now suggest;

    1.) Identify EXISTING Problems millions of people are experiencing...

    2.) Identify EXISTING Solutions and the millions of goods, products, and services already available (*RESOURCES)

    3.) Identify the HUGE Opportunity(s) available to mirror, copy, clone, multiply, or add VALUE to other people's lives - simply by VOIDING whatever influences you're under that DO NOT serve others well or fuel your own personal interests and overall well-being!

    God, had I known this at 14-years-old... I'd be a billionaire!

    Leverage Everything! (*RESOURCES!)

    - People
    - Places
    - Things...

    The resources (*people, places, and things) and the influences (people, places, and things) are essentially ONE_IN_THE_SAME, but we were often taught, programed, or preached to about limited resources... money is scarce... time's are tough... blah! blah! blah!

    I call bullshit.

    Now... here's the rub.

    Once we KNOW THIS... it's entirely up to us to choose whether to "Stay Stuck" or slowly and cautiously wiggle our way out of the quick-sands of time... and LEARN to SEEK from those who already possess the knowledge, tools, and resources to avoid, avert, and escape the common pitfalls, bear traps, and UNKNOWNS contained on the paths less traveled!

    God knows, entering into any arena that one has little or no knowledge takes courage, bravery, tenacity, a strong will, dedication, and the ability to re-form old beliefs, habits, and replace them with real-world EXISTING SOLUTIONS.

    Again, we may not be able to cure certain diseases, or provide a one-size-fits-all remedy for everyone's mental, physical, spiritual, of financial woes... problems... or issues...

    But, ONCE you start to IDENTIFY all these timeless and repetitive problems, issues, and nuances that DO HAVE existing solutions... OMG there's your SEED... There's your rich soil... there's the opportunity to Cultivate Wealth... and (*by wealth) it doesn't have to be all about money - but it should be about your overall well-being... mentally, physically, spiritually, and of course; FINANCIALLY - as it is hard to be HEALTHY if you are STUCK living in a limited mindset, limited body, limited energy (*spirit), or with minimal resources (*financially).

    Trying to find a well-tuned frequency, vibe, or harmony between these 4 primary pillars of well-being... requires effort, action, and a belief OTHERS have already encountered, explored, examined, and experienced MOST of what may seem NEW to US.

    Nothing is really new... the formulas are old, the wisdom is ancient, the path is marked by those before us... choose well - live well - be well. And to do this requires WHO - WHAT - and HOW

    WHO do you serve? (*Problem)

    WHAT are you serving? (*Solution)

    HOW do you deliver the goods and services? (*Communication Platforms!)

    I may be STUCK myself momentarily, BUT I built this prison, I too shall escape it!

    Who knows, with a little bit of polishing even this turd (*writing) could be cleaned up, published, and sold as a formula, blueprint, recipe... as there has to be some value sprinkled in, or it's not worth consuming, digesting, or absorbing... feel free to excrete, criticize, or contradict.

    PS - BONUS: Exercise the following question:

    "Are You Still Struggling to _______?" (*Fill in the Blank"
    • Treat Acne
    • Stop Smoking
    • Quit Gambling
    • Reduce Your Blood Sugar
    • Lose Weight
    • Pay-Off Debts
    • Make More Money
    • Curb Your Addictions
    • Write Sales Copy
    • Start a Business
    • Find God
    • Meditate Effectively
    • Increase Your Strength
    • Reduce Stress, Fatigue, or Depression
    • Eat Healthier
    • Exercise Regularly
    • Prepare Healthier Meals
    • Drink More Water
    • Find True Love
    • Build a Network
    • Travel More
    • Educate Yourself
    • Find Peace of Mind
    • Find the time to.... (*fill in the blank)

    All evergreen markets (*problems/solutions/opportunities) that already exist... which one(s) you choose to promote, who you choose to serve, how you choose to deliver the goods or services... is entirely up to YOU!

    As for me... sometimes being STUCK is right where one needs to be... in order to identify, acknowledge, appreciate, and respect that *99.9% of what you seek (*within reason) ALREADY EXISTS!

    Don't fear change... embrace it! Make it fun again!
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    • Profile picture of the author Monetize
      Originally Posted by art72 View Post

      As for me... sometimes being STUCK is right where one needs to be... in order to identify, acknowledge, appreciate, and respect that *99.9% of what you seek (*within reason) ALREADY EXISTS!

      Your post is epic and golden. Kind of lengthy, but really great.

      * Golden as in gold nuggets on the ground, waiting to be
      gathered and utilized.

      I agree that sometimes momentary stuckness can be a good
      thing, as it allows one to reflect and regroup.

      In my IM business, I don't get stuck like a quagmire as I have
      multiple things going, I usually get stuck while trying to devise
      a strategy that I have not used before.

      Sometimes I take a break from one project while I perfect
      some multi-step system and AI makes things easier because
      it tells me whether my system is viable.

      Anyway, I need to find your 10-page report post, I'm sure
      it will be an interesting read.
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    • Profile picture of the author GordonJ
      Apologies for trimming your post...

      Originally Posted by art72 View Post

      1.) Learn to IDENTIFY the ever-present PROBLEMS, nuances, and issues millions of people have overcome, are enduring, or likely will experience well into the unforeseeable future.

      2.) Learn to IDENTIFY the ever-present SOLUTIONS, remedies, and whatever it is that seems to fill those VOIDS or motivates others to continue their chosen pursuit(s)

      3.) Learn to IDENTIFY that for nearly every EXISTING PROBLEM there are EXISTING SOLUTIONS which lays the foundations for OPPORTUNITY and to leverage all the EXISTING knowledge, tools, and resources available.

      All evergreen markets (*problems/solutions/opportunities) that already exist... which one(s) you choose to promote, who you choose to serve, how you choose to deliver the goods or services... is entirely up to YOU!
      Thanks art72, just want to add a comment or two here. IDENTIFY, best place to start in my opinion is the mirror in the bathroom, LOOK and SEE someone with a problem.

      As for solutions, you hit the nail on the head with ONE SIZE DOES NOT SUIT ALL. So the person in the mirror will have some restrictions, what he/she won't do, or don't want to do. I don't want to get wordy, your post is good stuff, so maybe the best I can offer is an example of exactly HOW all this works, ok?

      25 years ago we started a forum focused on small businesses, and for the last 20 years, Dien Rice has been publishing his newsletter on the discovery of little known, unusual, odd businesses...with the idea that ONE of these might suit someone, and he has since covered hundreds of small businesses, and along the way has one of the longest running newsletters online.

      Hard to find those with 20 years, TWO DECADES of success.

      We IDENTIFIED a problem for a specific group: Would be, want to be Entrepreneurs. Knowing one size does not fit all, we investigated and DID many businesses ourselves with the idea we could report those back to the group.

      I personally had over 60 special reports and scores of hotsheets and other text, which was sold on a regular and routine manner.

      So, I can testify to your post containing those gold nuggets Monetize mentioned.

      It wasn't the ONLY problem we found among this very niche little market, and so we offered SOLUTIONS to those too.

      Thanks for your thoughts, now can you convert those gold nuggets into real gold in your pocket? Surely you can.

      GordonJ
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  • Profile picture of the author Kay King
    Guess I'm in the 1% with you. I see the tremendous potential of A.I. but I'm not sure we are 'there' yet. Google especially has had serious problems with Bard giving wrong answers and the recent need to halt another program due to 'diversity issues'. What now appears problematic is that bias can be BUILT into the A.I. technology. Intentional or accidental - don't know.



    Used by those who understand and check it - A.I. is a good tool that is 'info in - info out'. For those using it without any oversight, it may be the newest form of 'garbage in - garbage out'.
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  • Profile picture of the author Princess Balestra
    Jus' ask yr feet where they frickin' are.

    GLOOD SUMPLACE?

    You may wish to cavort with gravity all kindsa regulah-to-irregulah, an' any skip in yr step is yrs trooly to own.

    Nowan believes this, hoomanity is stripped to the bone.
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    • Profile picture of the author Princess Balestra
      Originally Posted by Princess Balestra View Post

      Jus' ask yr feet where they frickin' are.

      GLOOD SUMPLACE?

      You may wish to cavort with gravity all kindsa regulah-to-irregulah, an' any skip in yr step is yrs trooly to own.

      Nowan believes this, hoomanity is stripped to the bone.
      Yeah, so how's it gowin'?

      Kinda like Tudday?

      *checks calendah*

      2024 ...

      *same deal as before, plus monstah IRRITATION"

      Joon, yeah, bcs dream marriages an' babies ...

      Thing 'bout time is how the avridge span buttween seemed & began is like 9 months.

      So, hey mobility -- 'mongst'n all emergent probability-mongahs -- dunno whethah to call this out as a Je ne Sais Quoi, or a bitch.

      In a Nerternal Caaahsmaas, it is ...

      those my panties?

      Shoe-U-r're.

      Gotta figure Whitman gaht bit on the summit so often while leavesyin' of the grass his "yawp" swelled up to the size of a toinip.

      Poetic fullness belongs to the bulbous, I guess.

      Thing is, you gotta trust momentum to dish up the stucksynowsy sweets.

      Evrythin fulla sugah.

      Incloodin' yr mostly damn evrythin'.

      Before which sniff will your mortal orifi flagellate?

      (I gaht a noo Vitamin-rich store meal-2-go here, an' that is the tagline. Stoopid thing is, I said much the same thing las' week 'bout Benedict CumbahbatchewerYEZ's evident cultyoorl stiffness despite more immediately distractin' stuffs liked war an' shit.

      Like Mom said, "what is the point of having your finger on the pulse unless you can feel how everybody is bleeding?!

      Natchrlly we threw usselves upon one an othah c/o the ultimate Mothah/Daughtah bitchfest pageant.

      Guys do same 'bout fightin'.

      You would wish to stahp 'em always, but sumtimes you cain't.

      Seems walkin' away sumtimes the unstuckest path promptin' nevertubule whatevah.

      Quelle Jumpsitude informs your exactitood?

      Gotta ditz out now bcs flahpin' outta evryplavce on a YogAH Tiick-What.

      What a misrbly flooid asshole I be ...
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    If you have a clear vision/goal, you won't stuck. Basically what you need is a target,either it can be a financial target or health target or for example to lose weight target. You must know whats your goal and just simply go forward this goal.

    Sometimes yeah it feels like you being stuck, nothing is working, everyone is better whan you, but after night the morning always comes.
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  • Profile picture of the author Just Jess
    You are just one breath away from victory.

    Visualizer it and prepare your self for enormous growth, no pun intended.

    Build it and they will come.
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      Originally Posted by Just Jess View Post

      Visualizer it and prepare your self for enormous growth, no pun intended.
      .

      VISUALISER IT

      The Freedom-boosting AI Platform
      For Dreamers Who Seek To Dream BETTER

      Tired of havin' ZERO IDEAS?

      Dreamin' bigger an' bettah -- but still cain't figure how to pull up yr own goddamn pants?

      Wanna KILL GRANMA bcs she stinky, plus also you inherit all kindsa shit?

      Visualiser IT is guaranteed to supplant YOUR IDEAS with concepts and strategies proven to be SO MUCH BETTER than you could ever conceive yourself. Of!

      GRANMA. WIFE. LAWYERS.

      & more.

      Visualiser IT blitzes everything NEGATIVE and propulses forth a POSITIVE PANORAMA into which you can forever project your titties/dick, confident that the orgasms rockin' out your system are WASTED on the LOSERS think Visualiser IT is a SCAM.

      All kindsa fun intended.
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  • Profile picture of the author arkwellness
    As a mental health counselor, it's common for individuals to feel stuck at times. One helpful approach is to explore personal intentions, goals, and wishes to clarify direction. Resources like therapy, self-help books, or support groups can aid in this journey towards self-discovery and decision-making. Encouraging introspection and seeking guidance from professionals or supportive communities can empower individuals to navigate their next steps effectively.
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